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Amateur Porn is the Best

Wednesday, May 4th, 2011

Adult video web sites are a dime a dozen today and it’s sometimes hard to separate out the terrible porn from the true erotic delights. There is a reason however that one of the most growing and successful forms of adult media is amateur pornography.

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In conventional x-rated movies, there is a lot of expensive equipment and highly paid porn stars and studs who will fuck for money on camera. There is a script to the movie (though it may not seem so with the bad acting). Very rarely do porn stars get to choose who they perform which means the passion is as fake as the orgasms usually are. Those moans and whimpers seem unconvincing for a reason and that’s because the only thing the actress is thinking about is her next paycheck.

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Enter amateur porn and the many sex videos which feature real people fucking on camera for the pleasure of being exhibitionists. One will see many women masturbating or being fucked to genuine orgasm as well on these free porn movies. That is the best thing about amateur erotic movies because there is little cost — almost everyone has a smart phone these days capable of recording video — there are many web sites which offer free porn featuring real people fucking.

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It’s true that the lighting will not be as good and sometimes the sound is a little bad. One might have to put up with a radio in the background or a pet cat strolling through the frame from time to time. There’s no one to air brush out the blemishes or make all the parts look like glistening plastic barbie dolls. But for many porn fans these kinds of free sex videos are the best because of their very realism. One knows that the people involved really want to fuck and just want to show off their hot prowess for the camera.

The Exhibitionist’s Dilemma

Tuesday, April 12th, 2011

An exhibitionist has the desire to show off sexually in front of others. A male exhibitionist may get off on whipping out his cock for an unsuspecting person to see, and a female exhibitionist may enjoy going out wearing no underwear so when she spreads her legs, she shows her snatch. Some exhibitionists just want to get their jollies in front of other consenting adults, and that satisfies their show-off needs. For others, the turn-on is in surprising or even shocking someone unsuspecting. In this case, he or she would do well to spend a little time figuring out what level of risk is acceptable in order to pursue this unusual hobby.

One semi-safe way to be an exhibitionist is to take part in sexual acts within one’s own home. The other piece of this mode is common to some other methods as well; acting unsuspecting. This way, the official storyline is that the exhibitionist isn’t aware that anyone could see in. A couple having sex on their couch while the drapes just happen to be open toward the street is a good example of this mode. Someone may walk by and happen to see them, which would be extra exciting. Still, they haven’t targeted anyone in particular to be their viewers. There is some risk of a complaint, but it is probably relatively low.

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The next step would be to take it outside. Again, the exhibitionist could pretend that no one is meant to see. Sitting in a beach chair in one’s semi-secluded backyard and deciding to masturbate, perhaps in semi-darkness, would be a higher level of risk. Still, the sexy adventurer would be on his or her own property, just squeezing one out in ‘private. The excitement might be heightened, but so is the risk of a neighbor’s complaint.

Taking it clearly into the public arena is what some exhibitionists crave. A guy who jacks his dick on a train is there to let someone see what he’s got. The great likelihood is that someone will get a view. This behavior is illegal. Some people would decide that the risk of legal action is not worth it. For others, doing it and getting away with it could be the thrill of a lifetime.

The Great Outdoors

Friday, April 1st, 2011

The topic of sex in public is one that titillates many people when it comes up. Public sex, or the act of having intercourse or performing sexual acts out in the open has various definitions but the most common is the discreet affair where discovery is possible, but not probable.
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Sex in public parks during late evening or night hours, running a hand under the dress or skirt of a partner while riding a bus or even fucking in one’s own car while on a back road somewhere fills people with excitement. The feel of nature surrounding the naked body in its most primal form is an incredible stimulant for those who partake in sexual pleasures in public.

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Mentally, the danger exists because of the fear of getting caught. That fear plus the hormones and adrenaline rushing through the body increase the urgency of climax. For some, sticking it to the Victorian ways set for us by society is a turn on, while others are looking for a way to add a little more spice to their intimacy.

The reason for the increase in erotic stimulation during public sex has to do with blood flow and racing hormones. As the mind becomes aware of all that goes on in the body and around it, the logical part starts to work and up until the point of no return is there an element of danger, ie being caught by an authority figure or discovered by prying eyes. Exhibitionists play off this fear of discovery when they commit lewd acts in public such as masturbation. In fact, frequent ejaculation in public can be a sign of some other need to be addressed, but rarely is that the case. Many exhibitionists enjoy the freedom of sharing their nudity with others, even if it seems to violate free will.

