Archive for the ‘Dating’ Category

Playing Hard To Get

Saturday, December 18th, 2010

B5350D8FD0FCF6D7137BE4D72FD8Ladies, men need to hunt and compete and win in order to feel like something is worth their effort. We women may want to be available when we like someone, but that takes away the conquest aspect for men, and then they lose interest quickly. Making a guy work for it a little will intrigue him, and his willingness to put in the effort makes it clear that he’s really interested (and not just interested in a porn fantasy). There’s a fine line to walk between playing hard to get and pushing a guy away though, so this must be handled carefully.

With cell phones, there should be no more sitting by the phone waiting for a guy to call. That’s good – go out and live a busy and exciting life. If he calls, don’t always answer. Let him leave a message and wonder a little. Call back within a reasonable period of time though – always within 24 hours. Try to answer sometimes when in a noisy spot, like a busy Starbucks or noisy store. Don’t stay on the phone very long, it’s best to just let him hear the noise in the background and promise to call back later when it’s not so noisy. He’ll realize that he’s dealing with a busy, popular woman, and all guys want to date a woman that is wanted by others.

If he calls no later than Wednesday to set up a date, go ahead and make plans. If he calls on Thursday or Friday to make a date for that weekend, be busy. Let him know politely that the weekends are usually booked solid by the middle of the week, and he has to make plans earlier. Don’t always agree to the first thing he offers. If he asks for Saturday night, ask if he’d mind doing lunch instead. Let him wonder who else might be in the picture and why they get the all important Saturday night instead of him. If he’s really interested, he’ll call earlier the following week to get the prime date slot.

Look sexy, but not slutty, and make him wait a bit for sex. Don’t be too quick to get naked – men don’t appreciate anything that they get too easily. Let the sexual tension heighten a bit before going to bed together. He’ll appreciate it more after having to win it.

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The Do’s and Don’ts Of Foreplay

Tuesday, December 14th, 2010

There are too many men out there who slip up during foreplay. They either don’t know what to do and lack the skills needed, or they think that they know too much and go way over the top. When it comes to foreplay, it has to be done right because not all women are wet and ready like those actresses you see on free porn. So take a look at the mistakes below and take notes on the tips because you don’t want to fuck this up!

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Mistake # 1-Foregoing The Kiss

You should try to prolong the kissing instead of going straight for the main event. However, it doesn’t have to be the usual lip locking. Women love it when their men kiss them all over from their neck to their shoulders.

Mistake # 2-Paying Too Much Attention To Her Tits

Women are often uncomfortable when men pay too much attention to their bosoms. Of course they love the attention, but they still prefer that their partners pay attention to other details on their body.

Mistake # 3-Hurrying Through Foreplay

This is a huge no-no! Foreplay should be done in the smoothest and most comfortable manner possible. Women love it when their men spend time exploring every sensitive spot on their body. You shouldn’t go towards her inner thigh if she’s not full prepared for it. It can be really unpleasant for women if they aren’t totally ready for vaginal sex. And you don’t want to ruin the mood because then you wont get any.

Tip # 1-Take Pleasure on Foreplay

You must be able to have fun during foreplay in order to be good at it. Women can actually tell when we’re not in the mood for foreplay, even if there is bits of action like oral sex going on beforehand

Tip # 2: Open Communication

If you don’t know what to do, don’t try and mimic what you see on porn. Just ask her. And be ready to give her anything that she asks of you!

Tip # 3-Dirty Talk

Most guys don’t understand how effective dirty talk can actually be during foreplay. You probably don’t know this, but a women can get highly aroused even with just words.

Tip # 4-Be Smooth

Try and let the whole act blend together smoothly and end in some great fucking. Think about it this way, you wouldn’t want to skip the appetizer and just head straight for the main course, right? And who can forget dessert? Not me! That’s why you want to have some great foreplay so the whole entire act will pan out the way you want it too.

Sex At Work: Is it Good Or Bad?

Monday, December 13th, 2010

Dec 10 orgasm.com1It’s not just free porn that often depicts a sexy scenario where two co-workers can’t keep their hands off each other and are doing it in every crevice of the office. Research shows that a large proportion of workers in real life are having sexual relations with colleagues, but more often that not, the outcome of sex at work poses a lot more problems and drama compared to a satisfying cum shot and no strings attached sex, like we see in porn.

Workers will always be worrying about the danger of exploitation, but according to Peter Handel at Carnegie Training, the real problem is when one person has power over another.

