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Double Penetration Porn

Friday, August 5th, 2011

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When it comes to cock, it seems that many of us believe the more the better. In porn we can see this by the rising popularity of all kinds of exciting films featuring group sex, orgies, threesomes, bisexual men and other kinds of wild erotic tastes. One shines above all the rest as both a fantasy of free sex explorers and a popular theme in x-rated movies: double penetration. This is where a girl is taken by two cocks at once in all different ways. Many women fantasize about this, just as many men seem eager to watch films of it taking place.

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Double penetration just means two cocks, so one way it can happen is with one man fucking the cunt or ass while the other fucks the mouth. Sometimes called humorously the Eiffel tower position or Chinese finger trap, the two men take her from either end while she bounces happily between the two, sucking and getting fucked at once. In some cases, the men will both fuck her mouth at once for a double blow job, which can be very erotic for all involved if the men enjoy the feeling of the contact between their cocks.

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Comfortable men are certainly required for what many seem to feel is the holy grail of double penetration, which is either two cocks in the same pussy or one cock in the vagina while the other fucks the ass. This usually works best, as frequently displayed by porn stars, with the girl in the middle of the pile with one man on top and the other underneath. First the man lays down, his cock already erect while the woman climbs on top, probably placing it in her pussy. Then the other man comes up from behind and carefully penetrates her lubricated asshole. Although the cocks do not touch directly in this scenario they can be felt through the thin membrane of flesh.

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Blanket Approach

Wednesday, July 13th, 2011

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The majority rules and adult movie makers take it to heart when making adult sex videos. Most Porn makers use a blanket approach in creating what appeals to the largest audience. It is for that reason that they typically stick to a tried and true formula of girl is easy and willing, fuck her in these positions. The actors may change but the action will remain the same. Foreplay is something you save for your girlfriend, it isn’t something that you see in sex videos. It isn’t why the guy buying the movie is there.

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He wants to see the participants get right down to it. There might be a brief period of oral sex as one or the other, most usually first the girl goes down on the guy. They switch up again very briefly and then the fucking begins. There are three or four positions which offer the best camera angle and occasionally another brief period of oral sex. Finally there is the climax which features the guy pulling his cock out and masturbating until  he cums all over the face and tits of the waiting woman on her knees. She is usually begging for it. There may be the occasional scene featuring anal sex but that isn’t as popular as cream pie shots. This if it aint broke don’t fix it formula has proven bank. It gives the guy watching the movie plenty of action for his money and because the scenes have the most popular positions and money shots the audience is going to find something that gets them hot and bothered enough to buy another movie with the same actors.

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For the regular porn watcher the formula becomes a problem since once you’ve seen one you’ve seen them all. But sometimes familiar is a good thing like with the parody sex movies. Young men like to revisit familiar sitcoms and movies with an adult flair. After all the Brady sex parody had guys all buying it because everyone wanted to bone Marsha.

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Safe Sex

Saturday, June 18th, 2011

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It’s a myth that there was ever once a time when fucking was safe. There has always been risks for sexual activity, no matter the age of the participants, from difficult childbirths and poor medical care to all sorts of diseases, these days the risks from unprotected sex and risky sexual activities can be very risky if not outright fatal. The important thing to remember about safe sex that the most dangerous thing is not any one activity but being ignorant about what is safe and what isn’t. Unprotected sex of any kind; oral or vaginal; but anal sex is extremely risky and even protected and with all kinds of precautions and such accidents can still happen and because anal sex also has the possibility of blood and body fluid mixing it is especially risky for many serious diseases or illnesses such as HIV and hepatitis.

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Even other types of sexual activity, like oral sex, that may appear to have a lower risk have their own issues and problems. Herpes, for instance, can easily be spread by oral sex of all kinds and once you get herpes there simply is no getting rid of it. Beyond illnesses practicing safe sex is also key to avoid unplanned pregnancies. Unfortunately, many men and women have far too many inaccurate if not outright wrong beliefs about pregnancy, believing that certain times are safe when they simply are not; or that they may be statistically less likely but still carry other risks such as transmission of sexual illnesses or such. Education is the best defense against any unwanted complications from fucking and sucking we might not want to encounter. Condom use, dental dams and so many other approaches will keep us safe.

