Archive for the ‘Erotic Arts’ Category
Friday, April 22nd, 2011
As sex addiction is bandied around these days as an almost cause célčbre malady, it is as prevalent for men and women to become addicted to the roles they play in the bedroom, even the roles they play in the everyday action of their marriage. A man who becomes every much the typical pussy-whipped hubby can assume a submissive pose when having sex with his wife as when cleaning the kitchen. The put-upon woman afraid to confront her husband’s consistent disapproval might just do all she can to accommodate her man as much in bed as out.
Guys and girls who enjoy some sort of kink play, can even see their specific actions and mindset follow them out of a play space or scene, often to just as insidious results. They might begin to live their kink as part of their life or simply want that kink to be their life
For most, the fun of kink is that it is not real, that both partners know it is fantasy, and that, for the most part, a couple takes a break from their everyday lives and whatever their roles might be in those lives to either accentuate certain parts of their personalities or completely flip their experience for something they never encounter in real life. If one maintains the kink life beyond playing, if roles we are in real life become very much the role we play at in a kink scene, we do run the risk of not knowing where the kink stops and real life begins.
Complete immersion in what we want sexually, during even the moments of our lives when we aren’t exercising our lusts, can be exhausting to say the least!
But a good many kinksters are not looking to make a distinction, to delineate between what they do in kink and what they do in life. For many couples there is no separation. These men and women employ a Herculean effort keeping their kink alive all the time. The slightest slip from the pose threatens not only the loss of erotica for the partners it also means a loss of self, of who one is as much as what one wants.
Identity for these kinksters is part and parcel with their play.
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Sunday, April 17th, 2011
Many people have heard of fisting, also known sometimes as handballing, where the entire hand of one lover is inserted into the orifice of another. Vaginal fisting is of course where the entire hand is inserted into the cunt or pussy or vagina, while there is also anal fisting which involves inserting the whole hand — or even much of the arm — up the asshole.
Fisting can seem to one like a much more extreme sexual practice than it truly is in reality. For one thing, the practice is associated largely with sexual extremism or at least with lesbians and with gay men
for vaginal and anal practices respectively. One may also imagine that fisting causes terrible damage, causing huge loose gaping vaginas or assholes that can never tighten again or be enjoyed by others as they were before. Of course, one would have to wonder then why these practices are so common if so.
First off, fisting can be very safe. Tightness returns naturally to these orifices which are used to being stretched for various reasons. In any gender, it is a great idea to practice kegel exercises in order to strengthen the pelvic floor muscle that is responsible for tightening.
The next thing to know is that fisting is a sport that involves a lot of patience and a lot of lube. Getting a good personal or sexual lubricant for the job is crucial — a nice thick one which lasts a long time will help a lot.
Next up, one should consider gloves for use in fisting. Latex gloves or non latex gloves for those with allergies, are a great choice. They add smoothness to the entire experience and retain lubricant much better — this has the double benefit of making it easier to fist someone but it also adds to clean-up, preventing santorum and other residue and it can also add to the pleasure of the recipient who may very much enjoy the slick texture. Skin has a tendency to pull in unpleasant ways sometimes.
The most important thing in fisting is to go very slow. Gently begin by fingering the pussy or asshole and then gradually, slowly, adding more fingers. Always be sure to reapply lubricant frequently, even with vaginal fisting one needs to be aware that one’s fingers will be blocking the flow of normal vaginal lubrication!
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Saturday, April 16th, 2011
For many a couple the eroticism of water; having sex in it, playing with it, even the buoyancy of how it carries and lifts our bodies, is very intense. The very specific physical nature of floating in water while fucking, naked bodies sliding this way and that in the shower or under a pool, even the coolness or heat felt as certain liquids are tickled across certain body part, truly makes water one of the most sexual of all elements. The cliché couple rolling across a sun-kissed beach while waves splash them, or two people frolicking in a pool matches well to the sloshing sounds of water breaking over its container or the orgasmic crash of waves smashing against a rocky shoal. We are one with water as much from our being as to our sexuality.
From the steamy surrounds of hot tub sex to masturbating with a shower head, to the deep fetishes of water sports of piss and scat, to the sensation arousal of lighting a bare buttock with a spray of cool water before spanking it, or a woman going down on her man with ice-cubes In her mouth, all the forms of water at all its various temperatures is arousing to lovers, from gay to bi to straight couples. A quick perusal of on-line sites will reveal just as many fetishes and sexual escapades with water as without.
