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Monday, March 21st, 2011
The internet and all of our modern technology have really changed peoples lives significantly. The internet provides an incredible resource for people to find information on nearly any topic they could possible imagine, and technology provides it to us quickly, wirelessly and while we are on the go. Ten years ago many people could not have imagined using their telephone to access limitless amounts of information while in their car or walking through a park.
Some of the most significant changes that the internet has made in our lives is how we meet people and date, and how we get our porn. Internet dating has become commonplace at this point, so has free porn. Online dating
websites offer opportunities to meet people we would never come in contact with in real life. People have romantic relationships with other people who are in other states, across the country and sometimes even the other side of the world. The internet has allowed people to get to know each other and form strong bonds of friendship and even love without having ever met in person. The technology available allows us to communicate instantly and at an incredibly low cost with instant messaging and Skype, and most cell phone packages offer free long distance within one’s home country.
Another huge difference the internet has made is the availability of sexual information and pornography. If there is a kink or fetish a person is curious about, its safe and easy to look it up on the computer. People can even find photos and videos for any kink that their interested in so they can actually see whatever it is without having to sneak off to some dark, secret sex club to see whatever it is that theyre interested in. Before the internet, that was often the only viable option for finding out more about kinky sex, and quite often the place didnt seem safe or clean. Women who were kinky had few options for safe venues in which they could explore their sexuality and curiosity. With the secret clubs of the past, people were often put off a bit by the neighborhoods these places were in, and a lot of people didnt feel safe. For newcomers, it must have been a particularly nerve-wracking experience to go to some of these places, especially as a single.
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Thursday, March 17th, 2011
The act of being submissive for many involves a lot of high intensity pain and restraints of the heaviest leathers and iron cold manacles. Torture is a key staple in their lives as they crave punishment. They’re begging for attention in a variety of ways that usually end up with a well-deserved ass beating.
There are people who crave something different, something sexual, sensual and still involving the rush of erotic power exchange in their relationships. Sensual Domination can be inclusive of all the fun things such as bondage and hardcore role play. The difference usually lies in tone of commands issued by the dominant and use of different tactics such as restraints with softer materials more often thought of as sensual.
Silk and satin are great starters here as well as any fabric that is sleek, soft and leaves no marks.
Harsh commands need not be given to the person submitting as those are usually ineffective or less effective than the honey-like come hither of a Marilyn Monroe impression. The way a dominant moves in sensual domination involves graceful movements. With an air of playfulness, rather than outright control, the Sensual Dominant excites, titillates and teases their pray with sex toys such as vibrators, feathers, even their own fingernails. There can be an element of danger but trust is still the key component of allowing oneself to be dominated. The submissive still gets off on the power exchange dynamic yet the subtleties make all the difference.
Punishment doesn’t have to revolve around harsh and obscure tortures that require a myriad of devices that existed only in the middle ages. Rather, the threat of denial can work wonders.
With trust being the key issue here, the terms and actions of any event going forward are still negotiated and discussed so both parties get the amount of satisfaction they desire. Sometimes things happen that make the scenes even better than both partners imagine.
In public, displays of hidden dominance can be just as slight regardless of the style of play. Clothes can become symbols with meaning only to those who know and understand the BDSM lifestyle while those who are not kinky (or deny their kink) can remain in the dark.
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Friday, March 11th, 2011
Kinky people love to learn new things, from free porn or real life, and they also usually love to show off their own skills and share ideas. Its not unusual to find a few Doms collaborating in a dungeon to make a scene even more
interesting. Watching scenes is a great way to learn some new things or get suggestions on how to improve one’s technique or skill set. If a person sees someone doing something interesting in the dungeon, its totally okay to talk to that person and ask them for some tips. Don’t interrupt a scene when people are playing, but once the scene and the aftercare is completed, go talk to the person. A good rule of thumb is when the people in the scene start mingling again, its safe to talk to them. Starting off with a compliment will nearly always get a favorable response, as long as its not an obvious ass-kissing kind of compliment. Sincerity goes a long way though, and a sincere compliment and honest desire to learn will usually be met with a willingness to share. Kinky people do love showing off their skills and most don’t mind teaching a little bit when the opportunity arises.