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The internet is ripe with sites dedicated to stories, pictures and more showcasing exhibitionists. Public sex had become such a rage that in 2009 lawmakers in San Francisco had to ban and heavily patrol Gay Pride and Folsom Street Fair to ensure a more family friendly environment, yet some couples still managed to steal moments of sexual deviance and pleasure from their exhibitionism.

The risks of being caught for indecent exposure are usually limited to some minor jail time at most and a ticket and fine at best.

Strobe Light

Wednesday, March 16th, 2011

Maybe it comes from the disco era Studio 54 cache. It was a time and place of glamour, dancing, coke, booze, and lots and lots of sex. People talked about sex happening in many clubs in New York City and major cities around the world, and there were classic (and sometimes classy) places dedicated to exactly that, like Plato’s Retreat. Maybe it was the gay boys, dancing with abandon, shirtless, bronzed and beautiful for all the world to see, countered with the steamy tight places where rock bands worked their sweat, muscle and brawn into every searing note they played.
Whatever began way back in the day, mixing sex and a club, the idea of couples getting it on in a dance or rock club has never left our culture.

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The first answer may be the most in keeping with the alternative culture of club life: Because people are not supposed to. The rebellious nature of rockers and the party crowd makes fucking in public something that seems exciting and, in a word, badass. In a way, it could still be a way of fulfilling some 1950’s-style conservatives’’ worst fears —that rock and pop music leads to raunchy dancing, which leads to sex… and maybe right there on the dance floor for all to see!

Rock and pop music is so much about passion. In the sound and lyrics, one can get caught up in the beat, the pumping bass, sometimes crying guitars and a singer’s wail. Returned or unrequited, crimes of passion, and sometimes passionate political stances; all matters of deep commitment, passion true and real, exist in the sound and words the music expresses.
Your basic exhibitionism could be an obvious draw to a public display of affection in a club. Lucky enough for every 2329524213_ed2daf7c0fexhibitionist, there is usually a voyeur not too far away to match up with the action. In certain clubs, a horny couple might even get cheered on by an enthusiastic clientele.

Dirty dancing and club sex is hot for its reminders of the golden era of disco, the feeling of passion, defiant or appreciated exhibitionism, and general rebellion. The pretty lights and throbbing rhythms could really just be the icing on the proverbial cake of the sex that drips for the walls of a club.

Ass

Thursday, February 24th, 2011

bwbWhen it comes down to the most basic body part we all happen to have and one that’s sexual at the same time, our bottoms top the list. Not necessarily an erogenous zone, still a tickle, a spank and an insertion does attract and arouse many a man and woman. Gay men know the pleasures of anal play well as do hetero couples-especially men who admit to it-and all manner of attention back there adds greatly to sexual life. In a way, it’s the body part of free porn.

From the start of our recorded art, from sketches on walls up on through the great artists of history the back of our front has been celebrated, championed and has held fetishists enthralled. No matter the size, shape or skin color, there is as much a lid for every pot as there is an ass for each one of us-or more them one-that we find attractive, want to taste, rub or swat.

Nipples rise when there is arousal. Pussies will lubricate, cocks will unfurl to full erection, eyes will widen as will smiles. Ass cheeks might quiver, blush or flush with gooseflesh, can be revealed under a short skirt or caught in a pair of tight pants, but for the most part asses are indifferent to our obsession and love. Men can have as fine and firm a pair of gluteus as a woman can have a derriere that sways just right. Asses are where we are all equal and where we can make an impression without even having to try, but asses give so little back to all the attention paid them.

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Our asses are a cultural marker to changes in our habits; people’s bottoms spread as they lead a more sedentary lifestyle and at the same time the paradigm of female attractiveness shifts from wide-hipped beauties to super athletic ladies with no butts at all. Watch the ass and one can watch the world.

The kink of spanking would be nothing without the ass, certain women’s sexuality is based on how well she can sway, we can react to a lover in the most simplest of ways, still being sexual but at the same time cute patting our lover’s rear-end. We can mark just where in the world we are by looking down. The ass can be what we obsess over or a passing interest. That which follows us surely is that which defines us.

