The initiative made its way onto the ballot in great part due to the work of the AIDS Healthcare Foundation which gathered over 370,000 signatures in their support. However, the debate is not yet over. The Free Speech Coalition has been speaking on behalf of many in the Los Angeles porn industry.

Some of the issues that have come up in the debate include the possibility that Los Angeles County may not even be able to afford enforcing such a law. Also, the justification for the law’s existence has caused quite a bit of contention. Some of the justification has been that the porn industry, by not using condoms, is setting a bad example for society.

However, Diane Duke, executive director of the Free Speech Coalition, has been countering this idea by asking, “When’s the last time you saw Brad Pitt stop in the middle of a love scene and put on a condom?” In fact, she theorizes that asking such measures of porn films could come to affect the Hollywood film industry which is notoriously lax on showing condom usage in its films. Porn industry supporters have also been pointing to the effectiveness of the already in-place testing requirements for porn performers at preventing sexually transmitted infections.

While this debate is definitely not yet over, it seems like the implications of enforcing such a law are farther-reaching than even its proponents currently believe.

The AIDS Healthcare Foundation had been on a year-long mission before the ordinance was passed to ensure that condoms were used on all LA porn sets. However, the adult performers are stinking mad about this because they feel that condoms hinder the shooting process. I don’t get it, man. If I were a porn star and I was shooting a series of sex movies featuring Evanni Soleil I’d be able to perform with a condom on. Actually, I’d probably be able to perform with a condom on if I was making a XXX feature with any adult star, but maybe that’s just me. Porn is cool, what can I say?

Porn industry lobbyist group, The Free Speech Coalition, claims that adult film sales will go down because no one is going to buy condom porn. First of all, why would you pay for porn in the first place? You can get it on Orgasm.com for free. Anyhoo, the XXX performers do get bi-monthly STD tests and some of the women are using other forms of birth control like the pill or whatever else women use. Something about a shot in the arm? I didn’t pay much attention to most of the things my last girlfriend said. She was a real Hindenburg giver and a Steelers fan. Not cool.

The FSC says that the AIDS epidemic in America is not directly related to those who make sex movies and that there is no correlation between the two. Basically, if you’re dumb enough to have unprotected sex, it won’t make a difference if you watch porno flicks where the performers wear condoms or not. But, the porn actors are rallying behind the cause and hope to abolish the ordinance that requires them to wear jimmy-hats. Whatever, as long as they keep making sex movies with latex or no latex, I’m sure the entire male species will be content.

Some times people can struggle with allergies or irritations caused by their condoms or other safety supplies. Latex allergies or sensitivities can grow over time even in people who have never had them before. One need not have been born with such a condition. Also, condoms with spermacide on them may cause irritation in both men and women because they can dry out or irritate the sensitive tissues and mucous membranes. Such people should avoid spermacides and consider other secondary forms of birth control if necessary.

Of course one common problem occurs when a man loses his erection while wearing a condom. This is sometimes unavoidable. A good thing to do is just to work around it, enjoy other kinds of fucking and pleasure like this on Orgasm.com and in time the erection will likely return. Men who have this as a chronic issue can practice masturbating in a condom until they get used to the sensation. Some of the most successful adult dating is among those who have free sex lives which contain many activities other than simple penis in vagina fucking.

One possible alternative is also to consider female condoms which can alleviate some issues. These are inserted like a tunnel into the woman’s genitals and then the man thrusts his cock inside, so he is not wearing them. Some women enjoy the sensations they create on their clitoris too.

And yet how often is one in this situation? There are many times — indeed most times — when the best kind of sex is safe sex. Perhaps one picked up that smoking hottie at the local gay bar or the singles meat market. Maybe one has tried to put up a profile on an online adult dating site. One has met that sexy online date and is ready to take it back to the bedroom. Whether you’re gay or straight, a lesbian, a queer. If one is into bondage and domination or a swinger, one can learn to enjoy safer sex. Of course if one already has a latex fetish, lucky you!

Of course condoms are the safer sex suppliers one encounters most often. One can find all kinds of condoms nowadays. One can find huge condoms for huge dicks and smaller ones for smaller cocks. One can use a condom on one’s favorite dildo or sex toy for sharing it with others. One can find flavored cocks for a tasty sweet blowjob. There are even condoms made from polyisoprene now, which are just as tight as latex condom but safe for those with allergies. They also smell better and don’t leave that condom taste on your cock or cunt — a big help for cunnilingus and fellatio during a long fuck time.

Of course safe sex doesn’t stop there. One can use gloves to protect hands during sexy play. This is great for anal fingering when it keeps things clean and makes one’s fingers extra smooth and slippery when one adds lubricant. There are dental dams for oral sex — great with a little flavored lube and hear her moan.

Don’t let the need for hygiene and protected sex turn one off. Instead look at it as a way to enjoy new kinds of fun with more new people.

