Don’t be ashamed, most people find it nearly impossible to masturbate without porn and that is completely healthy! We’re all driven by visual stimulation, men more than women, but still.
A certain fellow at Orgasm.com headquarters (we will call him “James”) has admitted that he often uses porn to masturbate and his wife seems to get upset with him. Even though both parties have said it hasn’t affected their sex life, per se, and that they still have sex on a regular basis.
A few weeks ago at the office we got in a heated conversation about masturbating to porn and the effects it has on a person and “James” decided right then and there he was going to stop watching porn to see how it would effect him.
He figured that he would become more frustrated, more aggravated, have intense mood swings, higher stamina during sex and sensitivity to revealing clothing/nudity.
He kept a journal and I could tell you all every little note that he jotted down, but I’m not going to do that. I’m just going to give you the results.
Everything that he predicted would happen, did happen. “Revealing clothing is much harder to not glimpse. Damn you, women’s diving, beach volleyball and swimming” and, “I wasn’t too horny because I was getting in fights with my wife constantly. I’m aggravated I tell ya!” he said in the journal.
The overall conclusion was that it definitely did not improve his sex life. ”All it did was introduce frustration into every day life. For me, porn is healthy and keeps me happier day to day because it helps suppress my primal urges.”
Alright so the results are necessarily “scientific” but it just proves that subtracting porn from the equation is not going to make things better at home. So keep on watching porn ya’ll!