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Tuesday, April 12th, 2011
People that enjoy spanking, whether giving or receiving, usually have a lot of knowledge about spanking implements. There are many different types of spanking implements and nearly every type of spanking implement is available in a variety of materials. Each material provides a different feeling, a different sting or thud, and people who enjoy being spanked can often tell what they’re being hit with by how it feels when it smacks their skin.
Everyone has their favorite implement or sometimes a few implements that they enjoy. Spankers usually have implements that they love to spank with. These are most likely implements that feel good in their hand because they are perfectly constructed and balanced. These implements always give the perfect smack without a lot of planning and effort by the user. They make a really pleasing sound when they come in contact with skin of the receiver. It’s easy to cause just the right level of pain with the favorite implements, and they’re usually very well broken in from being used so often. Spankers like using their own implements, the items that they’re used to, and the ones that feel completely natural to them almost like an extension of their hand. They are confident that they can wield these implements with complete accuracy and with total control, and spankers like to know that they have that level of control with their implements because then they can spank in total confidence that they won’t cause any unwanted damage or pain because they are so familiar with the implement in their hand.
People who enjoy being spanked also have their favorite implements. They usually enjoy certain materials over others, like wood over leather or leather over Lucite for instance. As much as someone may enjoy spanking, they usually enjoy specific implements and may dread others. Some people may love being paddled with wood paddles, but hate leather paddles or leather belts. This is how dominant people can sometimes punish a submissive who enjoys being spanked; they punish with an implement that they know the submissive doesn’t enjoy. The implements that a 
submissive enjoys will usually cause sexual arousal, because the implements cause a type of pain that is enjoyable in some ways. Some submissives prefer a stingy smack and some prefer a thuddy smack.
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Friday, April 8th, 2011
Fetish conventions can be very educational in a lot of ways. There are always classes during the day providing instruction on a variety of topics. While there are a lot of classes on fetish and BDSM activities, there are also classes designed to improve sexual techniques and classes on self-help, spiritual and metaphysical topics. The variety provides well-rounded educational opportunities for people to work on creating a better balance in their lives and improving themselves in every aspect. One of the most important things that these conventions provide is the opportunity to see things that they may have only heard about or seen in movies, and this can be from going to classes on these subjects during the day or by watching scenes in the dungeon at night.
The problem for some people is that sometimes what they witness can be a little disturbing to them. There are kinky activities that are extremely edgy and sometimes a little dangerous, and some conventions will allow these activities to happen in the dungeon or will provide classes on the subject with live demonstrations. The good thing about this is that it is probably much safer for people to participate in these activities in a dungeon or a classroom, especially at a convention because there are safety procedures in place and most of the time there is a first aid team working at the convention in case of an emergency. There are also dungeon monitors around who are keeping an eye on everyone in the dungeon, and they are there to ensure the safety of the attendees. Quite often is a really edgy scene has been approved for the dungeon, there will be dungeon monitors assigned specifically to monitor that particular scene carefully, so it ends up being an extremely safe situation for the people involved.
Anyone who finds a scene disturbing needs to remember that these scenes are totally consensual. While something like waterboarding may seem really extreme, the people involved are very turned on by what they’re doing. The best attitude to have in these situations is to understand that everyone has different kinks and different doesn’t mean wrong, weird or bad. People should be entitled to experience the activities they enjoy, and if something seems disturbing or extremely uncomfortable to someone watching, that person should simply walk away and go watch another scene that doesn’t bother them as much.
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Friday, April 1st, 2011
It probably starts in the high school locker rooms, or even earlier in some cases. It surely starts from the overarching tendency toward homophobia that is handed down to youth from those who learned this system in turn. The message is that there are some things it’s ok to do during sex and some things are definitely not kosher. For a guy, putting anything up his butt is one of the no-nos.
Lucky for the enhanced pleasure of many men, some do outgrow this belief or simply realize that it is not a useful prohibition. It can be something they discover on their own in a private finger-fucking session. Sometimes a porn magazine ad for a butt plug might finally pique the curiosity. Others just don’t even think about going for it, so running into a woman who likes to penetrate her man can become a challenging situation for both of them.
