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Bisexual Porn

Thursday, September 1st, 2011

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As technology continues to make the tools necessary to create adult video more accessible to everyone, so too does porn grow more diverse. Today niche web sites and video on demand web stores allow us to enjoy almost any fetish or taste, from anal sex to groups to body worship or BDSM. No matter what our tastes there is something out there to satisfy them. One growing part of the adult industry are the growing numbers of bisexual sex videos. Now, lesbian pornography has been around for some time. Though most is geared toward straight male viewers, there has been plenty of girl girl action to be enjoyed. Like wise, the two girl three some is such a common fantasy today that there are a wide variety of erotic films geared toward that subject matter, the menage a trois.

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However the field is diversifying even more with the addition of male bisexuality to its selections. In these films, two men and one or more girls get to have sex, and the combinations can be thrilling and spicy for those interested in this kind of thing. As a growing number of porn stars become open to this cross over sex, the options will grow even more in time. Some of the first films in this field feature plots where a man is reluctantly tricked into having sex with another man, coerced into it by their woman or led into it out of curiosity. But now as in so much x-rated media the plots are falling by the way side in favor of good old hard and fast fucking. Just think of the possibilities — two cocks in one girl’s mouth or one at each end. One man can lick both cock and cunt while the fucking of that cunt commences with vigor, wetness everywhere flowing.

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What fetishes will the adult industry cater too next? Only the future can tell us what exciting ways we’ll orgasm tomorrow.

Modern Bisexuality

Friday, August 19th, 2011

Bisexuals often have trouble being accepted. It wasn’t so long ago that any sexuality about from heterosexual missionary position sex designed to procreate was considered an aberration. Though put against the whole of human history, it is obvious that open sexual behaviors were common before modern repressive civilizations, we still think of the modern marriage as the normal way of relating. Is this really the most normal and natural human arrangement?

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Bisexuality has been popular at various times in the past. In some societies with less rigid definitions and therefore more free sex behaviors, bisexuality was the norm, or sex roles were defined in completely other ways such as the Native American two spirit or the Romans who defined it based on who received penetration and who gave it, regardless of the gender of the people practicing the actions — though a woman in a strap on would certainly have raised some eyebrows. In modern times it saw a brief popularity among the glam rock world, infamous for mythic liaisons between the likes of David Bowie and Iggy Pop. Perhaps human sexuality is more fluid than we thought.

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In modern times the confusing behavior of celebrities like Tila Tequila could be argued to back this up. She became infamous for having a reality television relationship show except that she was having both men and women compete for her affections. This went for two seasons of this behavior before she declared in 2009 that she was completely lesbian. Does this mean that she was lying all along? Instead it may suggest that human sexuality is fluid and may change over a person’s life, though the degree to which gender affects the expression of these kinds of queerness is still open for debate in some circles.

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Whatever the case it is clear we cannot simply define sexual behavior as a binary either or, with people clearly being straight or completely gay and remaining so all their lives. For many the truth is somewhere in between.

The Woman In Our Life

Wednesday, July 6th, 2011

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Even though the business of porn has changed over the years and there are many more audience members looking for a wider variety and that audience does include both gay and straight women, porn is still made by and made for an almost strictly heterosexual male audience.

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Hetero men are stimulated by watching girl-guy sex scenes or girl on girl sex scenes more than any other gender or sexual orientation and these guys buy and download porn. These guys will watch sex videos over and over again, usually to the consternation of a wife or girlfriend and in some cases come to regard these scenes as the very best sexual stimulant they have…in some cases in direct opposition to what their wife or girlfriend attempts in bed!

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Wives and girlfriends might sit down to watch a video or two, might even become aroused over them, might even masturbate over a scene capture when logging-on line from time to time, but for the most part for women, if they have a partner they want to be having sex with him, not watching a movie about sex.

