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Wednesday, April 6th, 2011
If one is looking for true sexual excitement one probably would do well to not look to their significant other. The longer we have been sex partners with someone the staler the sex will become. It is simply a fact of life that as we built intimacies with someone, those intimacies are all that keep us consistently fucking them, since the physical delight of being with the same partner over a prolonged period of time simply has to wane.
This is not a fact anyone wants to admit to, it would be the death knell to anything long term, but it is the truth as we are all too aware.
This same Catch-22 exists for kinky sex, even more so.
In order for any man or woman to truly indulge their fetish, explore some BDSM, open themselves up for even the possibility of kinky play with a partner they must trust that partner implicitly. Whether one assumes the role of dom or sub, both people looking to begin the action, role-play, sex games must know they are safe, for the moment, to step slightly far afield of their usual comfort zone. The better one knows one’s kink partner the better a chance for trust and therefore a better scene. But the very fact that we don’t know what a partner might do in a scene, the fact that we might be teased, tortured and trapped by someone who does not know us and they us is exciting, is in fact at the root of the implied danger of all kinky sex scenes and is what drives them.
For lovers who know one another well and play all the time, role-play often masks familiarity and sometimes the addition of another party helps to fuel some danger but in the very best aspects of kink play-trust, long-time partnership, communication-is its very fault.
The true petard of exploring sexual desires that put us on edge, challenge and maybe even frighten us-as most BDSM play does-is that, for the most part, if we are familiar with someone, safe, if they are partners we have played with before, then they are a known quantity and there is very little true excitement that can come when we know a lover well.
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Friday, March 18th, 2011
There’s no denying it — everybody who’s tried it enjoys the feel of unprotected fucking — of nothing between one and the body of their lover but their wetness or favorite sex lube. A naked cock and a naked cunt or, perhaps, a naked ass-fucking. One loves to share this kind of intimacy with the right lover, one with whom one is committed and knows to be safe, and one loves to see it in porn.
And yet how often is one in this situation? There are many times — indeed most times — when the best kind of sex is safe sex. Perhaps one picked up that smoking hottie at the local gay bar or the singles meat market. Maybe one has tried to put up a profile on an online adult dating site. One has met that sexy online date and is ready to take it back to the bedroom. Whether you’re gay or straight, a lesbian, a queer. If one is into bondage and domination or a swinger, one can learn to enjoy safer sex. Of course if one already has a latex fetish, lucky you!
Of course condoms are the safer sex suppliers one encounters most often. One can find all kinds of condoms nowadays. One can find huge condoms for huge dicks and smaller ones for smaller cocks. One can use a condom on one’s favorite dildo or sex toy for sharing it with others. One can find flavored cocks for a tasty sweet blowjob. There are even condoms made from polyisoprene now, which are just as tight as latex condom but safe for those with allergies. They also smell better and don’t leave that condom taste on your cock or cunt — a big help for cunnilingus and fellatio during a long fuck time.
Of course safe sex doesn’t stop there. One can use gloves to protect hands during sexy play. This is great for anal fingering when it keeps things clean and makes one’s fingers extra smooth and slippery when one adds lubricant. There are dental dams for oral sex — great with a little flavored lube and hear her moan.
Don’t let the need for hygiene and protected sex turn one off. Instead look at it as a way to enjoy new kinds of fun with more new people.
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Wednesday, March 9th, 2011
There are some who do not realize that some fantasies are meant to be just that, fantasies. Not everything you see while watching free porn is something you are meant to do yourself.
Some of these sexual fantasies are not supposed to be fulfilled and when you figure that out you will live a much happier life.
For instance it may be one of your premier fantasies to fuck the bosses wife or daughter, but upon reflection one can clearly see where this might not be the best course of action even should said wife or daughter want it.
One has to think things through and figure that although the wife or daughter might want it, it is a situation that easily turn ugly and disastrous to say the least, very quickly.
What if the woman suddenly decides that you can do things for them, what if something goes bad and they become an enemy rather than a friend. These are all very realistic possibilities and you could coerced, or exploited, blackmailed or worse. These are all just as possible as your actually getting that piece of ass from them. There is no piece of ass regardless of how good it might be that is worth all the trouble and disaster that could ensue from such an encounter. There are many reasons why such a thing would be a bad idea. So when you simply realize and accept the truth of a thing you will be much better off.