One thing that is really hot for a lot of people is making sex a ritual. It is the kissing, and touching tits and ass, the fondling and getting hard. Then it is the taking out of a condom from the night stand next to the bed. Then he rips open the package. He lets her unroll in on his cock. They choose a first position, and go to town. For some couples, the moment of slowing down to put on a condom actually adds to the anticipation. The acclimation of the feeling of latex on the cock can also be enjoyable. It is something he looks forward to, a tight sensation especially around the base of the penis that means he will soon be buried deep inside her pussy.
For finger fucking and fisting, latex gloves are the fashion. Again, the anticipation factor can be intense for someone waiting to be fingered, watching a partner put on a pair of white, powdered latex gloves, snapping the wrists forfinesse before approaching the orifice in question. Anyone who has ever wanted to play doctor already has some hot images of this in their mind. Why not put your legs in the stirrups for the gynecologist, or present yourself submissively for the prostate exam? It’s a hot porn waiting to happen.  One might also try touching the whole body with latex gloves. It may not be just for pussy and ass anymore. The unusual sensation may be just what the back, thighs, or shoulders crave.
One of the sexiest things of all is each partner knowing that the other has his or her best interest in mind, and that safety is being taken care of. Once the parameters are set in the playground, what freedom! There is sucking, fucking, intimate holding, kissing, spanking, and cumming to be done. Knowing that reasonable and agreed-upon care has been taken to ward off any unwanted results, being in the clear feels really very good.

The problem is that sometimes people want to put the cart before the horse and the subject of sex comes up far too early.

Men, when corresponding with a woman on a dating website, especially at the very beginning of the process, don’t ask her about sex or what she’s into sexually or how many times a day she likes to fuck or if she likes to give blow jobs. In most cases, the lady will find that to be an instant turn off.

Women want to know that guys are interested in them for more than just sexual interaction. Even on websites that are geared toward people who are into BDSM and fetish, the ladies still want to have some vanilla conversation before they are asked to spill their deepest, darkest fantasies.

It comes across as though the man is only interested in sex, and that will turn a lot of ladies off even if they are only interested in sex. It seems disrespectful, and most women do want to be treated with respect and treated like a lady until the time becomes appropriate to treat her otherwise.

Of course, internet dating can be complicated, and it can be rather confusing for the guys because some women respond really favorably to instant sex conversation. They expect to be asked questions right away, especially if they are on BDSM or fetish free porn sites. So how does a guy know what to do? Sometimes it’s possible to tell by reading the person’s profile carefully and really paying attention to what it says. That will often show quite clearly what type of woman she is and what her expectations are. A man can simply do whatever he wants, figuring that the right woman will understand him and it won’t matter. Another option is to wait – discuss vanilla topics and get to know her as a person, and let the lady introduce the subject of sex whenever she’s ready. That will make her feel respected and well-treated and most women will really appreciate that.

Latex picks up body oils and retains warmth quite well so it should be noted that a dressing aid may be useful in helping the wearer put on the clothing. Talcum powder or some lubricant such as petroleum jelly will help guard against potential allergic reactions all while making it easier to put on the clothing.Latex clothing comes in a variety of fashions, sizes, shapes and colors. Everything from thongs, latex lingerie and bras have been made from latex all the way to the full body suit. Boots, gloves, masks and body suits found their way into the Fetish scene, giving the wearer a different look than the usual matte leather.

Most common articles of clothing include bondage mittens, hoods, goggles, ball gags, garter belts, boots, and even the daunting body bag.  Oils, metals, extreme sunlight, and sharp objects should be kept away from latex as it’s a fairly durable material. Proper storage of latex involves keeping your garments in black bags hunt in cool, dark places away from extreme temperatures. Latex should be cleaned shortly after wearing to remove any body oils that it has been exposed to. Rinse the garment well in warm water. Some manufacturers recommend using a mild soap, while others suggest only water. Hang on a plastic or wood hanger to dry, or lay flat to dry.

The garment can be wiped gently with a soft towel to decrease drying time if desired. When one side is dry, turn inside out and let the other side dry as well. When completely dry, separate any latex that has stuck together and lightly dust the garment with talc to prevent any further sticking. Some will use a small amount of silicone dressing aid instead.  It is not recommended to store light and dark latex garments in direct contact as this can discolor the light latex.

Asking to have sex: asking a girl to have sex is like asking your mother if you can have a girl over at your own apartment. When you ask, you immediately show a lack of confidence and control. Instead, work her up with basic touching and kissing. She will stop you if she doesn’t want sex.

Giving her a hickey: She’s guaranteed to feel like a cheap hooker sporting her new temporary sex tattoo the next day at the office. Only the inexperienced leave hickeys. Avoid this by going mouth wide around her neck and working in your tongue. Slowly close your lips until your kissing it.