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The one fact that women forget is that for men, fantasy-and this is strictly what sex videos provide, fantasy pure and simple-drives the train more than even physical sensation. Being locked-in to the visual of sex; how a woman’s specific parts look clothed or unclothes, what they look like when they move this way and that, the very fact that a man can regard the parts as parts, makes a man too dependent on his sight and therefore always a slave to what he sees. He cannot turn away from sex videos once he has seen them or at the very least from recreating scenes in his head in his everyday sex life. And since these scenes are fantastic, have no basis in the real world and men do not truly even want them in their real lives, a woman trying to recreate scenes from sex videos or feeling challenged by them attempts an uphill climb she will never summit.

Goin’ Out Packin’

Wednesday, June 29th, 2011

Butch and gender fluid women, as well as any woman who just wants to have some good queer fun might decide to experiment with cross dressing. When they do, they might choose to see what it’s like to put on the clothes of a suit & tie man, a hot guy from the hood, or a rock star. The real adventurous ones might take it to another level and decide to go out packin’.

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Packing in this context, is a slang term for wearing a strap on dildo. To go out while wearing one can give a woman an intense window into what it might feel like to walk the streets, check out chicks or dudes, while managing a raging hard-on. It can be an incredible turn-on.
Some women might really like this because it is an added challenge to trying to pass. If this is something they’re interested in, women have to pay a great deal of attention to manner of walking, sitting, and standing. Not everyone fits a stereotype, but certain sitting positions and ways of holding the body in space tend to belong to either the male or the female realms. A woman can study videos of men she admires or even take some cross-dressing instruction to get good at it.

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Mannerisms are important, but so are the clothes. A large-breasted woman will need to take some time figuring out how best to mask the boobs. Taping works for most, and can best be learned from another drag king if possible. Then, there’s the cock. Adding that to the mix may change the choice of clothing. It may be nice to have a little bulge. Unless the exercise is purely for exhibitionist purposes. She may want to find a way to make it a little more subtle than looking like a pitched tent.

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A few crossdressing women, especially if they like to do it for the stage, would like everyone to see that big bulge. For most, just the feeling of knowing that she has something a little extra between her legs is what the excitement is all about. Bonus fun: Out at the bar, she might brush against her lover, who will suddenly know what’s in store for playtime that night.

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Bisexual Porn Search

Monday, May 2nd, 2011

Science and the media may be confused about whether there are bisexual men as well as bisexual women but judging by the love of bisexual porn the desire to cross gender lines and sexual orientation is going strong. Of course the bisexual who is looking at pornography and x-rated movies has some special advantages because there is just so much more available.

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The Internet is full of free sex videos and never is that more true for the man or women who can receive orgasm by fantasizing about an gender! Of course one can enjoy the pleasures of simple lesbian x-rated movies or straight movies with men fucking women, or horny men ass fucking each other and all male orgies, blow jobs and circle jerks caught on film. These sex videos will be enjoyable but probably not as good as the truly bi porn movies which now exist.

A thriving subgenre of adult video depicts threesomes and bisexual hook ups and sex scenes. These films feature two men and a woman who engage in any number of fun sexual combinations, sex positions and orgasmic sex. Just oral sex alone allows for a number of fun scenarios. For example the two men could rub cocks together which is sometimes known as frottage while simultaneously getting a blow job from the woman. One man can be assfucked by the other man while the woman sits on his face and receives cunnilingus and the two on top can even kiss and have her nipples pinched by the man as he fucks and thrusts hard and between them the bottom squirts his jism all over their bodies.

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Some movies depict men who are having their first times or pretending too. That is they have always been bi-curious but take the encouragement of their girlfriends and the man she has brought home to encourage him to take that step into free bisexual sex fun.

Lesbian X-Rated Films

Friday, April 29th, 2011

It is a cliche that men are into lesbian sex. Men just love lesbians because they are two women together — those soft bodies which they so enjoy fucking are even better when doubled, two sets of breasts, two wet cunts, two assholes ready to be lubed and fucked for anal sex double pleasure. It’s not surprising that straight men love lesbian porn and love to jack off to orgasm from watching it.

