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Women Who Do Video

Wednesday, March 9th, 2011

Some women enjoy the portrayals of women in porn, but many others do not. Especially for women who have sex with women in real life, sometimes the porno version of sex can seem pretty artificial.

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Forget about the barely-there plot concepts for most porn video— no one really needs too much of a story anyway. For many women (and feminist-conscious men, for that matter), the interactions just don’t ring true. Women seem rather artificial and tailored to porn images of what a sexy woman should be, silicone tits and all. Some women who endeavor to make lesbian and bisexual porn of their own have found a niche that is sexy and shows some essential truths about women and their erotic lives.

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First of all, women of varying shapes and sizes may be portrayed. Abandoning the bleach blonde bimbo image or the overly skinny with big boobs look, Women-for-Women who make their own porn might like a woman with a little more booty. They may enjoy seeing women of different, non-stereotyped cultural backgrounds getting into it. Exceptionally important is the portrayal of different genders. The gender normative look and behavior for women is far from all that’s really out there. In W4W porn, you could find a femme topping a soft butch, two BBW with short hair getting it on, a butch-femme coupling, an all-female orgy, or even a femme-on-femme scene, but one where the women look and act like real people.

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Women who should video do it for a reason – to add voices and erotic images to the canon that better reflects them. They presumably want to produce erotica that turns them on. In that quest, showing scenes that are genuinely hot is an important part of the enterprises. The level of arousal in the women is usually palpable. Sounds of sex, the way bodies react to touch, the portrayal of cunnilingus all look and feel like those women want to be with each other, producing happy, powerful orgasms together. There is pussy licking and sex toys, used in a way that as the vibrator enters the well-lubed pussy, it is obvious that is feels good. Sounds of approval are resonant and abundant. Women who do women know how to show it to the rest of us.

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Masturbation Serenity

Monday, March 7th, 2011

tumblr_lf7ng676n21qzck00o1_500What some people may consider a self-indulgent activity while watching free porn, masturbation may be —even more than they anticipated.

Masturbation is not only a great way to get off when you’re horny and alone, but it might be your way into a meditative state, or into the deep Self, if you will. All kinds of sounds and activities can help produce the mind states associated with meditation or trance.

Stroking the bat or petting the cat might be the perfect method for those who easily link sexuality with spirituality.

Repetition is one condition that is known to help a person tune into a place of stillness in the mind or body. That repetition can come from sound, as in meditation music that has a quieting pattern, or from the chanting of a mantra. Saying an affirmation every day to yourself in the mirror is a kind of repetition that evokes a light trance state and feelings of positivity.

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Masturbation is a powerful tool for repetition and positivity. There is repeating motion in the hand as on pleasures their genitals. There are the waves of pleasure themselves which repeat in their own patterns and obviously produce good feelings. By getting into a state of slowly building pleasure, a person can find a psychological realm that feels like a peaceful trance-like experience.

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In this form of masturbation, the goal is not immediate orgasm. Take your time. Allow yourself to be in the journey toward climax, a journey that could last for hours. By approaching orgasm then backing off from your repetitive hand movements, you can not only stay in the peaceful realm, but build and build the powerful sexual energy. Some people call the getting close and backing off edging while the state of mind that can occur in being so close to orgasm for an extended time is called gooning.

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This practice can be done anywhere you normally relax. If you like to jill or jack off in a warm, scented oil bath, try this method there. If you stroke it in bed watching sex videos before sleeping, go to bed early and try this with enough time to make it last a while. Once you are finally going to allow yourself to cum, get ready for some amazing feelings. You will have a phenomenal release.

To Sleep Perchance To…

Sunday, March 6th, 2011

Men and women really are at their warmest, most peaceful and possibly most alluring when they are sleeping. Lying down deep under our covers, breathing regular-even snoring- who could not be attracted to the quiet of our sleeping spouse or lover? All manner of worry and argument is quiet, all possible refusals muted, all manner of orifices open and warm.