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So take the time to be as informed as you can be about sexual illnesses, risks, safe sex practices, and pregnancy. As the old saying goes: no sex is worth dying over and if you do it right you can have great and safe sex for a very long time, have multiple partners and enjoy all kinds of activities. From kinks to straight vanilla sex we should enjoy how hot we get and how hot we can get another person, and with a little caution we can enjoy it all.

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Boys Bottoms Up

Thursday, June 9th, 2011

A nice ass is a good attribute to have. A lot of men seem to think that working out and acquiring huge forearms is the secret. Others think it is all about giving her that first ride on a huge schlong. The washboard abs may not be at all unwelcome, but staying fit enough to have a firm pair of cheeks may really be the secret.

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Guys, naturally, want to figure out what hot chicks want. Sometimes the best thing to do in that case is to ask them. Formal and informal surveys have indicated that men often have a different idea about what is sexy about them than the women they are after do. It isn’t all about the Benjamins. It isn’t all about the size of the package. Nor is it the size of the muscles. Being muscle-bound to an extreme, it turns out, can actually be a big turn-off. Women will site feeling grossed out by guys with big veins popping out from their overblown arms.

To the contrary, keeping to a nice average size, in most ways, is seen as a positive. A big dick might look nice, but when most women really want wild sex, they want to get it on with a tool that is comfortable to handle. When it comes to the boy booty, nice buns, firm and average in size is what is preferred. It is also what women tend to notice, along with nice eyes, that keeps their heads turning.

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Once the deal is done and people get into bed, the ass if of course appreciated all the more. Many women find the crack of a guy’s ass particularly appealing, and they of course like to hold on tight to both ass cheeks while he is pumping inside them. Not everyone goes to that next level, but ass play where the man is penetrated can be great fun, and especially enjoyable for women who worship the male derriere.

Ass play can consist of the woman inserting her fingers into the man’s butthole. She might use a butt plug, or if they are very into role reversal, a strap-on. The pleasure that he feels from stimulation of the prostate can outweigh any inhibitions he has about being penetrated.

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Ass Tasks

Wednesday, June 8th, 2011

An obedient male submissive will do whatever his Mistress or Master asks of him. He may protest at times, but everyone knows that he really does want to please her. One of those things known to make some guys uncomfortable – especially the straight ones  is to make them take it up the butt. Most guys love it even though they think they aren’t supposed to. Either way, it will be his with to please his Dominant.

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If you plan to do some bondage in combination with ass play, getting a good rope work manual from a BDSM boutique can be a big help if you are new to that aspect of the scene. Having him tied down well can be helpful when beginning to get into giving him ass tasks. Just find a good position like doggie style or on his back with his legs tied up toward his ears so that his rosebud is exposed and he can take what you give him.

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If you are a kind Dominant, you will start off with small items, like a reasonably sized butt plug. He doesn’t necessarily need to feel himself being filled up that much at first. Just the thought of being tied up and having someone stick something in his ass might be enough of a mind fuck. You can even psyche him out and make him think it is going to be something huge. This kind of psychological game will put him in sub space, which is a state of mind you may both want him to achieve.

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Then, paying attention to basic safety and being conscious of not causing actual damage, it is time to go for it. How much can he take from his Ass Master or Mistress of his Booty? Will he take progressively larger plugs? If you introduce a set of anal beads, how many will he take in? If he is a good sub, he might even be able to relax enough to take the pounding of a cock or a strap-on giving it to him for all it’s worth. It can be fun to allow the sub to have his hands and feet free so you can enjoy watching him fuck his own ass as you desire.

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Fisting

Sunday, April 17th, 2011

leanna-sweetMany people have heard of fisting, also known sometimes as handballing, where the entire hand of one lover is inserted into the orifice of another. Vaginal fisting is of course where the entire hand is inserted into the cunt or pussy or vagina, while there is also anal fisting which involves inserting the whole hand — or even much of the arm — up the asshole.