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But what of the bisexual woman or lesbian who wants to watch some free porn videos? It is harder because actually a lot of the lesbian scenes in most porn geared toward straight men or at least heterosexual couples are faked. The women kiss with their tongues extended out far more than anyone could. The oral sex is just as bad, cunnilingus for the camera only. It is designed to look erotic with a good camera angle but the orgasms are just as fake as the lesbians themselves. Also these moves invariably show women together who are both very feminine. While it is not impossible to have two femmes dating each other, it is very rare to see any woman the least bit butch or dyke looking on sex videos on the Internet.

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XXX movies by women for women are beginning to appear, starring real lesbians together not just queer for the camera or gay for pay. These show a variety of things which might make the close minded heterosexual man uncomfortable, such as hot and hard strap on sex. Fisting can be popular in these films, sometimes called hand balling, where a woman slowly and carefully inserts her entire hand into the other woman’s pussy. A lot of lubrication and patience is necessary for successful fisting but especially when combined with clitoral stimulation it can make girls cum extremely hard. Visually speaking there is something undeniably erotic about watching an entire hand disappear into a cunt.

Fisting

Sunday, April 17th, 2011

leanna-sweetMany people have heard of fisting, also known sometimes as handballing, where the entire hand of one lover is inserted into the orifice of another. Vaginal fisting is of course where the entire hand is inserted into the cunt or pussy or vagina, while there is also anal fisting which involves inserting the whole hand — or even much of the arm — up the asshole.

Fisting can seem to one like a much more extreme sexual practice than it truly is in reality. For one thing, the practice is associated largely with sexual extremism or at least with lesbians and with gay men… for vaginal and anal practices respectively. One may also imagine that fisting causes terrible damage, causing huge loose gaping vaginas or assholes that can never tighten again or be enjoyed by others as they were before. Of course, one would have to wonder then why these practices are so common if so.

First off, fisting can be very safe. Tightness returns naturally to these orifices which are used to being stretched for various reasons. In any gender, it is a great idea to practice kegel exercises in order to strengthen the pelvic floor muscle that is responsible for tightening.

The next thing to know is that fisting is a sport that involves a lot of patience and a lot of lube. Getting a good personal or sexual lubricant for the job is crucial — a nice thick one which lasts a long time will help a lot.

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Next up, one should consider gloves for use in fisting. Latex gloves or non latex gloves for those with allergies, are a great choice. They add smoothness to the entire experience and retain lubricant much better — this has the double benefit of making it easier to fist someone but it also adds to clean-up, preventing santorum and other residue and it can also add to the pleasure of the recipient who may very much enjoy the slick texture. Skin has a tendency to pull in unpleasant ways sometimes.

The most important thing in fisting is to go very slow. Gently begin by fingering the pussy or asshole and then gradually, slowly, adding more fingers. Always be sure to reapply lubricant frequently, even with vaginal fisting one needs to be aware that one’s fingers will be blocking the flow of normal vaginal lubrication!

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Female Fetish

Wednesday, March 23rd, 2011

tumblr_lcnk7kYfe91qcoe22o1_500Some women ache to wear corsetry, lingerie and high heels in manner that goes beyond just wanting to dress-up and look pretty. Many a girl grows into her sexual awareness with more than just a passing fancy for the girdle she spied her older aunt wearing, or has more than just a passing thought for the leather of her handbag. These women, lesbians, straight or bi, might simply be fetishists.
Women, not just men, can have fetishes to. Some are medical-related fetishes, some are centered around clothes-though female fetishists don’t exactly mirror their male counterparts in getting wet for men in construction boots; while a guy might like to jerk-off to women in porn-ish high heels, some women simply grow aroused over objects that were linked to their budding sexuality. Even before she was fully aware of her libido, a woman might have tripped across some sort of sensual awareness linked to an object or activity, something not sexual at all, and, as is the case for all fetishes, one was created subconsciously. From that day onward, the women experienced sexual excitement over that object, stimulated in ways her waking mind was not even aware of. But the link colored her sexuality all the same.
Unlike male fetishists, women can easily take to complete dressing-up as a manifestation of their fetish. Both straight and gay ladies have been known to dress butch, as much as femmes enjoy the trappings of both modes of dress, to the point where it becomes their fetish, paralleling male transvestite’s fetishism for dressing in women’s clothing. Binding oneself in a corset and even inflicting self-cutting is seen as another form of female fetishism, with the latter being a most extreme case.