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Many a hetero wife has reported waking to her man vigorously slipping his cock inside her or a guy has woken with a mouth locked around his slowly growing erection. The pure person is on display when we see, us in all our glory and without any true flash of our personalities good or bad.

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We can complain about bad morning breath all we want, the fact that we most probably need a pee when waking, even the funk and film eight hours leaves us with, but we are biologically predisposed to like all those funky warm smells. Akin to that musky warmth a wet pussy exudes when aroused, our deep scents of sleep are supposed to attract our lovers to us and us to them, we are supposed to wants to crawl beside them and spoon-at the very least-make love at the most, even when either of us might not be awake enough to respond. Many a lover who has snuck out of bed in the morning, brushed their teeth, splashed on some cologne or perfume to meet their lover lying still in bed all twisted under the covers in their morning film needn’t have bothered as sleep smells are really so alluring anyway.

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For most of us anyway our beds really are the temple of our sex lives and good feelings. Couple lay together many a nights to discuss their futures, hopes and dreams. Men and women can recall the moments of their wildest sexual escapades or their deepest clutching moments of love-making in this spot at the center of their intimate lives. We crawl into bed to be safe, to be closer, to sleep and to renew what our love and lust means to each other.

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Sleeping beauty’s little dwarfs had to have had many a nasty thought between them. The Internet might be a great place to meet people to masturbate over or maybe find a date from an on-line dating site, but nothing can replace the warmth of spooning lovers in bed rolling into one another in time to maybe catch an early morning quickie stolen before either partner has to get up for work!
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The Disembodied Cock

Saturday, March 5th, 2011

tumblr_lbjjauoMls1qeu5sfo1_500The older we get the more we notice …even if we don’t want to. Certainly our sexual vocabulary increases in what we want, how we want it, and what we know we must do to get it. We begin to notice the nuance of a touch, the sensuality of someone’s smile and how the way someone acts to and with us is the very best foreplay. We need the look and feel of body parts just as much as ever, but beyond the hubris of youth, a certain bloom is off the rose, not that we don’t still like looking at the rose, but the pedals and stem attract us just as much.

This is why the disembodied cock isn’t as attractive as it might have once been.

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Gay men and straight girls might be fascinated by the male member, but as they grow older, it depends more who the dick is attached to then it does the dick itself to inform the attractiveness of that dick. Used to be, one could marvel over a thick bulge and never raise one’s eyes to the face of the man who sported that heavy crotch; as one grows older, the crotch-no matter how attractive-does not exist independent from the man. Something shifts in our psyches as we feel a little seasoning and body parts, no matter how thick or long, are simply just body parts.

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In most cases, no matter their age, straight women never objectify male parts as much as straight men objectify a woman’s tits, ass …everything, part and parcel from the woman they are attracted to. Gay men to, because they have the same parts as their lover, do not have as much a fascination for objectification. It’s not to say any of us, whatever sex or sexual orientation, don’t enjoy looking at or touching the bounce, firmness, thickness, roundness or length of a specific naughty pink part from time to time, it’s just that as time wears on we are less apt to find only the part itself attractive separate from the person whose part it is, doubly so if one is a hetero or a gay man who didn’t really objectify all that much to begin with.

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Though certainly championed in advertising and in porn, regardless of size, the cock itself means very little to anyone truly unless attached to a man whom one wants to know.

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Latex

Friday, March 4th, 2011

06Latex rubber is used most often in the fetish world as a form of clothing. It binds tightly to the body, hides very little and looks sleek enough to remain pleasing to the eye. Often seen in fetish clubs, latex appears so sleek that it looks like a second skin on many people. It has its own dedicated magazines and group following.  It’s actually a subculture of rubber fetishism.

