It’s really hard to imagine a world without Orgasm.com. We’ve got free porn at our finger tips and we can rub one out whenever we want! It’s just too damn easy.
Believe it or not, back in the day there was no such thing as free porn online! Could you imagine!
So, people had to really use their imaginations when they wanted to masturbate.
Here is a look at a few different things people masturbated to before online porn existed:
Tis the season of giving! What better way to get into the holiday spirit than by sliding your greasy hands up the sexy legs of your adult friend? Yep, that’s right! Today on orgasm.com we’re going to show you how to give an erotic massage to the one you lust.
Have you ever heard of Priapism? Priapism is a medical condition affecting a man’s cock to where he has a permanent erection- you can read about Priapism here in our sex wikipedia. His dick stays hard not because he’s horny after so much pussy but because his body is malfunctioning. Inside the cock there is a tube which allows a man to urinate, but that same tube is also used to ejaculate. What happens is that within the body there is a gate which controls and allows fluids to enter the penis. If you have to pee the gate opens allowing you to do so, then later if your getting horny it opens to allow blood to flow, and then get off.
The problem is that for some guys the gate doesn’t reopen and allow the blood to leave and thus his dick stays hard, painfully so. This can not only be painful but also threatening to his health. The reason this condition is called Priapism is because it’s roots go back to ancient Rome and the Roman god Priapus. Priapus was a fertility deity who was always pictured as possessing an enormous and always erect penis. They would honor him with various statues and always with his enormous package showing for all the world to see. Imagine seeing a statue of a nude man with a humongous engorged dick and his stony hands stroking it and brandishing it luridly in a public area. Imagine the tops of fences, or hand rails shaped in the form of the head of a penis. Imagine it being considered good luck to rub the cock before entering or leaving a building. In today’s world this would clearly be considered Porn but in their world it was considered almost holy and sacred. It certainly wasn’t looked at as Porn or dirty in any way.
There were statues of people copulating and other things which to our modern sensibilities would easily fit the definition yet for them it wasn’t the act, but rather the light within which the act was shown. Some today would agree, but most just call it porn.
Even the federal U.S. government does not want to get itself stuck in the question of what is porn and what is erotica. Legislatures and clergy have been attempting to find a cemented definition in order to prosecute over one word and caution for the other, but in determining if there is a difference between porn movies and erotic films one would have to consider individual taste-what arouses one person, what repels another-and when it comes to porn and taste, things get quite sticky indeed.
There is just no objective way to define really what is sexy. What is absolutely abjectly kinky to one person is downright boring to another. What titillates one person or even a group won’t another. If we can’t really determine what’s good and bad in porn-as we couldn’t ever be able to in any other artistic pursuit-then we can’t say if and when porn movies have or are made with good taste or not.
This is really at the crux of what drives critics crazy about porn. They cannot get anyone to agree with them that porn is in bad taste and when you don’t agree with someone proposing a religious-based agenda or a morals cause, then you challenge the very fabric of the world they believe in, and that’s just none so good for the zealot. When you postulate that there is a possibility that like all things, taste in porn movies is a subjective critique at best, then you open the door to the possibility that there might simply be different ways of looking at the world and the more insecure one is about how they look at the world, the more resistant they will be to different ways of looking.
If indeed there is taste in porn or porn of taste then that presupposes that things are subjective and everything is open to interpretation, even in porn movies…and that is just something some people will not allow in their world view!
There’s an old cliched statement: Don’t be shy, I don’t bite. But for some of us who are interested in an especially uninhibited and free sex life we may want our interactions to have a little more sting and in which case, biting can often be a fun addition to our bedroom interactions. Obviously everyone will feel different about any sexual activity, and this can be good or bad for a specific person. Some people will have concerns about bite marks which can show at work, but even with such people there is a lot of body area to cover, unless of course they are models or a porn star in which case one may have to be a little bit more careful — unless one is an actor too and helping them create sex videos with some hot biting fetish action!
The Kama Sutra is the ancient guide to sexual behaviors and sex positions which many people have studied over the centuries since it was first created in ancient India. What most people know are that it depicts many different contorted positions in which a person can have sexual intercourse. But it also has guides to all kinds of sexual behavior and one feature of it is that it features quite a lot of material on the subject of erotic biting. Evidently the ancient Indians knew what a thrill it could be, even to the point of including it in their porn!
