Archive for the ‘Dating’ Category

Sex And The Old West

Monday, September 26th, 2011

Everyone has seen the old western movies with shoot outs at high noon and daring bank robberies. This as well as media hype and story books have led the public to believe the old west was a very dangerous place that saw gun fights every day and Indians attacking every time you turned around. The real deal could not be father from the truth. The old west was actually quite a peaceful and quiet place. Aside from the natural hardship of putting down roots and tending to a farmstead or new business it wasn’t all that dangerous either.

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Naturally some things happened from time to time, a train was robbed, or outlaws rode into town but these things weren’t as common nor as frightening to the general public as one as been brought to believe. There was a lot of sex and fucking from the houses of ill repute connected to saloons and there was a lot of celebration, a lot of festivals and good will but few if any gun fights overall. Many of these gamblers and the like actually ended up taking wives from among the saloon girls they’d had Sex with because they were available and well suited to the particular man, familiar, and they wanted the way out. They would then settle and start a life together quite respectably. Another reason also was that a majority of these men going out west were among the singles and were certainly looking for a lady companion as it often got quite lonely. Many were Civil War veterans who had seen the bloodiest battlefields in the history of the nation and so a few yahoo’s shooting up the place half drunk or robbing a bank didn’t frighten these locals very much at all, and in fact if anything it made them downright angry. That’s why you only saw one sheriff with two deputies keeping the law in a town of hundreds, because if need be they could almost literally deputize the entire town. So trouble often saw it’s way around such places.

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Pornucopia

Thursday, September 15th, 2011

Sex and dating seem to be the specific prevue of the net. God knows we are on all the time either looking for a date, checking someone’s status on Facebook, or managing some one-hand chatting. All this action and interest occurs on the web or on our portal devices that we are hooking-up when we are out.

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And so too do we seek porn across the Internet.

But somewhere along the way we connected porn with sex and dating, while we damn well know none of our sex lives are anywhere near what we see in a porn movie. Having access to sex in the same medium we do porn we can so quickly link the two together, when in reality they are pretty much far apart. We amp-up for one in very much the same way we do another-certainly in the anonymous environs of our homes-and inextricably take one for the other.

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Modern day dating might be pretty far removed to how we used to find someone we were interested in, get their number-call them on a landline for Christ’s sake-make dates, go to movies, maybe a few dinners, court them or be courted. The net has truncated our actions, our style even our civility so now we do things so much quicker, with often more direct intent-there are specific fetish websites kinky people hook-up on, for instance-so why wouldn’t we simply regard sex and dating with porn, with the images we see right alongside the chats, with how we download so fast, masturbate then move on to the next activity. We come to gloss over what used to be the seduction, interplay and slow build of sexual interest in the light of how we see sex portrayed around us all the time.

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But we are not porn stars. We still react to sex better when we can temper or dates, build anticipation, but as long as we continue to mostly have our intimate experiences online, or at least start them there, sex dating and porn will stay united in a new trilogy.

Surviving the Dry Spell

Sunday, August 14th, 2011

Life is long and has many phases. Some of them are full of love and sex and good things with other people in them. During others it becomes harder — life can seem far more barren, with no one around for dating and the attempts to find them on personals sites coming up empty. At other times we realize that we just aren’t capable of connecting with other people healthfully, because of a recent break up or other painful periods of personal growth. Whatever the case, dry spells happen and need to be weathered. How does one do this and maintain sanity until the next good thing comes along?

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First off, avoid stagnant living. It can be easy to let ourselves go, gaining lots of weight, letting hygiene worsen, or one’s house becoming unbearably messy. After all we are just waiting for the right person to come along, right? Until then it doesn’t matter what we do.

Unfortunately, this kind of attitude has the effect of driving people off, both friends and potential lovers alike. One may even find one’s self turning down offers from hot people on their favorite dating site simply because it seems like so much trouble to shave, clean up, and throw out the trash in the bedroom or do all those dishes piling up. Make it worth while to do these things for you and in the end you will be far more attractive to the people you are looking for when they finally come back into one’s life after so long. Focus instead on becoming an even better person in the interim. Take classes or learn new skills; not only will this make one a better candidate for a relationship later but it is a great opportunity to meet people with similar interests as well.

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Find ways to pamper yourself and avoid negative self talk. Avoid the people that drag one down and avoid fuck buddy relationships with exes whenever possible.

What It Is and What It Isn’t

Saturday, August 13th, 2011

Sometimes one of the hardest but most important things that we can do is to be honest with ourselves on any topic that comes along. Exploring all of the available Free porn, dating sites, or sites devoted to hookups on the world wide web can be a blast as long as we keep things in the proper perspective.

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Just like with anything else in our lives we have to try to keep a grip on ourselves. Does that attractive guy that we see out occasionally and often take home with us for some midnight fun like having sex with us? Sure. Does he want to be our boyfriend and wine and dine us and spend time at our family functions or in a committed relationship? Umm, no, not at all. It is always important to keep in mind what something is and what it is not in any given situation.

