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Confectionery

Sunday, July 17th, 2011

When we are greeted with all of the various websites that pop up when we search for Free sex videos or free porn on the Internet, we may tend to feel like a little kid in an old time confectionery shop looking at all the inviting sweets just laid out before us behind the glass counter and not knowing which one we want to sample first.

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Remember when we were little children and our parents would take us into the candy store and let us pick out whatever we wanted to? We were overwhelmed looking at all the rows and rows of sweet treats just set out before us for our perusal and we felt like we wanted it all, and we could not possibly figure out how to decide which candies looked the most appetizing and appealing to us when they all looked amazing, delicious and seemed to be calling out our little names.

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When we have some much sought after and valuable free time and decide to spend a little bit of time on the Internet checking out the sex sites, we feel once again like that little kid in the confectionery store that could not figure out how to choose between the fruit slices and the chocolate covered cherries. The amount and array of websites that will pop up from just the entry of the simplest few words into a search engine can be just crazy. Any search will produce literally hundreds and hundreds of results, and each one of those websites will lead us to hundreds and hundreds more, and so on, and so on.

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So just like when we were kids, it may be best to just close our eyes, take a deep breath, and then just point at something, as it would be pretty hard to be disappointed with what we may end up with on the sweet treat of the modern Internet.

Dirty Talk Like Porn Stars

Saturday, July 16th, 2011

Our lovers would love it if we were a little more free and raunchy in bed. Everyone loves some dirty talk, when their fuck buddy takes the time to not just do things but tell them how good it feels or to share some filthy thoughts as they get it on. But how do we learn to share in this erotic verbal delight? One thing we can do is learn from some of the experts on verbal sexy banter, one class of which and probably among the most practiced users of filthy words are porn stars for whom it is a part of their everyday job to talk dirty to the people they are being paid to fuck or vice versa.

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It can be hard to be bold and extra verbal in the bedroom. We are taught to be shy or even ashamed of sexual matters so it can be hard to let loose even when we are with a trusted and intimate partner. Now if anyone has watched a porno before, they will know that sometimes the dialogue is extremely cheesy. We’re not suggesting that you necessarily role play out the infamous pizza guy comes over and gets seduced scenario, although that might add some humorous thrills to your games. Nor are we advising faking an orgasm — leave those kinds of theatrics to the professionals and enjoy genuine pleasure with one’s lovers.

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But what one can learn from porn is that the best way to dirty talk is to just let it flow. Don’t be afraid of sounding silly or weird. In the heat of the moment, one is likely to sound desperately sexy to one’s fuck friend regardless of how it might seem later or when imagining it before. We can practice ahead of time, too, enjoying an erotic monologue while masturbating or even just fantasizing. Sex videos that others have made may also be a source of good sexy things to say to one’s love.

Keep it Simple

Friday, July 15th, 2011

The Internet these days is just exploding with Sex videos of all kinds for us to peruse and enjoy. Sometimes, though, it seems as though the simplest videos are often the best ones.

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Who would have ever imagined that there would be so many websites available at just the touch of a mouse in technologically advanced 2011? Just as recently as only about 20 or 25 years ago we could not even have imagined the world wide web and all the possibilities it would bring to us, never mind having hundreds of web sites to choose from for every single subject imaginable. When we initiate a search on the Internet and click on the search button, the results appear before us in a matter of just seconds, and there are normally so many results that we do not know where to start exploring them.

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As we begin to try to go through all of the adult entertainment web sites that are available to us, we notice that some sites are pretty simple while others are quite elaborate. Unless we are looking for a very specific and very defined fetish of some sort, it seems that the simple sites are usually the best ones. If we get caught up in trying to figure out how too many props work or keeping track of too many people at one time, we tend to get caught up in the mechanics and production aspects of things and may lose track of the point and purpose of the video, and of our libido as well.

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It is best not to mired in the masks, and costumes, and latex, and elaborate paraphernalia, unless of course that is your interest and your thing and what you were very deliberately searching for to begin with.

Whether simple or elaborate, there is something for each and every one of us when it comes to porn on the Internet.

You’d Be Surprised

Friday, July 15th, 2011

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Almost everyone publicly denies and decries that they would ever check out any porn sites. However, what people express as an opinion in broad daylight, and what they do at night in the privacy of their own homes, can be two vastly different things. Maybe people whom you would never imagine doing it, are busily checking out the Free porn videos while we run around busily trying to convince everyone of just how very upstanding we are.