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The Top Places To Bear It All And Go Naked

Monday, February 21st, 2011

Feb 17 orgasm.com1So, you made a New Year’s resolution to do something out of the ordinary this year. Your 9 to 5 job is getting the best of you and you feel like it’s time to hang up your workday attire for something a bit more comfortable and sexual. No we’re not talking about porn, we referring to the top clothing optional places in the world where you can shed your inhibition and show those private parts:

Naked Cycling: Held annually since 2004 in cities all around the world, people basically ride around naked to celebrate cycling and the human body. It’s not just about baring your bod, it also shows the vulnerability of cyclists on the road and a protest against car culture.

Naked hot springs bathing: In Tokyo, Japan, foreigners are able to strip down naked at this bath house and experience the therapeutic traditions of soaking in natural mineral rich hot springs.

Naked spa treatments for singles and couples: Open your senses and drift into an all nude wonderland at the Ayana Resort Bali and Spa in Indonesia.

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Naked sauna: Kotiharjun Sauna in Helsinki Finland in the only public wood burning sauna in the world and dates back all the way to 1928. You can enjoy the heat while experiences a scrub down and massage. The only downside; there are separate saunas for men and women which is a rule so there is not way to see naked girls.

Naked art festival: The world body painting festival which runs from June 27 to July 3 in Austria has been held annually since 1998. It is the biggest are event in the body painting theme in the world.

Naked city: Wouldn’t it be nice to go to the bank and grocery store naked every day while looking at all the beautiful french women baring it all. Well, visit Cap d’Agde, France, where the entire town is clothing optional.

Naked beach: Haulover beach in Miami is one of the very few government sanctioned clothing optional beaches in the US. This place is ideal for surfing and swinging, and let’s not forget looking at the gorgeous Miami women strutting their stuff.

Naked cultural event: Burning Man runs from August 29 to September 5 and is in the middle of the dessert in Nevada. It has been held annually since 1986 and is described by the people who attend as an experiment in the community of radical self expression, and self reliance. Not too mention a lot of public sex and orgies.

Sex Tips For Bored Couples

Wednesday, February 16th, 2011

Good news to all of you married souls out there! Unlike the popular belief that the majority of eloped couples lead close to inexistent sex lives, science has once again stepped up to the plate and revealed that short of having to resort to free porn every night, married men have more sex than their single counterparts. And before you ask – yes, with their wives. Mistresses are so last year.

In thinking about married people having sex and daily orgasms, I decided to break down a few tips and tricks on how to handle the art of in & out when children and old age are concerned. After all, your college dorm days are far from over my friends.

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Communicate Effectively – If you and your partner find yourself with a dwindling sex life, consider your current communication methods. One of the best ways to keep your sex life – well, alive – is to be verbal about your preference in the sack. If you liked to be touched in a certain spot or try a new position, then by all means, let your significant-other know. Only then will you be able to be in the same page.

Give To Receive – One of the biggest complaints amongst married couples is the lack of appreciation between husband and wife (or husband & husband, wife & wife…whatever floats your boat). If you think that your love life is no longer what it used to be, consider showing your partner some appreciation, even if only for their seemingly small, everyday tasks. You’ll be surprised to see how easy it will be to get some cunnilingus or daily blow jobs after a few tokens of appreciation.

Try Someplace New – A big part of what makes porn so exciting is the fact that it can happen anywhere, at anytime. Just ask the pizza delivery man. If you’re looking to add some of that spontaneity to your own love life, try following suit and opting for less-than-traditional boning spots. The shower and dining room table are great options. Just be 100% positive that your kids are not around – or won’t show up mid-act and be scared for life.

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Slutty Cheerleaders

Monday, February 7th, 2011

courtney_simpsonWhile the subject of choice for much of the free porn we’re into still revolves around cheerleaders, many still falsely believe that in real life, they are nothing but prude spoilt brats. Turns out the porn industry didn’t get it all wrong. From orgies to pom pom orgasm scenes, many of our favorite adult films are nothing but recreations of real life events. Below, we’ll highlight some of the most shocking sex scandals involving the quintessential American sex symbol – cheerleaders. You can thank me later.

1. The Arizona State Cheerleader That Decided To Go Nude – Arizona State University girls already have a bit of a – ahem – “reputation” of doing porn, posing naked and getting into other shenanigans such as drugs, alcohol binges and general slutty behavior. With that said, it was no surprise to discover that a Mormon Courtney Wilson decided to give up on her scholarship and move to California in order to persue a career as a porn star. After proudly showcasing her cheerleading outfit in one of her films, ASU administration was absolutely mortified. We were proud.

