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Fantasies

Wednesday, July 20th, 2011

Have you ever wished some of your fantasies could come true? Sure, everyone has. The problem is that people don’t realize it always but fantasies about Free sex should usually stay that way. That’s because reality seldom lives up to a fantasy’s expectations. Things don’t always turn out the way they’re supposed to.

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Somebody has the fantasy of fucking their secretary and finds out that that Free sex wasn’t as good as they thought. Day in and day out they could see this secretary and think she’s hot and they believe that sex with her is going to incredibly exciting but when they finally step up to the plate and make it happen it turns out to be a whopping failure, if they’re lucky and don’t lose their jobs just for trying. Every person is different and there’s plenty of them out there who look like they are the hottest thing since toasted bread and then turn out to be anything but. On the other hand you might find some who don’t look like much but can sure deliver. This is when realities become fantasies. Take that cute librarian for instance. You might imagine she’d be mousy and unskilled at pleasing a man. Then something happens and you get a shot at it. Suddenly you find yourself with a handful of cock starved tigress who doesn’t give up until there’s nothing left of you.

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The differences in fantasy and reality are often times very confusing and disappointing and that’s why sometimes, fantasies should remain that way. Reality seldom lives up to the standards of fantasy and as long as you can get a firm hold on that you can discover that reality doesn’t always have to be the same. The reality of it all can be even better. Real life just happens to have a few tricks up it’s sleeve that even your wildest fantasies couldn’t keep pace with. That’s why to have a truly open mind, you should have some closed fantasies.

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Unusual and Freakish

Sunday, July 3rd, 2011

Most of adult videos use a very specific format. But hardcore porn viewers need more than busty blondes getting fucked hard and furious by some hot hard stud. They want something more freaky. Build it and they will cum even works in the adult business.

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There are small number of Porn content providers and movie makers that shoot the unusual or freakish. Niches can cover anything from inordinately large cock in it’s length or girth slowly penetrating some tight pussy. It looks on screen as painful as it sounds. For a few years midgets were hot and porn sites would do all they could to get their hands on photos and movies of little people being fucked or fucking. Now the thing is tranny sites and movies. Beautiful lady boys being found out and fucked anyway by seemingly het guys is all the rage. And the buying public is eating it up. But it doesn’t have to be all about surprises, sometimes the something strange or weird is thrown in the mix to boost sales. Like alien looking sex toys. Sex toys have always been popular in solo girl scenes and lesbian movies but requests for sex toys that look like tentacles, or monster cocks or just happen to be massively long or large being used to fuck two women at the same time is becoming more popular.

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Most of the stuff that is viewed is the run of the mill sex stuff with a twist. Even the boutique movie makers are not eager to follow the extreme sex practices where sexual abuse is more like a horror movie then pleasure. But by adding a little spice, a little twist then the audience will buy more. Adult movie makers are always on the look out for the next big fantasy. Asian porn and the BDSM lifestyles have both been great inspirations to content producers. What we may see is more Biblical porn, after al the bible is full of hardcore sex and violence.

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Spanking Sounds

Wednesday, June 22nd, 2011

People who enjoy spanking usually have very specific things that they like about it, and those reasons can vary wildly depending on the role the person takes in the spanking scene and it can sometimes even vary wildly depending on the style of the scene or even the spanking implement that is being used.

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Most people who bottom for spanking scenes have a definite preference for either smacks that feel either stingy or thuddy, although some people do like both for different reasons and at different times. Maybe they like stingy at the beginning of the spanking to get their skin warmed up a bit and then prefer more thuddy for the second half of the spanking or more toward the end when they’re skin starts getting really sore. The thuddy sensation gives the smack a deeper feeling that resonates deeper in the muscle while the stingy sensation gives more of a surface sensation right on the skin.

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Many people who top during the spanking have a long list of things that they enjoy. Some love the feeling of having that much power over another person and love having them over-the-knee or having the opportunity to hold them down as they bend over something. Some love the sounds that their willing victims make as they receive each smack, sounds that get more primal as the heat and soreness begins to grow and take hold. Some love the sound of the implement or hand hitting the skin of the other person. The sounds can differ quite a bit depending on the implement used and the type of material the implement is made out of. Leather and wood make distinctively different sounds as the strike the skin, and even that sound can vary depending on the style of the implement. A leather belt can sound almost like a gunshot in a quiet room, but a paddle will sound very different to an experienced ear. A top that enjoys the sounds that the implements make can often tell just by the sound what the material is and sometimes even what type of implement it is. Someone who can do that is a true connoisseur of spanking sounds – they know and understand exactly what they’re doing and why, and they’re enjoying every minute detail of the spanking.

