Archive for the ‘internet porn’ Category

H.J v.s B.J.

Thursday, April 7th, 2011

Not that many men would truly make the distinction of quality if they are feeling friction, but there is a difference between a blow-job and a hand-job and much more than just the sensations a partner’s mouth can give as opposed to their hand. There are considerations of intent and intimacy, positioning and communication inherent in either act, as are inherent in any other sex act that we might not be considering in the throes of all those sensations.

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In this day and age, certainly the hand job is the safer of the two activities but as all of us can pretty much masturbate, use our hand or sex toys with them when we like, having someone’s mouth on our genitals is infinitely more thrillin, for most women and men. Our lips, tongues, even teeth-gently-can provide a cornucopia of sensations our fingers and hand simply cannot, not to mention just the sheer fantastic sensation of wetness covering our dicks or pussies. For men there is the added satisfaction of being able to literally fuck the mouth of their lover, barbaric though it might seem. And any oral sex really does garner feelings of intimacy between partners as, for the most part, when performed with proficiency and caring a blow-job is a loving intimate act performed on a man from his partner, very much as a man eating pussy is.

The hand-job though is not to be denigrated. Sure it might not be further down on the infamous hierarchy of sexual bases but it still rates up there as a sexual act; the man having his genitals manually manipulated by someone other than himself
With a hand-job the giver certainly is free to talk through any manner of naughty little scenarios, issue promises-or threats-and basically tease the erection-addled guy lying there with his entire life literally in his partner’s hands. Eye-to-eye contact can be maintained if couples wish it and many partners claim they can determine when their man is about to come with a cock in their hand better than they ever can the same cock in their mouth.

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Stimulating our lover unselfishly, completely in mind of making them orgasm, not receiving any pleasure in return other then knowledge of a job well done, both a blow-job and a hand-job speaks to how much one partner looks to give pleasure to another; or wants to give a little something out to get the same in return.
Either way, the man getting his genitals sucked, licked or touched, is the winner in the end.

It’s Almost Too Quiet

Tuesday, March 22nd, 2011

We tend to take to a facility as mercury does to a vessel. Men and women, no matter their age, will grow with and to something, use it to their fullest until it is no longer useful, filling, in effect, the vessel to its utmost limit. This is true of the Internet and all it provides. Speed, world-wide communication, free porn, anonymity, the culling of potential products, service and even people one wishes to date; we use the net as much as we can because it simply exists for our use. And while it makes our movements ‘quiet,’ in a sense, this doesn’t mean guys and girls are not moving across the web landscape any less. In fact, the actual reverse is true; because the net provides a virtually silent landscape and the ability to move freely about to any place and contact a wide group of people, men and women are using the net more.

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And they are using the net mostly to find one another. In feverish activity unmatched in our modern times, singles-as well as married people-are looking for and finding one another faster then ever before. On-line dating sites provide the facility for countless singles to find one another, leading to many more dates, hook-ups and new couples that want to indulge in their sexual festishes. Just because people are meeting less and less at the old church mixer doesn’t mean they are not meeting. Just because there are less love letters being sent doesn’t mean the texts couples send to one another aren’t hot.
And just because people are spending less time to get to know one another in person and spending more time on line to feel each other out, doesn’t mean that those same people are taking their time when they do meet to get into bed!
The art of seduction has become insidious because of on-line interactions, but it’s no less effective. These days a couple learns the rules well before even meeting, they can view a person’s pictures and interests, and they have a clear idea what they might or might not do even before they meet a potential date to see if chemistry exists between them.
It’s for this reason that sex, in all its form and permutations, can happen very quick for the on-line hook-up, and sexual sins are still being committed, in fact with more frequency and almost always between completely consenting adults.

The world is just as wild, but now begins on line.

Life Changing Technology

Monday, March 21st, 2011

The internet and all of our modern technology have really changed people’s lives significantly. The internet provides an incredible resource for people to find information on nearly any topic they could possible imagine, and technology provides it to us quickly, wirelessly and while we are on the go. Ten years ago many people could not have imagined using their telephone to access limitless amounts of information while in their car or walking through a park.

Some of the most significant changes that the internet has made in our lives is how we meet people and date, and how we get our porn. Internet dating has become commonplace at this point, so has free porn. Online datinghot-nude-modelswebsites offer opportunities to meet people we would never come in contact with in real life. People have romantic relationships with other people who are in other states, across the country and sometimes even the other side of the world. The internet has allowed people to get to know each other and form strong bonds of friendship and even love without having ever met in person. The technology available allows us to communicate instantly and at an incredibly low cost with instant messaging and Skype, and most cell phone packages offer free long distance within one’’s home country.