One can experiment with biting in many ways and many places. One should generally start gently but one may find that their lover is encouraging them to bite even harder and give them more sensation. Biting can be added to kissing and a make out session, moving from the lips to nuzzle and nibble at the neck and shoulders — though be careful of hickies as we said above. Many women enjoy being bitten on the back of the neck or where the neck and shoulders meet, either as a stimulation on its own or an addition to sex.
The nature of sexual power exchange is the idea that a person, within the context of erotic play, gives up control to another person; but in reality it is a bit more complicated than that and, as with a lot of sexual and erotic interests and play, it is very important to read as much as possible, take classes, and talk to people before trying it out. One reason why this is important is that the reality of power exchange play is that the person that many people assume is in control is not really: the bottom, submissive, or slave is the one who is actually in control as they always, for matter of safely, be able to change or alter the play at any time. The master or dominant is the one who has to be responsible and must always be willing to change the scene to protect and keep safe the person they are playing with. The dominant or master may have the attitude or such of being in control but if the other person involved ever wants the play or scene to change they that dominant or master must immediately respond to their needs.
Part of the way this can happen is through what are called safe-words: a code that the submissive can say that will be a signal to the dominant that they want the play to change. The words, ideally, should be ones that won’t be used commonly to avoid confusion and it’s best to have a specific few words at the ready to indicate levels ;darker colors for instance to indicate the play is growing ever more intense or painful This is also why communication must be there are all times, so that the submissive can talk to the dominant and vice versa. The dominant, too, must be able to say at any time that they are uncomfortable or do not want to proceed.
So, while power exchange can be an effective erotic component of kink play, it’s best to always learn as much about it before you try it out with anyone else so you can play safely for a very long time. There are so many levels to what we might seek sexually that it is best we keep open to all possibilities.
One of the advantages of technology and computers is the ability to have anonymous sexual encounters with no physical participation between the participants. There couldn’t be sex any safer than that, but it still allows people to live out their wildest sexual fantasies with another human being instead of simply watching porn or relying solely on their own imaginations. Cybersex is a pretty interesting concept, because all it is really is an enhanced form of masturbation. There is another person involved via the computer, and that can be with or without a webcam so sometimes it’s just text via instant messaging or chatrooms. Each participant is by themselves (presumably) in front of a computer screen, sharing a fantasy.
Basically what they’re doing is writing an erotic story together by role playing the characters actions, discussion and reactions. It can be very enjoyable though, and many people feel that it’s better than jerking off alone, and since the chat transcripts can be saved, both parties can keep a copy of the story to jerk off to in the future if they so choose. With the addition of a webcam, they dynamic changes a bit because the visual is added, so it becomes a little bit less like an erotic novel. Without a camera though, we could be anyone speaking to anyone.
The anonymity of it allows people to create a persona for themselves; they can be anything or anyone they want. It could be a guy pretending to be a female and lesbian. It could be a teenager pretending to be a 45-year-old rich man that wants to eventually meet in person. Lonely or unhappy people can sometimes start to feel an emotional attachment to their cybering buddy, and are quite often very disappointed when it never moves into real life or when they find out the person hasn’t been completely honest about who they are, but if we all keep our wits about us and don’t get overly attached to a fantasy person, it can be a lot of fun and a great outlet for sexual fantasies that we might want to explore in this realm before attempting it in real life for whatever reasons. It gives people a way to have sexual release with the feeling of having someone else involved, even though the other person or people aren’t physically present.
Since the dawn of time, mankind has been obsessed with sex, real and depicted. Culture and society have been sexually active since Biblical times when Adam and Eve discovered the joys of lovemaking until they were cursed with birthing the human race.
With the early Indian cultures we were given the Kama Sutra or series of scripts on the entire ordeal behind courtship, relationships and sex, complete with an entire ten sections dedicated to the 64 different sexual acts used to entice, seduce and persuade a woman to a man’s bed and heart. The Kama Sutra governs practices of sexual ritual all the way from courting and making advances to dealing with the duties of the wife once marriage is established. The book’s thirty-six chapters also delve into sexual practices governing coitus, oral sex, biting, scratching and moaning by the woman in order to be mated to the male.
