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Porn and Women

Saturday, August 27th, 2011

Certainly every man uses or has used porn in his lifetime. Though some hide it from their lovers, others introduce it, still others use a tape or download in conjunction to what they will try in bed, just as many partners think porn viewing is cheating, masturbation and wives who actually consider looking at erotic media to be a form of cheating, masturbating the pursuit of a cum-addled teen and any stimulation far and away from sex in the bedroom as sex addiction!

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But not all women hate porn. Not all ladies have such a Puritanical view, want to police or mother their partners. In fact some women love porn and use it as much as their male counterparts.

Though it was true that when the only way to see adult movies was to go to a theater fewer women would attend, these days anyone can watch what they want over the net in the privacy of their own home. This takes the stigma of porn off of women and they can enjoy and have been enjoying porn in record numbers of late. Women can dial up whatever they like, with our without a partner and find a lot of fare being made for their masturbatory delight exclusively.

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Women might not be as adept at viewing, or at least culling the field for viewing as men-men have had more practice-but we shouldn’t be surprised that the female taste in porn can be as varied and hardcore as many straight guys’ needs. There is no cliché softer dirty movie that a woman is going to take to as opposed to the gonzo stuff a guy will want. Both sexes can enjoy a wide variety of stuff, and gender does not inform how mild or wild a movie any one person is going to like.

These days we even get women directing movies, running studios as well as acting in films. Liberated on all fronts a modern lady can and will enjoy whatever her lusts bring her to and there really is no porn off limits to the fairer sex.

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The Joy of Dildos

Sunday, August 21st, 2011

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Dildos have been around as long as humanity could carve something into the shape of a cock and shove it up inside a hungry orifice. People are eager to fill their empty holes and so they create something to do the job when biology is not available to fill the need. There’s nothing like a real flesh and blood cock, but sometimes we have to enjoy a substitute for whatever reasons, and held in the hands of a loving sex partner or being thrust on by the strap on dildo worn by a fuck buddy can make one imagine it is damn close to real. Passion and intimacy after all are what create so much of our pleasure. And by ourselves we can let our minds wander and imagine anything happening while we play with our toys.

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Modern dildos are available in a variety of materials but for the most easy and free sex pleasure with a minimum of hassle we recommend the use of non-porous materials on sex toys. This ensures that no germs can linger inside the material and keep us from having a good time. On toys made from jelly rubber or other porous materials it is important to not share the toys or at least wear a condom on them to keep them from collecting unpleasant yeasts, germs or even sexually transmitted diseases just like a human genital organ. Non-porous materials available include silicone, steel, thick Pyrex glass, and even ceramics. Toys are available in a wide array of shapes and sizes. Some will look more like a realistic penis while others are more impressionistic shapes or could even be modeled after the genitals of fantasy creatures — tentacle porn afficianados will not be disappointed when they see the tentacle dildos that some clever toy makers have begun to create.

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Be careful not to insert toys into the ass which do not have a flared base, as this could cause embarrassing emergency room visits.

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Helping Her Come

Tuesday, July 19th, 2011

We all want to have satisfying sex, and though sometimes the urge is to simply get done and get our rocks off, especially for those of us who are men, this kind of rush to the finish causes problems. It can leave our women unsatisfied and when they are unsatisfied they are unlikely to want to come back to us after a while, leaving us instead for someone more considerate they met through adult personals or a best friend who just wants to see them have an orgasm. Even more than that, when both people are concerned about each other’s sexual pleasure it actually results in both lovers feeling more fulfilled, happy and satisfied without the guilt of utter selfishness.

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Many women are not able to have an orgasm through sexual penetration alone, contrary to what one may see on free porn videos. Even for the rare percentage of women who can come this way it is easier for them to have orgasms with direct clitoral stimulation. One can provide this on one’s own with a finger in the right position, or ask her to touch herself during fucking. It can be especially hot to watch her hand working between her legs while she’s giving one a blow job!

