Archive for July, 2011

What Have You Been Doing Lately?

Sunday, July 31st, 2011

Many of us enjoy watching Chelsea Handler every night on her talk show. Her quick wit and biting sarcasm is completely unparalleled and she is always a delight to watch. And now that she has a sex tape amongst the Adult videos available to us on the Internet, we can now see even more of her.

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It is always super sexy when someone is smart and funny in addition to being attractive. Many people would argue, and probably rightly so, that the smarter and funnier someone is, the more sexy they become as you get to know them better. Well, how lucky for us then, that we all get the chance to know Chelsea better every night on her talk show as her entertains and amuses us like no one else can. After you watch her show for a while, you get to the point where you begin to laugh just imagining what she will say before she even opens her mouth to speak. Her expressions are often enough to start us laughing as we anticipate her outrageous and hysterical comments yet to come.

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Well, if you like Chelsea on her talk show, then you will absolutely love her in her sex tape. These days it seems as though every celebrity and pseudo celebrity wannabe has some sort of sex romp or escapade floating around out there on the world wide web. It seems as though having a sex tape is almost a requirement for fame, as the sex tape has certainly helped to propel many people to stardom at least for a while. Chelsea, certainly is top of the line star material with or without a sex tape, but how nice is it that there is one available to us online that we can take a look at whenever we like.

Have you really seen Chelsea lately? Well, now you can.

Nipple Love

Saturday, July 30th, 2011

It is sometimes hard to imagine a body part that is both simultaneously more over looked and yet more obsessed about than the human nipple. On the one hand, an infamous wardrobe malfunction where a female rock star’s covered nipple was temporarily shown on national television created such a furor that one would have thought they were beaming explicit porn films into our nation’s kindegartens. People on the Internet obsess over adult videos where similar incidents reveal an instant of visibility of a celebrity’s breast. And yet on the other hand, the male nipple, which can be extremely sensitive and erotic, is utterly ignored by most and considered a normal display.

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Even the nipples of female children are considered so provocative that is banned in some places for those under the age of three to go topless by the pool. At the same time, hard fought legal battles have allowed some women to go topless in public places in major cities like New York CIty and Austin, Texas as well as throughout the nation of Canada. Few take up this possibility because it can still be so provocative. The sight of a bare breast is sometimes considered scandalous even in the context of nursing. Nursing mothers have sometimes been banned or escorted out of malls or other places, despite the natural purpose of these bounteous orbs being fulfilled.

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Male nipples are often overlooked sources of pleasure for the men who wear them. Many women have been startled by the surprising amount of pleasure their men express, and the men sometimes surprised too, after that time she happens to tweak one during sex. This is a great way to build a man up toward climax and can be added to fucking or oral pleasures or other kinds of sexual acts. Many men may even enjoy getting their nipples pierced or the use of clothes pins as nipple clamps in bed.

Do Girls Hate Porn?

Friday, July 29th, 2011

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Despite the fact that everyone, certainly every man, uses porn from time to time there are still misconceptions. Some of them are forced to hide it from confused and threatened lovers and wives who actually consider looking at erotic media to be a form of cheating, despite the fact that their husband would never think of actually touching another woman outside of fantasy. Actually this masturbation may even be a valuable outlet for those lusts, and attacking them may encourage him to stray more by taking away his exhaust valve for horniness for others. But do women universally hate porn films or is the reality more complicated?

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When the only way to see adult videos was to go to the movie theater much fewer women would go, fearing the reception they would get from the male audiences would possibly even be dangerous. This began to change when pornography moved onto video tape and a woman could order a video cassette or DVD through the mail, but with the help of the Internet the use of women and porn films has grown immensely. Though numbers are not always available the data which is present shows us that more and more women are viewing free porn just like men are, enjoying these pleasures when they masturbate. Since many believe that women are more interested in words than visually stimulated as men may be, even more women make use of written erotica for private sexual stimulation and fantasy making. Written erotica sites are quite full of women authors as well as women browsers reading the stories with one hand while the other excitedly works their clits. There are also many women making their own porno movies, which doesn’t necessarily mean they are gentle and soft. The men are usually better looking then in most x-rated films but the sex can be just as raunchy and dirty even with a female director behind the lens.

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The Famous and the Infamous

Friday, July 29th, 2011

What could possibly be more fun than tooling through all of the various celebrity Porn films and seeing our favorite celebrities in many ways that we never have before? It seems that these days every star, whether large or small, has a sex tape out there on the Internet just waiting for us to come across it.