Fisting can seem to one like a much more extreme sexual practice than it truly is in reality. For one thing, the practice is associated largely with sexual extremism or at least with lesbians and with gay men… for vaginal and anal practices respectively. One may also imagine that fisting causes terrible damage, causing huge loose gaping vaginas or assholes that can never tighten again or be enjoyed by others as they were before. Of course, one would have to wonder then why these practices are so common if so.

First off, fisting can be very safe. Tightness returns naturally to these orifices which are used to being stretched for various reasons. In any gender, it is a great idea to practice kegel exercises in order to strengthen the pelvic floor muscle that is responsible for tightening.

The next thing to know is that fisting is a sport that involves a lot of patience and a lot of lube. Getting a good personal or sexual lubricant for the job is crucial — a nice thick one which lasts a long time will help a lot.

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Next up, one should consider gloves for use in fisting. Latex gloves or non latex gloves for those with allergies, are a great choice. They add smoothness to the entire experience and retain lubricant much better — this has the double benefit of making it easier to fist someone but it also adds to clean-up, preventing santorum and other residue and it can also add to the pleasure of the recipient who may very much enjoy the slick texture. Skin has a tendency to pull in unpleasant ways sometimes.

The most important thing in fisting is to go very slow. Gently begin by fingering the pussy or asshole and then gradually, slowly, adding more fingers. Always be sure to reapply lubricant frequently, even with vaginal fisting one needs to be aware that one’s fingers will be blocking the flow of normal vaginal lubrication!

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Anal Stretching And Gaping

Thursday, April 14th, 2011

There are a lot of different fetishes out there that people regularly engage in, and some seem a little odder to people than others. A lot of anal fetishes can make people kind of squeamish because anything involving that area of the body tends to be a little difficult for people to discuss and sometimes even to think about. Women tend to get squeamish about anything that has to do with anal play because they worry about the potential mess, smells, and other unpleasant and potentially unhygienic aspects of anything to do with a person’s ass. Some straight men worry that any kind of anal play, especially if it might involve any type of penetration, might make them gay, and they’re not emotionally ready to consider that as a possibility. They don’t fully realize that enjoying pleasurable sensations in that area of the body has nothing whatsoever to do with their sexual orientation and everything to do with being open-minded and willing to experience different types of pleasure. There are gay men who don’t enjoy anal play, so it’s not inherently a homosexual activity.

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Many people who are a little bit open-minded about anal play will at least try anal beads or toys that seem rather small and not horribly intrusive. On the other end of the spectrum are people who enjoy anal stretching and who crave larger and larger objects being inserted anally. They enjoy the feeling of being stretched wide open and eventually the feeling of anal gaping once the large object is removed. It’s a time consuming activity, but for someone who enjoys this type of play it is time well spent. They enjoy being the center of attention if they are playing with someone else, but many people who enjoy this fetish also enjoy working on it by themselves. They have a collection of sex toys in graduating sizes, and they work through all of them to accomplish the desired end result. They enjoy the time it takes, three to six hours usually, for their anal area to go back to its normal size. Obviously this may not be an activity that everyone will enjoy, but those who do enjoy it find it very fulfilling to accomplish their goal of being able to accommodate increasingly larger toys.

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Anal Massage Intimacy

Saturday, April 9th, 2011

The prostate gland, or P-spot as it is sometimes called, can be found in a way similar to how the G-spot is found on a woman. A simple method is to have the man lie on his back and a finger inserted into the rectum can probe and tap, especially on the upper wall, until the find a spot that is intensely pleasurable. Everyone is built a little differently, so the moment of impact will be different depending on the guy.

It can take a lot of trust to comfortably explore the P-spot or anal play in general, and doing so provides the opportunity for deepened intimacy among the partners. Often people are squeamish about anal play because feces is generally something to be avoided. Also, there are legitimate safety concerns about what kind of things can be inserted into the anus. Learning to feel comfortable about the body in general begins to lessen cleanliness concerns. Learning and keeping to good safety protocol can take care of all the worries. For the record, a latex-gloved finger insertion is a safer sex practice and can give wonderful pleasure to both parties.