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And when a fetish does get extreme, or a woman cannot function without it, then therapy might be needed. An indulgent lover is one thing, amassing a big shoe collection another, but once a fetish becomes impossible for a woman to handle, then it might be time to put all the dressing-up and leather stroking into some sort of workable perspective.

Women Who Do Video

Wednesday, March 9th, 2011

Some women enjoy the portrayals of women in porn, but many others do not. Especially for women who have sex with women in real life, sometimes the porno version of sex can seem pretty artificial.

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Forget about the barely-there plot concepts for most porn video— no one really needs too much of a story anyway. For many women (and feminist-conscious men, for that matter), the interactions just don’t ring true. Women seem rather artificial and tailored to porn images of what a sexy woman should be, silicone tits and all. Some women who endeavor to make lesbian and bisexual porn of their own have found a niche that is sexy and shows some essential truths about women and their erotic lives.

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First of all, women of varying shapes and sizes may be portrayed. Abandoning the bleach blonde bimbo image or the overly skinny with big boobs look, Women-for-Women who make their own porn might like a woman with a little more booty. They may enjoy seeing women of different, non-stereotyped cultural backgrounds getting into it. Exceptionally important is the portrayal of different genders. The gender normative look and behavior for women is far from all that’s really out there. In W4W porn, you could find a femme topping a soft butch, two BBW with short hair getting it on, a butch-femme coupling, an all-female orgy, or even a femme-on-femme scene, but one where the women look and act like real people.

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Women who should video do it for a reason – to add voices and erotic images to the canon that better reflects them. They presumably want to produce erotica that turns them on. In that quest, showing scenes that are genuinely hot is an important part of the enterprises. The level of arousal in the women is usually palpable. Sounds of sex, the way bodies react to touch, the portrayal of cunnilingus all look and feel like those women want to be with each other, producing happy, powerful orgasms together. There is pussy licking and sex toys, used in a way that as the vibrator enters the well-lubed pussy, it is obvious that is feels good. Sounds of approval are resonant and abundant. Women who do women know how to show it to the rest of us.

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The New Horizons

Monday, March 7th, 2011

tumblr_ler0yiCZ731qd7x8zo1_500Finding new horizons in your sex life can be a fun and exciting experience but it can also be one you can easily get carried away with when you don’t do it responsibly. Whether you are in a committed relationship with a love interest or whether you are fucking strangers, you must always take care not to allow yourself to go too far or get carried away. When you are feeling jaded and looking for a new sex experience you have to be careful you don’t allow yourself to become too seduced by the pleasure. Everyone has limits on how far they will go and while it is always healthy to challenge those limits from time to time it is also very healthy to remember why those limits are there in the first place.

Just because you decide you have found your limit does not mean you have refused to grow or that you are small or close minded. It means you have standards and you stick to them. And one might be amazed at how wonderful and vibrant one’s fucking might become when a couple sticks to some of the same things, but discover a new level to their tried-and true standards they did not know existed before. Oral sex can be aided and improved by the addition of foods, syrups or sweet things to go with a little pussy licking or some cock sucking. And many people realize they in fact might be a little kinkier then they first imagined and by wearing some clothes they might already have in their closet their entire mood might change to what they want sexually! A simple change the location when one has sex can do wonders to a staid sex life, as well as simply ideas of what to say and maybe how to act.

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There are all sorts of ways you can vary the things you already enjoy without having to do entirely different things. Watching free porn vids can give you some ideas.  You just have to be able to see the same things with a brand new perspective and discover that something has layers and levels you have never experienced before. You have gone to entirely new territory and yet still retained your standards of conduct. You have gotten the best of all worlds involved and are satisfied in ways you never imagined before. The orgasms you experience now can be greater than ever before.

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