Archive for the ‘Sex Toys’ Category

The Joy of Dildos

Sunday, August 21st, 2011

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Dildos have been around as long as humanity could carve something into the shape of a cock and shove it up inside a hungry orifice. People are eager to fill their empty holes and so they create something to do the job when biology is not available to fill the need. There’s nothing like a real flesh and blood cock, but sometimes we have to enjoy a substitute for whatever reasons, and held in the hands of a loving sex partner or being thrust on by the strap on dildo worn by a fuck buddy can make one imagine it is damn close to real. Passion and intimacy after all are what create so much of our pleasure. And by ourselves we can let our minds wander and imagine anything happening while we play with our toys.

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Modern dildos are available in a variety of materials but for the most easy and free sex pleasure with a minimum of hassle we recommend the use of non-porous materials on sex toys. This ensures that no germs can linger inside the material and keep us from having a good time. On toys made from jelly rubber or other porous materials it is important to not share the toys or at least wear a condom on them to keep them from collecting unpleasant yeasts, germs or even sexually transmitted diseases just like a human genital organ. Non-porous materials available include silicone, steel, thick Pyrex glass, and even ceramics. Toys are available in a wide array of shapes and sizes. Some will look more like a realistic penis while others are more impressionistic shapes or could even be modeled after the genitals of fantasy creatures — tentacle porn afficianados will not be disappointed when they see the tentacle dildos that some clever toy makers have begun to create.

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Be careful not to insert toys into the ass which do not have a flared base, as this could cause embarrassing emergency room visits.

Rules for your Sex Tape

Thursday, August 18th, 2011

Many couples today are interested in making porn together. There is the thrill of exhibitionism, because we can look at ourselves at a time when normally our attentions are drawn inwards to sensations. When we are fucking, we imagine we might see our true, uninhibited selves that we never get to see except peeking out in the mirror. With the Internet, there is also the added thrill of potentially sharing what we create on a free porn site where we can imagine others getting off to what we’ve shared.

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However, if we have decided to create adult videos with a lover, there need to be ground rules set about the disposition of anything we make. For example, what happens if the relationship breaks up — who gets to keep the sex tape and should it be destroyed? Even in happier times, what rules does one set with one’s lover for how the video gets shared? Can it be sent to friends or to strangers? The answers might be different and surprising, after all a friend knows one and can spread rumors in one’s social circles. On the other hand, a stranger is just a person who is beating off to one’s photos!

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Identity is also an important issue. When taking photos consider whether to include one’s faces. on the one hand, this is more erotic as facial expressions are pleasing, but they also run the risk of creating an identity issue where others can tell who is fucking. This is especially important if one works in a line of work where it could jeopardize one’s well being. Some people compromise by taking full photos and then editing the face in some way using a program like Photoshop. Another option for photos or movies is to wear a mask, which both obscures and creates a sexy air of mystery which might not be present otherwise.

Travel Toys

Thursday, June 23rd, 2011

Just about all sex aficionados have run into this trouble: It’s time to go to the airport. You don’t want to put your favorite sex toys in checked baggage because God forbid they don’t arrive when you do at your destination. However, putting large chains or a ten-inch black dong in your carry-on luggage could prove embarrassing. When possible, some horny travelers opt to bring a scaled-down ho-bag with them on trips. That way, there is still lots of fun to be had, and airport security might hardly give it a second look.

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Honestly, it is virtually unheard of that a TSA agent would cause any ruckus at all over a small sexual aid device. They have indeed seen just about everything, and with the vigilance over terrorist threats, there are more important things to watch for. Dildos of a smaller size won’t really raise any eyebrows. As far as vibrators are concerned, one good rule of thumb is to remove the batteries while travelling. They might not set off any official suspicions, but you will feel better knowing that they won’t start purring spontaneously as you carry your bags through a crowd.

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One fun trend has been for companies to make sex toys that at first or even second glance look very much like an everyday item. Hairbrushes or wax fruit might conceal a battery that could send someone into orgasmic joy. Women’s makeup items are common- one company offers a powerful water-proof vibrator in the shape of a lipstick. Other slim models come in cases that are fairly nondescript, and could be someone’s case for eyeglasses, for example.

