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Porn for Women?

Friday, August 12th, 2011

Thanks to the privacy given by the Internet, more and more women are discovering the delights of porn. But for someone new to the field, it can be bewildering to know where to look. Sure the Intenet is full of free porn sites with millions of videos to watch but how does one find the best movies to enjoy? Once when people were just beginning to explore the idea of pornography for females there was a misconception that women would only want soft and gentle erotic movies, with a lot of talking and very little actual fucking. Many women actually find this quite boring, but at the same time they may be uncomfortable with some movies which show extreme objectification of women, make use of women who seem to be on drugs, or perhaps worst of all the tendency of straight male-directed porn films to have downright ugly men as their leads.

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More and more women are directing their own sex tape films and even creating their own x-rated studios. This could be just them performing alone in front of a camera, with a lover, or in complex productions just like the men of Hollywood make. One way to find an appealing x-rated film is to look for the reviews of other women. Many women have blogs where they review x-rated films they watch as well as also frequently sex toys they enjoy while masturbating or watching those films! If one can find a site with a woman who has similar tastes to one’s own one can use her advice to help select the best and most erotic movies. Likewise many video on demand sites allow one to select from scenes based on the fetishes and even the individual actors and actresses, making it easier to hone in on the erotic content that will really get a woman off. Through some creativity and learning what one likes, one will be enjoying things in no time.

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Shopping In The Olden Days

Tuesday, August 9th, 2011

As unnerving as it was for a young guy to try and cajole the pharmacist to sell him a pack of condoms, so to was it slightly off-putting for any of us-man or woman or any age-to go to through the swinging doors at the back of the video store, try to avoid the glance of the video store owner and peruse those specific porn titles. Though surely a rite of passage for any adult doing so, looking for tapes this way was always embarrassing.

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Delivery methods for our dirty fare have changed greatly because of the net. Now we can sit at home and just about stream anything we want with no one watching. We can choose from a list of titles that weren’t even available years ago, let alone one’s we would ever even think about bringing up to the local video store proprietor less he or she think you a real perv for wanting a tape on nuns who spank!

These days we can download to our PDA’s and have a little private jack off session at work if we can find the time. We can shoot over a clip to a guy or girl we are trying to seduce or go online with a partner to enjoy something in tandem. It might have been fun trying to get porn in the old days and we might have had to screw-up our courage as well as ingenuity but these days things are infinitely easier. And we certainly don’t have to pay for all this stuff the way we used to, let alone worry about getting a tape back in time or not wearing it out from two much rewinding!

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As the porn industry struggles to adapt to the changes the net has brought to viewing, one thing is for certain…we never have to worry about anyone ever knowing about our porn choices or frequency of viewing ever again. Porn will never leave the cultural landscape but we have to leave our houses less and less to view it.

Enjoyment For Women

Saturday, July 2nd, 2011

The history of the porn industry has been a long and storied one which most tend to think revolves around the pleasure of men. To some extent this is true but more often adult video makers are focusing on a different demographic, which is that of women. The purchasing power of horny women looking to jump start their mood with some hot heavy fuck fests are driving the porn industry right along side the men these days. Recent studies have shown some new and changing trends. A good portion of Sex videos now cater to woman’s tastes as much as they do men. It isn’t like they just have their own little niche like some would think.

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It’s now an almost even split. The Rand and Mather Research group showed that between 1995 and 2005 the number of porn videos featuring the pleasure of women center stage versus that of men nearly doubled and is still climbing. The study also showed that more and more men are actually preferring the purchase of these types of porn videos over those that were made for them. Researchers suggest that this is probably because those single men are plumbing a new well of information on how better to boost their own performances by watching woman’s porn. It doesn’t exactly take a genius to figure this out but whatever the reasons it’s certainly good news for all the ladies out there looking for a hard cock to please them. Now while this might be a new and exciting trend it hasn’t exactly been undiscovered. There was the 1984 release of the Sylvia Bernard production entitled Thelma’s Pleasure and while it remained relatively unnoticed during its time it still made its mark as one more pioneering feat for woman’s equality.

