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Thursday, June 30th, 2011

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Sometimes being in a relationship can pose certain problems like too much routine. Having a routine is pretty much a standard of things in a relationship and it provides a lot of good however sometimes that can also grate on the nerves. Sometimes the same old same old situation can get to you. What you need to do is keep things fresh and shake them up now and again just for a change of pace. This can help refresh you and get out that nervous angst and energy that can pile up and turn into tension. That tension needs to be dealt with because if it isn’t it can bring a lot of negativity and other bad things into the relationship. One of the ways this happens is when one or both partners are very hard working and wrapped up with a lot of things going on they can begin to take each other for granted. They can forget that sex is very important and not only as a means of pressure release and tension release but intimacy as well. When that begins to happen one or the other can begin to feel some resentment at being unsatisfied.

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In the best case scenario it leads to unhappiness and a sense of bitterness while in the worst case it can send a weaker less responsible person over the edge and want to get laid with some other fuck buddy besides their partner. When you are in a relationship you can use Porn to help spice things between you and your partner. With that you can easily head off any routine and any neglect and unsatisfactory results. You can keep each other lean and satisfied and very happy. Then you can continue working and positively moving things forward. You don’t have to look back and worry about your partner being unsatisfied and developing any resentment. You can continue to give one hundred percent all across the board.

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Looking For Sex

Wednesday, June 29th, 2011

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There are a lot of sites offering free sex personals and the ability to do a free dating search to find local hot women. Using these sites is a great way to start meeting women who are looking for single men to date and have sex with. There are a lot of single, straight women out there who are looking for nice, fun guys to go out with on the weekends. Some of them are waiting for the men to contact them because even though they’re open-minded and looking for fucking partners,  they often have a little bit of an old-fashioned streak and prefer that the guys contact them first. It may seem kind of weird in this day and age that any women would still have that expectation, but it’s often true.

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Men usually don’t realize it though, so they wait for the women to contact them and the women wait for the guys to contact them, and the end result is a whole bunch of people sitting around waiting to find someone and wondering why nobody is contacting them. It’s counterproductive and both genders may need to be a little more proactive if they want to meet someone and start having a more interesting sex life. Instead of following antiquated traditions and trying to conform to male and female roles that are no longer important, they should get out there and contact the people that they like and try to meet as many people as possible so that they can date and have sex and enjoy their lives.

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Especially these days when the economy is so bad and people seem so down and everybody needs some cheering up. The best way to start feeling more positive is to find some friends to have sex with and start having some enjoyment and laughs. Laughter is a great way to keep a person’s mood elevated, and sex also releases hormones that promote better moods and elevate people’s spirit, which is really important right now in this economy and with all the things going on in the world. The best thing people can do for themselves right now is to get out there and have some fun. Once people meet and start having sex, they don’t have to spend a lot of money on dates, but they still get to keep having fun.

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Goin’ Out Packin’

Wednesday, June 29th, 2011

Butch and gender fluid women, as well as any woman who just wants to have some good queer fun might decide to experiment with cross dressing. When they do, they might choose to see what it’s like to put on the clothes of a suit & tie man, a hot guy from the hood, or a rock star. The real adventurous ones might take it to another level and decide to go out packin’.

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Packing in this context, is a slang term for wearing a strap on dildo. To go out while wearing one can give a woman an intense window into what it might feel like to walk the streets, check out chicks or dudes, while managing a raging hard-on. It can be an incredible turn-on.
Some women might really like this because it is an added challenge to trying to pass. If this is something they’re interested in, women have to pay a great deal of attention to manner of walking, sitting, and standing. Not everyone fits a stereotype, but certain sitting positions and ways of holding the body in space tend to belong to either the male or the female realms. A woman can study videos of men she admires or even take some cross-dressing instruction to get good at it.

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Mannerisms are important, but so are the clothes. A large-breasted woman will need to take some time figuring out how best to mask the boobs. Taping works for most, and can best be learned from another drag king if possible. Then, there’s the cock. Adding that to the mix may change the choice of clothing. It may be nice to have a little bulge. Unless the exercise is purely for exhibitionist purposes. She may want to find a way to make it a little more subtle than looking like a pitched tent.

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A few crossdressing women, especially if they like to do it for the stage, would like everyone to see that big bulge. For most, just the feeling of knowing that she has something a little extra between her legs is what the excitement is all about. Bonus fun: Out at the bar, she might brush against her lover, who will suddenly know what’s in store for playtime that night.

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Gather Round Young Men

Tuesday, June 28th, 2011

Masturbation has long been a topic of debate for the religious and the secular. The porn industry has made strides in promoting videos, images and even encouraged the written word all with the sole purpose of arousing the customer to the point of sexual gratification.

Nothing has been questioned more by women regarding men’s sexuality than masturbation. Some men deny it, others proudly proclaim that they jack off multiple times a day. This isn’t anything new to most educated women, but what many want to know are about the existence of circle jerk parties.

