Archive for the ‘Sex And Society’ Category
Friday, April 15th, 2011
You don’t have to be a porn star to swallow. The average male semen contains roughly 0.1 and 100 milliliters of sperm and holds a fascination for both men and women in the form of swallowing semen. As far as consistency and taste go, that is usually the issue in question when it comes to whether a partner swallows or not.
The fetish of swallowing traces its’ origins a long way back. Dating back to the Church of Epiphanius and other libertine Gnostics who swallowed sperm as the body of Christ, and a form of worship. The tribes of Papua New Guinea have culturally believed that semen provides sexual maturity among the younger men of the tribe. The practice of fellating the elders in order to gain their authority and power is held for prepubescent and post pubescent men of the tribe. This practice may also relate to practiced homosexuality in these tribes.
Dietary supplements have been on the market for a number of years as a way to increase the volume of semen provided in a man. None of these supplements have been validated by the scientific community.
The typical makeup of ejaculation consists primarily of water but also contain every nutrient needed by the human body in order to function properly. A typical dosage of semen contains at least 150 mg of protein, 11 mgs of carbohydrates and other trace minerals. The only risks involved in swallowing cum are those of fellatio such as transmission of STDs between unclean partners.
While there is no hardcore scientific evidence in changing the taste of semen, many people swear diet has an influential factor in shaping the taste. Red meats, tobacco and alcohol typically infuse a bitter or acrid taste while coffee and teas also do nothing to aid in the taste. Fresh fruits and vegetables, while good for the body are also believed to sweeten the taste significantly. Prolonged times between ejaculation intervals are also said to contribute to the volume of semen produced and shot out.
Sexual practices of swallowing have gone so far to include bukkake from the Japanese culture, cream pies, snowballing and felching, which may involve more than one partner. Aleister Crowley and the Ecclesia Gnostica Catholica practice swallowing semen during Gnostic Mass as a way to gain spiral power from the Divine.
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Monday, April 11th, 2011
Those of us who are kinky or have a number of fetishes often yearn for the community of others like us. Perhaps you are non-monogamous or practice polyamory or are a closet BDSM enthusiast. One may have met someone else to share sexual thrills with, but one might be also be all alone. It’s no fun being in a dark closet with just one’s sexual fantasies for company, or just masturbation and porno to keep one warm at night. Even the most perverted amongst us yearns for the community of like-minded people.
But what to do? One cannot simply walk into a bar and announce that you like dominance and submission, foot fucking, or strap-on sex. Happily, the Internet can aid one in finding the Dominatrix of your dreams or perhaps the circle jerk party you’ve been lusting after.
There are dozens of adult chat rooms and message boards on the Internet devoted to almost any fetish you can imagine. Some simple searches will help one find friends-or perhaps even cybersex hookups-who share more of your deviant tastes than one ever dreamed imaginable. Of course, this is just virtual companionship.
What about when one yearns for the real thing?
The first step of course is online adult dating sites. On these sites, most of which allow you to look around at their ‘wares’ for free to see what other kind of hot babes, kinky people, doms, subs, slaves or fetish fans you can find. But hesitation will get one nowhere, we should make a profile and list favorites, whether they are dildos or double penetration, as soon as we can. Pretty soon you’ll be finding all kinds of lovers, fuckbuddies, even threesomes and orgies,
but there are just as many people out there like you doing the same thing!
Of course just dipping one’s toe in the water wont make a big splash. One can also use the Internet to find real world social gatherings, sometimes called Munches in BDSM slang. There one can meet other masochists, sadists, or kinky people in a non-threatening social situation. From there you’ll hear about all kinds of exciting events from rope bondage classes to crazy sex parties complete with flogging and fisting.
Sluts and the sexually adventurous had to keep themselves hidden once upon a time. While they may still have to worry about jobs or other issues in the modern world, the Internet allows for the best of both worlds
so we can reach out and touch someone, in a multitude of ways.
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Thursday, March 31st, 2011
The obligatory sex video once held the casual pornography viewer as well as the ardent connoisseur in an iron-fist grip of aching need; where to buy it, affording the tape, where to watch it even, were all deep concerns. These days a naughty video is viewed more as a collector’s item, obsolete really in the way we view dirty images, certainly an old paradigm of the way we buy and view or porn. People are not halting their viewing of men and women getting it on, have no less an interest in cum shots, oral sex and all manner of nasty activities and fetishes, it is just nowadays we can get all this stuff easier than renting a tape.