2. Orange Coast Orgy - After attending one of those cheesy cheerleading competitions somewhere in the United States (a la Bring It On), the Orange Coast College girls decided to go a little crazy and brought some lucky guy back to their hotel for a night of drinking, drugs, half naked pictures and an orgy or two. After the pictures went viral, the schools reputation went down the drain, bringing the girls along for the ride.

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3. Bothell High School Cheerleaders Get Naked – In yet another bad case of “sexting”, a couple of Bothell High School cheerleaders decided to get a little crazy and took a couple of naked pictures of themselves in a bubbly bathtub. After sending it to their boyfriends, the pictures quickly spread out to the rest of the school and the girls were suspended. Maybe next time they’ll think twice before being that stupid. Though we’re certainly not complaining.

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Sex: Are You A Thrill Seeker or a Comfort Creature?

Thursday, January 20th, 2011

Jan 19 orgasm.com1When it comes to romping in between the sheets, there are essentially two types of fucking styles; the comfort creature and the thrill seeker. The first one I am describing tends to prefer to keep sex within the comfort of their own home, with one partner, and sticks to a few tried and true positions and routines. These ones are nothing like the people we would see on free porn. On the other hand, thrill seekers are complete opposite. They want new positions and toys, different partners or locations, and overall more sex. So, when it couple is made up of two comfort creatures, or two thrill seekers, they have it easy because they are essentially on the same page, sexually.

But what happens when a comfort creature falls for a thrill seeker, or vice versa?

It is often more common then you think, but most couples don’t realize this until much further along in they’re relationship. This is because in the beginning both partners have been under the spell of a potent neurochemical cocktail of infatuation which is responsible for constant canoodling, which masks any differences in the bedroom.

These hormones can actually mask other differences in the relationship, from how often you like to have sex to whether or not you enjoy public displays of affection. According to Psychology Today, “a person’s inherent need for sensation is not necessarily obvious in the early stages of a relationship, when love itself is a novelty and carries its own thrills-it’s when the sex becomes routine that problems occur.”

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Sexual compatibility can have a real impact on your relationship and I’m sure anyone reading this has been there at one time or another! Maybe you crave sex everyday, but your partner is perfectly fine doing it once a month. Maybe your partner likes to talk about sex, while the very word of sex makes the other blush. The question is, are you destined to break up?

Scientists say, not necessarily. The brain is the biggest and most powerful sex organ and it’s completely possible for sexually incompatible couples to have very compatible relationships. Great advice out of the University if British Columbia says longtime couples to rekindle the romance should pretend they are strangers on a first date. Experiment with wigs and different outfits and meet at a local bar. This will be sure to spice things up!

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Hef To Get Playboy Back In His Hands

Thursday, January 13th, 2011

300.madison.hefner.marquardt.lc.092208The massive company, Playboy, has agreed to an offer from the man who founded it all, Hugh Hefner, to take the firm private after he raised his bid by 12%.

The Icon Acquisition Holding, which was controlled by Hef, offered $6.15 a share for publicly-listed Playboy, which ultimately values the firm at $210 million. Wowzers.

The 84 year old, who recently got engaged to a 24 year old blonde bombshell, already owns about 70% of Playboy’s Class A common stock and 28% of it’s Class B stock, but he wants it ALL!

There was outside competition from FriendFinder and Penthouse magazine which had offered $6.25 a share.

Hef, who is a God in my books, set up the Playboy magazine back in 1953, but, since the availability of free porn on the internet rising in recent years, circulation and advertising revenues have been failing drastically.

The company has been trying to transform it from a publishing and TV business into a “brand management” company in order to keep the profits coming and therefore has been licensing out the Playboy name and those infamous rabbit ears for a range of different products.

“I believe this agreement will give us the resources and flexibility to return Playboy to its unique position and to further expand our business around the world,” Hefner said.

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Hefner also revealed he wants his hands on everything the company owns in order to be able to pass on the entire thing to his sons when he is ready to retire and when they are ready to step up and run the family business.

In my opinion, I don’t care who is running it, as long as it is still up and going. Not just because of being able to see some of the most famous and gorgeous woman on the planet naked, but because the Playboy name has a sort of class attached to it and with all the amateur and trashy stuff you can find on the internet these days, it’s nice to see something more conservative once in a while.