Latex picks up body oils and retains warmth quite well so it should be noted that a dressing aid may be useful in helping the wearer put on the clothing. Talcum powder or some lubricant such as petroleum jelly will help guard against potential allergic reactions all while making it easier to put on the clothing.Latex clothing comes in a variety of fashions, sizes, shapes and colors. Everything from thongs, latex lingerie and bras have been made from latex all the way to the full body suit. Boots, gloves, masks and body suits found their way into the Fetish scene, giving the wearer a different look than the usual matte leather.

Most common articles of clothing include bondage mittens, hoods, goggles, ball gags, garter belts, boots, and even the daunting body bag.  Oils, metals, extreme sunlight, and sharp objects should be kept away from latex as it’s a fairly durable material. Proper storage of latex involves keeping your garments in black bags hunt in cool, dark places away from extreme temperatures. Latex should be cleaned shortly after wearing to remove any body oils that it has been exposed to. Rinse the garment well in warm water. Some manufacturers recommend using a mild soap, while others suggest only water. Hang on a plastic or wood hanger to dry, or lay flat to dry.

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The garment can be wiped gently with a soft towel to decrease drying time if desired. When one side is dry, turn inside out and let the other side dry as well. When completely dry, separate any latex that has stuck together and lightly dust the garment with talc to prevent any further sticking. Some will use a small amount of silicone dressing aid instead.  It is not recommended to store light and dark latex garments in direct contact as this can discolor the light latex.

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Deserving a Spanking

Tuesday, March 1st, 2011

phap3699The art of corporal punishment more commonly known as spanking is one that many couples enjoy, to varying degree. For some there’s nothing sexier than a red hot ass where the nerves have opened up and blood has rushed to the area, others like the idea, patter, clothes and cause-and-effect a good spanking gives.

The ass is mostly muscle, so it’s harder to hurt than other body parts. It’s also one of the strongest muscles in the human body. It’s also one of the most talked about features of the human body. No man or woman can resist a hot, well-muscled or tight ass on the partner of their choosing. With all the nerve endings in the ass and around the anus in particular, it’s no wonder spanking fetishes are popular in sexual culture.

The fetish itself is versatile. It can be involved in role play: The priest and naughty nun, the school marm and student, principal and teacher, even babysitter and her charge. What’s taboo to one person is often highly sexualized to another and there is no denying that a power exchange, even something as subtle as a man ordering his lover’s meal on a date as his lover acquiesces to the this attention, is sexy.

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Some psychiatrists suggest that love of spanking stems from childhood issues and for many that may be true. Others simply find the fetish to be an extreme turn-on. It’s gender neutral, which means both men and women can get something out of it. For women, the feeling of helplessness and submission makes her wet, because it stimulates those nerve endings. The anticipation of sexual intercourse from contact of one of her erogenous zones heightens the sensation for her. If a woman takes on the dom role, she might be playing in a way she usually doesn’t in life, being aggressive or demanding in ways she would never dream of.

For men, turning a sweet, hot bottom pink is more about control and dominance in addition to maybe getting laid…if the guy plays dom. A man giving up control, allowing himself to be bare-bottomed and swatted is a good release to, as many men have to play a more dominate role in their everyday lives.

Overall, all this attention on the bottom truly uses this most erogenous zone to its fullest.  Watch some spanking porn to get the idea of what sort of possibilities are out there.  Unlike other zones such as the breasts and back of the neck, the sexual arousal nerves in the bottom are buried in a layer of fat and require harder stimulation to trigger and this is why spanking is an obvious choice.

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Nipple Clamps

Tuesday, March 1st, 2011

porn_sex_cartoonThe creative application of sex toys into making love often has the effect of increasing of sexual pleasure, no matter what kind of a toy one is using. One of the ways to decide what kinds of sex toys to purchase is by figuring out what parts of the body are a turn to us individually. Nipples are a great place to begin, since both women and men have them! Also, they can be used alone while masturbating for added pleasure.