Better in then out though, water presents a host of problems as a lubricant and should not be introduced into the vagina or anus. A woman’s natural wetness is as much washed away by water as a man will find jerking-off in the shower nearly impossible-certainly more abrasive then arousing-if he uses the needle spray as a lubricant. Though we are made up of 70% water and can be mightily aroused by it, sticking to silicone lubes or any other variation of other safe liquids beats water-based lubes every time.
The actual act of making-love in or around water-considering we are clutched close so not much water can come between us-possibly cooling or heating breasts, buttocks or testicles with a nice fast splash or finding romance with the rolling of the sea beyond are all ways water fuels the sexiness in our sex lives.
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Friday, April 15th, 2011
You don’t have to be a porn star to swallow. The average male semen contains roughly 0.1 and 100 milliliters of sperm and holds a fascination for both men and women in the form of swallowing semen. As far as consistency and taste go, that is usually the issue in question when it comes to whether a partner swallows or not.
The fetish of swallowing traces its’ origins a long way back. Dating back to the Church of Epiphanius and other libertine Gnostics who swallowed sperm as the body of Christ, and a form of worship. The tribes of Papua New Guinea have culturally believed that semen provides sexual maturity among the younger men of the tribe. The practice of fellating the elders in order to gain their authority and power is held for prepubescent and post pubescent men of the tribe. This practice may also relate to practiced homosexuality in these tribes.
Dietary supplements have been on the market for a number of years as a way to increase the volume of semen provided in a man. None of these supplements have been validated by the scientific community.
The typical makeup of ejaculation consists primarily of water but also contain every nutrient needed by the human body in order to function properly. A typical dosage of semen contains at least 150 mg of protein, 11 mgs of carbohydrates and other trace minerals. The only risks involved in swallowing cum are those of fellatio such as transmission of STDs between unclean partners.
While there is no hardcore scientific evidence in changing the taste of semen, many people swear diet has an influential factor in shaping the taste. Red meats, tobacco and alcohol typically infuse a bitter or acrid taste while coffee and teas also do nothing to aid in the taste. Fresh fruits and vegetables, while good for the body are also believed to sweeten the taste significantly. Prolonged times between ejaculation intervals are also said to contribute to the volume of semen produced and shot out.
Sexual practices of swallowing have gone so far to include bukkake from the Japanese culture, cream pies, snowballing and felching, which may involve more than one partner. Aleister Crowley and the Ecclesia Gnostica Catholica practice swallowing semen during Gnostic Mass as a way to gain spiral power from the Divine.
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Wednesday, March 16th, 2011
In a world where computers are very common, and locating erotica on the web is common, the pictures are only one of the types available. It’s time to think of ways to engage each other’s senses as part of sexual foreplay.
Many people, especially women, are not as interested in looking at dirty pictures or watching porn off of DVDs or from on-line downloads.
Another way to turn on a girlfriend is through the written word. Or, more specifically, in reading pornography. What a boyfriend might get off on through watching, a girlfriend might get off on through reading about. There is an abundance of written erotica available on the internet these days. In addition to websites that feature erotic stories, there are e-book sites that specialize in a variety of erotica. Its easy to find erotica for nearly every taste. Purchase a collection of short stories with themes that are of interest. There are anthologies of bondage stories, spanking tales, novels where threesomes figure into the action and even maintstream books with their share of sex scenes. Some erotica is soft and sexy, while others can be hard core and very kinky indeed.
Couples can tease one another on special reading nights. Instead of going out to a movie or a sex club, they can stay home and read aloud from a favorite porn story. If either the guy or gal is into something slightly kinky
partners can blindfold one another, or be tied to the bed while the reader taunts and teases them with words. Chapters can even be made to last with the story read over multiple nights and of course any and all manner of touching can ensue while one person reads to another.
Remember how kids used to beg to have another story read to them at bedtime? Begging can also be sexy. But begging for another chapter, or begging to get off is an adult way to make this nighttime ritual even sexier. One partner might make bargain with the other to be read to, or offer to strip tease while their lover reads slow steady passages, in affect egging them on with words.
