A recent survey of 4000 Men & 4000 Women about their porn viewing habits shows that 2 out of 3 men orgasm faster from watching porn than from having sex. That number is fairly high and may be surprising to some. But we know awesome some of the porn out there is!
I know we learned a few things from the results, below are some of the ones that stood out the most to us.
32.5% of Men & only 3.8% of Women watch porn daily.
You know the fantasy: blonde MILF with her hair in a bobtail, black horn rimmed glasses, a hint of her bra peaking above her collared shirt, preferably a trace of some European accent you can’t quite place, sitting on the desk while lecturing. Then comes the come on to her student – “Can I speak to you after class?” If you’ve been living under a rock, here’s a MILF porn clip that features this exact scenario!
Unfortunately, for Joseph Corlett, a 57-year-old husband cum self-employed contractor, when he wrote in his essay titled “Hot for Teacher” – an homage to the 1984 Van Halen song by the same name – about his MILFtastic composition instructor Pamela Mitzelfeld, pictured below, things didn’t go as well as they do in your average porno.
Miss Delaware can use a break.
After her 15 minutes (31 minutes, to be exact) of fame for winning her state’s beauty crown, the barely legal Melissa King promptly lost it right back after being caught in porn, a charge that she denies, despite the video showing someone who looks exactly like her, named exactly Melissa King. See exhibit A here:
Today she’s reinserted (too early for clever puns?) herself into the headlines once again, ON THE WRONG SIDE OF THE LAW! Drum roll… (more…)
If Rick Santorum is elected President, Internet porn as we know could bite the big one. Uptight conservatives everywhere are rejoicing because Rick the Dick plans on taking major actions to ban sites that specialize in sex movies. Orgasm.com will cease to exist! You’ll have to jack-off from memory. Who wants to do that?
There has always been people who think that porn is bad, naughty, dirty and nasty. We agree, but we think that’s a good thing. Now there’s proof that the nasty fun stuff in internet porn actually has benefits for society on a whole.
Here at orgasm.com we’ve always known that we’re doing right by our viewers. Today, we’ll see if our special investigators have finally proven that adult films are helping to save the world.
Certainly every man uses or has used porn in his lifetime. Though some hide it from their lovers, others introduce it, still others use a tape or download in conjunction to what they will try in bed, just as many partners think porn viewing is cheating, masturbation and wives who actually consider looking at erotic media to be a form of cheating, masturbating the pursuit of a cum-addled teen and any stimulation far and away from sex in the bedroom as sex addiction!
But not all women hate porn. Not all ladies have such a Puritanical view, want to police or mother their partners. In fact some women love porn and use it as much as their male counterparts.
Though it was true that when the only way to see adult movies was to go to a theater fewer women would attend, these days anyone can watch what they want over the net in the privacy of their own home. This takes the stigma of porn off of women and they can enjoy and have been enjoying porn in record numbers of late. Women can dial up whatever they like, with our without a partner and find a lot of fare being made for their masturbatory delight exclusively.
Women might not be as adept at viewing, or at least culling the field for viewing as men-men have had more practice-but we shouldn’t be surprised that the female taste in porn can be as varied and hardcore as many straight guys’ needs. There is no cliché softer dirty movie that a woman is going to take to as opposed to the gonzo stuff a guy will want. Both sexes can enjoy a wide variety of stuff, and gender does not inform how mild or wild a movie any one person is going to like.
These days we even get women directing movies, running studios as well as acting in films. Liberated on all fronts a modern lady can and will enjoy whatever her lusts bring her to and there really is no porn off limits to the fairer sex.
Despite the fact that everyone, certainly every man, uses porn from time to time there are still misconceptions. Some of them are forced to hide it from confused and threatened lovers and wives who actually consider looking at erotic media to be a form of cheating, despite the fact that their husband would never think of actually touching another woman outside of fantasy. Actually this masturbation may even be a valuable outlet for those lusts, and attacking them may encourage him to stray more by taking away his exhaust valve for horniness for others. But do women universally hate porn films or is the reality more complicated?
When the only way to see adult videos was to go to the movie theater much fewer women would go, fearing the reception they would get from the male audiences would possibly even be dangerous. This began to change when pornography moved onto video tape and a woman could order a video cassette or DVD through the mail, but with the help of the Internet the use of women and porn films has grown immensely. Though numbers are not always available the data which is present shows us that more and more women are viewing free porn just like men are, enjoying these pleasures when they masturbate. Since many believe that women are more interested in words than visually stimulated as men may be, even more women make use of written erotica for private sexual stimulation and fantasy making. Written erotica sites are quite full of women authors as well as women browsers reading the stories with one hand while the other excitedly works their clits. There are also many women making their own porno movies, which doesn’t necessarily mean they are gentle and soft. The men are usually better looking then in most x-rated films but the sex can be just as raunchy and dirty even with a female director behind the lens.