As we grew from 8-millimeter to triple x movie fare, to home video to straight-to-video features, so now do we view what we view across our PC screens in the privacy of our own homes. As all other businesses progress in some way or die on the vine, digital technology made the selling, distributing and production of the modern day porn films a wholly different business then it was even five years ago, let alone from way back in the day when stag films were produced for bachelor party viewing. Pornographers today realize that current technology renders old idea obsolete, that the time is well passed to ruminate over the changes in the business, that even when one idea is being tried another, better, faster and newer one is being considered. In all business this quicker-than-you-can-think-it mentality exists but never stronger than in the world of providing visual stimuli for masturbation. Technology is both a blessing-for those who wish to assimilate and dissect these images at and ever faster cheaper rate-or a curse-for those trying to sell their porn downloads to an audience who can get all that sucking and fucking for free if they wish to.
The scenarios, images and ideas of the classic fuck show will never go out of style. As a culture we like our naughty images and will forever search for them from various sources. It is not a question of what do about the production of dirty movies as much as how to produce and distribute a good sex film and how to create something ever newer that people will be willing to pay for.
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Tuesday, March 29th, 2011
There are just too many ways to get found out these days. The closer we get to a friend, the more we even try to hide from a family member, all those secrets we don’t tell a sex partner, it’s still too easy for our deepest, darkest secrets to be known.
Even people with so much to lose, but who have great money in which to insulate themselves, can leave a text message on their phone or an open email. Double-checking, protocols in place, separate accounts, the anonymous nature of the net – still, there is something we might forget to hide.
For men and women courting a fetish they keep secret, the way is precarious at best. Not only are they engaging, or want to engage in something slightly unusual to the common person, but they are opening themselves up to scrutiny, derision and judgment from lovers if and when they reveal their ache for a spanking, or the desire to pee on a lover. This is why so many people simply hide their fetish.
But the manner in which one hides their kink can vary. For many, they simply only ever play on-line, engaging their desires over chat emails, watching free porn, or camming with like-minded kinksters. The Internet allows great freedom with its built-in anonymity.
For others who need to feel the sting of the lash across their flanks for real, or have an all consuming need to cross-dress in a room full of their peers, they search out the closed ranks of private play parties or well known safe play spaces. To keep one’s fetish close to one’s leather vest and not have to worry about the embarrassment of a kink being detected by some unsuspecting lover or family member, one must either stay within the confines of on-line social sites specific to a specific sexual desire or make sure the group one runs with have as much to lose by detection as they do.
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Tuesday, March 29th, 2011
People in general, but especially husbands, have trouble believing that a woman would cheat on a good man, a loving husband. Truth is, unless men in their affairs are only going after single women or gay men, they have to be cheating with someone. New studies claim that there is a widespread problem of female infidelity.
The reasons women give for fucking around include having feelings that something is missing in their lives. They might have all the things that they wanted, including a stud muffin as a husband, but they feel they should be happier. This feeling that they should be happier usually leads to a loss of interest in sex. They go out of their way to avoid going to bed at the same time as their husbands. Fucking their husbands becomes a job that they don’t like.
Now, any man looking to get his cock into the cunt of an unhappily married woman will find the timing right, because at the
same time the woman is feeling violated by her husband’s sexual advances, she is also reawakening her sexual desires for fresh meat. She longs to be seen as sexy and wants to feel that passion she had early on for her husband.
People that have affairs will feel sexier, happier, but for many women these feelings may cause guilt, pain, remorse and a need to justify their actions . Many women are taught to believe that good women do not stray. Only porn “whores” sleep around. So they may justify their actions by thinking that they have found their soul mate in the person they are cheating with.
After an affair women may be more verbal about what they want in and out of the bedroom. Sometimes the affair makes the marital bed better, but in most cases it has the woman looking for someone new to start over with.
Men who are cheated on and the women that cheat are usually left with emotional scars. There are many reasons for infidelity, such as boredom, the rush of a new partner, the desire for more sex, to fill an emotional void, or sexual addiction.
