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Wednesday, April 20th, 2011
Women have it great when it comes to clothes in general, because they can wear all kinds of bright colors, beautiful prints, and soft, sensual fabrics. They have all kinds of choices that men don’t have when it comes to clothes, and that is also true when it comes to lingerie and fetish wear. Go to any BDSM convention, and the vendors area is loaded with gorgeous clothing choices for women in beautiful colors and fabrics, but the men’s choices are much more limited. There might be a vendor or two that sell kilts in leather and other fabrics, and some of the leather shops can make leather pants, vests and chaps, but that tends to be the extent of the choices for men. Most guys show up at conventions with black jeans and a variety of black shirts with their favorite black leather boots, a black leather vest and maybe a great black leather belt.
Women don’t even have to purchase pre-made clothing for fetishwear. They can usually put together interesting outfits from the things they already have in their closets. A suit jacket with beautiful bra and panties, a garter belt and stockings and high heels makes a perfect outfit. A leather belt over the jacket can make her look a little more authoritative if she’s a Domme. Thigh high or crotch high boots are always sexy with anything short; a suit jacket, a long camisole top, a satin and lace chemise. Sometimes mixing the satin and lace of mainstream lingerie with stark leather pieces from the BDSM world can be a really great contrast that looks really hot and will have male submissives coming out of the woodwork to try and get the lady’s attention. For women who tend toward very classic and vintage styles, vintage girdles and slips can be a very hot look. Vintage fashion – lingerie, clothing and shoes – is actually a very popular fetish. There are always shoe vendors at the conventions that carry vintage style shoes to wear with all the great vintage looks that are found easily on the internet. Women who love the leather look can look at leather corsets, bras, thongs, skirts and even garter belts. Leather is always a great choice for fetishwear, and one can never go wrong with black anything, especially leather.
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Saturday, April 16th, 2011
For many a couple the eroticism of water; having sex in it, playing with it, even the buoyancy of how it carries and lifts our bodies, is very intense. The very specific physical nature of floating in water while fucking, naked bodies sliding this way and that in the shower or under a pool, even the coolness or heat felt as certain liquids are tickled across certain body part, truly makes water one of the most sexual of all elements. The cliché couple rolling across a sun-kissed beach while waves splash them, or two people frolicking in a pool matches well to the sloshing sounds of water breaking over its container or the orgasmic crash of waves smashing against a rocky shoal. We are one with water as much from our being as to our sexuality.
From the steamy surrounds of hot tub sex to masturbating with a shower head, to the deep fetishes of water sports of piss and scat, to the sensation arousal of lighting a bare buttock with a spray of cool water before spanking it, or a woman going down on her man with ice-cubes In her mouth, all the forms of water at all its various temperatures is arousing to lovers, from gay to bi to straight couples. A quick perusal of on-line sites will reveal just as many fetishes and sexual escapades with water as without.
Better in then out though, water presents a host of problems as a lubricant and should not be introduced into the vagina or anus. A woman’s natural wetness is as much washed away by water as a man will find jerking-off in the shower nearly impossible-certainly more abrasive then arousing-if he uses the needle spray as a lubricant. Though we are made up of 70% water and can be mightily aroused by it, sticking to silicone lubes or any other variation of other safe liquids beats water-based lubes every time.
The actual act of making-love in or around water-considering we are clutched close so not much water can come between us-possibly cooling or heating breasts, buttocks or testicles with a nice fast splash or finding romance with the rolling of the sea beyond are all ways water fuels the sexiness in our sex lives.
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Friday, April 15th, 2011
You don’t have to be a porn star to swallow. The average male semen contains roughly 0.1 and 100 milliliters of sperm and holds a fascination for both men and women in the form of swallowing semen. As far as consistency and taste go, that is usually the issue in question when it comes to whether a partner swallows or not.
The fetish of swallowing traces its’ origins a long way back. Dating back to the Church of Epiphanius and other libertine Gnostics who swallowed sperm as the body of Christ, and a form of worship. The tribes of Papua New Guinea have culturally believed that semen provides sexual maturity among the younger men of the tribe. The practice of fellating the elders in order to gain their authority and power is held for prepubescent and post pubescent men of the tribe. This practice may also relate to practiced homosexuality in these tribes.
Dietary supplements have been on the market for a number of years as a way to increase the volume of semen provided in a man. None of these supplements have been validated by the scientific community.
The typical makeup of ejaculation consists primarily of water but also contain every nutrient needed by the human body in order to function properly. A typical dosage of semen contains at least 150 mg of protein, 11 mgs of carbohydrates and other trace minerals. The only risks involved in swallowing cum are those of fellatio such as transmission of STDs between unclean partners.