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These days while we may still seem prudish on occasion on the surface, many of us feel free to enjoy some adult websites or Internet porn options when we are alone and out of the harsh view of society. If you pay any attention at all to your nightly news, you would think that no one ever has sex, no one ever thinks about sex, and we are all just lily white, celibate ethereal individuals floating around on little puffy clouds thinking only of lambs, snowflakes and cotton candy. Not so much, Really, not so much. Contrary to what the uptight media would have you believe, most of us have healthy, normal and functioning sex drives, thank you very much for asking.

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So the next time you visit a library, make sure you take a good look at that cute librarian with the little bun in her hair and the grey business suit. You may be able to imagine that suit coming flying off, her hair coming down and all sorts of delicious and illicit non-literary delights to follow. One of the most exciting things about life can be the fact that just about nothing is as it seems, and while this can be frustrating in some areas of our existence, when it comes to sex, it keeps it all just revved up enough to make it exciting for us, when we are not too busy pretending to be morally beyond reproach.

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Republican Sex Scandal

Thursday, July 14th, 2011

It’s another day and yet another conservative is preaching to us about the ultimate, ungodly evils of the gay people or letting us in on the secret of how porn is destroying our civilization. Our culture has a rich legacy of people repressing human sexuality and trying to keep our urges in check, making us act like proper people. Proper people of the Victorian era that is! And it shows, because just as every day passes with another lecture about the evils of sex, it seems like hardly a day passes without hearing about many of these self same politicians embroiled in the mess of a sex scandal. We find out they’ve secretly been sucking off men in bathrooms or they are hiding their relationship with an intern or their habit of picking up prostitutes on the way home from the office.

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For all that they might like to deny it, the human urge to have intercourse is as strong as our need to have food, to drink water, to use the bathroom. We are not fully fulfilled human beings, even if we have plenty of clothes on our backs and a roof over our heads, without at least a lover to connect with. These urges and the fact that they ultimately cannot be resisted are the reason that prostitution truly is the oldest profession, because when people are unable to get the satisfaction they need they always seek it elsewhere.

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Although we may think of this as a purely male issue, consider the legacy of the disease known as hysteria in women. Now pardon us if what follows sounds like the set up for sex videos, but once women were diagnosed with this mysterious condition and the cure was actually being fingered to orgasm by their doctors. Suffering from unsatisfied urges they had to seek them out elsewhere, just like the politicians of today continue to do behind closed doors.

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Discover

Wednesday, July 13th, 2011

Whether you are in a relationship or just single and looking you are always changing and coming to like new and different things. Sometimes you may go back to liking something you had begun to dislike a long time ago. It happens with food and music and sex and everything in between.

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You can use Porn to discover where your tastes really lay and what you truly enjoy in sex. It is a great way to explore and discover and this can be even more enjoyable when you are with a partner. When you aren’t with one it can help with the basics of keeping your morale up. You may discover that you enjoy lesbian sex or other types. It is all about being honest enough with yourself that you can open up and admit things. Often it happens that you may have reservations attached with something like tying up for instance. You may find a part of you likes it and it is appealing to you.

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For some this can cause tension and stress. It doesn’t need to be this way if you can honestly assess where your interests are and if you are inclined, even to figure out why. It may be enough for people to just admit that they do like something whereas for others there may be a need to know more. Whatever it is and wherever it is you can certainly have the opportunity to explore those things and come to a sense of peace with yourself or even your partner. If you are with a partner this can help even more because you have someone to talk to about such things and they might have a unique perspective they can provide. This then could help you even more still. If you take the time to establish good communication skills not only with yourself but your partner as well it can all be good.

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Blanket Approach

Wednesday, July 13th, 2011

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The majority rules and adult movie makers take it to heart when making adult sex videos. Most Porn makers use a blanket approach in creating what appeals to the largest audience. It is for that reason that they typically stick to a tried and true formula of girl is easy and willing, fuck her in these positions. The actors may change but the action will remain the same. Foreplay is something you save for your girlfriend, it isn’t something that you see in sex videos. It isn’t why the guy buying the movie is there.

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He wants to see the participants get right down to it. There might be a brief period of oral sex as one or the other, most usually first the girl goes down on the guy. They switch up again very briefly and then the fucking begins. There are three or four positions which offer the best camera angle and occasionally another brief period of oral sex. Finally there is the climax which features the guy pulling his cock out and masturbating until  he cums all over the face and tits of the waiting woman on her knees. She is usually begging for it. There may be the occasional scene featuring anal sex but that isn’t as popular as cream pie shots. This if it aint broke don’t fix it formula has proven bank. It gives the guy watching the movie plenty of action for his money and because the scenes have the most popular positions and money shots the audience is going to find something that gets them hot and bothered enough to buy another movie with the same actors.