Another huge difference the internet has made is the availability of sexual information and pornography. If there is a kink or fetish a person is curious about, it’s safe and easy to look it up on the computer. People can even find photos and videos for any kink that their interested in so they can actually see whatever it is without having to sneak off to some dark, secret sex club to see whatever it is that they’re interested in. Before the internet, that was often the only viable option for finding out more about kinky sex, and quite often the place didn’t seem safe or clean. Women who were kinky had few options for safe venues in which they could explore their sexuality and curiosity. With the secret clubs of the past, people were often put off a bit by the neighborhoods these places were in, and a lot of people didn’t feel safe. For newcomers, it must have been a particularly nerve-wracking experience to go to some of these places, especially as a single.

Sexual Fantasies Made Real

Wednesday, March 9th, 2011

tumblr_leld1vHQ5e1qdgd5bo1_500There are some who do not realize that some fantasies are meant to be just that, fantasies. Not everything you see while watching free porn is something you are meant to do yourself.

Some of these sexual fantasies are not supposed to be fulfilled and when you figure that out you will live a much happier life.

For instance it may be one of your premier fantasies to fuck the bosses wife or daughter, but upon reflection one can clearly see where this might not be the best course of action even should said wife or daughter want it.

One has to think things through and figure that although the wife or daughter might want it, it is a situation that easily turn ugly and disastrous to say the least, very quickly.

What if the woman suddenly decides that you can do things for them, what if something goes bad and they become an enemy rather than a friend. These are all very realistic possibilities and you could coerced, or exploited, blackmailed or worse. These are all just as possible as your actually getting that piece of ass from them. There is no piece of ass regardless of how good it might be that is worth all the trouble and disaster that could ensue from such an encounter. There are many reasons why such a thing would be a bad idea. So when you simply realize and accept the truth of a thing you will be much better off.

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Besides, that leaves room for a great deal of other fantasies you can make happen. A threesome with the right partner is always a possibility as is perhaps making your own porn movie with your partner. There are a lot of things you can do to really spice things up without crossing a line you may well regret. Not all our thoughts will lead to good kink magic, or any magic at all! It is simply a good sound plan to always evaluate and consider things well before you dive in and try to make them happen.

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If you play smart, you will have a much greater reward than if you simply did things with little consideration beyond getting your rocks off and giving in to greed. Greed will be your undoing every single time.

The Disembodied Pussy

Tuesday, March 8th, 2011

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Straight boys are fascinated in a woman’s vagina almost to the exclusion of all else-expect friction-and this chalice of womanhood has been celebrated in art, music, free porn, and literature as much as the phallus that fits inside it. Other female body parts may fascinate the straight guy, even gat man have been known to take notice of a firm high shelf of breasts or a nice swaying buttocks, still it is the vagina that ultimately has the most pull.

But over the time of a straight man’’s life the cunt, vaja-jay, hairpie-whatever it is to be called-becomes less of a fascination, less something women can hold out from their partners or wield with impunity.

Because over time, men realize there is a woman attached to that pussy.

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It takes a man a while but he does come around. First he has to get his mind off fucking. He has to realize that the fact that his dick is hard is truly only fascinating to him! Hopefully from this ephifany he learns to care about and subsequently please his bed partner, whomever he or she happens to be. Lastly, the man might grow to the point where he stops objectifying, or at least tempers his need to objectify, body parts to the exclusion of the person who sports a pair of breasts or a cute ass. And then, the very thing women wish men would do more often-notice them as a whole-renders a woman less powerful.

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If a man begins to notice the whole woman, not just her ass, tits and that deep well of her mystery her vagina, then the woman no longer has the mystery of her parts to hold over her man. Men who wish to be controlled by the cunt can still be, but that is a self-imposed slavery to a body part most adult men will not coddle. Seasoned guys will no longer worship a woman’s parts simply because they have grown to the point where they recognize a woman is a sum of her parts. Sure, guys are still set-up to see first and fit the piece into the whole later, but the pieces become less important as men grow older.

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Or if not, they stay ready and waiting to be pussy whipped …just like they want to be.