As long as it has a flared base, a butt plug could be shaped like just about anything as well. As with dildos and vibrators, popular camouflage designs for butt toys include fruit and vegetable shapes. When traveling, these might just register as toys for a child or a pet. No one has to be the wiser that you plan on engaging in corn-holing quite literally.

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If bondage is your trip, you don’t necessarily have to bring big chains and long lengths of rope. A few scarves packed neatly can serve to blindfold or bond. Bondage tape looks just like packing tape and works wonders.

Simple Sex Toys

Tuesday, June 21st, 2011

It is absolutely true that a lot of naughty toys and erotic playthings that men and women can get, either in stores or by ordering on the internet, can be a bit expensive there are all kinds of sex toys that can be bought or made for very little more. While some of these ideas are good ones it is also very, very important to pay attention to safety rather than savings: for many uses the wrong kind of sex toy can be very risky and can lead to serious injury.

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An example of this is anything that is used for anal play. A toy made for anal play must be made out of a very smooth material and have a flange or such around the base as the anus of both men or women have a tendency to pull the toy inwards and without a flange or such the toy can get caught for a bit of time. One must be careful with anything they insert but more so when things going up your ass.

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But one of the simplest sex toys out there, for both men and women, are vibrators that are not designed to be inserted into the anus or the vagina. They can be had for little money and as long as they are not so poorly made so as to be dangerous they can be purchased for very little money. Some sex toys, too, can be had for very little because they are designed for men and women to try them out and then, if they like them, move up to a better quality and more expensive toy’ which is always good advice as no one wants to spend a lot of money on something they may only use once.

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So do some research and, best of all, have some fun experimenting and seeing what toys you can find out there’ but always play safely. Grabbing plenty of lube for play, discussing well what you and your partner want, making sure your adult playthings are charged-up, clean and ready to go makes the sex play with them all the better. These days one needn’t worry so much about materials as most toys are made safely due to laws making them be so, so all we have to worry about is why we are using the toys; and where we are going to put them.

Sex & Technology

Sunday, June 19th, 2011

Technology has made a lot of differences in our lives with computers and smart phones, but there are other advantages to better technology as well. Sex toys have come a really long way over the last several years. As technology increases, sex toys get better and better. There are silicone dildos that are really lifelike and realistic, with a feeling that is closer to real skin than people have ever experienced before. The amazing thing about some of these toys is how easy they are to clean and sterilize; many of them can be put through the dishwasher or boiled or even run through a professional sterilizer. Many can be wiped down with any kind of anti-bacterial available for purchase, without any harm whatsoever to the surface of the dildo. There are amazing vibrators available that have multiple speeds and actions, like rotation or a churning movement, that provide a level of vaginal, anal and clitoral never even imagined 20 years ago.

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There are vibrating toys that are so small that they can be used in nearly any location because they are tiny and quiet and very portable and unnoticeable. Wireless remote control sex toys have opened up a whole new world of sexual fun and excitement. It’s really created some fun options that have gotten some men who might have been hesitant about vibrators in the past pretty interested in the fun that they can have with these toys. Having a remote control and having that much control over the sensation that the other person is feeling is a very powerful feeling. Glass and stainless steel toys are rapidly gaining in popularity, and for a lot of good reasons. They are smooth and weighty which provides a very different sensation than other dildos. Click here to see how Andrea likes to fucks glass.  They are great for temperature play because they can be heated and cooled very easily. Best of all, they’re very sanitary because they are completely non-porous and are really easy to clean and disinfect. There are also inflatable toys that are easy to insert in their smaller state, but easily pumped up to much larger sizes for some really fun and challenging vaginal and anal play. With all of these great toys to choose from, how could anyone doubt that technology is having a great affect on our sex lives as well as our everyday life?