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These days we have so many more ways to view and enjoy our favorite celebrities than we ever did before. Not only can we tune into the various entertainment news shows to view and be apprised of their every miniscule move during a day, but now we can probably easily find a sex tape that they are currently starring in for our viewing pleasure and sexual enjoyment. Some of the tapes were released with the consent of the stars, others were leaked or supposedly leaked, by those close to the stars themselves, but the end result is we can see almost any celebrity naked and having sex that we would like to, and obviously we can watch as many times as we would like.

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Luckily for us, many of the lesser or not so popular stars, have not let their lack of fame and notoriety stop them from being the stars of a hot sex video. Chelsea Handler though, is certainly not one of these lesser or infamous stars shining in the vast sky of the Internet. Not only is Chelsea super hot and definitely a top star, but she is really really hysterically funny too. Almost nothing is sexier than a very hot woman who is also in possession of a great, biting and slightly sarcastic and quick sense of humour.

How very nice it was of some clever person to invent the fabulous Internet for us so that we could all see the famous, the infamous, the good, the bad, and the ugly, all in their birthday suits.

Bondage Sex is Fun Sex

Thursday, July 28th, 2011

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We need to have variety to fully enjoy our sex lives. With too much of the same old thing it can easy to grow bored with a partner or even fucking itself. Well, maybe not fucking, but one reason that people’s attentions start to stray is when the sexual spark starts to wane amongst people who are dating. Adding new kinds of sexual fun to the mix will revive this spark for many people and may lead to new kinds of intimacy that have never been felt before. Bondage is one kind of sexual play that many lovers enjoy adding to their repertoire of bedroom games.

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Since we’ve all presumably enjoyed free sex where we could move our bodies as we pleased, it may seem odd that it would also be possible to enjoy being tied up like Taylor Rain in this video. However many people find a great deal of pleasure in this act and finding themselves unable to move can be a huge turn on. This can be for many reasons. For one thing, we feel vulnerable when we cannot freely move and this kind of vulnerability can be exciting when shared with a lover or fuck friend. We are open to them yet cannot perhaps touch them back. This creates a new focus on the person who is tied down, letting them enjoy the sensations and not worry about reciprocating for now, while the one who is free can enjoy whatever access to one’s body they desire.

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Many couples experiment with simple bondage using silk ties or scarves, but sometimes rope provides a fun and even sometimes safer option. Also used are chains or even a special vinyl plastic which sticks to itself but does not stick to skin in the manner of duct tape. It can be wrapped around and around a person’s limbs or even around both wrists and ankles for a simple hogtie.

Tequila!

Thursday, July 28th, 2011

Who doesn’t just love tequila? Whether it is the catchy song or the tasty beverage, people have been enjoying both for years. Well just when you thought it couldn’t get any more exciting, here comes bi-sexual reality star Tila Tequila to add to the fun.

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First we have the fabulous and distinctive sounding song recorded in the late 1950’s which was extremely popular when first released, and then was later brought back in the 1980’s by comedian Pee Wee Herman, whose famous film dance atop the seedy bar in platform shoes which happens to save his wimpy little character from the evil scary band of bikers is nothing short of incredible and unforgettable.

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Moving onto the tasty beverage, most people generally are in agreement on the many wonders of tequila. Whether enjoyed in simple shots or used to make an amazing margarita, people have been drinking tequila for eons and it has come to be associated with fun times, friendship, adventure, vacations, warm locations, lemons or limes, and lots of salt.

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As if the song and the beverage were not enough fun, along enters Tila and her popular over the top dating reality show. Tila, as you may or may not know, is bi-sexual and gorgeous, so as you might imagine, her dating reality show consisted of an equal mix of attractive boys and girls. Lots of crazy drama and lots of sexual situations of course ensued, and we were all riveted to our television sets wondering who she would pick in the end as the lucky winner.

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Ok and now if that is not all exciting enough for us, there is a hot sex tape. Yes, that’s right our favorite hot bi-sexual reality star also has a sex tape. I mean, will the fun ever end for us where tequila is concerned?

Sampling all the tequilas that life has to offer is always a very good idea.

Sasha Grey is my Girlfriend

Wednesday, July 27th, 2011

What we need to do but so often can’t is separate the character an actor or actress plays in movies or T.V. from who they really are in real life. There are countless urban legends of soap starts being accosted by irate fans who hate the terrible actions they see the actor or actress do on their shows, never realizing that it’s all fiction and the man or woman is acting a role!

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Same can be said of how enamored we get over our favorite porn star. Sure, from sheer practice they might be more adept at certain sexual maneuvers then the layman-or girl-but people like Sasha Grey are real flesh-and-blood human beings, and while possibly more liberal about sex then you and I, still susceptible to bad moods, off days, body odors and all little things that make us all human, but possibly not so attractive.