Wait To Bring Up Sex

Tuesday, March 8th, 2011

tumblr_lgpdn93M6L1qzqbf4Most single people who have profiles on dating websites are looking for sex, at least eventually. It would be unusual to find someone that truly isn’t hoping to get into a relationship that eventually leads to sex.

The problem is that sometimes people want to put the cart before the horse and the subject of sex comes up far too early.

Men, when corresponding with a woman on a dating website, especially at the very beginning of the process, don’t ask her about sex or what she’s into sexually or how many times a day she likes to fuck or if she likes to give blow jobs. In most cases, the lady will find that to be an instant turn off.

Women want to know that guys are interested in them for more than just sexual interaction. Even on websites that are geared toward people who are into BDSM and fetish, the ladies still want to have some vanilla conversation before they are asked to spill their deepest, darkest fantasies.

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It comes across as though the man is only interested in sex, and that will turn a lot of ladies off even if they are only interested in sex. It seems disrespectful, and most women do want to be treated with respect and treated like a lady until the time becomes appropriate to treat her otherwise.

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Of course, internet dating can be complicated, and it can be rather confusing for the guys because some women respond really favorably to instant sex conversation. They expect to be asked questions right away, especially if they are on BDSM or fetish free porn sites. So how does a guy know what to do? Sometimes it’s possible to tell by reading the person’s profile carefully and really paying attention to what it says. That will often show quite clearly what type of woman she is and what her expectations are. A man can simply do whatever he wants, figuring that the right woman will understand him and it won’t matter. Another option is to wait – discuss vanilla topics and get to know her as a person, and let the lady introduce the subject of sex whenever she’s ready. That will make her feel respected and well-treated and most women will really appreciate that.

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The New Horizons

Monday, March 7th, 2011

tumblr_ler0yiCZ731qd7x8zo1_500Finding new horizons in your sex life can be a fun and exciting experience but it can also be one you can easily get carried away with when you don’t do it responsibly. Whether you are in a committed relationship with a love interest or whether you are fucking strangers, you must always take care not to allow yourself to go too far or get carried away. When you are feeling jaded and looking for a new sex experience you have to be careful you don’t allow yourself to become too seduced by the pleasure. Everyone has limits on how far they will go and while it is always healthy to challenge those limits from time to time it is also very healthy to remember why those limits are there in the first place.

Just because you decide you have found your limit does not mean you have refused to grow or that you are small or close minded. It means you have standards and you stick to them. And one might be amazed at how wonderful and vibrant one’s fucking might become when a couple sticks to some of the same things, but discover a new level to their tried-and true standards they did not know existed before. Oral sex can be aided and improved by the addition of foods, syrups or sweet things to go with a little pussy licking or some cock sucking. And many people realize they in fact might be a little kinkier then they first imagined and by wearing some clothes they might already have in their closet their entire mood might change to what they want sexually! A simple change the location when one has sex can do wonders to a staid sex life, as well as simply ideas of what to say and maybe how to act.

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There are all sorts of ways you can vary the things you already enjoy without having to do entirely different things. Watching free porn vids can give you some ideas.  You just have to be able to see the same things with a brand new perspective and discover that something has layers and levels you have never experienced before. You have gone to entirely new territory and yet still retained your standards of conduct. You have gotten the best of all worlds involved and are satisfied in ways you never imagined before. The orgasms you experience now can be greater than ever before.

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Sinking The Ship

Friday, March 4th, 2011

tumblr_lbssovRx681qz6f9yo1_500A leopard cannot change it spots – …neither can young adult males decrease their testosterone flow. Whether gay, bi or straight, guys are all over the net not only downloading porn but looking for someone to hook-up with. Whether joining on-line dating sites, social networking hubs or simply trolling the groups section of Myspace guys are just as horny as ever, but now have the net to temper their pursuits in what seems a socially acceptable and respectable approach.

The net is as much a portal for sex these days as it is for anything else… in fact the Internet is the perfect place to exercise our dirtier interests.  One undeniable fact is true, adults want to be fucking, rubbing and sucking as much as they can or are comfortable with a partner they find to fuck, rub and suck with.

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Male humans, especially young guys, are ruled by their nescient libido more then they are often their good commons sense and finding another avenue in which to pursue conquests, namely, on-line, they have made the net their personal procurement playground.