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Most people even in the porn industry don’t remember the film but it did influence the possibilities in it’s own way and showed that no matter what the industry was women could and would make their mark and do just as well as men.

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We Are Porn

Thursday, June 23rd, 2011

It has come to the attention of every man and woman that we are porn. We live lives of heightened realism where sex is all we think about, We indulge our whims every second of the day. We are connected to the life-giving technological teat, sucking dry all we can off our PDA’s and phones, tweeting until our thumbs become sore, aching to tell as much as listen, masturbating in mind and body the entire day through. We have our assholes opened, our mouths ready and our genitals constantly dripping for the next thing to divert us, to keep us from having whole conversations, from engaging a real person in real time.

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Like porn all we want is the faster bigger sloppy cumshot to appear across our screens of life, to wipe it away and have at it again.
We were given the wet pussy of opportunity and we jumped in face first. We gamed and were given access to others who did the same, we chatted and found that we could type just as fast with one hand, we set-up a cam and watched others do the same, knowing that sooner or later clothes would come off. We started-out interested we became titillated, we began the seduction we ended with the fucking and now all we want to do is fuck harder and harder. We drain our imaginations daily, fill up and come back for more. And like the very best adult performers, we actually believe there is someone out there who wants us, who is jerking or jilling off to our big tits, who salivates over our thick cock.

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The wonderful thing is that at this point we could not even show-up to the set and we’d still get paid. We don’t really have to make a movie anymore. We could sit back on our laurels and rep and let the accolades wash over us. We have certainly seen and done enough that we should be satiated, experienced, jaded even but there is always another movie to be made, at least in our head, so we head for the bright lights of Facebook walls and tweets, where everyone is a star at least once a day and we strip and dance and self fellaciate or tickle deep and we are porn all over again to live another day.

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What Women Like

Thursday, May 19th, 2011

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There are books out that make the point that porn for women is a man vacuuming a carpet or dusting a lamp. Cute and good for a quick laugh, not really all that true these days though….unless the man dusting happens to be naked and dancing. Yes, giving a dam about the house and helping out will make the lady in your life swoon and feel cared for, but sexually turned on and raring to go? Maybe it depends what you are wearing or not wearing at the time.

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It’s not so much that ladies that are not into dirty movies and pictures they are just a picky. Men love to look, they want to see, and that is what gets his imagination going. Woman also love to look and their other senses have strong opinions about what is going on as a whole experience. Even if your lady fare is lucky enough to see a porn with you that shows enough sexy men as well as women in it. Allot of times the film will have bad music and really bad, dubbing that is just too annoying for the girl friend to bare. So if you want that special someone to feel relaxed and appreciated goes ahead and put the dishes away, vacuum the floor. If you want her to enjoy a sex video with her with out her tuning out or getting bored let her pick a few. Your fare maiden can also get jealous of the porn. Yeah that is right jealous especially if she is a B cup and she notices that all of the porn you watch has porn-stars in it with huge perfect plastic double D’s all over the screen. Just makes sure that she remembers the difference between like and love.

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Be honest though own the fact that yes you love big full bouncy breasts when you are fantasizing but you love her and her sweet firm beautiful b cups. It also might be helpful if you give the same room to her. If you notice that the men she likes in the film are built like brick houses and you are a slim trim 150 pound man that lifts the coffee mug at an office job. You just need to remember she likes those beefy pecks but she loves your sweet embrace.

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It’s Free

Wednesday, April 27th, 2011

There are very few things that are certain in life. Death, taxes and free porn are among the few things. People will die, people will be taxed and many people will try to get their hands on as much pornography as they can, even better if it’s free.

