A dominant lady who is looking for a full time submissive is usually looking for a lot more than just sex or someone to torture. She’s looking for someone who is going to make her life easier, who is going to care for her and take care of her, and someone that in some ways might even be a bit like a personal assistant sometimes because of their level of involvement with their dominant lady. A dominant lady, often referred to as a Domme, is sometimes looking for a live-in sex slave. It does sound like it would be a great way to live, having a live-in person who would be dedicated to providing sexual pleasure. There are a lot of other services that a person like would provide.
It probably sounds like a dream but there are men and women out there looking for exactly that kind of existence behind closed doors. They want to live in and be at their Lady’s beck and call twenty-four hours a day, seven days a week. Many want to serve their Mistress in many ways, not just sexually. For a lot of submissives who have these slave tendencies, they believe that their job is to serve and make life easier and more convenient in every possible way for their Mistress. Domestic service is often provided, so some submissives will also clean, do laundry, cook, help with the household expenses, provide massages and pedicures, iron clothes, deal with finances, take garbage out and support their Mistress mentally, emotionally and physically. These things should be negotiated carefully and thoughtfully with any potential new sub and again before anyone gets into a full-blown relationship. A lot of times these men are very masculine and quite often have had a lot of career success in their own lives. They simply want to come home and hand over the reins to someone else and be submissive. There are a lot of alpha females who are also submissives at home, and they too have high powered jobs and just want to stop being in charge of everything when they come home at the end of the day. Being a submissive sometimes feels like a little brain vacation. That’s not to say that a submissive doesn’t think; they do, but it means that they are relieved of the stress of being in charge.
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