Another great way to learn some new things is to go to a fetish convention for a weekend. There are always a lot of classes, demonstrations and presentations on a wide variety of topics. Usually, there are classes for many different experience levels to provide something for everyone. There are usually a pretty wide number of topics to choose from as well. Most weekends have classes in things like rope bondage, flogging, caning, tit torture, CBT, fisting, and violet wand play. Some will also have classes in relationship development, how to live in a D/s relationship 24/7, self-help classes, and even some options that lean a little more toward the metaphysical, such as sex magick, tantra, meditation and orgasmic breathing. There are usually so many interesting classes available that most people find that they can’t possibly get to every class that they would have liked to. Taking classes at the fetish conventions is a lot of fun and then one can go right into the dungeon to keep practicing, and there are usually people around in the dungeon that would be happy to offer their own knowledge.
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Friday, March 11th, 2011
In the kinky world of dominance and submission, many an act has gone awry. This is because the deep well of kinky fantasies concerning power exchange, slave and master/mistress and, in general, one person controlling another, touches on true punishment, and has consequences. For many, the very fact that an action has a result, and a comeuppance at that, is what the kink is all about. Others crave correction by their dominant, even if there is no specific direct sexual component to the punishment. Still others only ever want an erotic component to their play, no matter how much bondage, control, denial or pain is used.
There is certainly a different intent and therefore a different approach to the basics of punishment for a lesson and punishment as foreplay. Any well-seasoned kinky couple or player or BDSM porn watcher knows how to elongate a potential scene, how the set-up the room, spell out the transgression, make sure all of the specific accoutrements of what is about to happen are detailed. Whereas for an erotic scene, specifics maybe be a bit more hazy.
In a setting of pure punishment, there should be no deviation from the rules. In an erotic setting, the very fact that the domme does deviate is what adds sexual excitement. In a punishment setting, a full answer to one’s bad behavior must be delivered, in the case of the erotic time, a couple might not even get to the actual punishment.
Both scenes require attention to detail, but one requires a specific cause and effect, a reciting of what is going to happen and then execution of the plan from what has been promised, but in an erotic setting there is more wiggle room. In a punishment setting, wiggle room and dom deviating from his or her course or plan reveals a weak dom.
Lastly, and most importantly, orgasms are not allowed in the punishment setting and if a sub happens to cum during their punishment scene they need to be chastised or punished more for it. In an erotic scene, orgasms can be denied, edge play can be brought in to the play and be used as a punishment as much as anything else, but in the end ,orgasm for both parties is what is usually sought.
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Wednesday, March 9th, 2011
Some women enjoy the portrayals of women in porn, but many others do not. Especially for women who have sex with women in real life, sometimes the porno version of sex can seem pretty artificial.
Forget about the barely-there plot concepts for most porn video no one really needs too much of a story anyway. For many women (and feminist-conscious men, for that matter), the interactions just dont ring true. Women seem rather artificial and tailored to porn images of what a sexy woman should be, silicone tits and all. Some women who endeavor to make lesbian and bisexual porn of their own have found a niche that is sexy and shows some essential truths about women and their erotic lives.
First of all, women of varying shapes and sizes may be portrayed. Abandoning the bleach blonde bimbo image or the overly skinny with big boobs look, Women-for-Women who make their own porn might like a woman with a little more booty. They may enjoy seeing women of different, non-stereotyped cultural backgrounds getting into it. Exceptionally important is the portrayal of different genders. The gender normative look and behavior for women is far from all thats really out there. In W4W porn, you could find a femme topping a soft butch, two BBW with short hair getting it on, a butch-femme coupling, an all-female orgy, or even a femme-on-femme scene, but one where the women look and act like real people.
Women who should video do it for a reason to add voices and erotic images to the canon that better reflects them. They presumably want to produce erotica that turns them on. In that quest, showing scenes that are genuinely hot is an important part of the enterprises. The level of arousal in the women is usually palpable. Sounds of sex, the way bodies react to touch, the portrayal of cunnilingus all look and feel like those women want to be with each other, producing happy, powerful orgasms together. There is pussy licking and sex toys, used in a way that as the vibrator enters the well-lubed pussy, it is obvious that is feels good. Sounds of approval are resonant and abundant. Women who do women know how to show it to the rest of us.
