When you watch a girl climax in porn, it looks like all it takes is a pinch of the nipples or a second or two of pussy licking.
In reality, these things can sometimes be a little more involved. Today on orgasm.com we are showing you how to get your woman to orgasm.
Getting a girl to cum is like climbing Mount Everest.
Similar to going up the side of a treacherous rock, there is more than one way to getting her off. One of the best ways to start, is to watch her masturbate.
Why is watching a girl touch herself so important? So you can see how she likes it.
If she’s rough with herself, pinching her nipples while she finger fucks her pussy, you’ll know that’s ok.
If she plays with her pussy like it’s a baby bird, you’d better be gentle too. Some women use toys, some don’t.
If she whips out her hitachi magic wand, you might want to borrow it when you’re pleasuring her.
Remember, anything goes when it comes to orgasms.
There are different varieties on the female orgasm. The standard clitoral orgasm is the one that most commonly occurs. Then there are the g-spot orgasm and the vaginal orgasms.
So how do you optimize your chances of giving any of these three to a woman?
First, let’s take a look at clitoral orgasms.
These happen by stimulating the clit, softly at first, then with a growing intensity. Think about how she did it to herself and do it that way.
Tell her you could do this all night, that will help her relax.
If you feel like licking her pussy, you can, but it’s not mandatory. Although girl on girl porn does prove that it is quite popular.
The g-spot orgasm is up next.
The g-spot orgasm is often accompanied by squirting, although not always. We did cover how to make a girl squirt in the squirting into porn blog post.
Basically, you put one or two fingers inside of her and do the “come here” look with your fingers, moving toward her front, not the back.
On the outside you stimulate her clit. Really, you’re stimulating the clit, inside and out. It can be fun to do this while she’s on all fours.
Finally…the vaginal orgasm. This is the one that she has when you’re penetrating her.
A little know fact is that close to 75% of all women need clitoral stimulation in order to orgasm.
So how does a vaginal orgasm work? If you’re with the 25%, you have to have sex, for a while and make sure sure that she’s enjoying it. See if she likes it slow, or fast and in what position. After a while, she’ll cum. Lucky you.
If your girl is not part of the 25% but you want her to cum with sex, bring in a vibrator, or rub her clit while you’re fucking. That way she can orgasm when you do. Good times!
Follow these steps and listen to your woman’s body and you should be well on your way to giving her a great orgasm.
As an added bonus, a happy and satisfied girlfriend is always willing to return the favor.