Handel trains personnel departments in 75 countries on how to deal with such a sensitive and difficult subject.

He says there are two main issues, “how can one be sure that the relationship is consensual, without any subtle or direct coercion, and is there a conflict of interest.”

A lot of companies have strict rules when it comes to the freedom of fucking at work. Some companies impose bans and Handel says that it’s because the relationships could interfere with the smooth running of an organization.

“If a coworker is sleeping with the boss, how do you know if that person is not getting better pay and better assignments?”

Six out of 10 colleagues are involved with each other in an intimate relationship and research shows that it is often women having affairs with more senior men.

“Men go for youth and beauty. Women are attracted by the aphrodisiac of power, the earning ability and someone able to look after children,” he says.

The reason why sexual relations in the workplace poses such a problem is because the line of flirtation and harassment is very fine.

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You are really putting things on the line by becoming involved with someone at work, especially if they’re in a higher or lower position of power because if something did end badly, your job or their job, could be on the line.

I guess what you have to do before becoming involved is weigh out the pros and cons and decide if it would be worth it in the end.

But lets be honest, there’s nothing hotter than an office romance and having sex in the photocopy room.

Dating a Masturbator

Friday, December 10th, 2010

Whenever a new couple begins dating, there are all kinds of things yet to be discovered. What kind of sex you each like will sooner or later be on the agenda. A lot of people are just into garden variety fucking, but some have a specialty.

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What is it like to date a masturbator? Just about all men masturbate. For some it is a primary mode of sexual gratification. This is not to judge that orientation in any way. However, it may take some understanding and adjustment to make sure everyone is satisfied.

It may take a while for the real story to come out if a man is seriously into wanking. He may be performing great sex acts with the new girlfriend, saving his jacking off over pictures or his arsenal of sex toys for boys hidden, thinking his girlfriend wouldn’t understand. He may have trouble ejaculating inside of her, and she may wonder if she is lacking something. Hopefully, they will each share their real sexual interests with one another – before she finds the stacks of splooge-covered magazines in his closet.

Once the secret is out, there are lots of fun things the couple can do to incorporate his penchant for stroking into their sex life. Both of them may really get off on fucking her, then pulling out at the last moment to spray cum all over her tits. He may like the feeling of a hand on his cock in general, so a hand job from her might be what he craves. The couple may enjoy sweet foreplay and licking before lying back and watching each other get themselves off. The image of her rubbing her clit might fuel his masturbating for another time. They both might love it when he flips her over and strokes off on her while her ass is high in the air. She may find out his most prevalent fantasies and talk dirty to him while he brings himself to the brink.

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So, what to do with a masturbator? A woman should do with him what she would do with any new partner—Take time to find out likes and dislikes. Together, a couple can figure out how much fucking, sucking, and erotic alone time is needed by each.

Love Is Blind: And Apparently So Is Sex

Wednesday, December 8th, 2010

Dec 7 orgasm.com1I’m not going to lie, sex while being blindfolded is probably one of my favorite past times. Not too mention adding some whips and some hand cuffs into the mix and that is really my favorite pastime.

I’m sure that most of you are thinking the same thing. If you’ve never tried it and have only had the pleasure of watching it on free porn, then I suggest that you hop on this band wagon, because it is an experience you never forget, even though you wont be able to see anything.

However, what if you were having a one night stand and you suggested that your partner blind fold you. Most people would find this a little awkward because during your one and only time together you would think that you would want to be coherent and have all your senses working.

Well, what if you had no choice? What if every time you had sex and climaxed your sense of sight was automatically shut down and you were blinded? For one man, this is just the case.

In one of the most peculiar medical incidents ever reported in the history of man, a man loses his sight every time he orgasms during sex.

Even weirder, no other strenuous activity or exercise brought about the blindness -apparently only sex. And you thought blind dates were awkward!

A report that was recently released from the Department of Ophthalmology at Glostrup Hospital revealed that the cause of the condition is from vasoconstriction.

That’s when the muscle walls contract around a blood vessel and restricts the blood flow. It’s the same condition that causes erectile dysfunction. The guy is being treated with drugs that will widen his blood vessels.

So, next time you want to be blindfolded during sex, take into consideration this guy and pay some form of respect to him because he has no choice but to be blinded during sex. Sure, it sounds like fun, but I’m sure it would get old very quick.