Besides, that leaves room for a great deal of other fantasies you can make happen. A threesome with the right partner is always a possibility as is perhaps making your own porn movie with your partner. There are a lot of things you can do to really spice things up without crossing a line you may well regret. Not all our thoughts will lead to good kink magic, or any magic at all! It is simply a good sound plan to always evaluate and consider things well before you dive in and try to make them happen.
If you play smart, you will have a much greater reward than if you simply did things with little consideration beyond getting your rocks off and giving in to greed. Greed will be your undoing every single time.
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Tuesday, March 8th, 2011
Men only ever become pussy whipped because they want to.
Straight boys are fascinated in a womans vagina almost to the exclusion of all else-expect friction-and this chalice of womanhood has been celebrated in art, music, free porn, and literature as much as the phallus that fits inside it. Other female body parts may fascinate the straight guy, even gat man have been known to take notice of a firm high shelf of breasts or a nice swaying buttocks, still it is the vagina that ultimately has the most pull.
But over the time of a straight man’s life the cunt, vaja-jay, hairpie-whatever it is to be called-becomes less of a fascination, less something women can hold out from their partners or wield with impunity.
Because over time, men realize there is a woman attached to that pussy.
It takes a man a while but he does come around. First he has to get his mind off fucking. He has to realize that the fact that his dick is hard is truly only fascinating to him! Hopefully from this ephifany he learns to care about and subsequently please his bed partner, whomever he or she happens to be. Lastly, the man might grow to the point where he stops objectifying, or at least tempers his need to objectify, body parts to the exclusion of the person who sports a pair of breasts or a cute ass. And then, the very thing women wish men would do more often-notice them as a whole-renders a woman less powerful.
If a man begins to notice the whole woman, not just her ass, tits and that deep well of her mystery her vagina, then the woman no longer has the mystery of her parts to hold over her man. Men who wish to be controlled by the cunt can still be, but that is a self-imposed slavery to a body part most adult men will not coddle. Seasoned guys will no longer worship a womans parts simply because they have grown to the point where they recognize a woman is a sum of her parts. Sure, guys are still set-up to see first and fit the piece into the whole later, but the pieces become less important as men grow older.
Or if not, they stay ready and waiting to be pussy whipped
just like they want to be.
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Tuesday, March 8th, 2011
Most single people who have profiles on dating websites are looking for sex, at least eventually. It would be unusual to find someone that truly isnt hoping to get into a relationship that eventually leads to sex.
The problem is that sometimes people want to put the cart before the horse and the subject of sex comes up far too early.
Men, when corresponding with a woman on a dating website, especially at the very beginning of the process, dont ask her about sex or what shes into sexually or how many times a day she likes to fuck or if she likes to give blow jobs. In most cases, the lady will find that to be an instant turn off.
Women want to know that guys are interested in them for more than just sexual interaction. Even on websites that are geared toward people who are into BDSM and fetish, the ladies still want to have some vanilla conversation before they are asked to spill their deepest, darkest fantasies.
It comes across as though the man is only interested in sex, and that will turn a lot of ladies off even if they are only interested in sex. It seems disrespectful, and most women do want to be treated with respect and treated like a lady until the time becomes appropriate to treat her otherwise.
Of course, internet dating can be complicated, and it can be rather confusing for the guys because some women respond really favorably to instant sex conversation. They expect to be asked questions right away, especially if they are on BDSM or fetish free porn sites. So how does a guy know what to do? Sometimes its possible to tell by reading the persons profile carefully and really paying attention to what it says. That will often show quite clearly what type of woman she is and what her expectations are. A man can simply do whatever he wants, figuring that the right woman will understand him and it wont matter. Another option is to wait discuss vanilla topics and get to know her as a person, and let the lady introduce the subject of sex whenever shes ready. That will make her feel respected and well-treated and most women will really appreciate that.
