An image of the live chat room where a man exposed his wife over the Playstation 4 and Twitcht.tv network.

The Next-Generation gaming consoles have hit the market just in time for the holiday season, and the machines are flying of the shelves in record numbers, however, a new feature for Sony’s Playstation 4 allows its users to live stream video over a partnered network, and several have taken advantage of the new feature, filming live sex acts and homemade amateur pornography to stream live over Twitch.tv.

One of the more shocking acts that have been caught on film was a married couple who were seen drinking beers in “The Playroom”, under the account Darckobra12. Eventually the wife passes out, presumably from intoxication, as her husband decides to expose parts of her body to his online audience. First it was her breast, then it was a lift of her skirt, but then the camera went black as audio could still be heard.

Ten minutes later, a new image appeared over Darckobra12′s live stream. The wife was now fully naked, still passed out, and left alone on the couch, while exposed to the countless amount of people over the Internet. There have been several ‘audience members’ who have come forward stating the audio heard at the time of the dark screen was the couple whispering about getting naked on camera, leaving many to believe the wife was in on it the entire time. Since, Darckobra12′s account has been banned.

The demand for amateur pornography has been on the rise since the adult content market was flooded with fake tits, bleach blonde hair and high profile stars in the 1990s. As the consumer market grew tired of the same thing, they looked for unknown stars with regular bodies and more realistic scenarios within videos, and with it, the taboo fetish of voyeurism, where you spy on people in intimate or sexual acts.

So what is Fifty Shades of Grey? Well, for starters, it’s a book. Yes, with words. We know, we know…reading is so hard. However, that hasn’t stopped women from jumping all over it like a fat kid on smarties. In fact, some people are even referring to it as “mommy porn” because it’s been so popular with women.

What is this crazy book about? In a word: sex. It describes the BDSM relationship between Anastasia Steele and Christian Grey. She’s a young college graduate and he’s a billionaire. They have sex. Lots and lots of sex. The sex is described in great detail and housewives are eating it up.

Why do we care about this? More importantly: why should you care about Fifty Shades of Grey? Well, because if this book is any indication, your wife/girlfriend/friendly neighborhood fuck buddy (Hi Gladys!) may just have some naughty fantasies up her sleeve that she’s not telling you about. Yup, just think about it: she could be fantasizing about you taking her roughly from behind and you don’t even know about it.

First you’ve got the pay per view “good quality porn” out there. Things are lit (although not well lit), the girls are wearing makeup (rather whore-ish, but if the shoe fits…) and there are “story lines”.

The average amateur free stuff online isn’t as good. You’ve got drunken girls getting fucked by their boyfriends (or girlfriends), shaky camera angles and usually way too much talking. Sometimes I just want to tell the guy to stuff it in her mouth already!

Often, free porn is a bit of a free for all. You’ll find the crummy shaky porn right next to the amazing close ups of anal or a cumshot facial. It’s more up to the site than it is the movie.

That might be part of the problem. With adult films, piracy has been rampant for years. I’m not suggesting that we all pay to watch but it’s sad that some star gets gang banged so hard that her pussy looks like a kicked in pumpkin and that she’ll never see any residual payments for her “performance”.

Still, the cat is out of the bag and nobody is going to start paying if that they don’t have to. Smart porn makers are doing things like making their own free sites with advertisements to pay for the movie making. That seems like the way to go.

Like with free music online, free porn hasn’t ruined sex vids, but it has forever changed the industry.

The problem is that for some guys the gate doesn’t reopen and allow the blood to leave and thus his dick stays hard, painfully so. This can not only be painful but also threatening to his health. The reason this condition is called Priapism is because it’s roots go back to ancient Rome and the Roman god Priapus. Priapus was a fertility deity who was always pictured as possessing an enormous and always erect penis. They would honor him with various statues and always with his enormous package showing for all the world to see. Imagine seeing a statue of a nude man with a humongous engorged dick and his stony hands stroking it and brandishing it luridly in a public area. Imagine the tops of fences, or hand rails shaped in the form of the head of a penis. Imagine it being considered good luck to rub the cock before entering or leaving a building. In today’s world this would clearly be considered Porn but in their world it was considered almost holy and sacred. It certainly wasn’t looked at as Porn or dirty in any way.