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Sexing Hugh Hefner

Monday, December 6th, 2010

For those who don’t already know, Hugh Hefner is not only the founder of Playboy magazine, but he’s essentially a modern day version of Casanova. In fact, when asked about the number of girlfriends he’s had in his life, he claims to have “lost count”. Often having more than one live-in girlfriend, he is unashamed of admitting that he’s slept will all of them – giving a true meaning to the term “player”. Having just recently split up with three of his former girlfriends – Holly Madison, Kendra Wilkinson and Bridget Marquardt – he now devotes himself to a single woman, 23 year-old Crystal Harris. The catch? Hefner is 84 years old.

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Leaving everyone asking one question, “How on earth do they have sex?”. Surely they don’t have to resort on free porn?

Coincidently, Hefner’s ex-girlfriend Kendra Wilkinson has recently come out with a book in which she recollects her time spent at the Playboy Mansion. As for her moments of ‘intimacy’ with the Playboy mogul, she had this to say:

” One of the girls asked me if I wanted to go upstairs to Hef’s room… It seemed like every other girl was going, and if I didn’t it would be weird. One by one, each girl hopped on Hef and had sex with him… for about a minute. I studied their every move. Then it was my turn… it was very weird. I wasn’t thinking about how much older Hef was—all the body parts worked the same. I wanted to be there.”

Perhaps that’s what she’s saying now, as a token of gratitude – of sorts. But I can’t phantom the thought of a 20-something actually enjoying sex with a man who is almost 60 years her senior. That’s just gross – to say the very least.

Another former bunny, Jill Anna Spaulding, also recalled her time at the mansion through a memoir titled “Upstairs”. Her version, however, wasn’t nearly as forgiving. She said:

“Hef just lies there with his Viagra erection. It’s just a fake erection, and each girl gets on top of him for two minutes while the girls in the background try to keep him excited. They’ll yell things like, ‘fuck her daddy, fuckk her daddaddy!’ There’s a lot of cheerleader going on! The main girlfriend wipes off his [uncondomed] penis. She’s the girl who actually shares the bed with him. She sleeps there all night. She’s around 22 years old. He uses all the same girls. She’s been there for three years now.”

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And while I can sense a bit of resentment in her statement, I’m definitely more inclined to believe her side of the story. After all, how could one expect Mr.Hefner to have the energy to do all of the hard work? Like any other man his age, there is only so much you can do to have good sex at that age. And multiple girlfriends plus a hefty dose of Viagra will certainly do the trick.

Why Men Like Blondes With Big Tits – The Scientific Explanation

Friday, December 3rd, 2010

Have you ever wondered why women with long blonde hair, big boobs and and light eyes are often perceived as the creme de la creme of the gentler sex? Well, it seems that evolutionary psychologists have finally tracked it down – and it has a lot more to do with science than free porn influences.

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For starters, big tits and large waist-to-hip ratio (the classic hourglass shape) are indicatives of fertility. As for blonde locks, researchers found that it’s simply better at hiding pesky grey hairs – thus making a woman look a lot younger. And since most men look for a young partner in order to better spread their seed, this selection process seems only natural.

In regards to blue and green eyes, studies have shown that they are simply better at displaying pupil dilation, which happens when a person sees something that they deem exciting. Therefore, a man can quickly determine whether-or-not a woman finds them attractive – saving them a whole lot of time and hassle in the courting process. How’s that for dating advice?

Researchers were also able to determine that the more beautiful a woman is, the more chances she has of having equally-beautiful babies. And what man doesn’t want good-looking offspring? Attractive women are also known to have more children than their plain Jane counterparts, which provides men with a higher chance of making as many babies as possible – though that it definitely up for discussion (calling all dead-beat dad’s).

Studies like these allow us to get a clear-cut perception of why men act the way they do. At the same time, we must look into the fact that the more men decide to have sex with beautiful women, more beautiful women will then be born into this world – not a bad trend if you ask me. And upon further inspection, one is bound to wonder if men are, in fact, sexist pigs, or if they’re just looking to spread their genes in the most efficient way possible. I’ll go with a little bit of both.

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How To Fish For A Threesome

Wednesday, December 1st, 2010

Nov 30 orgasm.com1Today I’m going to give you some advice to never forget: it is possible to find people who are open to just about anything, no matter where you’re located.

So, if you’re interested in having a threesome but you don’t know how to go about doing it, the best bet for you is to go out and fish for someone. It’s not going to happen as easy as it does in the free porn that you watch. However, there are a lot of them out there in the sea that would be willing and completely interested in a menage a trios with you and your lover, you just need to know where to look.