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Yes, we can surf all of the free porn sites that are available to us on the Internet that we want to for as long as we like and as often as we like. We should do so and enjoy each and every one of them to their absolute fullest. Are we going to meet the porn stars on the street by accident and fall madly in love with each other like a celebrity or a rock star? Probably not, sorry to break the news, but we can all certainly look and enjoy all that we like.

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There are plenty of dating sites, however, on the Internet with real live people on them that we can actually meet and get to know and possibly go out on a real date with. You never know who you might meet out there on the Internet, so go with an open mind, an honest attitude, and realistic expectations and your possibilities will be exciting and endless.

The All Too Common Marital Dilemma And What To Do About It

Tuesday, August 9th, 2011

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Married couples might indeed have less sex, but it isn’t from lack of desire; simply put, other shit takes priority. Sex is still important but raising kids, dealing with the laundry, in-laws, any number of factors keeping a household together makes the cold hard facts of reality seep into a couple’s life and sometimes throws up a barrier for sex. Exhaustion reigns most of the time, or bad timing when one partner is ready and the other is not, or just the our just the rigors of the day can leave people, people who love one another and are attracted to one another still, simply not up for fucking.

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In these instances, which can be many, it sometimes does a couple good to introduce some sex videos. Not so much to ignite some desire between the two partners-though sex videos are certainly good for that-but maybe to simply help each person get the job done for themselves, masturbate and move on, or help them sleep. If two people can acknowledge that life is keeping them apart and not a lack of desire, then masturbating to sex videos is a great way to release some sexual tension and get back on track of getting on track.

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What a married couple or any long–term affair runs the risk over though is letting sex videos replace intimacy. It is all well and good to have a dirty movie be the safe harbor you run to on occasion or even in place of regular bed time with your significant other, but to have it replace your time with your wife our hubby, to make sex videos the only way you ever want to be sexual, that’s when they run the risk of becoming too important in our lives. That’s when we need to temper how often we rely on sex videos to get aroused and that’s when we might indeed have to reexamine why we are not having sex with our partner.

Myths

Friday, July 22nd, 2011

People have been told that being married is better for you and being single is bad. This comes from a study done in 1858 that track the mortality rates of married, widowed and celibate people. The findings showed that the married people lived longer healthier lives. But recent studies being done at Ohio State University’s College of Medicine have included those in committed relationships and gay relationships to the mix. What These researchers are studying is the effects of psychological stress like marital discord, and the affect on the immune system. Marital stress can be a source of chronic stress. Three studies showed that women in unhappy relationships or still emotionally hung up on the past had weaker immune systems. Happier women single or married had much stronger immune systems. Newlyweds exhibiting the hostile behavior had the largest declines in the immune system.

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Lastly men in women in their 50s and 60s who found themselves single again had a noticeable decline in physical health that they never fully recovered from. So being this belief has been proven to be a myth. Happy and financially secure is the key to longevity. So for many people happiness is shown in sexual ways. For many of those people both single and attached it not only means sex but it also means surfing the internet for Free porn. Free porn is thought to be evil. Many believe it is the root of failed marriages and abuse towards women. A scientist at the University of Hawaii performed studies to see just how bad the effects of pornography were on society at large study is entirely data-driven. He found that porn is not the cause of those evils those that have had a strict, repressive religious upbringing. Are more likely to be abusers and sex offenders. In fact he found no data that suggested a correlation between an increase in the availability of porn and an increase in sex crimes.

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He also found that, research suggests that women use pornography in far higher numbers than some might assume. This is substantiated by a study from Christian Internet monitoring group, that reported that 34 percent of female readers of Today’s Christian Women’s online newsletter admitted to intentionally accessing Internet pornography

Looking For Sex

Wednesday, June 29th, 2011

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There are a lot of sites offering free sex personals and the ability to do a free dating search to find local hot women. Using these sites is a great way to start meeting women who are looking for single men to date and have sex with. There are a lot of single, straight women out there who are looking for nice, fun guys to go out with on the weekends. Some of them are waiting for the men to contact them because even though they’re open-minded and looking for fucking partners,  they often have a little bit of an old-fashioned streak and prefer that the guys contact them first. It may seem kind of weird in this day and age that any women would still have that expectation, but it’s often true.

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Men usually don’t realize it though, so they wait for the women to contact them and the women wait for the guys to contact them, and the end result is a whole bunch of people sitting around waiting to find someone and wondering why nobody is contacting them. It’s counterproductive and both genders may need to be a little more proactive if they want to meet someone and start having a more interesting sex life. Instead of following antiquated traditions and trying to conform to male and female roles that are no longer important, they should get out there and contact the people that they like and try to meet as many people as possible so that they can date and have sex and enjoy their lives.

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Especially these days when the economy is so bad and people seem so down and everybody needs some cheering up. The best way to start feeling more positive is to find some friends to have sex with and start having some enjoyment and laughs. Laughter is a great way to keep a person’s mood elevated, and sex also releases hormones that promote better moods and elevate people’s spirit, which is really important right now in this economy and with all the things going on in the world. The best thing people can do for themselves right now is to get out there and have some fun. Once people meet and start having sex, they don’t have to spend a lot of money on dates, but they still get to keep having fun.