While there is no hardcore scientific evidence in changing the taste of semen, many people swear diet has an influential factor in shaping the taste. Red meats, tobacco and alcohol typically infuse a bitter or acrid taste while coffee and teas also do nothing to aid in the taste. Fresh fruits and vegetables, while good for the body are also believed to sweeten the taste significantly. Prolonged times between ejaculation intervals are also said to contribute to the volume of semen produced and shot out.
Sexual practices of swallowing have gone so far to include bukkake from the Japanese culture, cream pies, snowballing and felching, which may involve more than one partner. Aleister Crowley and the Ecclesia Gnostica Catholica practice swallowing semen during Gnostic Mass as a way to gain spiral power from the Divine.
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Tuesday, April 12th, 2011
An exhibitionist has the desire to show off sexually in front of others. A male exhibitionist may get off on whipping out his cock for an unsuspecting person to see, and a female exhibitionist may enjoy going out wearing no underwear so when she spreads her legs, she shows her snatch. Some exhibitionists just want to get their jollies in front of other consenting adults, and that satisfies their show-off needs. For others, the turn-on is in surprising or even shocking someone unsuspecting. In this case, he or she would do well to spend a little time figuring out what level of risk is acceptable in order to pursue this unusual hobby.
One semi-safe way to be an exhibitionist is to take part in sexual acts within one’s own home. The other piece of this mode is common to some other methods as well; acting unsuspecting. This way, the official storyline is that the exhibitionist isn’t aware that anyone could see in. A couple having sex on their couch while the drapes just happen to be open toward the street is a good example of this mode. Someone may walk by and happen to see them, which would be extra exciting. Still, they haven’t targeted anyone in particular to be their viewers. There is some risk of a complaint, but it is probably relatively low.
The next step would be to take it outside. Again, the exhibitionist could pretend that no one is meant to see. Sitting in a beach chair in one’s semi-secluded backyard and deciding to masturbate, perhaps in semi-darkness, would be a higher level of risk. Still, the sexy adventurer would be on his or her own property, just squeezing one out in ‘private. The excitement might be heightened, but so is the risk of a neighbor’s complaint.
Taking it clearly into the public arena is what some exhibitionists crave. A guy who jacks his dick on a train is there to let someone see what he’s got. The great likelihood is that someone will get a view. This behavior is illegal. Some people would decide that the risk of legal action is not worth it. For others, doing it and getting away with it could be the thrill of a lifetime.
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Monday, March 7th, 2011
What some people may consider a self-indulgent activity while watching free porn, masturbation may be even more than they anticipated.
Masturbation is not only a great way to get off when youre horny and alone, but it might be your way into a meditative state, or into the deep Self, if you will. All kinds of sounds and activities can help produce the mind states associated with meditation or trance.
Stroking the bat or petting the cat might be the perfect method for those who easily link sexuality with spirituality.
Repetition is one condition that is known to help a person tune into a place of stillness in the mind or body. That repetition can come from sound, as in meditation music that has a quieting pattern, or from the chanting of a mantra. Saying an affirmation every day to yourself in the mirror is a kind of repetition that evokes a light trance state and feelings of positivity.
Masturbation is a powerful tool for repetition and positivity. There is repeating motion in the hand as on pleasures their genitals. There are the waves of pleasure themselves which repeat in their own patterns and obviously produce good feelings. By getting into a state of slowly building pleasure, a person can find a psychological realm that feels like a peaceful trance-like experience.
In this form of masturbation, the goal is not immediate orgasm. Take your time. Allow yourself to be in the journey toward climax, a journey that could last for hours. By approaching orgasm then backing off from your repetitive hand movements, you can not only stay in the peaceful realm, but build and build the powerful sexual energy. Some people call the getting close and backing off edging while the state of mind that can occur in being so close to orgasm for an extended time is called gooning.
This practice can be done anywhere you normally relax. If you like to jill or jack off in a warm, scented oil bath, try this method there. If you stroke it in bed watching sex videos before sleeping, go to bed early and try this with enough time to make it last a while. Once you are finally going to allow yourself to cum, get ready for some amazing feelings. You will have a phenomenal release.
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Sunday, March 6th, 2011
Men and women really are at their warmest, most peaceful and possibly most alluring when they are sleeping. Lying down deep under our covers, breathing regular-even snoring- who could not be attracted to the quiet of our sleeping spouse or lover? All manner of worry and argument is quiet, all possible refusals muted, all manner of orifices open and warm.