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Monday, March 28th, 2011
In Western culture, many are raised to believe that pleasure is bad, especially sexual pleasure. The belief is that good feelings and sexual exploration are sinful. In the modern world, this belief has started to change with the rise of sex positive culture, but perhaps a few words on why sex and pleasure are beneficial will help.
It’s obvious that sex is a natural part of the human experience, and everyone comes with a different set of fetishes and desires. If we don’t seek out a healthy sex life, it can be as damaging as trying to go without any of our other most basic needs, leading to depression or at least unhappiness. Who knows how many hide their fantasies for BDSM, threesomes, sex toys, or anything vanilla or twisted when they could easily find the object of their desires if they just tried, perhaps on an online dating site.
The healthy reality is that sex has countless benefits. It releases endorphins, which give pleasure, cause feelings of euphoria, and even relieve pain. The effect of arousal on the mucous membranes of the body can relieve congestion. Many have heard the old phrase I have a headache; in actuality the effect of orgasms can relieve headaches. Some studies have even shown that recreational spanking can aid people with chronic pain conditions like arthritis.
Unlike many animals on earth, we use sex and sexual pleasure for procreation as well as social networking. Today’s hookups may be tomorrow’s business contact (or long term partner!). Who knows – stranger things have happened? Sex can bring friends closer together, and create new bonds in your social circle. Instead of worrying about whether you should sleep with sorts of exciting new possibilities for pleasure.
While most hookups remain just hookups, other things can happen. A threesome can turn into a true triad, or a permanent master/slave relationship, arising from casual playtimes.
So what are you waiting for? Get out there and find someone to spank, kiss, or play out your porn fantasies with! Because dreams do come true.
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Tuesday, March 8th, 2011
Men only ever become pussy whipped because they want to.
Straight boys are fascinated in a womans vagina almost to the exclusion of all else-expect friction-and this chalice of womanhood has been celebrated in art, music, free porn, and literature as much as the phallus that fits inside it. Other female body parts may fascinate the straight guy, even gat man have been known to take notice of a firm high shelf of breasts or a nice swaying buttocks, still it is the vagina that ultimately has the most pull.
But over the time of a straight man’s life the cunt, vaja-jay, hairpie-whatever it is to be called-becomes less of a fascination, less something women can hold out from their partners or wield with impunity.
Because over time, men realize there is a woman attached to that pussy.
It takes a man a while but he does come around. First he has to get his mind off fucking. He has to realize that the fact that his dick is hard is truly only fascinating to him! Hopefully from this ephifany he learns to care about and subsequently please his bed partner, whomever he or she happens to be. Lastly, the man might grow to the point where he stops objectifying, or at least tempers his need to objectify, body parts to the exclusion of the person who sports a pair of breasts or a cute ass. And then, the very thing women wish men would do more often-notice them as a whole-renders a woman less powerful.
If a man begins to notice the whole woman, not just her ass, tits and that deep well of her mystery her vagina, then the woman no longer has the mystery of her parts to hold over her man. Men who wish to be controlled by the cunt can still be, but that is a self-imposed slavery to a body part most adult men will not coddle. Seasoned guys will no longer worship a womans parts simply because they have grown to the point where they recognize a woman is a sum of her parts. Sure, guys are still set-up to see first and fit the piece into the whole later, but the pieces become less important as men grow older.
Or if not, they stay ready and waiting to be pussy whipped
just like they want to be.
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Tuesday, March 8th, 2011
Most single people who have profiles on dating websites are looking for sex, at least eventually. It would be unusual to find someone that truly isnt hoping to get into a relationship that eventually leads to sex.
The problem is that sometimes people want to put the cart before the horse and the subject of sex comes up far too early.
Men, when corresponding with a woman on a dating website, especially at the very beginning of the process, dont ask her about sex or what shes into sexually or how many times a day she likes to fuck or if she likes to give blow jobs. In most cases, the lady will find that to be an instant turn off.
Women want to know that guys are interested in them for more than just sexual interaction. Even on websites that are geared toward people who are into BDSM and fetish, the ladies still want to have some vanilla conversation before they are asked to spill their deepest, darkest fantasies.
