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Worshipping the Goddess

Thursday, May 12th, 2011

Worshipping the divine in the form of the Goddess can be done in a temple with golden statues and all kinds of universal images. It can also be done in your own home, and in the bedroom to be exact. The goddess doesn’t have to be sought after any farther than in the eyes ‘ and more ‘ of a female love.

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In order to touch the goddess, it is important to be in a positive, totally loving state of mind. Each partner bathing before coming together in a tub where the intention is made to wash away all negativity and worries aside from the manner at hand is a good way to begin. When worshipping the Goddess in a formal sexual way, the woman to receive the adoration is seen and experienced as the Goddess Herself as much as possible. She can simply lie back and enjoy whatever her partner wishes to do. Hopefully he or she will have a good deal of previous experience as to how to please a woman.

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A little massage that turns erotic is a good choice of a way to begin turning on a goddess. An all over body massage can easily lead to a good working over of the breasts. A light massage is apropos unless the Goddess requests a heavy touch. From the massage, suckling is a powerful, simple ritual. As The Goddess lies back, the partner can lie adjacent to her and begin suckling. Sucking tits can be a fun, yet mundane sexual act. In this context, the partner should imagine him or herself suckling from Mother Earth herself, and should remember this most sacred source and sustainer of life.

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The Goddess’ body is an amazing playground in both the macrocosm and the microcosm. On the microcosm that is a particular woman’s body who is channeling the Goddess, the worshipper’s hands may roam freely, giving her pleasure. After the suckling and more general rubbing, it is time to move to the chalice or cauldron of the body, the pussy.

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Licking pussy for the Goddess is a treat that cannot be equaled. The taste and smell of her generates feelings of love and reverence. She may imagine herself being the giver of life through her sweet pussy juices.

Bondage, sex and erotic love

Friday, May 6th, 2011

Bondage, to put it simply, is the sex and erotic play and pleasure that can come from someone either being restrained or by restraining someone else. But while bondage is a simple concept there are a lot of things that everyone needs to know in order to do it safely and without putting either person at risk. Anytime we restrict or tie down someone or ask to be ourselves, we better be damn sure we are playing with someone we trust!

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One of the most important things to remember about bondage is that it is something that should not be done without some research, classes, reading or hands-on instruction. While there are way of doing bondage that are simple all it takes to seriously hurt someone is for a rope to be tied too tight or have a mouth or nose blocked. Because of this you should never have anything covering the mouth or nose the person being restrained, part of this is to allow the person being restrained to breathe without hindrance but also because it will allow the person being restrained to be able to communicate at all times, which is extremely important. While some people do role playing while they are in bondage for beginner kink lovers it is better not to do such and instead keep communication simple and direct so the person being restrained can simply say if something is too tight or if they are hurting or simply uncomfortable.

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Bondage, too, while it can be done with simple things really does require the use of specially designed equipment as homemade or crude or too-simple equipment can lead to injuries and accidents. Cheap handcuffs, for example, should never be used as they can seriously harm wrists and ankles. Scarves also should never be used as they can knot up and cut off circulation and then be hard to get off. Rope is okay but never tied too tightly. The bottom line, however, is always play safe and cautiously and never take unnecessary risks especially around something that is supposed to be sexy and playful and fun. So if you want to play with bondage read a few books and take a lot of classes and play safe so you can play for a long, long time.

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A Taste For Southern Climes

Friday, May 6th, 2011

Cunnilingus is the art of giving oral sex to a woman, fellatio is when a man’s partner puts his cock in their mouth, sucks, licks and generally attends to him with lips, tongue and teeth. For first timers, oral sex can be the most taboo kind of sex to engage in, as it has connotations to intimacies as well as lust that no other acts truly carry. For still other people the true expression of their love is how close they can get to their lover and oral sex gets them very close indeed.

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For the most part there are indeed smells and tastes associated with going down on our lovers. Depending on a man or woman’s diet, their specific body chemistry, even if they are carrying some sort of yeast-like infection they might not be aware of, the climate of a woman’s vagina or the area around a man’s cock could exude a cornucopia of scents. True also, when either a man or woman grows aroused or ejaculates there could be certain specific tastes associated with the fluids they produce. For the most part though, if we are attracted to a certain sex we are also aroused by the scent and taste of the musk their genitals produce, so allowing for some sort of untoward and unusual pungency due to medicines or food they ingest, for the most part what we encounter down there will pretty much arouse us when we’re down there.