One of the early roadblocks that a woman can help dispel for her partner is that a guy who likes being penetrated is not necessarily gay. As a matter of fact, the act of anal penetration has nothing whatsoever to do with being gay. If the woman is really into the idea, she can let the man know that it would really turn her on. Dispelling the gay myth will probably naturally follow as a close second. In order to help him feel secure, she can promise to let him feel her womanhood while she plays with his ass. With a woman whose voluptuous breasts are spilling out all over him lying on top of him, it will be hard for him to imagine that he is gay as she gives him an ass probing.
For some men who have had a long-held fear of ass play, it may not be best for them to start out with another person. Once his wife or girlfriend has expressed interest, he may want time to get used to the feeling and response and potential of that orifice at first by himself. He may try using an enema if he is worried about soiling, then trying out a small butt toy. If he finds that he enjoys it, he may decide that this sexual expression might be something he feels ok about sharing.
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Monday, March 7th, 2011
Finding new horizons in your sex life can be a fun and exciting experience but it can also be one you can easily get carried away with when you don’t do it responsibly. Whether you are in a committed relationship with a love interest or whether you are fucking strangers, you must always take care not to allow yourself to go too far or get carried away. When you are feeling jaded and looking for a new sex experience you have to be careful you don’t allow yourself to become too seduced by the pleasure. Everyone has limits on how far they will go and while it is always healthy to challenge those limits from time to time it is also very healthy to remember why those limits are there in the first place.
Just because you decide you have found your limit does not mean you have refused to grow or that you are small or close minded. It means you have standards and you stick to them. And one might be amazed at how wonderful and vibrant ones fucking might become when a couple sticks to some of the same things, but discover a new level to their tried-and true standards they did not know existed before. Oral sex can be aided and improved by the addition of foods, syrups or sweet things to go with a little pussy licking or some cock sucking. And many people realize they in fact might be a little kinkier then they first imagined and by wearing some clothes they might already have in their closet their entire mood might change to what they want sexually! A simple change the location when one has sex can do wonders to a staid sex life, as well as simply ideas of what to say and maybe how to act.
There are all sorts of ways you can vary the things you already enjoy without having to do entirely different things. Watching free porn vids can give you some ideas. You just have to be able to see the same things with a brand new perspective and discover that something has layers and levels you have never experienced before. You have gone to entirely new territory and yet still retained your standards of conduct. You have gotten the best of all worlds involved and are satisfied in ways you never imagined before. The orgasms you experience now can be greater than ever before.
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Monday, March 7th, 2011
What some people may consider a self-indulgent activity while watching free porn, masturbation may be even more than they anticipated.
Masturbation is not only a great way to get off when youre horny and alone, but it might be your way into a meditative state, or into the deep Self, if you will. All kinds of sounds and activities can help produce the mind states associated with meditation or trance.
Stroking the bat or petting the cat might be the perfect method for those who easily link sexuality with spirituality.
Repetition is one condition that is known to help a person tune into a place of stillness in the mind or body. That repetition can come from sound, as in meditation music that has a quieting pattern, or from the chanting of a mantra. Saying an affirmation every day to yourself in the mirror is a kind of repetition that evokes a light trance state and feelings of positivity.
Masturbation is a powerful tool for repetition and positivity. There is repeating motion in the hand as on pleasures their genitals. There are the waves of pleasure themselves which repeat in their own patterns and obviously produce good feelings. By getting into a state of slowly building pleasure, a person can find a psychological realm that feels like a peaceful trance-like experience.
In this form of masturbation, the goal is not immediate orgasm. Take your time. Allow yourself to be in the journey toward climax, a journey that could last for hours. By approaching orgasm then backing off from your repetitive hand movements, you can not only stay in the peaceful realm, but build and build the powerful sexual energy. Some people call the getting close and backing off edging while the state of mind that can occur in being so close to orgasm for an extended time is called gooning.
This practice can be done anywhere you normally relax. If you like to jill or jack off in a warm, scented oil bath, try this method there. If you stroke it in bed watching sex videos before sleeping, go to bed early and try this with enough time to make it last a while. Once you are finally going to allow yourself to cum, get ready for some amazing feelings. You will have a phenomenal release.