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Expanding Yours Sexual Horizons With Role Play

Tuesday, June 14th, 2011

Even though there’s various techniques for men and women to expand their sexual horizons, from experimenting with new types of erotic stimulation or playing with new and unique sex toys, one of the simplest and most powerful technique is called role playing. Role play, basically, is where a person, or a couple, put on a new personality to become a whole new and totally different kind of sexual person. It’s basically like the game kids play: let’s pretend. But instead of cowboys and Indians or cops and crooks these games can be a lot more adult and explicit. One mistake that people make, though, is to make the games too complicated. Instead of thinking elaborate or dark with role play a better idea is to keep the games and the roles being used as simple and almost funny as possible. Instead of something like serial killer and cop, which can bring up a lot of dangerous possibilities, it is much better to do something like housewife and pool boy, businessman and call girl, student and teacher, or similar.

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For a lot of men and women who role play open huge doors of erotic possibility: chances for couples to put on simple or even eventually complicated scenes that can also lead to play such as dominance and submission: where one partner will be a slave or servant to the other ; though that is a whole new world of exploration that has its own rules and difficulties as well as new possible benefits.

Role-play doesn’t necessarily lead one to kink nor kink needs role-play it is just that possibilities exist for all the great things we might get into

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Role playing also has plenty of opportunities for expanded play by doing things like buying whole outfits and costumes so the people who are pretending to be other people for sexual play can have not just a new personality but also a whole new wardrobe that can help with the play in all kinds of new and fun ways. Some couples also go as far as to take their new personalities out for a date or even on vacation: pretending to be other people in hotels, restaurants and so forth.

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So think about role playing if you are interested in expanding your sexual horizons in new and possibly stimulating ways.

Awakenings

Wednesday, June 8th, 2011

A lot of men talk jokingly about having ‘morning wood.’ It is a real phenomenon- lots of people, male and female wake up horny. When alone, it is a perfect time to rub one out and get the morning started right. When waking up with a partner, the fun morning sex possibilities are duly multiplied.

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It is always good to check with a new lover to see if he or she likes being awakened with sex. For some, it is the best thing in the world. For others, not so much. Sleep in and of itself is a valuable commodity. Guys who do like a sexual sensation first thing in the morning almost always will appreciate the feeling of a nice pair of lips and a warm, wet mouth wrapping around their nice, stiffening dick. A guy may enjoy lying back and enjoying a soft, slow blowjob, or he may start to get into it and want to blow a load fast. Hey may buck his hips for a good mouth-fucking or want to enter for a good morning fuck.

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Women certainly appreciate talented lips and tongues as well, and would often be just as happy to be awakened by some fine cunnilingus in progress. Some women may want to warm up to that point a bit by having the partner start off slowly with some sweet caresses and kisses until she is more roused, and aroused. This is not the case with all women. Some are just as ready to have someone dive right in.

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Use of a vibrator is a great way to wake up a sleepy, likely ready-to-go partner. When being awakened, many people aren’t ready to take a super active role in sex, so a sex toy is the perfect solution. A regular cylinder shaped vibe or a specifically designed clit vibe can be great for a sleepy woman. Her partner need only spread her legs a little bit, apply to her clit, and let her writhe in pleasure. For the guys, having a Fleshlight or similar toy pussy style vibe is just the thing to make him happy. Just lube it up, get his dick nice and hard, slip it on and vibrate him until he shoots his morning load.

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The High Priced Love Of A Woman

Sunday, May 15th, 2011

As much as they might be trying to convince themselves otherwise, men buy sex dolls for one purpose and one purpose only. Sure the higher-end dolls produced today cost so much that their price is pejorative for the common guy-or girl-to purchase and there are plenty of collectors of unusual sexual items and toys and even more erotic photographers who would indeed benefit from a pose-able fake girl who would never charge for a photo shoot or stop a session for a pre break, but a sex doll at any price is mostly bought to fuck.

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If one is moving way from masturbating with their hand, off of a vibrator or even one of the more popular vagina replicas fitted into cans or the end of flashlights, graduating from stroking themselves with a jelly-like mold or even away from their lubed baseball mitt or sock, one might want to consider the reason one would ever want a life-seized replica of a woman when one could certainly spend better money and time on dating. A high-priced call girl will consider the most hideous man and at least that man will be experience the pleasures of a flesh-and-blood woman.