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Some women have never had an orgasm at all and if they do not know what they are going for it may be difficult to help them come in partnered fucking situations that one finds in adult dating. One of the best ways to help in this case is to encourage her to masturbate and touch herself in private, learning her own body better so she can better share it during intimacy. There are a number of books and videos available which are designed to help pre-orgasmic women learn to have satisfying climaxes alone and with a partner. A considerate lover might even purchase such a book as a gift.

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Blanket Approach

Wednesday, July 13th, 2011

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The majority rules and adult movie makers take it to heart when making adult sex videos. Most Porn makers use a blanket approach in creating what appeals to the largest audience. It is for that reason that they typically stick to a tried and true formula of girl is easy and willing, fuck her in these positions. The actors may change but the action will remain the same. Foreplay is something you save for your girlfriend, it isn’t something that you see in sex videos. It isn’t why the guy buying the movie is there.

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He wants to see the participants get right down to it. There might be a brief period of oral sex as one or the other, most usually first the girl goes down on the guy. They switch up again very briefly and then the fucking begins. There are three or four positions which offer the best camera angle and occasionally another brief period of oral sex. Finally there is the climax which features the guy pulling his cock out and masturbating until  he cums all over the face and tits of the waiting woman on her knees. She is usually begging for it. There may be the occasional scene featuring anal sex but that isn’t as popular as cream pie shots. This if it aint broke don’t fix it formula has proven bank. It gives the guy watching the movie plenty of action for his money and because the scenes have the most popular positions and money shots the audience is going to find something that gets them hot and bothered enough to buy another movie with the same actors.

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For the regular porn watcher the formula becomes a problem since once you’ve seen one you’ve seen them all. But sometimes familiar is a good thing like with the parody sex movies. Young men like to revisit familiar sitcoms and movies with an adult flair. After all the Brady sex parody had guys all buying it because everyone wanted to bone Marsha.

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Some Manscaping Could Mean More Blowjobs

Monday, June 27th, 2011

Guys should take a little time to do a bit of manscaping and trim their pubic hair a little bit to impress the ladies. Women have been expected to keep their pussies shaved or trimmed for years now, and they’re enjoying the trend that’s getting popular with men shaving or trimming as well. Some straight guys seem to be resisting the idea of doing some weed-whacking because they feel it makes them a little too metrosexual (which makes some men uncomfortable, even though it doesn’t really mean anything but neat and tidy) or even worse maybe a little bit gay, but the truth is it’s clean and smooth and a lot of women really love it. It doesn’t make a guy anything. It makes him a guy who really enjoys it when women want to be near his cock, and a lot of women are more into being close to a guy’s cock when he’s got a nice, neat area for them to enjoy. It could mean a lot more blowjobs because women hate getting hairs caught in their throat just as much as men hate it. A woman going to subconsciously think that it’s more clean and sanitary, which is going to inspire them to spend a lot more time in the area.

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Since it is getting much more popular, women are starting to get used to it. Imagine how surprised a guy would be if a woman stripped and had a really full bush. Women are starting to feel the same way. Doing a bit of manscaping makes a guy’s hard cock look really great, and sometimes it makes a guy look even larger and longer because the area look so sleek and neat.

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If a guy is thinking about doing this for the first time, there are some tools that are better than others. Scissors can be used, but it’s not recommended. Electric trimmers are perfect for uniformly trimmed hair. For total removal, a new razor and plenty of shaving cream will do the trick. Soak in the tub or shower for a while to soften the hair before getting started, and trimming with an electric razor first might make the job a little easier. Hair removal creams are not a good idea because they can be pretty harsh and burn sensitive skin

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Safe Sex

Saturday, June 18th, 2011

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It’s a myth that there was ever once a time when fucking was safe. There has always been risks for sexual activity, no matter the age of the participants, from difficult childbirths and poor medical care to all sorts of diseases, these days the risks from unprotected sex and risky sexual activities can be very risky if not outright fatal. The important thing to remember about safe sex that the most dangerous thing is not any one activity but being ignorant about what is safe and what isn’t. Unprotected sex of any kind; oral or vaginal; but anal sex is extremely risky and even protected and with all kinds of precautions and such accidents can still happen and because anal sex also has the possibility of blood and body fluid mixing it is especially risky for many serious diseases or illnesses such as HIV and hepatitis.