Reading a story out loud is verbal foreplay. And it can also give some great ideas as to what to experiment with as sexual exploration grows.
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Wednesday, March 9th, 2011
Some women enjoy the portrayals of women in porn, but many others do not. Especially for women who have sex with women in real life, sometimes the porno version of sex can seem pretty artificial.
Forget about the barely-there plot concepts for most porn video no one really needs too much of a story anyway. For many women (and feminist-conscious men, for that matter), the interactions just dont ring true. Women seem rather artificial and tailored to porn images of what a sexy woman should be, silicone tits and all. Some women who endeavor to make lesbian and bisexual porn of their own have found a niche that is sexy and shows some essential truths about women and their erotic lives.
First of all, women of varying shapes and sizes may be portrayed. Abandoning the bleach blonde bimbo image or the overly skinny with big boobs look, Women-for-Women who make their own porn might like a woman with a little more booty. They may enjoy seeing women of different, non-stereotyped cultural backgrounds getting into it. Exceptionally important is the portrayal of different genders. The gender normative look and behavior for women is far from all thats really out there. In W4W porn, you could find a femme topping a soft butch, two BBW with short hair getting it on, a butch-femme coupling, an all-female orgy, or even a femme-on-femme scene, but one where the women look and act like real people.
Women who should video do it for a reason to add voices and erotic images to the canon that better reflects them. They presumably want to produce erotica that turns them on. In that quest, showing scenes that are genuinely hot is an important part of the enterprises. The level of arousal in the women is usually palpable. Sounds of sex, the way bodies react to touch, the portrayal of cunnilingus all look and feel like those women want to be with each other, producing happy, powerful orgasms together. There is pussy licking and sex toys, used in a way that as the vibrator enters the well-lubed pussy, it is obvious that is feels good. Sounds of approval are resonant and abundant. Women who do women know how to show it to the rest of us.
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Tuesday, March 8th, 2011
Men only ever become pussy whipped because they want to.
Straight boys are fascinated in a womans vagina almost to the exclusion of all else-expect friction-and this chalice of womanhood has been celebrated in art, music, free porn, and literature as much as the phallus that fits inside it. Other female body parts may fascinate the straight guy, even gat man have been known to take notice of a firm high shelf of breasts or a nice swaying buttocks, still it is the vagina that ultimately has the most pull.
But over the time of a straight man’s life the cunt, vaja-jay, hairpie-whatever it is to be called-becomes less of a fascination, less something women can hold out from their partners or wield with impunity.
Because over time, men realize there is a woman attached to that pussy.
It takes a man a while but he does come around. First he has to get his mind off fucking. He has to realize that the fact that his dick is hard is truly only fascinating to him! Hopefully from this ephifany he learns to care about and subsequently please his bed partner, whomever he or she happens to be. Lastly, the man might grow to the point where he stops objectifying, or at least tempers his need to objectify, body parts to the exclusion of the person who sports a pair of breasts or a cute ass. And then, the very thing women wish men would do more often-notice them as a whole-renders a woman less powerful.
If a man begins to notice the whole woman, not just her ass, tits and that deep well of her mystery her vagina, then the woman no longer has the mystery of her parts to hold over her man. Men who wish to be controlled by the cunt can still be, but that is a self-imposed slavery to a body part most adult men will not coddle. Seasoned guys will no longer worship a womans parts simply because they have grown to the point where they recognize a woman is a sum of her parts. Sure, guys are still set-up to see first and fit the piece into the whole later, but the pieces become less important as men grow older.
Or if not, they stay ready and waiting to be pussy whipped
just like they want to be.
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Monday, March 7th, 2011
Finding new horizons in your sex life can be a fun and exciting experience but it can also be one you can easily get carried away with when you don’t do it responsibly. Whether you are in a committed relationship with a love interest or whether you are fucking strangers, you must always take care not to allow yourself to go too far or get carried away. When you are feeling jaded and looking for a new sex experience you have to be careful you don’t allow yourself to become too seduced by the pleasure. Everyone has limits on how far they will go and while it is always healthy to challenge those limits from time to time it is also very healthy to remember why those limits are there in the first place.