The reasons vary but ultimately man has an obsession with nudity, sex and acts that combine the two. The internet makes it easier to view pornography for free especially when sites like You porn exist and generate a lot of traffic. With high visibility and great search engine optimization, sites like this have the ability to be found very quickly by any user looking for cheap or free content. Sustained by affiliate programs, these sites capitalize on the sheer number of hits a day in hopes that many users will eventually convert, or buy a membership on the affiliate, thus generating revenue for the host site.

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The drive for many people to seek pornography in the first place has a lot to do with society’s taboos and what we’re told we can and cannot see or experience. There is a lot of moral debate about the existence of porn and whether man should lay eyes on the myriad of content available. Everything from generic sex acts to intense fetish porn can be had online. The possibilities from what translates to print expand the market but at a cost, though it may be small.

Guys like seeing tons of free pussy and the free sites as well as the sponsored sites, and pay sites understand this. The fantasy of the average Joe getting in bed with a woman who is not only his ideal fantasy, but ready and willing to strip for him is also a driving force behind the human obsession of pornography. It’s not just limited to men, either. Women enjoy their fair share of gay porn, claiming it as a research need since men do not openly talk about sex with women.

CITY STREET’S FILLED WITH SLUTS

Tuesday, April 5th, 2011

A mob of angry Toronto marchers took to the streets sunday afternoon in what they are calling a ” Slut March ” in retaliation to controversial comments made by a police constable earlier this year.

In January, Toronto Police cons. Michael Sanguinetti mentioned to a personal security class at York University that ” Women should avoid dressing like sluts in order not to be victimzed.” What a crazy fucker, the more the woman looks like a whore, the better!

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The officer Michael Sanguinetti apologized for his absolutely ridiculous comment, but his apology failed to satisfy walk organizer Sonya Barnett.

” It was evident that if you’re going to have a representative of the police force come out ( and say that ) then that kind of idea must still be running rampant within the police force itself and that retraining really needs to happen to change that mentally.” she explains.

A statement on the event’s website says: ” Toronto Police have perpetuated the myth and stereotype of the slut, and in doing so have failed us.”

The walk started wit a series of speeches at Queen’s park at 1:30 pm ET. Then the sluts marched to Toronto Police Headquarters on college street.

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When the story was first heard by Toronto Police Chief Bill Blair in January he mentioned that Sanguinetti’s comments highlight a ” training issue ” inside the force.

” If that type of, frankly, archaic thinking still exists among any of my officers, it highlights for me the need to continue to train my officers and sensitize them to the reality of victimization,” he said.

The comments attributed to the officer “place the blame upon victims, and that’s not where the blame should be placed,” Blair mention’s.

The Panties Men Peek At

Thursday, February 24th, 2011

kelly_slipteaseWomen’s panties remain a mystery to most men when it comes to undergarments. The variety and material used to make the clothing that covers a woman’s most intimate parts also reveals more about her than just her personal preferences (or porn preferences). Panties are categorized based on the amount of coverage. Sometimes the material made factors into the type and purpose for a particular underwear. Sometimes the design and cut are all they are about.

For example, conservative women tend to favor the brief panty. With the most coverage of a woman’s ass this style offers comfort. They usually extend below the hip. French cut panties usually have a thinner band between the front and back to offer a hint of skin and sex appeal. This is the classic style most often worn by women. Hipsters are similar to briefs but have a lower waist, exposing more navel flesh. They’re worn at hip level.

Bikini panties have an even more narrow strip of cloth and are worn over the hips. The string bikini enjoys popularity among the college crowd as many college students embrace their own sexuality during spring break. Tangas have a thin strip but reduced coverage of the rear. Thongs have waistbands similar to tangas but the strip of cloth covering the crotch extends to disappear between the ass cheeks. A g-string is a thinner version of a thong and allows for more flesh exposure.