There were statues of people copulating and other things which to our modern sensibilities would easily fit the definition yet for them it wasn’t the act, but rather the light within which the act was shown. Some today would agree, but most just call it porn.

There are as many different accounts of the exact powers vampires have and they differ according to each writer. It has also become quite cliché to try and the long standing traditions of vampires on their heads and have things that one expects to work, not work, on them. For instance it’s become a favorite device of writers to say that crosses no longer work on them and that religious symbols of any kind are worthless. It has also become popular to say that they can just waltz about in sunlight willy nilly without the slightest sun burn as well. These things are done usually out of a biased sense of the writer toward such things in combination with a more simple minded attempt to shock and awe the reader. This shock and awe represents a greater lack of creativity in turning vampires into superhuman creatures that have virtually no weaknesses whatsoever. The harder and more rewarding road is to keep to as many traditions as possible and over turn them through creativity and not simple minded ploys. Human beings have been around for a long time, and have obviously taken dominant positions in the earth, therefore it stands to reason that they have done so for a reason.

Humans aren’t that easy to dispose of. The agencies and governments today would easily prove more than a match for vampires even with their Sex and seduction powers. Once humans understand that the Sex is only a lure that leads to death they would not be as easily swayed and it’s also true that the vampires power of seduction would truthfully only go so far. They would necessarily have to work within the bounds of power of suggestion if they wanted to get a piece of ass that leads to a meal. For instance they would not likely get a straight man to have sex with a gay man unless he already had that inclination. Suggestions to the contrary would be at best, extremely difficult to pull off.

There is just no objective way to define really what is sexy. What is absolutely abjectly kinky to one person is downright boring to another. What titillates one person or even a group won’t another. If we can’t really determine what’s good and bad in porn-as we couldn’t ever be able to in any other artistic pursuit-then we can’t say if and when porn movies have or are made with good taste or not.

This is really at the crux of what drives critics crazy about porn. They cannot get anyone to agree with them that porn is in bad taste and when you don’t agree with someone proposing a religious-based agenda or a morals cause, then you challenge the very fabric of the world they believe in, and that’s just none so good for the zealot. When you postulate that there is a possibility that like all things, taste in porn movies is a subjective critique at best, then you open the door to the possibility that there might simply be different ways of looking at the world and the more insecure one is about how they look at the world, the more resistant they will be to different ways of looking.

If indeed there is taste in porn or porn of taste then that presupposes that things are subjective and everything is open to interpretation, even in porn movies…and that is just something some people will not allow in their world view!

One of the advantages of technology and computers is the ability to have anonymous sexual encounters with no physical participation between the participants. There couldn’t be sex any safer than that, but it still allows people to live out their wildest sexual fantasies with another human being instead of simply watching porn or relying solely on their own imaginations. Cybersex is a pretty interesting concept, because all it is really is an enhanced form of masturbation. There is another person involved via the computer, and that can be with or without a webcam so sometimes it’s just text via instant messaging or chatrooms. Each participant is by themselves (presumably) in front of a computer screen, sharing a fantasy.

Basically what they’re doing is writing an erotic story together by role playing the characters actions, discussion and reactions. It can be very enjoyable though, and many people feel that it’s better than jerking off alone, and since the chat transcripts can be saved, both parties can keep a copy of the story to jerk off to in the future if they so choose. With the addition of a webcam, they dynamic changes a bit because the visual is added, so it becomes a little bit less like an erotic novel. Without a camera though, we could be anyone speaking to anyone.