Not going down on her: You simply aren’t a man if you don’t go down on your lady. The majority of female orgasms are orally induced and for chicks, unforgettable sex includes great oral sex.

Rushing through foreplay: Sex is like an epic movie, it’s best when you have the proper build up of tension leading to a climactic explosion. By skipping foreplay, you limit your chance of creating an Oscar worthy performance. You need to slow the fuck down, she isn’t going anywhere. You should spend at least 10 minutes teasing her and building her up.

Not having a condom in arms reach: You’ve done it right with the foreplay and now she is begging for it, but instead, you’re scuffling around on the floor like a dog looking for a condom. Every second that passes is another second her excitement fizzles out. If you’re at your place, have condoms stashed between your mattress. If you’re at her place, have one in your back pocket.

Fucking like a rabbit: Maybe once or twice it’s natural to get carried away after a night of one too many tequila shots and you need to jack hammer to finish, but, other than that, it’s a rookie move. Start slow and actually allow her to feel what’s going on. Increase speed intervals every 20 seconds or so.

Not switching positions: By moving in and out of positions, she will remember your sex as action packed and wild. After a minute or so in any position, gauge how she is reacting. If she’s into it, continue, if she’s not, move on.

Being too quiet: Silence is a sure sign well, sex is boring. Although she doesn’t want you shouting like a German porn star, she wants validation through your vocal involvement. Mix in some moans, groans, and deep breathing. Whisper in her ear and let her know that you’ve been thinking about fucking her since she arrived.

Asking where to cum: She’s no idiot. If you ask her where you should finish, it is a sure indication you are hoping she’s beg for a cum facial. However, the majority of women don’t find your semen as delightful as you think. Finish in your condom or on her stomach.

Leaving everyone asking one question, “How on earth do they have sex?”. Surely they don’t have to resort on free porn?

Coincidently, Hefner’s ex-girlfriend Kendra Wilkinson has recently come out with a book in which she recollects her time spent at the Playboy Mansion. As for her moments of ‘intimacy’ with the Playboy mogul, she had this to say:

” One of the girls asked me if I wanted to go upstairs to Hef’s room… It seemed like every other girl was going, and if I didn’t it would be weird. One by one, each girl hopped on Hef and had sex with him… for about a minute. I studied their every move. Then it was my turn… it was very weird. I wasn’t thinking about how much older Hef was—all the body parts worked the same. I wanted to be there.”

Perhaps that’s what she’s saying now, as a token of gratitude – of sorts. But I can’t phantom the thought of a 20-something actually enjoying sex with a man who is almost 60 years her senior. That’s just gross – to say the very least.

Another former bunny, Jill Anna Spaulding, also recalled her time at the mansion through a memoir titled “Upstairs”. Her version, however, wasn’t nearly as forgiving. She said:

“Hef just lies there with his Viagra erection. It’s just a fake erection, and each girl gets on top of him for two minutes while the girls in the background try to keep him excited. They’ll yell things like, ‘fuck her daddy, fuckk her daddaddy!’ There’s a lot of cheerleader going on! The main girlfriend wipes off his [uncondomed] penis. She’s the girl who actually shares the bed with him. She sleeps there all night. She’s around 22 years old. He uses all the same girls. She’s been there for three years now.”

And while I can sense a bit of resentment in her statement, I’m definitely more inclined to believe her side of the story. After all, how could one expect Mr.Hefner to have the energy to do all of the hard work? Like any other man his age, there is only so much you can do to have good sex at that age. And multiple girlfriends plus a hefty dose of Viagra will certainly do the trick.

Condoms of all sort have been used in ancient Egypt and just recently there was an auction for one of these 110 year old condom sets that are made from fish bladder.

The condoms at the time were meant to be reusable up to about 10 times. Not sure if they had to worry about giving and receiving STD’s back then. I’m pretty sure that they didn’t have to worry about things like that and they were constructed for the sole purpose of preventing pregnancy.

It only makes me wonder what kind of super condom this probably was, since it was able to get up to 10 uses. Nowadays if someone used a Trojan up to ten times, they wouldn’t be preventing anything. Both partners would end up with some sort of disease and the chick would for sure be pregnant!

Apparently what was up for auction were five 110 year old condoms along with the original cardboard box with the maker’s label. The box’s size was 26 x 6 cm and the estimated price for the item: 300 to 500 Euros.

It ended up selling for a whopping 2000 Euros, fish bladder condoms, case and all.

What’s really remarkable to me is the condoms and the tins and the remarkable state it looks to be in. It also looks as if it was just produced for use. There are also signs of crosses on the packaging that would indicate how many times the condoms were used by the owner.

All I have to say is: that would be the day that I use a fish bladder condom on my huge cock. Sure, it would prevent me from catching anything from my partner but who’s to say that I wouldn’t catch anything from the fish!