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Panties have been designed for comfort as well as shape control. A fully cover form fitting brief called a control brief has elastic to produce a slandering effect for those who need it.
Makers of women’s panties have used material such as silk as it feels comfortable against the skin, usually doesn’t irritate the wearer. Satin provides a similar level of comfort but offers a sheen that many find attractive. Construction consists of a front, back and the strip of fabric connecting the two.

Betty Paige made panties popular in the 1940′s as Western women embraced their sexuality. In the Seventies, stores such as Victoria’s Secret and Frederick’s of Hollywood opened up and began marketing lingerie, including a large selection of different styles and types of panties to the newly sexually free woman. Magazines such as FHM and Maxim often use panty-clad models for sex appeal.

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Extra Heat Between The Sheets

Tuesday, February 22nd, 2011

Feb 18 orgasm.com1I have really been suffering from the Winter Blues, much like most of you. The winter has been so cold this year it’s hard to get the motivation to get out of my Homer Simpson pajamas and into a mood to get out of the house.

This got me thinking, there must be a better way to stay warm in this frigid winter besides cranking up the furnace and plugging in an electric blanket.

SEX! Sex always gets the heart pumping, the sweat dripping and the body hot, especially when you fuck like porn stars, so it’s the best remedy for the Winter blues in my opinion.

Sharing body heat is the best way to conserve energy, and you’ll even save some cash in the process. Nothing beats staying in and having hot sex on a cold night, all the while saving some money and getting your jollies off.

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Here are a few tips to make your sex life hot, hot, hot:

• Go from water to land; take a scolding hot shower together to warm up. While you lather each other up and rinse each other off, you will do more than just steam up the bathroom mirrors. Then dry each other off and hit the sheets.
• When your in bed with your partner, get complete dressed. I know that it is the opposite of what people usually do, but shedding the layers as you guy will turn up the body heat and make you a lot more horny. Once your both naked, the skin on skin will feel so hot.
Take advantage of those sex toys because adding that extra stimulation into the mix with really heat you up.
• If you have a fireplace, fuck her right in front of it. Pull a chair in front and have her straddle you while you feel the heat.

Even though Spring is on it’s way, take advantage of these last few days of cold to really heat things up at home.

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Anal Issues

Tuesday, February 22nd, 2011

analAnal play and anal sex can be very hot and sexy, and is in the realm of real lovers these days, not just porn stars. However, women sometimes find it difficult to relax and enjoy it because they’re concerned about any mess that could result. Feeling uptight and stressed when participating in any kind of anal play can make the experience difficult and uncomfortable for both parties.

A lot of women don’t seem to be able to understand that people who are interested in anal play are fully aware of the fact that it is an activity fraught with the potential for a mess, and they are prepared to proceed in spite of that. It is a biological function experienced by all humans and not something to be ashamed of. While many people will advocate repeated enemas in order to assure cleanliness and a pristine environment, that actually may not be the healthiest choice. Enemas can often dry out the anal area, and having anal sex a short period of time later could result in minor tearing or discomfort due to dryness. Repeated enemas could throw a person’s electrolytes off balance, and that can be very detrimental to a person’s health. Unless one’s partner is aware of how many enemas were done and how recently, they may not be able to provide necessary information in case of an emergency. It would be best to discuss this with a doctor or gynecologist, and find out how to safely use enemas or anal douches as a way to prepare the area without any health implications. Doctors have heard it all and they’re there to help, so people should not be embarrassed to discuss these things with them.

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The easiest way to handle the situation is to eat a very healthy diet and get plenty of fiber. This will make most people pretty regular and, quite often, predictable which will make scheduling a sexual encounter involving anal play quite a bit easier. If a lady is concerned about any potential messy situations, she can put a large towel on the bed or leave a towel folded on the dresser to provide a place to put used sex toys. The last and most important thing is that people should talk to their partner. It may seem like an embarrassing conversation, but if a person is comfortable allowing someone else to insert things into their ass they should be comfortable enough with that person to talk to them.

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