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What drives a man-or woman, since some of these new fangled dolls can be outfitted transsexual with attachable penises-to seek the attentions of an intimate object that for all intents and purposes he imagines not intimate might simply be more than a need to rub against the heated innards of a synthetic material built for that purpose. The customer in question might have a fetish for having sex with objects or simply and attraction to dolls, Agalmatophilia as it is called in psychological terms that must be realized in order to be satiated. For sure there are hundreds of sites on line that cater to any of a number of kinks and non-vanilla sexual practice; wanting sex with a doll is no more unusual then so many others.

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As with most things driven by a consumer base, the population of people who want to buy high-priced sex dolls makes them lucrative for someone to produce. And as with any other sexual aid we use to increase our intimacy, aid our sex life, or just help us to get off faster, the dolls range in price and in materials used in their construction.

It’s just our reasons for using them that don’t change all that much.

The Vibrator Store

Saturday, May 7th, 2011

Sex toys come in so many incredible shapes and sizes, and women are fortunate today that there are so many choices. Also just as wonderful is the fact that there is so much less stigma around buying toys for the pussy that some stores have opened up that are very consciously un-sleazy and women-friendly. Often woman-owned and managed, this new attitude makes matter-of-fact conversation about masturbation, partner sex, and what the best toys for the job may be.

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Most stores have plenty of examples of the basic dong. That is a false dick make of rubber, silicone, or another material good for sticking it inside where it counts. The cleaning instructions are a little different for each kind of material, and any better toy store will have personnel who can instruct on the use of their products. Basic dongs vary by size, color, and theme. Some women prefer dolphins or other shapes rather than have it look too much like the male appendage. For the women who would like to work together at orgasmic bliss, the double dong allows for fucking action while both women get to take an end of the dildo inside.

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Add a shake and a shimmy apparatus to the basic dong, and you have a vibrator- often the favorite toy in any arsenal of fun. Vibrators may be made of hard or softer materials, and again, they vary in size so that a whether a woman prefers huge or tiny, she can find what turns her on

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Vibrators can get extra interesting, as most stores carry many other styles besides those that look as though they are meant for penetration. Some are small and cupped to fit perfectly over a horny clit, others are tiny yet pack a wallop of vibration action.

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Some vibrators in the past have been considered rather exotic but lucky for today’s women, they are becoming more and more talked about. The toys in question are the vibrating butt plug and the G-spot vibe. The extent to which some women enjoy anal penetration is part of fairly regular sexual conversation. And the more people discuss it, the less elusive the G-spot and the curved toys made specifically to reach it. A good vibe store attendant can help find the perfect toy.

Our Constant Evolving Sexuality

Tuesday, April 19th, 2011

It is forever a chicken/egg quandary: does the technology we develop in turn see us invent services and products to aid and abet that technology or through the invention of services and the popularity of more alternative lifestyles does technology originally evolve to serve what we make and uncover? Our world has never see change as rapid and far reaching as we have the past decade and the growth is exponentially related to the speed with which our technology seems to be learning from itself! Human nature is at a point of untapped potential and in every aspect of our existence are we making strides that have great potential for help as well as a deep well of possibility to hinder.

Our sexuality is one of the very basic tenants of our lives that is benefitting as well as being hampered by the Internet, information and access. While we can now explore every whim we have, every fetish that passes our notice and connect with people who might share our interests, we ride far afield from what we know and the places of our roots. While sexual freedom is championed the more people come in contact with one another and realize that share certain views, there is just as much an intolerance fostered for people who are not so liberal in their attitudes. And while sex education now saves so many more lives and prevents more possible pregnancies than ever before, many people claim there is simply too much salacious information available outside of the home where they wish to keep that information personally, to be doled out as they see fit.

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Online dating certainly sees more people connecting than ever before, better sex toys means healthier sex toys and we have access to information about our own bodies that aids in us staying healthier as well as enjoying masturbation and partner sex better, we might indeed grow addicted to such fantastically adaptable toys, might forever stay on the hunt of looking for that next date or simply become so fascinated with what we can do, how many times we can come and how exactly we can come we might avoid a partner to simply keep exploring ourselves.

All actions have reactions and there is good and bad to evolving; but not way to stop it.