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We watch someone like Sasha Grey play through a highly specialized microcosm of her life, and one not even really of her making. She appears to us as a wanton insatiable sex kitten most of the time because that’s the role she is put in most times. But as with any other actor or actress, the alluring Miss Grey is playing a part when she lies down or rolls on top of someone and her responses, while possibly genuine and her skills, while certainly well-honed are captured for the camera during the most opportune of moments.

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We basically see our stars, be they porn stars or rock stars, at their best, out and about, performing for us, fulfilling the fantasy we have of them. On an everyday basis that fantasy would quickly fall away and we’d have to contend with the sobering and not-so-sexy fact that Sasha Grey is just about as human as the rest of us, no better, no worse, but just as real.

Blindfolds and Sensation

Tuesday, July 26th, 2011

The idea of using blindfolds to change how one perceives the world is an ancient one, experimented even in religion. The image of justice with her eyes blinded suggests that this may have been part of ancient rituals, or at least that the symbolism of it carries down to us through the ages. One can also see in free sex videos or heard other friends talk about the fun of adding blindfolds to their sexual practices and wondered what the big deal is.

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Certainly blindfolds can provide a thrill for those engaged in practices of dominance and submission, or D and S, which is where they are most often seen in porno films. The reason that porn stars

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Even without BDSM, many people enjoy the addition of blindfolds to their open and free sex lives. Outside of BDSM this is sometimes referred to as sensation play. The removal of one sense makes others more acute feeling, so touch is extremely appealing when one cannot see, along with smell and sound and others like taste. Two lovers can even both wear blind folds when playing together, so that both are on equal footing and must explore each other blindly with their hands and other body parts. Blindfolds can be fun for anyone adventurous.

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The Person-to-Person

Monday, July 25th, 2011

Any one of us who has ever taken the time to watch a porn movie, even a snippet of one, would understand the fascination about them. Even if watching a visual representation of sex is not your cup-of-tea it’s not a stretch to imagine it is for so many people. But there are very few adults who watch porn on a regular basis who would ever say they prefer it to real face-to-face intimacy with another person. They might opine that there is less work to be had sitting in front of one’s P.C. screen and jacking or jilling-off to a ten second clip, or that an entire cornucopia of fantasies can attend one when alone watching a dirty movie, fantasies that could just as easily get ripped out of one’s play possibilities when with a partner who does not want to entertain fantasies. But the actual sensations, anticipations and wonder we have when in the embrace and care of another person can never be matched by porn.

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But we need to be up for being intimate. What is true about porn and how it is better than face-to-face sex is when we are not up for or interested in intimacy. Then porn could very well replace all the great sensations we get rubbing up against another human being. When all we want is quiet, to stay within our own heads, to imagine those fantasies we might never make reality to their fullest extreme…this is when porn might very well beat real-life humping hands-down.

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It’s really where our minds are at, more than our bodies, that makes porn good, better and best. As with everything else, desire is the key and have we a desire to be close, to open our hearts and imaginations to another, to let someone see our vulnerable side then being with someone is what we will gravitate towards. Have we a desire to stay within ourselves, safe and completely immersed in fantasy, then porn works fine.

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Two Sides of The Same Dirty Coin?

Monday, July 25th, 2011

We are all interested, sometimes fear, what we don’t understand. That interest can lead to great cultures coming together, the mixing of ideas; fear will lead to war, prejudice and stereotypes. But during both the attempt to understand or in the trying to quell fear groups often jump to quick conclusions about one another, too quickly sometimes to dispel half-truths that are too steadfastly created.

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From our politics to our porn stereotypes can form and long-lasting assumptions can be made.

Asian adults can be as much misled by what they perceive the west is about, as can white guys simply assuming every Asian girl will be a quiet lotus blossom-like slave to her man. As we come to regard people in life we will create them in our art and from paintings to literature to the dirty movies we make the stereotypes the creator carries fall into his or her creation.

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But do Asian adults have as many stereotypes of Caucasian guys and girls as Caucasian guys and girls have of them? Is a Japanese guy watching American- produced porn hoping to get his fill of blonde-haired porn actresses with big tits because that is what he expects, what his stereotypes have led him to believe just have to be present in American porn? Or are Americans the only one’s living with these stereotypes firmly planted in their brains and because Americans-and white heterosexual American men-make a good percentage of the porn does it reflect their sensibilities more often than not?

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Whatever the real answer-if it could even really ever be determined-no matter what ethnic group you are associated with you will probably always hold at least a passing interest in people that you do not come into contact with often. Asian adults living far away from the western hemisphere will most likely hold some interest in the west, how much of same determined by individual taste, as much as whether you are a Caucasian guy with a penchant for Bukkake porn or simply a passing interest in the Ti-Chi.