Married couples might indeed have less sex, but it isn’t from lack of desire; simply put, other shit takes priority. Sex is still important but raising kids, dealing with the laundry, in-laws, any number of factors keeping a household together makes the cold hard facts of reality seep into a couple’s life and sometimes throws up a barrier for sex. Exhaustion reigns most of the time, or bad timing when one partner is ready and the other is not, or just the our just the rigors of the day can leave people, people who love one another and are attracted to one another still, simply not up for fucking.
In these instances, which can be many, it sometimes does a couple good to introduce some sex videos. Not so much to ignite some desire between the two partners-though sex videos are certainly good for that-but maybe to simply help each person get the job done for themselves, masturbate and move on, or help them sleep. If two people can acknowledge that life is keeping them apart and not a lack of desire, then masturbating to sex videos is a great way to release some sexual tension and get back on track of getting on track.
What a married couple or any long–term affair runs the risk over though is letting sex videos replace intimacy. It is all well and good to have a dirty movie be the safe harbor you run to on occasion or even in place of regular bed time with your significant other, but to have it replace your time with your wife our hubby, to make sex videos the only way you ever want to be sexual, that’s when they run the risk of becoming too important in our lives. That’s when we need to temper how often we rely on sex videos to get aroused and that’s when we might indeed have to reexamine why we are not having sex with our partner.