First you should try adult personals. This way, you and your partner can shop for someone together. A lot of these sites allows its users to specify what they’re looking for; whether it be men, women, or both. You should also write in your profile exactly what you’re looking for.

Hit up the dance club. Put on your dancing shoes, have fun together and go out and flirt with others. Remember to keep it casual and treat the fishing expedition like any other nightclub pick up.

Tap into your network of friends and acquaintances. I personally would feel weird bringing someone that I already know into a threesome, but you might feel as if it’s the safest route.

Find yourself a swinger party. Or even a sex party, ducal party, or kissing party. While most small towns don’t have a local swingers club that you can just pop into at anytime, but, many smaller towns do have roving parties that are under the radar. You’ll have to do your research though so look online. If you’re in a bigger city than you should have no problem finding swinger related events.

Go on vacation. There are actual resorts that are predominately based upon hosting swingers and often times they promote nudity or nudists and sometimes even casual, public sex.

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If you try all of these things and still no threesome, there must be something wrong with you physically or mentally, and in that case, you shouldn’t expect someone to have a threesome with you!

Sex on the First Date

Sunday, November 28th, 2010

It was a great first date. The meal was great, the conversation flowed easily, the flirting was hot and heavy and now, standing outside the lady’s front door, the moment of truth. He goes in for the kiss. She yields and kisses back. We all know what happens next, don’t we? He tries for a little more, she allows it. He suggests they move inside. She wants to, really wants to, but something holds her back.

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Why do women stop themselves from what they really want to do sexually? That’s an easy question to answer – there are still double standards about sex.

As far as we’ve come with equality and sexual freedom, there are still a lot of heterosexual men out there who will try to get lucky on the first date then harshly judge the woman who says yes. Sometimes it’s not a conscious judgment, but suddenly that woman he was so into the night before seems less interesting in the light of day. Is it just old programming? It seems that many men don’t even realize that they’re doing it, but many, many men still consider the woman to be a slut if she puts out on the first date.

It’s no secret that this mindset is still prevalent in our society. In all the books and online lists of dating rules for women, one of the rules is always “don’t have sex until X date if you want him to keep seeing you”. On matchmaking television shows, that appears to be a standard rule. How is it possible – in this world of fluid genders, S&M gaining social acceptability, and vibrators being standard equipment for most women – how is it even possible that this double standard could still be prevalent in the dating world?

This situation actually says a lot about our society and the state of women’s equality. Ninety years after women won the right to vote, decades after feminism and the sexual revolution, women are still seen as sluts and not marriage material by men who happily took what was offered to them when it was offered. The men aren’t looked down on nearly as much as the women who acquiesce. American society cannot possibly advance to a higher level until true equality for everyone and in every way has been achieved.

The Weirdest Things Guys Have Said To Women In Bed

Thursday, November 25th, 2010

Nov24 orgasm.com1We all know that sexy time gets personal, but sometimes, it just goes a little over board and gets a little too personal. And this time I’m not talking about the chicks. This time I’m asking the girls what some of the weirdest things guys have ever said to them in the sack.

1. “I Love You.” Mind you, it was a one night stand.

2. “I want to lick your armpit.”

3. There was this one guy would couldn’t get off without stringing together a whole bunch of foul words that made no sense as a sentence; “fuck, whore, asshole, bitch, cunt, pussy!” So odd.

4. One guy begged me to slap his erect dick.

5. “You’re the first biological woman I’ve had sex with in a long time…”

6. “My last girlfriend had a really wicked body.”

7. “Your ass tastes like caramel.”

8. “I’m sorry…I don’t always cry like this.”

9. “Can I cut you?”

10. “I just want to make you cum Jenny!” Too bad my name is Brittany.

11. “Call me daddy.”

12. “Wow, you’re just like a man in bed.”

13. “Don’t worry my mom has heard me have sex before.”

14. I met this guy on an online dating site and we had only e-mailed back and fourth a couple times before meeting up and having sex. He couldn’t stop saying, “I’m a stranger. You don’t know me, I’m a stranger, you don’t know me,” over and over again.

15. “Could you wash this?” And then handed me a used butt plug.

16. “You’re not pulling my balls hard enough.”

17. “So, have you ever seen ‘Two Girls: One Cup’?”

18. “Can I stick it in now?”

I always thought that the guys were the normal ones, but it turns out they’re not!