By now we’ve all seen bondage. Hell, BDSM is practically mainstream at this point! Maybe we caught ourselves watching Secretary. Maybe we fell down the rabbit hole of watching videos from Fucking Machines. However it happened, bondage is here and we’re interested.
So how do we convince women to let us do it to them? Well, first of all, don’t start with Japanese-style rope bondage suspensions. A) You don’t know how to do them. B) You’re going to scare your girl shitless. If you really want to get your kink on, you’re going to have to start small. Start with introducing silk scarves and blindfolds into the bedroom.
Once you’ve got her interested, it’s time to up the ante. Feel free to introduce some rougher sex. Bare handed spanking can be a great way to introduce her to things like floggers, paddles, and canes down the road. Again, you have to start small.
Before you know it you’ll have her calling you sir and begging for more.