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Oral sex is usually quite pleasurable for both a man and woman to receive simply because, in most cases, we cannot place our mouth anywhere near our own genitals, especially women. We all pretty much masturbate with our hands, and our lover’s fingers tickling, teasing and touching us for the most part is arousing, but feeling their mouth on us is extremely exciting. The wetness of someone’s mouth covering our cock or pussy, the flicking strength of the of the tongue, the puckering of lips, all the actions the mouth and even teeth can facilitate does make oral attention quite unique.

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Then to there is the question of intimacy of oral sex, what indeed makes it both so intense and at the same time so off-putting to couples. Once someone literally has their face in our crotch, in affect seeing us from the most vulnerable angle, many men and women do not like being examined this way. Many a partner will keep their lover from going down on them, while others, fully ensconced in their lover and ready for any and all romantic experiences, welcome oral sex, giving or receiving.

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Swallow that Load!

Tuesday, May 3rd, 2011

In heated sexual activity partners with lower inhibitions are more willing to try when the suggestion comes up. In the adult video market, facials are popular among viewers searching for free porn for their sexual appeal. Snowballing, or the practice of taking another man’s cum into a wanting mouth and passing it along to another partner, usually through kissing, has been enjoyed among bisexual and gay men. It is also enjoyed by these two hot Asian chicks in this video.  In 2004, Researchers who surveyed 1200 gay and bisexual men at New York LGBT community events found that over 20% have engaged in the practice.

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And why not? Semen is healthy. Composed mostly of protein, and low in calorie, the substance is harmless. There are sites dedicated to the swallowing, consumption and ultimately therapeutic use of semen.
Good for the skin, cum helps with clear skin by the contents of a typical ejaculation. Rubbing semen into the skin like a lotion promotes healthy skin growth due to the protein content.

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The fact that free sex videos can be had on the internet is a widely debated topic in the sex industry by professionals, content producers and even among consumers of dirty movies. The reasons for supporting both sides range from the mundane to the ridiculous but what it all comes down to is the loss or gaining of revenue.

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Much of the focus on the free videos seem to center around cum swallowing fetishes like the blonde in this video. Porn actors and actresses must make sure they are clean and free of sexually transmitted diseases that would ultimately put them out of work for a long time. In an industry where being up close and personal is key, especially with sexual fluids, cleanliness is important.

The obsession with swallowing has a lot to do with accepting a man’s masculinity. Rich in taste, the practice dates back to very early times in history with sex rituals and ancient cults practicing this act as a sacrificial offering to the gods. Thanks to technology, cum swallowing has made a prominent place in free porn videos.

Shaving Private Ryan

Monday, April 11th, 2011

Oftentimes, certain areas of the body are neglected when it comes to extraneous hair. Shaving a man’s cock or a woman’s pussy is a quick and easy way to add sex appeal.

It requires a delicate hand in both cases, a need to know more about skin care, and adds one more notch on the proverbial bedpost of porn hotness.

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For men, it also gives the illusion of larger cock size. Ridding the body of all that hair may seem like something fit for swimmers and non-heterosexual men, but numerous women complain about pulling pubic hair from their teeth. A lot of men feel the same way. But with men, the illusion is about having a larger cock, and the feel of lips against smooth, freshly shaved skin might just encourage her to deepthroat your manhood.

A smooth pussy encourages a man to explore more with his lips and tongue while fingers feel up the slick, sweet skin around her lips.

To properly remove pubic hair, a good shaving cream with moisturizer is recommended. Lather it on, let it sit for a few minutes, then begin trimming off hair with sharp scissors until you’ve cut as much off as possible. At this point, some folks add more shaving cream and break out an electric razor, but sensitive skin being that it is, this may not be something everyone will want to do.

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In either case, it’s time to break out a sharp, fresh razor. Disposable razors are a no-no. Spend some money on a quality razor and keep fresh blades around. One wants clean, sure blades when one is trimming one’’s most private of areas clean.
For men, an erection makes it easier to keep things out of harm’s way. When the male scrotum draws up, the skin will be easier to shave. Run the blade once over properly moistened skin and rinse it off. No more than one pass per section, as this decreases the chances of irritation via razor burn. Women start with the lower lips than shave the sides. Lastly they can shave the top of the mound.