It comes across as though the man is only interested in sex, and that will turn a lot of ladies off even if they are only interested in sex. It seems disrespectful, and most women do want to be treated with respect and treated like a lady until the time becomes appropriate to treat her otherwise.
Of course, internet dating can be complicated, and it can be rather confusing for the guys because some women respond really favorably to instant sex conversation. They expect to be asked questions right away, especially if they are on BDSM or fetish free porn sites. So how does a guy know what to do? Sometimes its possible to tell by reading the persons profile carefully and really paying attention to what it says. That will often show quite clearly what type of woman she is and what her expectations are. A man can simply do whatever he wants, figuring that the right woman will understand him and it wont matter. Another option is to wait discuss vanilla topics and get to know her as a person, and let the lady introduce the subject of sex whenever shes ready. That will make her feel respected and well-treated and most women will really appreciate that.
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Monday, March 7th, 2011
Finding new horizons in your sex life can be a fun and exciting experience but it can also be one you can easily get carried away with when you don’t do it responsibly. Whether you are in a committed relationship with a love interest or whether you are fucking strangers, you must always take care not to allow yourself to go too far or get carried away. When you are feeling jaded and looking for a new sex experience you have to be careful you don’t allow yourself to become too seduced by the pleasure. Everyone has limits on how far they will go and while it is always healthy to challenge those limits from time to time it is also very healthy to remember why those limits are there in the first place.
Just because you decide you have found your limit does not mean you have refused to grow or that you are small or close minded. It means you have standards and you stick to them. And one might be amazed at how wonderful and vibrant ones fucking might become when a couple sticks to some of the same things, but discover a new level to their tried-and true standards they did not know existed before. Oral sex can be aided and improved by the addition of foods, syrups or sweet things to go with a little pussy licking or some cock sucking. And many people realize they in fact might be a little kinkier then they first imagined and by wearing some clothes they might already have in their closet their entire mood might change to what they want sexually! A simple change the location when one has sex can do wonders to a staid sex life, as well as simply ideas of what to say and maybe how to act.
There are all sorts of ways you can vary the things you already enjoy without having to do entirely different things. Watching free porn vids can give you some ideas. You just have to be able to see the same things with a brand new perspective and discover that something has layers and levels you have never experienced before. You have gone to entirely new territory and yet still retained your standards of conduct. You have gotten the best of all worlds involved and are satisfied in ways you never imagined before. The orgasms you experience now can be greater than ever before.
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Friday, March 4th, 2011
A leopard cannot change it spots –
neither can young adult males decrease their testosterone flow. Whether gay, bi or straight, guys are all over the net not only downloading porn but looking for someone to hook-up with. Whether joining on-line dating sites, social networking hubs or simply trolling the groups section of Myspace guys are just as horny as ever, but now have the net to temper their pursuits in what seems a socially acceptable and respectable approach.
The net is as much a portal for sex these days as it is for anything else
in fact the Internet is the perfect place to exercise our dirtier interests. One undeniable fact is true, adults want to be fucking, rubbing and sucking as much as they can or are comfortable with a partner they find to fuck, rub and suck with.
Male humans, especially young guys, are ruled by their nescient libido more then they are often their good commons sense and finding another avenue in which to pursue conquests, namely, on-line, they have made the net their personal procurement playground.
How men go about attempting to find a date, than seduce that date doesn’t matter. Terms used for sex, on the net or off, change with ridiculous regularity, but it comes down to the same specifics of seduction it always has: men using their wit and wiles to secure a date. Whether they are emailing, posting a profile picture, chatting in a local chatroom or even joining a fetish site, these ways of strutting on-line are no different then being available every Tuesday night for a bookstore run with a buddy or scoping out the local supermarket for the weeknight that attracts the most single shoppers.
It might seem that the game of sex, flirting, seduction, even hooking-up and the tales told afterward are more private, or at least more likely to be anonymous these days, but methodology is the only thing that may have changed. Euphemisms morph generation to generation but the game is still played and the game is sex for the red-blooded male. Shy or a playboy, teen or middle age, single and even married, men are still out there on the prowl and are using the Internet in ways that even the most adept hacker would be proud of.
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