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How men go about attempting to find a date, than seduce that date doesn’t matter. Terms used for sex, on the net or off, change with ridiculous regularity, but it comes down to the same specifics of seduction it always has: men using their wit and wiles to secure a date. Whether they are emailing, posting a profile picture, chatting in a local chatroom or even joining a fetish site, these ways of strutting on-line are no different then being available every Tuesday night for a bookstore run with a buddy or scoping out the local supermarket for the weeknight that attracts the most single shoppers.

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It might seem that the game of sex, flirting, seduction, even hooking-up and the tales told afterward are more private, or at least more likely to be anonymous these days, but methodology is the only thing that may have changed. Euphemisms morph generation to generation but the game is still played and the game is sex for the red-blooded male. Shy or a playboy, teen or middle age, single and even married, men are still out there on the prowl and are using the Internet in ways that even the most adept hacker would be proud of.

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Passing Go

Wednesday, March 2nd, 2011

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The art of seduction runs silent and deep because of our on-line hook-ups, but seduction is just as effective as ever. Single men and women looking for dates or married people looking to cheat or swing know the rules of the field they are playing their game in, can cull through on-line pictures or videos, determine what they will or will not say on their own profile even before they think of meeting someone they are interested in. Chemistry can be well established long even before a potential couple speaks on the phone.

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The usual date dance of getting to know somebody has been danced on-line. All anybody needs to know is what one person will tell another anyway, so it has usually all been told-or at least what is going to be told-over chat and emails well before a man and woman, man and man, women and women meet. Most single people realize that they are getting some subterfuge from on-line profiles and chatting anyway so they throw up some of their own just in case. Those with kinks share them on single sites for fetishes, allowing just as much as they have to so then there is no surprise when a whip makes an appearance on a first date. There is never a question of someone’s sexuality if they are trolling around a gay, bi or straight site, so there to gay men and gay women are seeing much clearer intentions and the better possibility for sex on their initial meeting.

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The net provides short hand for simply passing go and doing what one will.
Of course there might be a lot of initial quick sexual meetings-of-the-minds, libido and body parts but are there many that are lasting? When a couple circumvents the usual social interaction for the blistering speed of getting to know one another the Internet single world allows, there isn’t so much depth of field to build anything-even a conversation-that might be worth having. The truly successful daters, the ones who might meet and do hook-up for sex fast but somehow survive past on-line dating sites, through their green lit sexual relations and build further lasting connections, are the ones who realize just what the net offers and can weather its seductions.

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Nipple Clamps

Tuesday, March 1st, 2011

porn_sex_cartoonThe creative application of sex toys into making love often has the effect of increasing of sexual pleasure, no matter what kind of a toy one is using. One of the ways to decide what kinds of sex toys to purchase is by figuring out what parts of the body are a turn to us individually. Nipples are a great place to begin, since both women and men have them! Also, they can be used alone while masturbating for added pleasure.

Some people will use common household objects, like clothespins or binder clips to stimulate their nipples, though they are not as sexy as store-purchased tit clamps or fully fledged nipple clamps. It’s also more difficult to regulate the pressure on the nipples with those household objects and since the nipple are a sensitive area-and usually on the smaller side-most people who play with nipple stimulation on a regular basis to recommend nipple clamps as the safest way to go.

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Nipple clamps are a great toy for either men or women. Click here to see a Sexy brunette with big tits get pinched! There are several types nipple: some have sliding adjustable bands of steel, and others have a small screw-like contraption that are often found on heavier clamps. The tip of nipple-clamps are also good to check. There are smaller, tweezer-like nipple-clamps that are designed to pinch. Wider mouths on nipple-clamps give broader pressure that is felt all across the nipple. This variety in sensations is a good idea.

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One of the ways to decide what are the best nipple-clamps for a person’s individual tastes is to look at the nipples that the clamps will be used on. Are the nipples small and pebble-like? Are they large and firm? Also, how have the nipples reacted with other kinds of foreplay? Do the nipples harden quickly with just a lick of a tongue, or are they slow to arouse over time with a concentrated attention?

Some nipple-clamps are attached by a chain. The chain provides a place to hang additional objects, which give more weight to the clamps, especially if the person wearing them is standing up – just the gentle sway of walking can add stimulation and additional delectable delights. The chain can also be placed in a mouth, and tugged like a leash during masturbation or sex.

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Girls don’t often think of using nipple-clamps on their boyfriends, but just like women’s nipples, men’s nipples are sensitive. They can often take more pain or pressure than women’s nipples, which is important to think about when purchasing nipple-clamps. Heavier clamps that can be secured firmly are best.