Some women enjoy the portrayals of women in porn, but many others do not. Especially for women who have sex with women in real life, sometimes the porno version of sex can seem pretty artificial.
Forget about the barely-there plot concepts for most porn video no one really needs too much of a story anyway. For many women (and feminist-conscious men, for that matter), the interactions just dont ring true. Women seem rather artificial and tailored to porn images of what a sexy woman should be, silicone tits and all. Some women who endeavor to make lesbian and bisexual porn of their own have found a niche that is sexy and shows some essential truths about women and their erotic lives.
First of all, women of varying shapes and sizes may be portrayed. Abandoning the bleach blonde bimbo image or the overly skinny with big boobs look, Women-for-Women who make their own porn might like a woman with a little more booty. They may enjoy seeing women of different, non-stereotyped cultural backgrounds getting into it. Exceptionally important is the portrayal of different genders. The gender normative look and behavior for women is far from all thats really out there. In W4W porn, you could find a femme topping a soft butch, two BBW with short hair getting it on, a butch-femme coupling, an all-female orgy, or even a femme-on-femme scene, but one where the women look and act like real people.
Women who should video do it for a reason to add voices and erotic images to the canon that better reflects them. They presumably want to produce erotica that turns them on. In that quest, showing scenes that are genuinely hot is an important part of the enterprises. The level of arousal in the women is usually palpable. Sounds of sex, the way bodies react to touch, the portrayal of cunnilingus all look and feel like those women want to be with each other, producing happy, powerful orgasms together. There is pussy licking and sex toys, used in a way that as the vibrator enters the well-lubed pussy, it is obvious that is feels good. Sounds of approval are resonant and abundant. Women who do women know how to show it to the rest of us.
Men only ever become pussy whipped because they want to.
Straight boys are fascinated in a womans vagina almost to the exclusion of all else-expect friction-and this chalice of womanhood has been celebrated in art, music, free porn, and literature as much as the phallus that fits inside it. Other female body parts may fascinate the straight guy, even gat man have been known to take notice of a firm high shelf of breasts or a nice swaying buttocks, still it is the vagina that ultimately has the most pull.
But over the time of a straight man’s life the cunt, vaja-jay, hairpie-whatever it is to be called-becomes less of a fascination, less something women can hold out from their partners or wield with impunity.
Because over time, men realize there is a woman attached to that pussy.
It takes a man a while but he does come around. First he has to get his mind off fucking. He has to realize that the fact that his dick is hard is truly only fascinating to him! Hopefully from this ephifany he learns to care about and subsequently please his bed partner, whomever he or she happens to be. Lastly, the man might grow to the point where he stops objectifying, or at least tempers his need to objectify, body parts to the exclusion of the person who sports a pair of breasts or a cute ass. And then, the very thing women wish men would do more often-notice them as a whole-renders a woman less powerful.
If a man begins to notice the whole woman, not just her ass, tits and that deep well of her mystery her vagina, then the woman no longer has the mystery of her parts to hold over her man. Men who wish to be controlled by the cunt can still be, but that is a self-imposed slavery to a body part most adult men will not coddle. Seasoned guys will no longer worship a womans parts simply because they have grown to the point where they recognize a woman is a sum of her parts. Sure, guys are still set-up to see first and fit the piece into the whole later, but the pieces become less important as men grow older.
Or if not, they stay ready and waiting to be pussy whipped just like they want to be.
High school is a time for growth – academically, socially, intellectually and sexually. Make no mistake, high school is a formative experience, and is often the first place teenagers are exposed to porn. Normally, this exposure comes in the context of peer pressure – perhaps a friend finds some old magazines in his father’s closet, or some free porn on the internet – but rarely is it due to school faculty.
This was the case on September 10, 2010, however, as 400 students in a Pennsylvania high school were exposed to pornographic pictures on a Central Blood Bank employee’s flash drive. Sure, we all have porn on our flash drives, but this seems a little overt – what ever happened to burying your porn in folders that aren’t linked to work? It would seem that blood boy was a little too eager to ogle the lithe naked bodies he enjoys on his computer. The school has released a statement saying that they’re “still trying to determine how [this] occurred.”
It’s a consolation that most of the kids exposed to the images displayed before the Blood Bank employee’s presentation have seen porn before, however this clearly creates a legal conundrum for the school in question. There’s no doubt that parents will sue in this case, as school really isn’t the place for their children to watch people fucking.
Apparently, the porn pandering employee in question wasn’t allowed to finish his presentation and the police are still mulling whether charges should be laid. Perhaps the nature of the porn shown should be used to determine our hombre’s punishment. After all, I could sure use more porn at work myself, and wouldn’t want to punish anyone who had only entertained.