Many a hetero wife has reported waking to her man vigorously slipping his cock inside her or a guy has woken with a mouth locked around his slowly growing erection. The pure person is on display when we see, us in all our glory and without any true flash of our personalities good or bad.
We can complain about bad morning breath all we want, the fact that we most probably need a pee when waking, even the funk and film eight hours leaves us with, but we are biologically predisposed to like all those funky warm smells. Akin to that musky warmth a wet pussy exudes when aroused, our deep scents of sleep are supposed to attract our lovers to us and us to them, we are supposed to wants to crawl beside them and spoon-at the very least-make love at the most, even when either of us might not be awake enough to respond. Many a lover who has snuck out of bed in the morning, brushed their teeth, splashed on some cologne or perfume to meet their lover lying still in bed all twisted under the covers in their morning film neednt have bothered as sleep smells are really so alluring anyway.
For most of us anyway our beds really are the temple of our sex lives and good feelings. Couple lay together many a nights to discuss their futures, hopes and dreams. Men and women can recall the moments of their wildest sexual escapades or their deepest clutching moments of love-making in this spot at the center of their intimate lives. We crawl into bed to be safe, to be closer, to sleep and to renew what our love and lust means to each other.
Sleeping beautys little dwarfs had to have had many a nasty thought between them. The Internet might be a great place to meet people to masturbate over or maybe find a date from an on-line dating site, but nothing can replace the warmth of spooning lovers in bed rolling into one another in time to maybe catch an early morning quickie stolen before either partner has to get up for work!
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Saturday, March 5th, 2011
The older we get the more we notice
even if we dont want to. Certainly our sexual vocabulary increases in what we want, how we want it, and what we know we must do to get it. We begin to notice the nuance of a touch, the sensuality of someones smile and how the way someone acts to and with us is the very best foreplay. We need the look and feel of body parts just as much as ever, but beyond the hubris of youth, a certain bloom is off the rose, not that we dont still like looking at the rose, but the pedals and stem attract us just as much.
This is why the disembodied cock isnt as attractive as it might have once been.
Gay men and straight girls might be fascinated by the male member, but as they grow older, it depends more who the dick is attached to then it does the dick itself to inform the attractiveness of that dick. Used to be, one could marvel over a thick bulge and never raise ones eyes to the face of the man who sported that heavy crotch; as one grows older, the crotch-no matter how attractive-does not exist independent from the man. Something shifts in our psyches as we feel a little seasoning and body parts, no matter how thick or long, are simply just body parts.
In most cases, no matter their age, straight women never objectify male parts as much as straight men objectify a womans tits, ass
everything, part and parcel from the woman they are attracted to. Gay men to, because they have the same parts as their lover, do not have as much a fascination for objectification. Its not to say any of us, whatever sex or sexual orientation, dont enjoy looking at or touching the bounce, firmness, thickness, roundness or length of a specific naughty pink part from time to time, its just that as time wears on we are less apt to find only the part itself attractive separate from the person whose part it is, doubly so if one is a hetero or a gay man who didnt really objectify all that much to begin with.
Though certainly championed in advertising and in porn, regardless of size, the cock itself means very little to anyone truly unless attached to a man whom one wants to know.
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Tuesday, March 1st, 2011
The creative application of sex toys into making love often has the effect of increasing of sexual pleasure, no matter what kind of a toy one is using. One of the ways to decide what kinds of sex toys to purchase is by figuring out what parts of the body are a turn to us individually. Nipples are a great place to begin, since both women and men have them! Also, they can be used alone while masturbating for added pleasure.
Some people will use common household objects, like clothespins or binder clips to stimulate their nipples, though they are not as sexy as store-purchased tit clamps or fully fledged nipple clamps. It’s also more difficult to regulate the pressure on the nipples with those household objects and since the nipple are a sensitive area-and usually on the smaller side-most people who play with nipple stimulation on a regular basis to recommend nipple clamps as the safest way to go.
Nipple clamps are a great toy for either men or women. Click here to see a Sexy brunette with big tits get pinched! There are several types nipple: some have sliding adjustable bands of steel, and others have a small screw-like contraption that are often found on heavier clamps. The tip of nipple-clamps are also good to check. There are smaller, tweezer-like nipple-clamps that are designed to pinch. Wider mouths on nipple-clamps give broader pressure that is felt all across the nipple. This variety in sensations is a good idea.
One of the ways to decide what are the best nipple-clamps for a person’s individual tastes is to look at the nipples that the clamps will be used on. Are the nipples small and pebble-like? Are they large and firm? Also, how have the nipples reacted with other kinds of foreplay? Do the nipples harden quickly with just a lick of a tongue, or are they slow to arouse over time with a concentrated attention?