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This is the act of several men getting together with the intention of watching porn, stripping off their clothes and getting off to the point of ejaculation only to consider doing it again. Not limited to younger men, groups will form with the overall purpose of sexual enjoyment. The practice is often started by younger men in their pubescent years and holds a rather competitive edge to it. The idea is that the first one to get off is the winner. Often they’ll either stimulate themselves or help others get off as they get older. The circle jerk for some is an introduction to sexuality with other males. As men grow older and discover their sexual turn on’s, some realize that they enjoy the company of other males as an added component to their sexual exploration that may lead to swinging or wife swapping.

There is even a dirty joke told amongst adolescent youth involving all of the participants of a circle jerk to ejaculate on a saltine cracker with the last person to come being the lucky recipient of eating the cracker. This practice leans towards cum-play for some, and for others a deeper interest in bisexuality.

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Among the older participants in a circle jerk or group masturbation scene, many will engage in oral sex after their inhibitions are loosened. Sometimes drugs can be involved as with the addition of alcohol. Any discomfort about sexual preference tends to disappear once the pornography starts. Some have speculated that for teenage boys, a circle jerk session is about establishing dominance and male sexuality.

This practice is one women rarely engage in, preferring their masturbation solo or if with another girl, usually just one other and usually couched in close rubbing and giggling or the cliché slumber party pillow fight.

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Old People Have Sex Too

Tuesday, June 28th, 2011

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People go through a lot of changes as they get older, and a lot of people don’t deal well with aging. It isn’t easy for a lot of people to feel like their youth and vitality are slipping away from them. It’s hard to admit that our sex drive is changing, that our stamina isn’t the same and that our bodies are losing their youthful energy. Women usually hate seeing their breasts beginning to sag, and most men hate it when their balls start to swing a little lower with each passing year. Nearly everyone hates it when they suddenly notice that they have old man or old woman ass. It’s really easy to feel like our bodies are betraying us.

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One thing that a lot of people find really disturbing is when their pubic hair starts to turn gray. A lot of people don’t even realize that it’s possible until they’ve already noticed that it’s happening to them. Guys typically have more body hair and many don’t remove it, so they watch the gray hairs infiltrate their chest and facial hair in addition to their head and their genital area. Quite a few men have an easier time dealing with their head hair turning gray than they o when their body hair turns gray. On top of gray hairs, we all have to deal with wrinkles and skin that starts to sag and lose its youthful glow and plumpness. A lot of people would do nearly anything to keep their skin radiant, soft and younger.

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They will do even more to keep from getting wrinkles, because that’s a development that most people really don’t handle very well. Nobody wants to feel or look old. With advances in skin care and plastic surgery, people can keep themselves looking younger much longer these days, and that’s usually a very welcome thing for most people. In addition, pharmaceutical drugs, medical procedures and healthy living can help people have a really active sex life far past what previous generations expected or even hoped for. Having great sex actually helps us feel younger, so having more sex will make most people feel even better. People shouldn’t ever have to give up sex just because they’re getting older. Sometimes sex gets even better as we age.

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The Allure and Repulsion Of The Little Girl Woman

Monday, June 27th, 2011

In many a kink scenario sub women play the sassy little girl. Dressing-up in frilly panty and petticoat, sporting pig-tails, lapping at lollipops, acting every bit the errant brat to their dom, these grown women aren’t as much into age-play as they are simply adopting the most natural mode of behavior to hopefully bring about a good ass-swatting comeuppance. Most of the time endearing, sometimes the role play supersedes the action, but for the most part doms and subs alike know what they are getting into with this scenario.

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The problem with any playacting is that it can traipse the bounds of good taste or even simply exhaust the players. Living in the heightened sense of sexual lust kinksters do when playing, sometimes one can work themselves into quite the lather with what they are doing but spin themselves down a rabbit hole of possibilities that restricts more than widens one’s world view. The longer one adopts a character, dresses a part and acts that part, the less possibility for variety there is and the quicker the entire scene can get stale.

Plus, after a while, a grown woman acting like a little girl is simply embarrassing for all involved.

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The very thing that fuels a dom over his sub acting like a little girl, and in fact arouses the woman most times to, is that all parties realize that this is a grown woman reduced to or willingly entering the scene acting much younger than her years. This is what role-play is based on after all, us acting different then how we usually act. The differences are certainly arousing watching people morph into a part so completely that they lose themselves, but without realizing who we usually are, without a clear knowledge that everyone in the room realizes is is all playacting, role-play will not work.

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After a time we all want the grown woman to stand-up and let her real presence be known. The role-play of the bad little school girl is fine for a finite amount of time, but adult women cooing, flashing their panties and acting naughty to get attention outside of kink play run the risk of being an embarrassment to themselves.
It’s a fine line to skirt when one wears a short school skirt.