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Power Exchange

Friday, June 17th, 2011

The nature of sexual power exchange is the idea that a person, within the context of erotic play, gives up control to another person; but in reality it is a bit more complicated than that and, as with a lot of sexual and erotic interests and play, it is very important to read as much as possible, take classes, and talk to people before trying it out. One reason why this is important is that the reality of power exchange play is that the person that many people assume is in control is not really: the bottom, submissive, or slave is the one who is actually in control as they always, for matter of safely, be able to change or alter the play at any time. The master or dominant is the one who has to be responsible and must always be willing to change the scene to protect and keep safe the person they are playing with. The dominant or master may have the attitude or such of being in control but if the other person involved ever wants the play or scene to change they that dominant or master must immediately respond to their needs.

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Part of the way this can happen is through what are called safe-words: a code that the submissive can say that will be a signal to the dominant that they want the play to change. The words, ideally, should be ones that won’t be used commonly to avoid confusion and it’s best to have a specific few words at the ready to indicate levels ;darker colors for instance to indicate the play is growing ever more intense or painful This is also why communication must be there are all times, so that the submissive can talk to the dominant and vice versa. The dominant, too, must be able to say at any time that they are uncomfortable or do not want to proceed.

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So, while power exchange can be an effective erotic component of kink play, it’s best to always learn as much about it before you try it out with anyone else so you can play safely for a very long time. There are so many levels to what we might seek sexually that it is best we keep open to all possibilities.

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On Our Whims

Tuesday, June 7th, 2011

While many sex-perts would love to be able to define every one of our reactions, fetishes and moves by our abuses or true motivations, for the most part our sexual mind is made up from some very deep desires and passing needs even we can’t truly decipher. As many people with a brittle self esteem and faulty early sex life clutch to the varieties present in the power struggle of BDSM sex, as they do regular vanilla fucking. Many lesbian women have had hetero relationships that led them to decades of marriage and for every guy out there looking for a homosexual romance, just as many are hetero; and there are no reasons for any of this behavior.

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What has come before has made us what we are, but it is more important who we are presently and how we engage our lover and they us. If our sex life brings us pleasure and the person we sleep with is as satiated, we can’t really hold on to the past, abuse or not.

It’s too easy to follow a straight line from a supposed slight or even some terrible tragedy to our actions presently, but the human mind doesn’t work so easily in cause and effect. Simply because someone engages in sex that maybe is seeming harmful doesn’t mean they have been harmed in the past, just as much as a woman courting a rape fantasy doesn’t have to working out a past abuse every time she has sex;then again, maybe she is.

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We simply can’t make those assumptions about our partners, even if they offer explanations; who really knows their own mind all that well to explain every single one of their sexual desires?

Our preferences or prejudices, our passing needs or our long-term fetishes all that we are sexually is a conundrum we will not soon fathom, nor will our friends, family or lovers ever truly need to understand if all actions are consensual and fuel the romance morethan slow it down.

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From day to day all we can do is follow our whims, hope they might match someone we find in real life or even across some on-line dating site and that we can all find peace in whatever piece we need.

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Male Chastity Play

Tuesday, June 7th, 2011

Male chastity devices are very popular among people in the BDSM scene, especially female dominants who enjoy humiliation play and cock and ball torture (or CBT). While the chastity devices don’t really provide a lot of immediate pain under normal circumstances the way CBT does, they can provide plenty of discomfort over time as men experience partial erections and sexual arousal while wearing them. They also are great for humiliation play and providing a submissive male with a really good mind fuck as they devices are usually designed for longer term wear, usually several weeks at a time.

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They are designed to allow men to urinate and wash without removing them. Most often they are locked and the dominant has control of the key. While a male chastity device is effective in preventing men from masturbating and having sex, most dominant females would agree that a good submissive shouldn’t require such measures and should willingly abide by the orders of his Domme when it comes to masturbation, sex and orgasms. They can be very useful items for training purposes with an inexperienced submissive though, and they are wonderful for use as a means of prolonged play because they will constantly remind the submissive that he is owned and that even his most natural and uncontrollable urges can be controlled by the woman who owns him.

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Some male submissives enjoy being denied the ability and opportunity to orgasm, and they really enjoy the idea that their orgasms are a gift from their Domme and given only when she sees fit. They crave the denial and the discomfort that the chastity device provides. They enjoy being made to beg for release. The Dommes usually enjoy being able to tease the submissive by getting them aroused and they enjoy the discomfort that their sub experiences when his cock begins to get hard inside the device. Even when the sub isn’t in their physical presence, the Domme can tease from afar with a phone call, e-mail or text message. It’s a great way to remind the sub of their role in the relationship. For men who enjoy this type of play, being able to experience this for days, or even weeks, is very enjoyable to them even when it is extremely uncomfortable.

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Honesty Equals Orgasm

Sunday, May 29th, 2011

If you really want to enjoy sex with your partner or even yourself you have to be completely honest about what gets you off. You will only be cruising through the encounter without really getting into the heart of what you like if you aren’t honest about it. It could be that you think you should acting according to your partners wishes at the expense of your own. While that is perfectly natural and even admirable that you want to please your partner it is probably true that your partner wants to please you as well.