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Sunday, March 6th, 2011
Men and women really are at their warmest, most peaceful and possibly most alluring when they are sleeping. Lying down deep under our covers, breathing regular-even snoring- who could not be attracted to the quiet of our sleeping spouse or lover? All manner of worry and argument is quiet, all possible refusals muted, all manner of orifices open and warm.
Many a hetero wife has reported waking to her man vigorously slipping his cock inside her or a guy has woken with a mouth locked around his slowly growing erection. The pure person is on display when we see, us in all our glory and without any true flash of our personalities good or bad.
We can complain about bad morning breath all we want, the fact that we most probably need a pee when waking, even the funk and film eight hours leaves us with, but we are biologically predisposed to like all those funky warm smells. Akin to that musky warmth a wet pussy exudes when aroused, our deep scents of sleep are supposed to attract our lovers to us and us to them, we are supposed to wants to crawl beside them and spoon-at the very least-make love at the most, even when either of us might not be awake enough to respond. Many a lover who has snuck out of bed in the morning, brushed their teeth, splashed on some cologne or perfume to meet their lover lying still in bed all twisted under the covers in their morning film neednt have bothered as sleep smells are really so alluring anyway.
For most of us anyway our beds really are the temple of our sex lives and good feelings. Couple lay together many a nights to discuss their futures, hopes and dreams. Men and women can recall the moments of their wildest sexual escapades or their deepest clutching moments of love-making in this spot at the center of their intimate lives. We crawl into bed to be safe, to be closer, to sleep and to renew what our love and lust means to each other.
Sleeping beautys little dwarfs had to have had many a nasty thought between them. The Internet might be a great place to meet people to masturbate over or maybe find a date from an on-line dating site, but nothing can replace the warmth of spooning lovers in bed rolling into one another in time to maybe catch an early morning quickie stolen before either partner has to get up for work!
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Friday, March 4th, 2011
Latex rubber is used most often in the fetish world as a form of clothing. It binds tightly to the body, hides very little and looks sleek enough to remain pleasing to the eye. Often seen in fetish clubs, latex appears so sleek that it looks like a second skin on many people. It has its own dedicated magazines and group following. It’s actually a subculture of rubber fetishism.
Latex picks up body oils and retains warmth quite well so it should be noted that a dressing aid may be useful in helping the wearer put on the clothing. Talcum powder or some lubricant such as petroleum jelly will help guard against potential allergic reactions all while making it easier to put on the clothing.Latex clothing comes in a variety of fashions, sizes, shapes and colors. Everything from thongs, latex lingerie and bras have been made from latex all the way to the full body suit. Boots, gloves, masks and body suits found their way into the Fetish scene, giving the wearer a different look than the usual matte leather.
Most common articles of clothing include bondage mittens, hoods, goggles, ball gags, garter belts, boots, and even the daunting body bag. Oils, metals, extreme sunlight, and sharp objects should be kept away from latex as it’s a fairly durable material. Proper storage of latex involves keeping your garments in black bags hunt in cool, dark places away from extreme temperatures. Latex should be cleaned shortly after wearing to remove any body oils that it has been exposed to. Rinse the garment well in warm water. Some manufacturers recommend using a mild soap, while others suggest only water. Hang on a plastic or wood hanger to dry, or lay flat to dry.
The garment can be wiped gently with a soft towel to decrease drying time if desired. When one side is dry, turn inside out and let the other side dry as well. When completely dry, separate any latex that has stuck together and lightly dust the garment with talc to prevent any further sticking. Some will use a small amount of silicone dressing aid instead. It is not recommended to store light and dark latex garments in direct contact as this can discolor the light latex.
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Monday, February 28th, 2011
For some straight men, there is a big stigma against having their ass played with in any way. Fingering, and certainly no sex toys are allowed in there! Too bad for them that they are missing out on a wonderful life pleasure. There is hope, however, for the hopelessly straight man who is at least willing to try to allow his girlfriend to explore beyond the penis. And if he thinks it is too weird, just boot up some porn that will show him how awesome it can be!
