People who enjoy spanking usually have very specific things that they like about it, and those reasons can vary wildly depending on the role the person takes in the spanking scene and it can sometimes even vary wildly depending on the style of the scene or even the spanking implement that is being used.
Most people who bottom for spanking scenes have a definite preference for either smacks that feel either stingy or thuddy, although some people do like both for different reasons and at different times. Maybe they like stingy at the beginning of the spanking to get their skin warmed up a bit and then prefer more thuddy for the second half of the spanking or more toward the end when they’re skin starts getting really sore. The thuddy sensation gives the smack a deeper feeling that resonates deeper in the muscle while the stingy sensation gives more of a surface sensation right on the skin.
Many people who top during the spanking have a long list of things that they enjoy. Some love the feeling of having that much power over another person and love having them over-the-knee or having the opportunity to hold them down as they bend over something. Some love the sounds that their willing victims make as they receive each smack, sounds that get more primal as the heat and soreness begins to grow and take hold. Some love the sound of the implement or hand hitting the skin of the other person. The sounds can differ quite a bit depending on the implement used and the type of material the implement is made out of. Leather and wood make distinctively different sounds as the strike the skin, and even that sound can vary depending on the style of the implement. A leather belt can sound almost like a gunshot in a quiet room, but a paddle will sound very different to an experienced ear. A top that enjoys the sounds that the implements make can often tell just by the sound what the material is and sometimes even what type of implement it is. Someone who can do that is a true connoisseur of spanking sounds – they know and understand exactly what they’re doing and why, and they’re enjoying every minute detail of the spanking.
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