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Wednesday, March 9th, 2011
There are some who do not realize that some fantasies are meant to be just that, fantasies. Not everything you see while watching free porn is something you are meant to do yourself.
Some of these sexual fantasies are not supposed to be fulfilled and when you figure that out you will live a much happier life.
For instance it may be one of your premier fantasies to fuck the bosses wife or daughter, but upon reflection one can clearly see where this might not be the best course of action even should said wife or daughter want it.
One has to think things through and figure that although the wife or daughter might want it, it is a situation that easily turn ugly and disastrous to say the least, very quickly.
What if the woman suddenly decides that you can do things for them, what if something goes bad and they become an enemy rather than a friend. These are all very realistic possibilities and you could coerced, or exploited, blackmailed or worse. These are all just as possible as your actually getting that piece of ass from them. There is no piece of ass regardless of how good it might be that is worth all the trouble and disaster that could ensue from such an encounter. There are many reasons why such a thing would be a bad idea. So when you simply realize and accept the truth of a thing you will be much better off.
Besides, that leaves room for a great deal of other fantasies you can make happen. A threesome with the right partner is always a possibility as is perhaps making your own porn movie with your partner. There are a lot of things you can do to really spice things up without crossing a line you may well regret. Not all our thoughts will lead to good kink magic, or any magic at all! It is simply a good sound plan to always evaluate and consider things well before you dive in and try to make them happen.
If you play smart, you will have a much greater reward than if you simply did things with little consideration beyond getting your rocks off and giving in to greed. Greed will be your undoing every single time.
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Tuesday, March 8th, 2011
Most single people who have profiles on dating websites are looking for sex, at least eventually. It would be unusual to find someone that truly isnt hoping to get into a relationship that eventually leads to sex.
The problem is that sometimes people want to put the cart before the horse and the subject of sex comes up far too early.
Men, when corresponding with a woman on a dating website, especially at the very beginning of the process, dont ask her about sex or what shes into sexually or how many times a day she likes to fuck or if she likes to give blow jobs. In most cases, the lady will find that to be an instant turn off.
Women want to know that guys are interested in them for more than just sexual interaction. Even on websites that are geared toward people who are into BDSM and fetish, the ladies still want to have some vanilla conversation before they are asked to spill their deepest, darkest fantasies.
It comes across as though the man is only interested in sex, and that will turn a lot of ladies off even if they are only interested in sex. It seems disrespectful, and most women do want to be treated with respect and treated like a lady until the time becomes appropriate to treat her otherwise.
Of course, internet dating can be complicated, and it can be rather confusing for the guys because some women respond really favorably to instant sex conversation. They expect to be asked questions right away, especially if they are on BDSM or fetish free porn sites. So how does a guy know what to do? Sometimes its possible to tell by reading the persons profile carefully and really paying attention to what it says. That will often show quite clearly what type of woman she is and what her expectations are. A man can simply do whatever he wants, figuring that the right woman will understand him and it wont matter. Another option is to wait discuss vanilla topics and get to know her as a person, and let the lady introduce the subject of sex whenever shes ready. That will make her feel respected and well-treated and most women will really appreciate that.
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Monday, March 7th, 2011
Finding new horizons in your sex life can be a fun and exciting experience but it can also be one you can easily get carried away with when you don’t do it responsibly. Whether you are in a committed relationship with a love interest or whether you are fucking strangers, you must always take care not to allow yourself to go too far or get carried away. When you are feeling jaded and looking for a new sex experience you have to be careful you don’t allow yourself to become too seduced by the pleasure. Everyone has limits on how far they will go and while it is always healthy to challenge those limits from time to time it is also very healthy to remember why those limits are there in the first place.
Just because you decide you have found your limit does not mean you have refused to grow or that you are small or close minded. It means you have standards and you stick to them. And one might be amazed at how wonderful and vibrant ones fucking might become when a couple sticks to some of the same things, but discover a new level to their tried-and true standards they did not know existed before. Oral sex can be aided and improved by the addition of foods, syrups or sweet things to go with a little pussy licking or some cock sucking. And many people realize they in fact might be a little kinkier then they first imagined and by wearing some clothes they might already have in their closet their entire mood might change to what they want sexually! A simple change the location when one has sex can do wonders to a staid sex life, as well as simply ideas of what to say and maybe how to act.