Some nipple-clamps are attached by a chain. The chain provides a place to hang additional objects, which give more weight to the clamps, especially if the person wearing them is standing up – just the gentle sway of walking can add stimulation and additional delectable delights. The chain can also be placed in a mouth, and tugged like a leash during masturbation or sex.
Girls don’t often think of using nipple-clamps on their boyfriends, but just like women’s nipples, men’s nipples are sensitive. They can often take more pain or pressure than women’s nipples, which is important to think about when purchasing nipple-clamps. Heavier clamps that can be secured firmly are best.
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Wednesday, February 9th, 2011
The subject of sex toys is no news to the folks at Orgasm. Having seen just about everything the market has to offer, coming across a product that makes us get up off our seats is reason for celebration. Most recently, a friend forwarded me a YouTube video marketing one of the most revolutionary male-oriented sex toys I have ever seen, the Tenga Egg. Ten minutes later and I had half a dozen of those bad boys on their way.
Following in the footsteps of products like the popular Fleshlight, the Tenga Egg is essentially a masturbatory aid that mimics a real-life pussy like nothing else. Encased in a plastic egg, the product itself consists of an ‘Onacup’ which is the name for a Japanese brand of artificial vaginas invented by the legendary Mr. Matsmoto in 2006. Since its release, it’s become so popular that it sold over two million units worldwide. Now that’s a whole lot of masturbating.
Understanding the product to the full of its abilities requires watching the video but in a nutshell, it basically consists of a jelly-like egg with a hole on one end. By adding some lube to its interior and ‘rim’, you can then proceed to stick your dick in there and go to town with your favorite free porn site, or without, whatever strikes your fancy.
Tenga eggs come in a variety of different ‘terrains’. What that means is that depending on your preference of bumps and grooves, you’ll be sure to always find something you like, or keep yourself entertained by trying them all.
For those who still need some convincing, read on for a couple of Tenga Egg facts that might help you place an order (or not):
- After personally testing out all of the different egg varieties, I can safely say that they are all different and provided me with different sensations. It’s like fucking a different woman everyday minus all the emotional baggage.
- The included lube is probably the best I’ve ever used. Highly recommended.
- It actually feels like you’re having sex or getting a blow-job. It definitely puts the fleshlight to shame.
- Being disposable, that means clean-up is as simple as tossing it in a bin; however, given that a ‘Tenga Egg Variety Pack’ (6 units) costs a whopping a $34.99, it will be the most expensive stick beating you’ve ever had.
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Friday, February 4th, 2011
Microsoft has just introduced their Kinect game for people who don’t get enough pleasure from just downloading porn like everyday common folk! Now the user is able to manipulate a disembodied digital reproduction of a hand and run it over digital representations of various buxom woman, in affect feeling-up the avatar as she rolls her hips on a what is really simply a cartoon couch in her cartoon world moaning in a her cartoon voice.
This is the next step in sex gaming according to the computer software giant.
Though hand amputee fetishists might find masturbatory pleasure with the Kinect, seeing as how a multimillion dollar porn industry is now a major presence on the web and men are locked in little cubicles all day working on the greatest and latest ways to get off with technology, it’s disappointing to say the least how unsexy the Kinect is. Certainly concessions must be made for this fledgling beta release and indeed full body interaction is promised in the future but even with what programmers call teledildonics, how real can this digital fucking ever get?
It might just be that we need to separate the gaming world, digital reproductions and even possible real time interfacing from our sex lives once and for all. When it comes to cock meeting pussy, mouth meeting tits or an old-fashioned gang-bang programmers and laymen alike might be chasing a dream that is impossible; to recreate all the wonderful varieties of sex in the digital realm. It might be foolhardy to try and make our games and digital life real and it might be dangerous to do so, even if the effort fails.
What is already happening is that men and women are substituting real life interactions, social outings, dating and certainly a sex life for what they find on-line. It is certainly easier to deal with people across a chat room, interact with a large group and even keep one’s identity anonymous, but is it better for us in the long run? Do we limit that our human-ness by only presenting a digital representation of ourselves, even when we’re only sexting? As we adapt our surroundings to meet our needs might we surround ourselves so expertly we stifle ourselves? Will we over time come to think that watching cam girls on line, chatting and masturbating, hooking up our private parts to some sort of device that will represent those parts in digital space is real or better sex then tickling someone’s skin, sipping coffee across from a date or feeling what a honest-to-goodness real blow-job is like?
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