It takes some time to get used to the new feeling, but satin or lace against bare pussy skin, or guys who go commando feel sexier.

Forced Oral

Thursday, April 7th, 2011

Face-sitting and smothering are two similar fetishes that are seen as a bit edgy because of the dangers involved. Face-sitting isn’t actually dangerous if done properly, because face sitting doesn’t actually cut of the partner’s air supply, but smothering actually does involve cutting of the air supply for short periods of time (hence the name smothering). In both cases, it involves a person who is usually dominant lowering their genital area onto a submissive person’s face for forced oral to genital or oral to anal contact, but smothering involves placing more weight on the person’s face quite literally covering the other person’s face with their body.

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Smothering, quite obviously, can be a little bit dangerous and should be practiced by people with some experience or else they should be mentored or supervised by someone who has experience in order to keep the submissive safe.

Most of the time this fetish is practiced with a female top or dominant and a male bottom or submissive. Men who love to be on the receiving end of this fetish find it to be very erotic. The people that love it truly love eating pussy. They enjoy the female juices and want them on their skin and in their mouth. They love having their head surrounded by flesh and they tend to really enjoy the natural body scent of another person’s body. They enjoy the slightly sweaty scent and they love the natural moisture of that area of the body that tends to get sweaty and will get develop more moisture as she becomes more and more aroused.

Sometimes the submissive is put into some sort of bondage to hold them still during face-sitting, but it’s not a necessity. It just adds to the scene and the submissiveness of the scenario to feel forced by using restraints and making the situation unavoidable with the feeling of it being slightly against the submissive’s will. It’s a mind game that many submissives enjoy in a scene. Some people enjoy the use of a piece of BDSM furniture called a smotherbox. The smotherbox fits over the submissive’s head almost like stocks. It’s fits over the neck and restrains the person’s head so that they cannot move their head. There is a hole on the top of the box for the dominant party to position themselves for receiving oral pleasure.

Educational Videos

Wednesday, April 6th, 2011

Wouldn’t it be great if whenever we needed to learn a hot, new sex trick, there was an awesome sex coach there to show us what to do right on the spot? In lieu of such a luxury, there are some pretty good videos out there to help out. Don’t think that just because you’ve been around the block a few times, there’s nothing left to learn about sex. There is always more to know and to try out.

A simple internet search will turn up plenty of fun erotic vids that can teach you everything from how to take it in the ass to how to give a killer blow job and beyond. Take a look for just about anything you want to learn about, and chances are someone has published something with your particular taste in mind.

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The good thing about these instructional videos is the balance they usually manage to strike between informational and just plain sexy. You are likely to find an attractive narrator interspersed between the rest of the action. There may also be a doctor or other informed individual to explain some of the more important points on health and safety. Then comes the fun part: a hot couple there to demonstrate a good example of the topic of the video. There will likely be some voiceover to explain some details of the action, but there’ll be no mistaking the hot, explicit sex that will ensue based on the instruction.

Suppose you are a couple that wants to explore flipping the anal sex around and giving him some. A video of this type will have someone begin to explain how she will need to purchase a strap-on dildo, how they work, and the sizes and styles the couple can choose from. There will be a lot of guidance along the way in terms of how to use the toy, with some cautions: The video will want to make sure lots of lube is used, that they take their time, and that the dildo has a flared base so it won’t get stuck. Once they get going, it’ll be full-on fun. There will be a long sex scene so you not only learn, but have ample time to jack off watching.

Wait To Bring Up Sex

Tuesday, March 8th, 2011

tumblr_lgpdn93M6L1qzqbf4Most single people who have profiles on dating websites are looking for sex, at least eventually. It would be unusual to find someone that truly isn’t hoping to get into a relationship that eventually leads to sex.

The problem is that sometimes people want to put the cart before the horse and the subject of sex comes up far too early.

Men, when corresponding with a woman on a dating website, especially at the very beginning of the process, don’t ask her about sex or what she’s into sexually or how many times a day she likes to fuck or if she likes to give blow jobs. In most cases, the lady will find that to be an instant turn off.

Women want to know that guys are interested in them for more than just sexual interaction. Even on websites that are geared toward people who are into BDSM and fetish, the ladies still want to have some vanilla conversation before they are asked to spill their deepest, darkest fantasies.