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Even other types of sexual activity, like oral sex, that may appear to have a lower risk have their own issues and problems. Herpes, for instance, can easily be spread by oral sex of all kinds and once you get herpes there simply is no getting rid of it. Beyond illnesses practicing safe sex is also key to avoid unplanned pregnancies. Unfortunately, many men and women have far too many inaccurate if not outright wrong beliefs about pregnancy, believing that certain times are safe when they simply are not; or that they may be statistically less likely but still carry other risks such as transmission of sexual illnesses or such. Education is the best defense against any unwanted complications from fucking and sucking we might not want to encounter. Condom use, dental dams and so many other approaches will keep us safe.

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So take the time to be as informed as you can be about sexual illnesses, risks, safe sex practices, and pregnancy. As the old saying goes: no sex is worth dying over and if you do it right you can have great and safe sex for a very long time, have multiple partners and enjoy all kinds of activities. From kinks to straight vanilla sex we should enjoy how hot we get and how hot we can get another person, and with a little caution we can enjoy it all.

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Awakenings

Wednesday, June 8th, 2011

A lot of men talk jokingly about having ‘morning wood.’ It is a real phenomenon- lots of people, male and female wake up horny. When alone, it is a perfect time to rub one out and get the morning started right. When waking up with a partner, the fun morning sex possibilities are duly multiplied.

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It is always good to check with a new lover to see if he or she likes being awakened with sex. For some, it is the best thing in the world. For others, not so much. Sleep in and of itself is a valuable commodity. Guys who do like a sexual sensation first thing in the morning almost always will appreciate the feeling of a nice pair of lips and a warm, wet mouth wrapping around their nice, stiffening dick. A guy may enjoy lying back and enjoying a soft, slow blowjob, or he may start to get into it and want to blow a load fast. Hey may buck his hips for a good mouth-fucking or want to enter for a good morning fuck.

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Women certainly appreciate talented lips and tongues as well, and would often be just as happy to be awakened by some fine cunnilingus in progress. Some women may want to warm up to that point a bit by having the partner start off slowly with some sweet caresses and kisses until she is more roused, and aroused. This is not the case with all women. Some are just as ready to have someone dive right in.

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Use of a vibrator is a great way to wake up a sleepy, likely ready-to-go partner. When being awakened, many people aren’t ready to take a super active role in sex, so a sex toy is the perfect solution. A regular cylinder shaped vibe or a specifically designed clit vibe can be great for a sleepy woman. Her partner need only spread her legs a little bit, apply to her clit, and let her writhe in pleasure. For the guys, having a Fleshlight or similar toy pussy style vibe is just the thing to make him happy. Just lube it up, get his dick nice and hard, slip it on and vibrate him until he shoots his morning load.

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On Our Whims

Tuesday, June 7th, 2011

While many sex-perts would love to be able to define every one of our reactions, fetishes and moves by our abuses or true motivations, for the most part our sexual mind is made up from some very deep desires and passing needs even we can’t truly decipher. As many people with a brittle self esteem and faulty early sex life clutch to the varieties present in the power struggle of BDSM sex, as they do regular vanilla fucking. Many lesbian women have had hetero relationships that led them to decades of marriage and for every guy out there looking for a homosexual romance, just as many are hetero; and there are no reasons for any of this behavior.

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What has come before has made us what we are, but it is more important who we are presently and how we engage our lover and they us. If our sex life brings us pleasure and the person we sleep with is as satiated, we can’t really hold on to the past, abuse or not.