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Monday, March 7th, 2011
Finding new horizons in your sex life can be a fun and exciting experience but it can also be one you can easily get carried away with when you don’t do it responsibly. Whether you are in a committed relationship with a love interest or whether you are fucking strangers, you must always take care not to allow yourself to go too far or get carried away. When you are feeling jaded and looking for a new sex experience you have to be careful you don’t allow yourself to become too seduced by the pleasure. Everyone has limits on how far they will go and while it is always healthy to challenge those limits from time to time it is also very healthy to remember why those limits are there in the first place.
Just because you decide you have found your limit does not mean you have refused to grow or that you are small or close minded. It means you have standards and you stick to them. And one might be amazed at how wonderful and vibrant ones fucking might become when a couple sticks to some of the same things, but discover a new level to their tried-and true standards they did not know existed before. Oral sex can be aided and improved by the addition of foods, syrups or sweet things to go with a little pussy licking or some cock sucking. And many people realize they in fact might be a little kinkier then they first imagined and by wearing some clothes they might already have in their closet their entire mood might change to what they want sexually! A simple change the location when one has sex can do wonders to a staid sex life, as well as simply ideas of what to say and maybe how to act.
There are all sorts of ways you can vary the things you already enjoy without having to do entirely different things. Watching free porn vids can give you some ideas. You just have to be able to see the same things with a brand new perspective and discover that something has layers and levels you have never experienced before. You have gone to entirely new territory and yet still retained your standards of conduct. You have gotten the best of all worlds involved and are satisfied in ways you never imagined before. The orgasms you experience now can be greater than ever before.
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Sunday, March 6th, 2011
Men and women really are at their warmest, most peaceful and possibly most alluring when they are sleeping. Lying down deep under our covers, breathing regular-even snoring- who could not be attracted to the quiet of our sleeping spouse or lover? All manner of worry and argument is quiet, all possible refusals muted, all manner of orifices open and warm.
Many a hetero wife has reported waking to her man vigorously slipping his cock inside her or a guy has woken with a mouth locked around his slowly growing erection. The pure person is on display when we see, us in all our glory and without any true flash of our personalities good or bad.
We can complain about bad morning breath all we want, the fact that we most probably need a pee when waking, even the funk and film eight hours leaves us with, but we are biologically predisposed to like all those funky warm smells. Akin to that musky warmth a wet pussy exudes when aroused, our deep scents of sleep are supposed to attract our lovers to us and us to them, we are supposed to wants to crawl beside them and spoon-at the very least-make love at the most, even when either of us might not be awake enough to respond. Many a lover who has snuck out of bed in the morning, brushed their teeth, splashed on some cologne or perfume to meet their lover lying still in bed all twisted under the covers in their morning film neednt have bothered as sleep smells are really so alluring anyway.
For most of us anyway our beds really are the temple of our sex lives and good feelings. Couple lay together many a nights to discuss their futures, hopes and dreams. Men and women can recall the moments of their wildest sexual escapades or their deepest clutching moments of love-making in this spot at the center of their intimate lives. We crawl into bed to be safe, to be closer, to sleep and to renew what our love and lust means to each other.
Sleeping beautys little dwarfs had to have had many a nasty thought between them. The Internet might be a great place to meet people to masturbate over or maybe find a date from an on-line dating site, but nothing can replace the warmth of spooning lovers in bed rolling into one another in time to maybe catch an early morning quickie stolen before either partner has to get up for work!
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Saturday, March 5th, 2011
The older we get the more we notice
even if we dont want to. Certainly our sexual vocabulary increases in what we want, how we want it, and what we know we must do to get it. We begin to notice the nuance of a touch, the sensuality of someones smile and how the way someone acts to and with us is the very best foreplay. We need the look and feel of body parts just as much as ever, but beyond the hubris of youth, a certain bloom is off the rose, not that we dont still like looking at the rose, but the pedals and stem attract us just as much.
This is why the disembodied cock isnt as attractive as it might have once been.
Gay men and straight girls might be fascinated by the male member, but as they grow older, it depends more who the dick is attached to then it does the dick itself to inform the attractiveness of that dick. Used to be, one could marvel over a thick bulge and never raise ones eyes to the face of the man who sported that heavy crotch; as one grows older, the crotch-no matter how attractive-does not exist independent from the man. Something shifts in our psyches as we feel a little seasoning and body parts, no matter how thick or long, are simply just body parts.
