A heterosexual guy cannot as much turn away from porn movies as he can kick a woman out of his bed…if he ever gets the time to turn away from porn movies to go out and look for a woman to take to his bed. A Guy’s sexual responses are so very visually led. How many men have been accused time and again by his mate for obsessing over just one of her body parts or indeed watching porn movies too often? But for a man and his movies, it’s the fantasy he seeks to fill both his mind’s eye and his visual senses, and that visual feast fantasy is what porn movies are about for guys.
This is what women do not really understand about porn and men. Sure, a guy might be getting off on watching the perfect bodies of the porn girls reacting before him, just as a girl can get off on male porn stars swinging ever-erect huge penises, but really what a guy likes about this visual beyond the naked female flesh is that it is a fantasy. For the guy’s real woman, his wife or girlfriend, to recreate, care to or fret over the fact that she can’t replicate this fantasy leads to many a boyfriend/girlfriend argument over porn, but women need to realize they are fighting a battle that can’t be won. They cannot provide their man with this fantasy sex, shouldn’t fret that they can’t and in the end, their man doesn’t want porn movie sex from them.
No matter how seemingly addicted to porn a guy might seem, how much he might seem to need and want it for his stimulation or even as constant masturbatory fodder, he doesn’t want porn movies as his real sex life. Guys certainly know the difference between fantasy porn sex scenes and the real one’s they share with a lover. And while one might influence the other and while a guy could spend more time watching porn then ever being with his woman, the twain of the fantasy and the reality cannot meet…nor would a guy watch porn movies less if they ever did!