It’s too easy to follow a straight line from a supposed slight or even some terrible tragedy to our actions presently, but the human mind doesn’t work so easily in cause and effect. Simply because someone engages in sex that maybe is seeming harmful doesn’t mean they have been harmed in the past, just as much as a woman courting a rape fantasy doesn’t have to working out a past abuse every time she has sex;then again, maybe she is.

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We simply can’t make those assumptions about our partners, even if they offer explanations; who really knows their own mind all that well to explain every single one of their sexual desires?

Our preferences or prejudices, our passing needs or our long-term fetishes all that we are sexually is a conundrum we will not soon fathom, nor will our friends, family or lovers ever truly need to understand if all actions are consensual and fuel the romance morethan slow it down.

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From day to day all we can do is follow our whims, hope they might match someone we find in real life or even across some on-line dating site and that we can all find peace in whatever piece we need.

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O yes

Wednesday, May 18th, 2011

What makes a person want to cum is as individual as the foods they like and don’t like. What about power? Power is sexy in many ways. The tamest lover can feel a rush of triumph when their partner explodes in to Orgasm. Power mixed with tenderness others take it a little further.

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Using rope to restrain the hands and so that self pleasuring is not and option. simulating and teasing to make sure that when the tied partner had a release there is no doubt who gave it. That is the power in giving pleasure and for many it is way better the receiving. This is a more common form of sex play then is widely thought. Step beyond this into orgasm torture and there is no avoiding that power is the turn on for both people involved. The pure cross over into bondage and dominance has arrived.

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Orgasm torture is the act of over loading or denying orgasmic pleasure until the recipient is moved to tears and evasion tactics that are thwarted. The top puts themselves in the control position and gets joy from keeping them wanting. The bottom gets the gift of being able to let go and have no choice but to take it. The high is the same for both. Power both the having of it and the surrendering of it. Not all people take love play to such extremes but it is true that on some level all people play with power during sex.

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Some partners get off on having there yes won in bed. If they say not until I tell you yes and then hang on to that yes until you are about to explode that’s a very common form of play. In a milder form then even that is when your partner asks you to tell them that you want them. Power again. Why not the power in your partner is what makes the sparks fly.

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The Power is in Your Hands

Saturday, May 14th, 2011

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There was a time when incredible numbers of women didn’t even know how to make themselves come. Today, lots of women buy sex toys and masturbate in any way they’d like when they are alone, but the minute they get in bed with someone else, it is as if they are at that partner’s mercy. Men and women alike should learn to be more vocal about their orgasm during partner sex.

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Some myth busting is always in good order when talking about masturbation and communication during sex. Some people seem to feel that telling a lover what makes them feel good in bed is like saying that they don’t know what they’re doing. In truth, most lovers want to know, and some are even especially turned on to hear their partner tell them. You can try it in a matter-of-fact way, or by talking dirty, which could be where extra excitement lies. However you try it, the communication and honesty that it takes to talk about what hurts or makes you uncomfortable, what gets you almost there, and what sends you cascading over the edge into pure pleasure can help make good relationships better and great relationships awesome.

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There also ought to be no shame in showing a partner exactly how you like it. It could be done in a way that explicitly asks them to touch you in a certain way, or it could be by the act of masturbation during the sexual encounter of its own accord. Again, grasping and stroking your cock or diddling your clit in the middle of having sex with another person is no insult to their prowess. It is simply acknowledging that stimulation in that certain spot would be perfect at that moment. A lover can learn from what you do. He or she could take over the action, or be fabulously excited watching their hot sex partner jack off to wild oblivion.

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At the end of the day, what you want to have are satisfied bodies and a healthy relationship based on trust and positive intention. Holding back and not cumming because you are trying to be polite does not move toward those goals. Partners should take the power into their own hands for extra joy.

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