Some people will use common household objects, like clothespins or binder clips to stimulate their nipples, though they are not as sexy as store-purchased tit clamps or fully fledged nipple clamps. It’s also more difficult to regulate the pressure on the nipples with those household objects and since the nipple are a sensitive area-and usually on the smaller side-most people who play with nipple stimulation on a regular basis to recommend nipple clamps as the safest way to go.

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Nipple clamps are a great toy for either men or women. Click here to see a Sexy brunette with big tits get pinched! There are several types nipple: some have sliding adjustable bands of steel, and others have a small screw-like contraption that are often found on heavier clamps. The tip of nipple-clamps are also good to check. There are smaller, tweezer-like nipple-clamps that are designed to pinch. Wider mouths on nipple-clamps give broader pressure that is felt all across the nipple. This variety in sensations is a good idea.

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One of the ways to decide what are the best nipple-clamps for a person’s individual tastes is to look at the nipples that the clamps will be used on. Are the nipples small and pebble-like? Are they large and firm? Also, how have the nipples reacted with other kinds of foreplay? Do the nipples harden quickly with just a lick of a tongue, or are they slow to arouse over time with a concentrated attention?

Some nipple-clamps are attached by a chain. The chain provides a place to hang additional objects, which give more weight to the clamps, especially if the person wearing them is standing up – just the gentle sway of walking can add stimulation and additional delectable delights. The chain can also be placed in a mouth, and tugged like a leash during masturbation or sex.

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Girls don’t often think of using nipple-clamps on their boyfriends, but just like women’s nipples, men’s nipples are sensitive. They can often take more pain or pressure than women’s nipples, which is important to think about when purchasing nipple-clamps. Heavier clamps that can be secured firmly are best.

The Top Places To Bear It All And Go Naked

Monday, February 21st, 2011

Feb 17 orgasm.com1So, you made a New Year’s resolution to do something out of the ordinary this year. Your 9 to 5 job is getting the best of you and you feel like it’s time to hang up your workday attire for something a bit more comfortable and sexual. No we’re not talking about porn, we referring to the top clothing optional places in the world where you can shed your inhibition and show those private parts:

Naked Cycling: Held annually since 2004 in cities all around the world, people basically ride around naked to celebrate cycling and the human body. It’s not just about baring your bod, it also shows the vulnerability of cyclists on the road and a protest against car culture.

Naked hot springs bathing: In Tokyo, Japan, foreigners are able to strip down naked at this bath house and experience the therapeutic traditions of soaking in natural mineral rich hot springs.

Naked spa treatments for singles and couples: Open your senses and drift into an all nude wonderland at the Ayana Resort Bali and Spa in Indonesia.

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Naked sauna: Kotiharjun Sauna in Helsinki Finland in the only public wood burning sauna in the world and dates back all the way to 1928. You can enjoy the heat while experiences a scrub down and massage. The only downside; there are separate saunas for men and women which is a rule so there is not way to see naked girls.

Naked art festival: The world body painting festival which runs from June 27 to July 3 in Austria has been held annually since 1998. It is the biggest are event in the body painting theme in the world.

Naked city: Wouldn’t it be nice to go to the bank and grocery store naked every day while looking at all the beautiful french women baring it all. Well, visit Cap d’Agde, France, where the entire town is clothing optional.

Naked beach: Haulover beach in Miami is one of the very few government sanctioned clothing optional beaches in the US. This place is ideal for surfing and swinging, and let’s not forget looking at the gorgeous Miami women strutting their stuff.

Naked cultural event: Burning Man runs from August 29 to September 5 and is in the middle of the dessert in Nevada. It has been held annually since 1986 and is described by the people who attend as an experiment in the community of radical self expression, and self reliance. Not too mention a lot of public sex and orgies.