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It comes across as though the man is only interested in sex, and that will turn a lot of ladies off even if they are only interested in sex. It seems disrespectful, and most women do want to be treated with respect and treated like a lady until the time becomes appropriate to treat her otherwise.

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Of course, internet dating can be complicated, and it can be rather confusing for the guys because some women respond really favorably to instant sex conversation. They expect to be asked questions right away, especially if they are on BDSM or fetish free porn sites. So how does a guy know what to do? Sometimes it’s possible to tell by reading the person’s profile carefully and really paying attention to what it says. That will often show quite clearly what type of woman she is and what her expectations are. A man can simply do whatever he wants, figuring that the right woman will understand him and it won’t matter. Another option is to wait – discuss vanilla topics and get to know her as a person, and let the lady introduce the subject of sex whenever she’s ready. That will make her feel respected and well-treated and most women will really appreciate that.

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The New Horizons

Monday, March 7th, 2011

tumblr_ler0yiCZ731qd7x8zo1_500Finding new horizons in your sex life can be a fun and exciting experience but it can also be one you can easily get carried away with when you don’t do it responsibly. Whether you are in a committed relationship with a love interest or whether you are fucking strangers, you must always take care not to allow yourself to go too far or get carried away. When you are feeling jaded and looking for a new sex experience you have to be careful you don’t allow yourself to become too seduced by the pleasure. Everyone has limits on how far they will go and while it is always healthy to challenge those limits from time to time it is also very healthy to remember why those limits are there in the first place.

Just because you decide you have found your limit does not mean you have refused to grow or that you are small or close minded. It means you have standards and you stick to them. And one might be amazed at how wonderful and vibrant one’s fucking might become when a couple sticks to some of the same things, but discover a new level to their tried-and true standards they did not know existed before. Oral sex can be aided and improved by the addition of foods, syrups or sweet things to go with a little pussy licking or some cock sucking. And many people realize they in fact might be a little kinkier then they first imagined and by wearing some clothes they might already have in their closet their entire mood might change to what they want sexually! A simple change the location when one has sex can do wonders to a staid sex life, as well as simply ideas of what to say and maybe how to act.

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There are all sorts of ways you can vary the things you already enjoy without having to do entirely different things. Watching free porn vids can give you some ideas.  You just have to be able to see the same things with a brand new perspective and discover that something has layers and levels you have never experienced before. You have gone to entirely new territory and yet still retained your standards of conduct. You have gotten the best of all worlds involved and are satisfied in ways you never imagined before. The orgasms you experience now can be greater than ever before.

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To Sleep Perchance To…

Sunday, March 6th, 2011

Men and women really are at their warmest, most peaceful and possibly most alluring when they are sleeping. Lying down deep under our covers, breathing regular-even snoring- who could not be attracted to the quiet of our sleeping spouse or lover? All manner of worry and argument is quiet, all possible refusals muted, all manner of orifices open and warm.

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Many a hetero wife has reported waking to her man vigorously slipping his cock inside her or a guy has woken with a mouth locked around his slowly growing erection. The pure person is on display when we see, us in all our glory and without any true flash of our personalities good or bad.

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We can complain about bad morning breath all we want, the fact that we most probably need a pee when waking, even the funk and film eight hours leaves us with, but we are biologically predisposed to like all those funky warm smells. Akin to that musky warmth a wet pussy exudes when aroused, our deep scents of sleep are supposed to attract our lovers to us and us to them, we are supposed to wants to crawl beside them and spoon-at the very least-make love at the most, even when either of us might not be awake enough to respond. Many a lover who has snuck out of bed in the morning, brushed their teeth, splashed on some cologne or perfume to meet their lover lying still in bed all twisted under the covers in their morning film needn’t have bothered as sleep smells are really so alluring anyway.

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For most of us anyway our beds really are the temple of our sex lives and good feelings. Couple lay together many a nights to discuss their futures, hopes and dreams. Men and women can recall the moments of their wildest sexual escapades or their deepest clutching moments of love-making in this spot at the center of their intimate lives. We crawl into bed to be safe, to be closer, to sleep and to renew what our love and lust means to each other.

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Sleeping beauty’s little dwarfs had to have had many a nasty thought between them. The Internet might be a great place to meet people to masturbate over or maybe find a date from an on-line dating site, but nothing can replace the warmth of spooning lovers in bed rolling into one another in time to maybe catch an early morning quickie stolen before either partner has to get up for work!
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