It’s 2011, Let’s Accept The Sluts

Thursday, June 16th, 2011

Most men seem to be pretty clueless when it comes to dating. They get on a computer and find the online personals and forget any sense of manners or decorum, and then they seem surprised when the women seem to be largely disinterested at best and hostile at worst. They often seem to want to jump right in to talking about sex and then start having sex really quickly, totally skipping the getting to know you part that most women are expecting. Men seem to use sex as a way to determine if there is compatibility, but women often feel that they don’t want to have sex unless they feel there is compatibility. It’s a perfect example of the whole Mars vs. Venus thing that we’ve heard so much about for years now.

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Dating is always kind of confusing for everybody, but it sometimes seems especially difficult for people of opposite genders simply because they communicate completely differently and they think and reason completely differently, so what makes sense to one doesn’t make any sense whatsoever to the other. Sometimes it seems like a miracle that anyone is ever able to get together. Some of the dating websites offer articles and quizzes specifically designed to help people identify better relationship matches for themselves by matching personality types and explaining some of what’s going on in each gender’s heads to help them achieve better, clearer communication.

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One of the problems with the man’s approach of jumping straight into discussing sexual topics is that women still have to worry because there still a double standard regarding sex. Men are still expected to have sex whenever possible, and women are still viewed as sluts if they have sex too soon. Unfortunately, there are still men out there that will dump a woman that has sex with them too quickly in spite of the fact that they’ve been pressuring the woman for sex the entire time and trying to seduce her. When they succeed too quickly they decide that the woman is a slut and they end the budding relationship immediately. It’s pretty confusing for most women, and it doesn’t help women feel any better about men and their motives when dating. It’s time for everyone to grow up a bit and start being more open and honest and stop judging each other.

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Get Your Orgasm Here

Tuesday, April 26th, 2011

For all intents and purpose an orgasm is pretty much easy to come by these days. Sexually active adults certainly know what gets their ghost, gets them off and gets them coming back for more. We know exactly what toys to charge, what positions to get into, what pictures or porn we need to have scrolling by when we masturbate as much as we know what type of a partner fires our imagination and libido. Knowing what we need for our individual sexual excitement means we can pretty much count on that excitement in a world replete with the stimulants right there for the taking.

And we do live in a world ready and willing to give us what we need when we want to take it.

Because of the Internet we have access not only to the concepts that titillate us but to the very people; products and services we need, with another person or just by ourselves, to excite us most. Because of the Internet we have constant access, we have easy facility and we have speed, demon speed, to get that which invigorates and arouses us at every possible minute of the day, through our P.C.’s or portable devices, in the privacy of our own homes or in make-shift alone moments when we want some arresting arousing images.

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Because of the Internet we are stuck nearly with constant mental priapism, fed a 24/7 deluge of people looking just like us and all the stuff that are looking at.

What we must learn is to ignore our orgasm, or at least the need to have it to the exclusion of all else. We must learn to stop and smell the roses, whether alone or with a partner, to enjoy the steps we take on each erotic journey and not just the journey’s end., And mostly, if we are dating, mating or romancing another person, we must learn to put their orgasm above our own.

A Guide to Swallowing

Friday, April 15th, 2011

You don’t have to be a porn star to swallow. The average male semen contains roughly 0.1 and 100 milliliters of sperm and holds a fascination for both men and women in the form of swallowing semen. As far as consistency and taste go, that is usually the issue in question when it comes to whether a partner swallows or not.

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The fetish of swallowing traces its’ origins a long way back. Dating back to the Church of Epiphanius and other libertine Gnostics who swallowed sperm as the body of Christ, and a form of worship. The tribes of Papua New Guinea have culturally believed that semen provides sexual maturity among the younger men of the tribe. The practice of fellating the elders in order to gain their authority and power is held for prepubescent and post pubescent men of the tribe. This practice may also relate to practiced homosexuality in these tribes.

Dietary supplements have been on the market for a number of years as a way to increase the volume of semen provided in a man. None of these supplements have been validated by the scientific community.

The typical makeup of ejaculation consists primarily of water but also contain every nutrient needed by the human body in order to function properly. A typical dosage of semen contains at least 150 mg of protein, 11 mgs of carbohydrates and other trace minerals. The only risks involved in swallowing cum are those of fellatio such as transmission of STDs between unclean partners.

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While there is no hardcore scientific evidence in changing the taste of semen, many people swear diet has an influential factor in shaping the taste. Red meats, tobacco and alcohol typically infuse a bitter or acrid taste while coffee and teas also do nothing to aid in the taste. Fresh fruits and vegetables, while good for the body are also believed to sweeten the taste significantly. Prolonged times between ejaculation intervals are also said to contribute to the volume of semen produced and shot out.

Sexual practices of swallowing have gone so far to include bukkake from the Japanese culture, cream pies, snowballing and felching, which may involve more than one partner. Aleister Crowley and the Ecclesia Gnostica Catholica practice swallowing semen during Gnostic Mass as a way to gain spiral power from the Divine.

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