One of the best ways for a woman to first approach stimulating a guy’s asshole is to begin while there is other intense pleasure happening for him. She might take his succulent cock head into her mouth. While she is sucking him, she might take the personal lubricant from the nightstand and begin to rub some gently around the outside of his anus. Make sure he is still distracted by the free porn at this point.
She can keep sucking, and while he is in the throes of pleasure, insert one finger slowly. No need to pound hard or do too much at all. He might be taken aback at first, but he is also likely to flow with how good that finger feels inside him while he is getting a blow job. Once he gets acclimated, she can move her finger gently to discover the best subtle motions that will stimulate his prostate (P-spot).
If he has never had an anal experience, he might thank her later.
A not-too- big vibrator might be another way to begin for the more adventurous man. Quite a number of guys are curious about what it must feel like to get fucked with a vibrator because they see porno clips of women loving it, or their girlfriends hitting their orgasm with the sensation. Stroking his cock and balls while introducing the lubed-up vibrator to his ass would be a good way to go. It is generally fun to insert it while it is off then turn on the vibrations and watch him jump with startled ecstasy.
Butt plugs and anal beads: These might be best for once he is familiar with the backdoor route. Often, inserting the number of anal beads you like inside you by yourself is a good thing to do, followed by sexual activity with the partner. Once a guy discovers these pleasures, he may fuck himself silly with a butt plug while his cock is inside his favorite pussy.
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Wednesday, February 23rd, 2011
Most of you reading this probably aren’t hard core Christians because, let’s face it, you’re surfing a free porn site and that would be just wrong, but, you probably have people in your life, like parents and grandparents, that abide by their faith intensely. A lot of Christians close up when the topic of sex arises and they definitely don’t think that introducing sex toys into the bedroom is something God would condone, but I’m hear to tell you otherwise!
Is there way that people of faith can enjoy sex (with their spouses of course) without immersing themselves in the adult entertainment industry? Of course there is!
Thou shall not use sex toys: Most Christians or any other religious believers for that matter think that sex toys are wrong, but there is nothing in the bible that suggests married couples who use sex toys are doing anything wrong! In fact, more and more Christian sex toys are popping up all over the internet.
The benefits of sex toys: If you haven’t incorporated sex toys into your sex life, then I know you are wondering what it would be like, but don’t want to be assaulted by the sights, sounds and smells of traditional sex toys. That’s why you should take advantage of the online sex toys stores that will ship in discreet packaging to your home and will make you feel safe and comfortable.
What you will find in a Christian sex toy store:
• Lube and flavored lube
• Bullet and torpedo style Vibrators
• Massage oils
• Lingerie
• Sex games
• Condoms
• Feather ticklers
What you won’t find in a Christian sex toy store:
• Anal sex products of any kind
• Porn
• BDSM products
• Gay or lesbian products
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Tuesday, February 22nd, 2011
I have really been suffering from the Winter Blues, much like most of you. The winter has been so cold this year it’s hard to get the motivation to get out of my Homer Simpson pajamas and into a mood to get out of the house.
This got me thinking, there must be a better way to stay warm in this frigid winter besides cranking up the furnace and plugging in an electric blanket.
SEX! Sex always gets the heart pumping, the sweat dripping and the body hot, especially when you fuck like porn stars, so it’s the best remedy for the Winter blues in my opinion.
Sharing body heat is the best way to conserve energy, and you’ll even save some cash in the process. Nothing beats staying in and having hot sex on a cold night, all the while saving some money and getting your jollies off.
Here are a few tips to make your sex life hot, hot, hot:
• Go from water to land; take a scolding hot shower together to warm up. While you lather each other up and rinse each other off, you will do more than just steam up the bathroom mirrors. Then dry each other off and hit the sheets.
• When your in bed with your partner, get complete dressed. I know that it is the opposite of what people usually do, but shedding the layers as you guy will turn up the body heat and make you a lot more horny. Once your both naked, the skin on skin will feel so hot.
• Take advantage of those sex toys because adding that extra stimulation into the mix with really heat you up.
• If you have a fireplace, fuck her right in front of it. Pull a chair in front and have her straddle you while you feel the heat.
Even though Spring is on it’s way, take advantage of these last few days of cold to really heat things up at home.
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