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For the regular porn watcher the formula becomes a problem since once you’ve seen one you’ve seen them all. But sometimes familiar is a good thing like with the parody sex movies. Young men like to revisit familiar sitcoms and movies with an adult flair. After all the Brady sex parody had guys all buying it because everyone wanted to bone Marsha.

Reason

Tuesday, July 12th, 2011

Total censorship of tits, pussy and dicks of a thing is never the answer for anything because the more you deny someone of something the more they will cling to it. This doesn’t solve anything and any sort of prohibition to some degree with tend to make matters worse in a society. That is why the best way to go about things is a sort of closeting action. Keep things to a sort of thresh hold level and while it isn’t commonly available it isn’t exactly saturating society either.

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There should be a reasonable amount of Porn available without going overboard. If you go to the other extreme of saturating your society with it you are giving access to it that some people will take that might not otherwise have taken. You are essentially aggravating an issue and feeding a sex drive at large that might otherwise have been reasonable and manageable. It’s a matter of what people are putting into their minds and in front of their eyes. The more they are saturated with an image the more they are going to think and act on it. If it’s out of sight then it’s typically out of mind for the most part.

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The problem is that there is a dedicated effort to flood the internet and every other venue with any sort of morally corrupting influence that can be found. They are making it simply acceptable where before it was not. The evidence for this can be seen by the way adult movies and the related material is dealt with in the mainstream. It used to be under a very hush hush sort of curtain whereas now it is not even given a second thought. This is clearly having an affect on how people think and what they find acceptable and good. It’s a reversal of and inversion of values. Anything that was once good is now seen as contemptible while things that were once under censure now see the light of day as perfectly okay.

A Ride Down the Highway

Thursday, July 7th, 2011

Just as you might hop into your car on a beautiful Sunday morning and go out for a ride to see where you might end up and what you might discover, hopping onto the Internet for a little bit of Porn exploration is just as easy as a breeze, and you won’t have to spring for any expensive gas or pay any pesky toll collectors along the way.

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Whenever a beautiful spring day dawns on the weekend, many of us get the urge to have a road trip and do a little exploration. Many of us polish up our trusty cars and take them out for a spin on the highway with no particular destination in mind. We go where the open road and our expansive whims take us and we spend the day having an adventure with no limits, no schedule and certainly no predetermined outcome. We often come across many little special places that we never would have known about or planned to visit had we been sticking to a previously planned out itinerary.

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Hopping on the world wide web to search for sex sites can be a very similar and exciting whirlwind of an experience. We can fire up our computers and hop onto the vast and wide open highway of the world wide web and just follow the road to wherever our desires happen to lead us. There is literally something for everyone on the web and we may end up somewhere that we never even knew we wanted to visit until we got there. Whether we are searching for kink, for fetish, or just for sex in general, we will easily find what we seek along our drive on the Internet and we need never worry that we may run out of gas and have to stop.

Time to fire up the engine and hit the road to enjoy the scenery for a bit.

Fuck Like a Porn Star

Thursday, July 7th, 2011

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There’s no denying that many aspects of porn are fantasy. They represent an idealized form of sexual interaction that normal human beings are not likely to achieve, what one author once referred to as the perfect zipless fuck. There is little like this in reality outside of our masturbatory fantasies, which is perhaps why we like to see them represented in adult video which we so often which during self pleasuring. Likewise much of the adult movie star is equally artificial, from the plastic surgery they may undergo in order to get that figure or the way preparations they make from filming which may involve everything from enemas and douching to the use of injectable sex enhancing drugs.

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And yet that does not mean there is nothing which we can learn from porn stars. Sexual professionals may do things artificially for the camera, but what they do, they do with enthusiasm and verve. Many of us would like to become better lovers and therefore we can learn from this enthusiasm and take it into our own bedrooms. Watching sex videos can give us tips on all kinds of things. Porn starlets are experts at talking dirty, using loud and explicit language to keep us aroused and get us even more excited on the climb to orgasm. Talk freely about what you like in bed, tell your lover how much you enjoy it and what hot thrill you are getting.

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Like wise an actress in an x-rated film is not ashamed of her body, nor are the guys. They are freely naked, showing off whatever body shapes they have. They do not act ashamed of what they are doing either, nor do they seem to have visible hang ups about any of the sexual actions they take part in. We can all learn from this by embracing our desires, whether vanilla, fetish, or BDSM, and without shame.