Our lovers would love it if we were a little more free and raunchy in bed. Everyone loves some dirty talk, when their fuck buddy takes the time to not just do things but tell them how good it feels or to share some filthy thoughts as they get it on. But how do we learn to share in this erotic verbal delight? One thing we can do is learn from some of the experts on verbal sexy banter, one class of which and probably among the most practiced users of filthy words are porn stars for whom it is a part of their everyday job to talk dirty to the people they are being paid to fuck or vice versa.
It can be hard to be bold and extra verbal in the bedroom. We are taught to be shy or even ashamed of sexual matters so it can be hard to let loose even when we are with a trusted and intimate partner. Now if anyone has watched a porno before, they will know that sometimes the dialogue is extremely cheesy. We’re not suggesting that you necessarily role play out the infamous pizza guy comes over and gets seduced scenario, although that might add some humorous thrills to your games. Nor are we advising faking an orgasm — leave those kinds of theatrics to the professionals and enjoy genuine pleasure with one’s lovers.
But what one can learn from porn is that the best way to dirty talk is to just let it flow. Don’t be afraid of sounding silly or weird. In the heat of the moment, one is likely to sound desperately sexy to one’s fuck friend regardless of how it might seem later or when imagining it before. We can practice ahead of time, too, enjoying an erotic monologue while masturbating or even just fantasizing. Sex videos that others have made may also be a source of good sexy things to say to one’s love.
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