Shaving The Beaver

Monday, February 14th, 2011

Shaving your girlfriend’s pubes can be an experience more gratifying than stumbling across a quality free porn site. However, going about this ancient skill requires confidence and a certain know-how that not every man is blessed with. Failure to perform this correctly could result in something I like to call (UPC) – that’s short for unfounded pussy complex. Doing it correctly on the other hand, will ensure that your ladie’s vag is trimmed to your exact specifications and that sex will be that much hotter. Read on for a breakdown :

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Required Prep-Work - First things first, do not just jump into it and casually ask if you can shave her beaver. That is relationship suicide. She will either think you’re a total pervert with some weird pube fetish or she’ll take it an insult that her vag is too bushy. Start by complimenting it with words like: sexy, pretty and delicious. Calling it a “pretty fish taco” won’t do. You can then proceed to give her enough oral sex to prove just how into her you really are.

Suggest By Example – One of the best ways to get your girl comfortable with the idea of a bare beaver is by displaying your neatly trimmed package in all its glory. After all, you can’t expect her to fall into you shenanigans if you can’t even handle your own bush. Once that’s taken care of, bring up your newly trimmed nut-scruff and try to get her opinion on it. Ask her if it made sex feel any better and if you should stick to that “hairstyle” from now on. This talk will eventually lead her into asking you about her own bush, in which case you finally suggest playing barber.

Time To Party – Now that you’ve gotten her ready to slip into the shower or bathtub, it’s time to make your move. Make sure to keep a razor around so you don’t have to casually leave to go grab one (new blade, preferably). That would just look sad. Now, have her sit with her ass between your thighs and proceed to apply plenty of shaving cream. As for direction, always go for grain down. You don’t want to end up cutting her lady bits.

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Bad Sex Moves

Monday, February 7th, 2011

It’s tough to tell a man how to do something right, especially because the guys think they’re getting the chicks off when they actually aren’t! In a recent survey, females were sakes what separates “normal/good” sex from “mooned blowing” sex. Here’s what over 50 chicks said were the most common mistakes men make between the sheets:

Asking to have sex: asking a girl to have sex is like asking your mother if you can have a girl over at your own apartment. When you ask, you immediately show a lack of confidence and control. Instead, work her up with basic touching and kissing. She will stop you if she doesn’t want sex.

Giving her a hickey: She’s guaranteed to feel like a cheap hooker sporting her new temporary sex tattoo the next day at the office. Only the inexperienced leave hickeys. Avoid this by going mouth wide around her neck and working in your tongue. Slowly close your lips until your kissing it.

Not going down on her: You simply aren’t a man if you don’t go down on your lady. The majority of female orgasms are orally induced and for chicks, unforgettable sex includes great oral sex.

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Rushing through foreplay: Sex is like an epic movie, it’s best when you have the proper build up of tension leading to a climactic explosion. By skipping foreplay, you limit your chance of creating an Oscar worthy performance. You need to slow the fuck down, she isn’t going anywhere. You should spend at least 10 minutes teasing her and building her up.

Not having a condom in arms reach: You’ve done it right with the foreplay and now she is begging for it, but instead, you’re scuffling around on the floor like a dog looking for a condom. Every second that passes is another second her excitement fizzles out. If you’re at your place, have condoms stashed between your mattress. If you’re at her place, have one in your back pocket.

Fucking like a rabbit: Maybe once or twice it’s natural to get carried away after a night of one too many tequila shots and you need to jack hammer to finish, but, other than that, it’s a rookie move. Start slow and actually allow her to feel what’s going on. Increase speed intervals every 20 seconds or so.

Not switching positions: By moving in and out of positions, she will remember your sex as action packed and wild. After a minute or so in any position, gauge how she is reacting. If she’s into it, continue, if she’s not, move on.

Being too quiet: Silence is a sure sign well, sex is boring. Although she doesn’t want you shouting like a German porn star, she wants validation through your vocal involvement. Mix in some moans, groans, and deep breathing. Whisper in her ear and let her know that you’ve been thinking about fucking her since she arrived.

Asking where to cum: She’s no idiot. If you ask her where you should finish, it is a sure indication you are hoping she’s beg for a cum facial. However, the majority of women don’t find your semen as delightful as you think. Finish in your condom or on her stomach.

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