In most cases, no matter their age, straight women never objectify male parts as much as straight men objectify a womans tits, ass
everything, part and parcel from the woman they are attracted to. Gay men to, because they have the same parts as their lover, do not have as much a fascination for objectification. Its not to say any of us, whatever sex or sexual orientation, dont enjoy looking at or touching the bounce, firmness, thickness, roundness or length of a specific naughty pink part from time to time, its just that as time wears on we are less apt to find only the part itself attractive separate from the person whose part it is, doubly so if one is a hetero or a gay man who didnt really objectify all that much to begin with.
Though certainly championed in advertising and in porn, regardless of size, the cock itself means very little to anyone truly unless attached to a man whom one wants to know.
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Friday, March 4th, 2011
A leopard cannot change it spots –
neither can young adult males decrease their testosterone flow. Whether gay, bi or straight, guys are all over the net not only downloading porn but looking for someone to hook-up with. Whether joining on-line dating sites, social networking hubs or simply trolling the groups section of Myspace guys are just as horny as ever, but now have the net to temper their pursuits in what seems a socially acceptable and respectable approach.
The net is as much a portal for sex these days as it is for anything else
in fact the Internet is the perfect place to exercise our dirtier interests. One undeniable fact is true, adults want to be fucking, rubbing and sucking as much as they can or are comfortable with a partner they find to fuck, rub and suck with.
Male humans, especially young guys, are ruled by their nescient libido more then they are often their good commons sense and finding another avenue in which to pursue conquests, namely, on-line, they have made the net their personal procurement playground.
How men go about attempting to find a date, than seduce that date doesn’t matter. Terms used for sex, on the net or off, change with ridiculous regularity, but it comes down to the same specifics of seduction it always has: men using their wit and wiles to secure a date. Whether they are emailing, posting a profile picture, chatting in a local chatroom or even joining a fetish site, these ways of strutting on-line are no different then being available every Tuesday night for a bookstore run with a buddy or scoping out the local supermarket for the weeknight that attracts the most single shoppers.
It might seem that the game of sex, flirting, seduction, even hooking-up and the tales told afterward are more private, or at least more likely to be anonymous these days, but methodology is the only thing that may have changed. Euphemisms morph generation to generation but the game is still played and the game is sex for the red-blooded male. Shy or a playboy, teen or middle age, single and even married, men are still out there on the prowl and are using the Internet in ways that even the most adept hacker would be proud of.
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Monday, February 28th, 2011
For some straight men, there is a big stigma against having their ass played with in any way. Fingering, and certainly no sex toys are allowed in there! Too bad for them that they are missing out on a wonderful life pleasure. There is hope, however, for the hopelessly straight man who is at least willing to try to allow his girlfriend to explore beyond the penis. And if he thinks it is too weird, just boot up some porn that will show him how awesome it can be!
One of the best ways for a woman to first approach stimulating a guy’s asshole is to begin while there is other intense pleasure happening for him. She might take his succulent cock head into her mouth. While she is sucking him, she might take the personal lubricant from the nightstand and begin to rub some gently around the outside of his anus. Make sure he is still distracted by the free porn at this point.
She can keep sucking, and while he is in the throes of pleasure, insert one finger slowly. No need to pound hard or do too much at all. He might be taken aback at first, but he is also likely to flow with how good that finger feels inside him while he is getting a blow job. Once he gets acclimated, she can move her finger gently to discover the best subtle motions that will stimulate his prostate (P-spot).
If he has never had an anal experience, he might thank her later.
A not-too- big vibrator might be another way to begin for the more adventurous man. Quite a number of guys are curious about what it must feel like to get fucked with a vibrator because they see porno clips of women loving it, or their girlfriends hitting their orgasm with the sensation. Stroking his cock and balls while introducing the lubed-up vibrator to his ass would be a good way to go. It is generally fun to insert it while it is off then turn on the vibrations and watch him jump with startled ecstasy.
Butt plugs and anal beads: These might be best for once he is familiar with the backdoor route. Often, inserting the number of anal beads you like inside you by yourself is a good thing to do, followed by sexual activity with the partner. Once a guy discovers these pleasures, he may fuck himself silly with a butt plug while his cock is inside his favorite pussy.
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