The anonymity of it allows people to create a persona for themselves; they can be anything or anyone they want. It could be a guy pretending to be a female and lesbian. It could be a teenager pretending to be a 45-year-old rich man that wants to eventually meet in person. Lonely or unhappy people can sometimes start to feel an emotional attachment to their cybering buddy, and are quite often very disappointed when it never moves into real life or when they find out the person hasn’t been completely honest about who they are, but if we all keep our wits about us and don’t get overly attached to a fantasy person, it can be a lot of fun and a great outlet for sexual fantasies that we might want to explore in this realm before attempting it in real life for whatever reasons. It gives people a way to have sexual release with the feeling of having someone else involved, even though the other person or people aren’t physically present.

When your single and alone often times keeping yourself a stash of Free porn can be a life saver and game changer. It can really help you keep yourself on the level and avoid being desperate. When you get desperate it can contribute to your making bad decisions that will negatively affect your life and your reputation. When you are desperate for sex and intimacy you will often find that your standards begin lowering and this can become very problematic as it goes on.

You are likely to start looking at potential partners you would never have given the time of day to before. They will be people that won’t typically meet your standards and people you wouldn’t want to associate with. When you start getting desperate those standards start going out the window and this has to be avoided. The consequences of this can be very far reaching if you aren’t careful. Stay on top of this problem and avoid it with an Orgasm now and then from masturbating to porn.

This will help give you at least a minimum fix of release. It will help you stay away from desperation until you can meet someone that meets your standards. Then you can continue on. The good thing about having a stash of porn to dip into when you need it is that it can last you a very long time as long as you continually cycle it from time to time. You want to keep things fresh and new so that it doesn’t get old having to try and jerk off to the same old scenes and actresses time and again. You can avoid this by keeping a steady inflow of regular new material. Find a reputable source you can trust and get a membership or whatever you need to download and keep a fresh stock. That way things stay new and interesting and arousing. You can keep doing this for an immeasurable amount of time until you find someone that can become your partner.

By viewing or reading porn men and women can be exposed to new and potentially interesting new forms of erotica. The way to do this is either to “spin off” what you normally enjoy looking at or reading or simply try a jump in a totally new direction. For example if you enjoy looking at pictures, say, of women with large breasts try finding images you find sexually arousing with pictures of women with smaller breasts or even in a new direction by looking at random pictures of such. Many men as well as women have found whole new avenues of sexuality and arousal by simply taking a bit of time and cruising the web aimlessly or renting a video they normally would not look at. The sheer availability of the stuff simply makes all this porn so a healthy deep well to explore.

So while, yes, erotica and pornography may make some people uncomfortable – or that they are simply uncomfortable with the erotic and sexual thoughts or feelings erotica and pornography may bring up in them- we need to keep in mind that pornography can actually be a good and best of all healthy way of expanding your sexual horizons. Alone, with a lover or sharing with friends, porn opens doors in ways no other way of communicating about sex ever can.

Another way to turn on a girlfriend is through the written word. Or, more specifically, in reading pornography. What a boyfriend might get off on through watching, a girlfriend might get off on through reading about. There is an abundance of written erotica available on the internet these days. In addition to websites that feature erotic stories, there are e-book sites that specialize in a variety of erotica. It’s easy to find erotica for nearly every taste. Purchase a collection of short stories with themes that are of interest. There are anthologies of bondage stories, spanking tales, novels where threesomes figure into the action and even maintstream books with their share of sex scenes. Some erotica is soft and sexy, while others can be hard core and very kinky indeed.
Couples can tease one another on special reading nights. Instead of going out to a movie or a sex club, they can stay home and read aloud from a favorite porn story. If either the guy or gal is into something slightly kinky partners can blindfold one another, or be tied to the bed while the reader taunts and teases them with words. Chapters can even be made to last with the story read over multiple nights and of course any and all manner of touching can ensue while one person reads to another.
Remember how kids used to beg to have another story read to them at bedtime? Begging can also be sexy. But begging for another chapter, or begging to get off is an adult way to make this nighttime ritual even sexier. One partner might make bargain with the other to be read to, or offer to strip tease while their lover reads slow steady passages, in affect egging them on with words.

Reading a story out loud is verbal foreplay. And it can also give some great ideas as to what to experiment with as sexual exploration grows.