There’s no denying that many aspects of porn are fantasy. They represent an idealized form of sexual interaction that normal human beings are not likely to achieve, what one author once referred to as the perfect zipless fuck. There is little like this in reality outside of our masturbatory fantasies, which is perhaps why we like to see them represented in adult video which we so often which during self pleasuring. Likewise much of the adult movie star is equally artificial, from the plastic surgery they may undergo in order to get that figure or the way preparations they make from filming which may involve everything from enemas and douching to the use of injectable sex enhancing drugs.
And yet that does not mean there is nothing which we can learn from porn stars. Sexual professionals may do things artificially for the camera, but what they do, they do with enthusiasm and verve. Many of us would like to become better lovers and therefore we can learn from this enthusiasm and take it into our own bedrooms. Watching sex videos can give us tips on all kinds of things. Porn starlets are experts at talking dirty, using loud and explicit language to keep us aroused and get us even more excited on the climb to orgasm. Talk freely about what you like in bed, tell your lover how much you enjoy it and what hot thrill you are getting.
Like wise an actress in an x-rated film is not ashamed of her body, nor are the guys. They are freely naked, showing off whatever body shapes they have. They do not act ashamed of what they are doing either, nor do they seem to have visible hang ups about any of the sexual actions they take part in. We can all learn from this by embracing our desires, whether vanilla, fetish, or BDSM, and without shame.
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