Just because you decide you have found your limit does not mean you have refused to grow or that you are small or close minded. It means you have standards and you stick to them. And one might be amazed at how wonderful and vibrant ones fucking might become when a couple sticks to some of the same things, but discover a new level to their tried-and true standards they did not know existed before. Oral sex can be aided and improved by the addition of foods, syrups or sweet things to go with a little pussy licking or some cock sucking. And many people realize they in fact might be a little kinkier then they first imagined and by wearing some clothes they might already have in their closet their entire mood might change to what they want sexually! A simple change the location when one has sex can do wonders to a staid sex life, as well as simply ideas of what to say and maybe how to act.
There are all sorts of ways you can vary the things you already enjoy without having to do entirely different things. Watching free porn vids can give you some ideas. You just have to be able to see the same things with a brand new perspective and discover that something has layers and levels you have never experienced before. You have gone to entirely new territory and yet still retained your standards of conduct. You have gotten the best of all worlds involved and are satisfied in ways you never imagined before. The orgasms you experience now can be greater than ever before.
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Monday, March 7th, 2011
What some people may consider a self-indulgent activity while watching free porn, masturbation may be even more than they anticipated.
Masturbation is not only a great way to get off when youre horny and alone, but it might be your way into a meditative state, or into the deep Self, if you will. All kinds of sounds and activities can help produce the mind states associated with meditation or trance.
Stroking the bat or petting the cat might be the perfect method for those who easily link sexuality with spirituality.
Repetition is one condition that is known to help a person tune into a place of stillness in the mind or body. That repetition can come from sound, as in meditation music that has a quieting pattern, or from the chanting of a mantra. Saying an affirmation every day to yourself in the mirror is a kind of repetition that evokes a light trance state and feelings of positivity.
Masturbation is a powerful tool for repetition and positivity. There is repeating motion in the hand as on pleasures their genitals. There are the waves of pleasure themselves which repeat in their own patterns and obviously produce good feelings. By getting into a state of slowly building pleasure, a person can find a psychological realm that feels like a peaceful trance-like experience.
In this form of masturbation, the goal is not immediate orgasm. Take your time. Allow yourself to be in the journey toward climax, a journey that could last for hours. By approaching orgasm then backing off from your repetitive hand movements, you can not only stay in the peaceful realm, but build and build the powerful sexual energy. Some people call the getting close and backing off edging while the state of mind that can occur in being so close to orgasm for an extended time is called gooning.
This practice can be done anywhere you normally relax. If you like to jill or jack off in a warm, scented oil bath, try this method there. If you stroke it in bed watching sex videos before sleeping, go to bed early and try this with enough time to make it last a while. Once you are finally going to allow yourself to cum, get ready for some amazing feelings. You will have a phenomenal release.
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Saturday, March 5th, 2011
The older we get the more we notice
even if we dont want to. Certainly our sexual vocabulary increases in what we want, how we want it, and what we know we must do to get it. We begin to notice the nuance of a touch, the sensuality of someones smile and how the way someone acts to and with us is the very best foreplay. We need the look and feel of body parts just as much as ever, but beyond the hubris of youth, a certain bloom is off the rose, not that we dont still like looking at the rose, but the pedals and stem attract us just as much.
This is why the disembodied cock isnt as attractive as it might have once been.
Gay men and straight girls might be fascinated by the male member, but as they grow older, it depends more who the dick is attached to then it does the dick itself to inform the attractiveness of that dick. Used to be, one could marvel over a thick bulge and never raise ones eyes to the face of the man who sported that heavy crotch; as one grows older, the crotch-no matter how attractive-does not exist independent from the man. Something shifts in our psyches as we feel a little seasoning and body parts, no matter how thick or long, are simply just body parts.
In most cases, no matter their age, straight women never objectify male parts as much as straight men objectify a womans tits, ass
everything, part and parcel from the woman they are attracted to. Gay men to, because they have the same parts as their lover, do not have as much a fascination for objectification. Its not to say any of us, whatever sex or sexual orientation, dont enjoy looking at or touching the bounce, firmness, thickness, roundness or length of a specific naughty pink part from time to time, its just that as time wears on we are less apt to find only the part itself attractive separate from the person whose part it is, doubly so if one is a hetero or a gay man who didnt really objectify all that much to begin with.
Though certainly championed in advertising and in porn, regardless of size, the cock itself means very little to anyone truly unless attached to a man whom one wants to know.
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