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Having a great fuck means that the two of you are completely letting go of all your inhibitions and hang ups and are doing what makes you both happy. There in lies the key is the doing of what makes you both happy together. If you are giving everything to your partner but taking none for yourself you and your partner are both going to be getting only half the enjoyment out of things. The only way you can really get to enjoy the best orgasm is to be honest with your partner. If you like to be spanked on your bare ass and that does it for you then tell your partner. You should be assured that your partner won’t think less of you or think it silly but will be glad you told them and will do it to please you.

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Do your best to really establish good communication skills and encourage each other to be completely open and honest about what does it for you and with just a few adjustments from time to time you will be having the greatest and most enjoyable encounters you could imagine for yourselves. This then is where the real action is at. When you both just let go and without any worries at all completely enjoy being with each other.

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New Fantasies, kinks and Your Orgasm

Saturday, May 28th, 2011

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If you are in a relationship and you really want to try spicing up your sex there are many ways you can do it. You have some avenues you can explore if you have established good communication skills with your partner. The first thing you want to do is talk to them about their fantasies and the things that really bring them to an Orgasm and then tell them yours.

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If you are honest and open about this stuff then you can begin to make progress. It is all about balancing the fantasy with reality and coming as close to combing them both as you can. You might try role playing for instance and pretending that you are picking each other up for Free sex as if you didn’t know each other. This could be fun and might even open up a new way to enjoy what you have had in the past. You might decide to try acting out the first time you met. This could really be a way to have a blast. You could decide you’ll start your relationship all over again and forget about all the bad stuff that has happened. It is all up to you and your partner how you play things out.

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You each bear personal responsibility in equal measure to the happiness and health of the relationship and when you put your heads together you can really come up with some creative ways to share the burdens you face. Then you can change things around and find that living a brand new life with each other is absolutely possible if you decide it will be. It will naturally take some effort like anything else worth pursuing does but you will get there and even have fun doing it. Don’t settle for less than the best sex you can have and don’t sell yourselves short. Get out there and start living today. You’ll definitely be glad that you did.

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The Spice Of Life

Thursday, May 26th, 2011

Centuries ago people realized that adding spices to their foods could enhance flavor, add zest and create interest in otherwise largely bland everyday dishes. It is much the same way with our sex lives and searching for Porn on the Internet.

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Hundreds of years ago, spices were extremely rare, difficult to find and highly sought after and prized. Merchants who were able to bring exotic spices home from far away places would become very wealthy by selling and trading the spices to other merchants and customers who desperately wanted them. Food without any spice to it at all is very bland and tasteless in any day and age and any unfortunatel ulcer or diabetic patient who has been denied salt and sugar will attest to how much these tasty ingredients are missed when they are suddenly removed from ones cuisine. Not all of course, but some of our sex lives can sometimes be similar to this bland food. Often times people who are married for a long period of time can find themselves in a sexual rut or routine. While they may still love each other very much, often the sex becomes dull, mechanical and routine after spending so many years together.

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Adding a little sexual spice to a loving and devoted but stagnant relationship can be easily accomplished with the advent and the aid of the world wide web. It can become a valued tool to be used to enhance sexual arousal and satisfaction if both parties are agreeable, open minded and cooperative about embarking on this new and exotic adventure together. There is something on the Internet to be found for every couple no matter what their preferences may be. From the softest erotica to the hardest porn every couple can find material that will give their sexual relationship a little bit of always welcome spice and flavor.

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Let’s all grab our salt shakers and go for it.

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Degrade and Humiliate

Tuesday, May 17th, 2011

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Some male submissives really receiving degradation and humiliation play from their dominant partners. Degradation and humiliation is a subject that can be a little bit controversial in BDSM circles. Done carelessly, it can cause quite a bit of emotional distress to the receiver. The dominant partner, who is responsible for the physical and emotional well-being of his or her submissive partner, should use caution and common sense wit this type of play. They should also take the time to get to know their partner for a variety of reasons.

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One of the most important reasons that it’s important for the partners to be familiar is the effectiveness of the play. If the submissive partner enjoys some degradation and humiliation, it’s important to know what type is effective with that person. Everyone is different, and to create an effective scene it is important to know what makes the submissive tick. Degradation doesn’t work if it doesn’t make the submissive feel degraded in any way. One must know what specific things will work with the submissive without making them feel overly emotional and get them to the point that they are no longer enjoying the scene. Making fun of a man’s cock may be perfect for one submissive but might really distress another. A man who loves wearing women’s panties may not feel any degradation or humiliation no matter what the Dominant says to them, while other men who are embarrassed to admit that they enjoy may really get off on being forced to wear them and made fun of for having them on. Degradation and humiliation is not a one size fits all fetish. It must be tailored to the specific submissive, and extensive negotiation should precede this type of play in order to assess just what the submissive can handle.

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In addition, care must be taken to build the submissive back up at the end of this type of scene. Compliments on their behavior or on how well they handled everything that happened during the scene will help bolster them back up and reassure the submissive that they are cared for by their Dominant. Extra aftercare may be needed after particularly intense scenes. Done with care, degradation and humiliation can be really hot, but the Dominant should be really aware of the submissive’s state of mind throughout the scene.

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