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A first-time . Sometimes for a man, receiving penetration can be a bit of a psychological trip. A straight man having a woman penetrate him may harbor fears that anal play could turn him gay. A man who has sex with men or who has long been interested may still have a heavy experience being in a traditionally submissive role. With intimate communication and patience, those worries can even be turned into an extra hot and exciting part of the journey.
A full-fledged anal massage can still begin with a gloved hand inserting one finger. A simple in and out motion can expand into a circular motion. The massager should watch for body signs indicating the intensity of the pressure on the P-spot and when more or less is needed. The man can remain on his back, or may assume other positions depending on what feels better overall. Oh his hands and knees can provide great access to the butt, and can feel incredibly good. He may be brought to orgasm with the assistance of cock stimulation, if desired.

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The Backdoor Challenge

Friday, April 1st, 2011

It probably starts in the high school locker rooms, or even earlier in some cases. It surely starts from the overarching tendency toward homophobia that is handed down to youth from those who learned this system in turn. The message is that there are some things it’s ok to do during sex and some things are definitely not kosher. For a guy, putting anything up his butt is one of the no-nos.

Lucky for the enhanced pleasure of many men, some do outgrow this belief or simply realize that it is not a useful prohibition. It can be something they discover on their own in a private finger-fucking session. Sometimes a porn magazine ad for a butt plug might finally pique the curiosity. Others just don’t even think about going for it, so running into a woman who likes to penetrate her man can become a challenging situation for both of them.

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One of the early roadblocks that a woman can help dispel for her partner is that a guy who likes being penetrated is not necessarily gay. As a matter of fact, the act of anal penetration has nothing whatsoever to do with being gay. If the woman is really into the idea, she can let the man know that it would really turn her on. Dispelling the gay myth will probably naturally follow as a close second. In order to help him feel secure, she can promise to let him feel her womanhood while she plays with his ass. With a woman whose voluptuous breasts are spilling out all over him lying on top of him, it will be hard for him to imagine that he is gay as she gives him an ass probing.
For some men who have had a long-held fear of ass play, it may not be best for them to start out with another person. Once his wife or girlfriend has expressed interest, he may want time to get used to the feeling and response and potential of that orifice at first by himself. He may try using an enema if he is worried about soiling, then trying out a small butt toy. If he finds that he enjoys it, he may decide that this sexual expression might be something he feels ok about sharing.

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Asking for What You Want

Wednesday, March 23rd, 2011

Do you have a special desire that you are afraid to talk about? Do you think that what you would like in your relationship or in the bedroom is just too unconventional for your lover? Are you held back by a general shyness when it comes to emotions and sex? You are not alone. Many people experience these kinds of anxieties. Between taking the time to work on skills to allow you to be more expressive and meeting like-minded people who are a match for what you want out of life, the resources are out there to help you give and receive all you want out of love and life.
If you do believe that your sexual or relationship desires are non-mainstream, it may be a productive idea to seek others who are like-minded as you begin to seek serious partnership. Being with someone who holds similar ideals and who has compatible interests and kinks will prove many times more fruitful.  If you are polyamorous and like to make love outside on a secluded beach, does it make sense to try to forge a relationship with someone who is monogamous and expects to only do it behind closed doors? Those are just basic relationship factors that should be in sync. If you have more exotic tastes like costume play or diapers that even mainstream porn doesn’t always show us, there are groups for you to discover online and elsewhere to help you meet your special someone.

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Do you have a friend you can trust? If so, you may want to consider a role-playing game. It sounds corny at first, but try it. Say you want to tell your boyfriend or girlfriend that you want to try anal sex but you feel nervous. Go over it a few times with the friend you’ve already been confiding in about it. Say it a few different ways. The friend will be able to help you find the way that you think you’’ll be able to express it.
Ultimately, the goal is this: Trust your lover. Being in a relationship means existing together in a consciousness of love and trust. The ideal is to honor each other and all of your wants and needs. If it’s love, you will weather exploration and newness together.

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