There are all sorts of ways you can vary the things you already enjoy without having to do entirely different things. Watching free porn vids can give you some ideas. You just have to be able to see the same things with a brand new perspective and discover that something has layers and levels you have never experienced before. You have gone to entirely new territory and yet still retained your standards of conduct. You have gotten the best of all worlds involved and are satisfied in ways you never imagined before. The orgasms you experience now can be greater than ever before.
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Friday, March 4th, 2011
Latex rubber is used most often in the fetish world as a form of clothing. It binds tightly to the body, hides very little and looks sleek enough to remain pleasing to the eye. Often seen in fetish clubs, latex appears so sleek that it looks like a second skin on many people. It has its own dedicated magazines and group following. It’s actually a subculture of rubber fetishism.
Latex picks up body oils and retains warmth quite well so it should be noted that a dressing aid may be useful in helping the wearer put on the clothing. Talcum powder or some lubricant such as petroleum jelly will help guard against potential allergic reactions all while making it easier to put on the clothing.Latex clothing comes in a variety of fashions, sizes, shapes and colors. Everything from thongs, latex lingerie and bras have been made from latex all the way to the full body suit. Boots, gloves, masks and body suits found their way into the Fetish scene, giving the wearer a different look than the usual matte leather.
Most common articles of clothing include bondage mittens, hoods, goggles, ball gags, garter belts, boots, and even the daunting body bag. Oils, metals, extreme sunlight, and sharp objects should be kept away from latex as it’s a fairly durable material. Proper storage of latex involves keeping your garments in black bags hunt in cool, dark places away from extreme temperatures. Latex should be cleaned shortly after wearing to remove any body oils that it has been exposed to. Rinse the garment well in warm water. Some manufacturers recommend using a mild soap, while others suggest only water. Hang on a plastic or wood hanger to dry, or lay flat to dry.
The garment can be wiped gently with a soft towel to decrease drying time if desired. When one side is dry, turn inside out and let the other side dry as well. When completely dry, separate any latex that has stuck together and lightly dust the garment with talc to prevent any further sticking. Some will use a small amount of silicone dressing aid instead. It is not recommended to store light and dark latex garments in direct contact as this can discolor the light latex.
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Wednesday, March 2nd, 2011
If a lesbian finds a woman attractive at a coffee shop or a bar, and thinks there is flirting happening, only to learn that the woman is straight, whats going on? If a woman who is interested in experimenting with other women lives in a smaller community, how does she find women who might be interested in dating her?
Thankfully, most women are not upset if another woman flirts with them. After all, women are used to be approached by men all the time, and are more comfortable with social contact. Most women are not threatened by lesbians, and, in fact, can be flattered by the approach. Female homophobia is pretty much uncommon, to the point that straight women are approached by gay and bisexual women all the time.
For a woman who is beginning to experiment with other women, flirting is a great way to start. Most women are comfortable with flirting from women as well as men. Women are often more subtle about their sexual interests, so flirting is an important first step to catch the attention of another bisexual woman or a lesbian who is looking.
Of course, there are far fewer lesbians than there are heterosexual women. That can make it challenging for a lesbian to find a potential date in smaller towns and communities that dont have gay bars. It can feel frustrating, both for the woman interested in expanding her sexual horizons, and for a lesbian living in that community.
A gay lady might get frustrated by she will do well to remember that straight guys often have the same difficulties. Many men ask several women out before one says yes. The level of confidence is key, an assumption of potential success that eventually someone will say yes will keep one in the game. It is a good lesson for lesbians looking for a date: if there a sense of confidence, that there is someone out there, that confidence will carry over in the way she presents herself.
Lucky for all of us, whatever our sexual proclivities, kinks and fetishes, even religious affiliations, what we are looking for we can find in the on-line dating world. Sites made just for gay men, lesbian ladies, or single people looking for spanking are all over the net so the flirting can happen in the safe confines on-line as much as the wacky unpredictable real world.
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