Sexuality permeates society in all that we have done. Not just the written word, but storytelling of bawdy limericks and tales not fit for proper society’s ears came from man’s exploits. Sculptures of the various positions and combinations have been found in ancient ruins ranging from India to the Greek and Italian islands in the Mediterranean. African cultures sculpted phallic objects as symbols of potency. The ruins of Pompeii were painted with erotic artwork giving humankind some of the earliest images of gay behavior often associated with the Greek and Roman cultures. As society grew, others painted, sculpted or wrote erotic artwork, much of which is famous today and on display in many prominent museums. Erotica was produced during the Renaissance period for the amusement of the aristocracy. By the twentieth century, erotic photography became the main and most interesting media for erotic art.
The large debate has rolled on as to whether the works of art are erotic or pornographic such to the point that the Supreme Court became involved in an attempt to explain the difference, but even that venerable institution couldn’t define it properly/ Justice Potter Stewart wrote one of the most famous lines in history concerning the great debate over obscenity; I shall not today attempt further to define the kinds of material I understand to be embraced; but I know it when I see it.
Even though many people put down other people who enjoy looking at erotic images or read sexually explicit books and such the fact is that erotica or pornography can actually be a way of enhancing your sex life in many new and imaginative ways. A good way of looking at this approach is to view erotica or pornography as a kind of sexual or erotic catalog: a way of seeing what else is out there in the world to try or simply to think about and fantasize about while masturbating. Pornography, by itself, is relatively harmless as long as the people involved in it are of-age and what they are doing is not harmful and they are all consenting adults. But even so it is essential to remember that fantasies are just that and even though something might be erotic to look at or read about there is no reason it needs to be done in real-life.
By viewing or reading porn men and women can be exposed to new and potentially interesting new forms of erotica. The way to do this is either to “spin off” what you normally enjoy looking at or reading or simply try a jump in a totally new direction. For example if you enjoy looking at pictures, say, of women with large breasts try finding images you find sexually arousing with pictures of women with smaller breasts or even in a new direction by looking at random pictures of such. Many men as well as women have found whole new avenues of sexuality and arousal by simply taking a bit of time and cruising the web aimlessly or renting a video they normally would not look at. The sheer availability of the stuff simply makes all this porn so a healthy deep well to explore.
So while, yes, erotica and pornography may make some people uncomfortable – or that they are simply uncomfortable with the erotic and sexual thoughts or feelings erotica and pornography may bring up in them- we need to keep in mind that pornography can actually be a good and best of all healthy way of expanding your sexual horizons. Alone, with a lover or sharing with friends, porn opens doors in ways no other way of communicating about sex ever can.
Once the only ways to get off were one’s imagination of what could be. Then along came porn and it changed everything. Now humanity could share it’s most lusty sex fantasies with each other through a number of mediums. There was written erotica almost as soon as the printing press was invented — right after the bible. Then came adult video and adult x-rated magazines along with photography, the camera and camcorder being invented. Sex came with technology quickly.
Now thanks to the Internet we have a wealth of free porn. It began with just downloading images over our modems but now one has infinite options, ranging from live free sex video chats to custom made videos featuring any one of a million fetishes from footjobs to whips and chains. One could spend 24 hours a day looking at adult movies and never run out of more to watch even if one could stick to just a single favorite fetish like female ejaculation. There is enough for all.
But this is just the beginning. Imagine taking a male masturbator or sex sleeve and hooking it up to one’s sex videos. It could squeeze and move to simulate the blowjob being given on screen. For anal sex it could tighten up and know the feeling’s it should give you to help you imagine rear entry fucking. When the porn star on screen is riding the man, the toy could move up and down and contract at the same time as her cumming pussy as she has an orgasm.
In the future distances may be bridged not with teleportation but by the ultimate in enhanced cybersex. Forget texting sex or sexting. Forget webcam sex or phone sex. Teledildonics, which is from telephony and dildo, With this you will reach out and touch someone for real, every stroke being transmitted, to her dildo and to the sleeve around you so that it will be liking while apart, cyber sex and fucking machines combined.