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Some Manscaping Could Mean More Blowjobs

Monday, June 27th, 2011

Guys should take a little time to do a bit of manscaping and trim their pubic hair a little bit to impress the ladies. Women have been expected to keep their pussies shaved or trimmed for years now, and they’re enjoying the trend that’s getting popular with men shaving or trimming as well. Some straight guys seem to be resisting the idea of doing some weed-whacking because they feel it makes them a little too metrosexual (which makes some men uncomfortable, even though it doesn’t really mean anything but neat and tidy) or even worse maybe a little bit gay, but the truth is it’s clean and smooth and a lot of women really love it. It doesn’t make a guy anything. It makes him a guy who really enjoys it when women want to be near his cock, and a lot of women are more into being close to a guy’s cock when he’s got a nice, neat area for them to enjoy. It could mean a lot more blowjobs because women hate getting hairs caught in their throat just as much as men hate it. A woman going to subconsciously think that it’s more clean and sanitary, which is going to inspire them to spend a lot more time in the area.

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Since it is getting much more popular, women are starting to get used to it. Imagine how surprised a guy would be if a woman stripped and had a really full bush. Women are starting to feel the same way. Doing a bit of manscaping makes a guy’s hard cock look really great, and sometimes it makes a guy look even larger and longer because the area look so sleek and neat.

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If a guy is thinking about doing this for the first time, there are some tools that are better than others. Scissors can be used, but it’s not recommended. Electric trimmers are perfect for uniformly trimmed hair. For total removal, a new razor and plenty of shaving cream will do the trick. Soak in the tub or shower for a while to soften the hair before getting started, and trimming with an electric razor first might make the job a little easier. Hair removal creams are not a good idea because they can be pretty harsh and burn sensitive skin

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What Comes Next

Saturday, June 25th, 2011

The very idea that we would be at exactly this time and place in our technology would have been impossible to fathom only five years before. Gaming, advances in digital communications and our interpersonal relationships have been so affected so quickly, the rate we change now is startling. From our business to our sex lives we see changes every day and whether they make us better is anybody’s guess.
What we do know though is that we have no idea of the changes coming.

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As far as our interactions with one another, most likely we will continue to grow closer as a people and at the same time continue to isolate ourselves from one another. There will be ever more opportunities for masturbating contact, and maybe even a backlash among people who want to date more, faster, hook-up, mate quicker, but there will be just as many lovers. loving each other only on-line or avoiding real contact for on-line moments of intimacy. And we’ll keep it all as portable as we seem to be.

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Real services and products will see a decline as we do for ourselves with the abilities afforded us and as we become ever more jaded to what we can do ourselves when it comes to products and services. The companies that create will need to create a better bread box right along with a more powerful vibrator, escorts are going to have to present something worth leaving the house for and porn companies are going to have to market their dirty movies-and make a better dirty movie at that-for people who want to see them, people who will most likely be downloading for free well into the future.

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Mainly though our leisure time will probably increase and we will want ever more diversions to fill it. We might simply take to one another and see a rise in sex and in turn baby-making but then again we might stick deep in our cocoons and enjoy even more a technology that allows us to be alone, quiet and free of sticky relationships and human interactions. There is no predicting really how sad and reclusive we might become in the future and how much we might not care we are.

As we sit masturbating the future is upon us.

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What Sex Should Be And What It Shouldn’t

Friday, June 24th, 2011

While this is a world where almost every book, every TV show, every movie is available for people to enjoy and through various sites almost everything anyone needs to know about anything is as close as a few clicks of a mouse away, a lot of men and women have what are basically immature and even emotionally damaging views about sex and sexuality. Many sex researchers and therapists have proven time and time again that by looking at sex as a product or as something only to be bragged out, or as a status symbol, the people with these viewpoints must have less satisfying sex lives. Like the typical giggling school girl or the testosterone-addled teenage boy, sometimes we see sex as merely titillating and not the life force it really is.

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It’s not that hard to figure out: by looking at sex as anything but having fun with another person, or even just with themselves, they take control of how they feel out of their own hands and put it into the hands of other people: simply put, they live to impress people they don’t even know and because of that they will never have a comfortable or accepting sexual relationship. We need to live for ourselves and the good feelings we can give to our partner, not anyone’s idea of when, how or who we should be fucking.

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By looking at people as someone fun to have sexual enjoyment with the pressure then becomes simply pleasure and not status or bragging rights or such; which means, because they are relaxed, these people will have a much more enjoyable time. They will also not have unrealistic expectations and instead of looking at sex and their sexual partners as tokens they will see them as what they are, and what everyone is: a human being.

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So while it can be difficult to change the way you feel about sex and eroticism give it a try as thinking of it as anything but pleasure, shared or not, can only result in being unhappy in all kinds of ways; including sexually. We need to try and be open to all the ways sex enters our life so we can enjoy it to its utmost and grow with its use.

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The Finite Allure of Role-Play

Friday, June 24th, 2011

Most of the time sexy, sometimes endearing, always interesting, role-play is the stuff of many a long-term couple’s sex play as well as a new date’s way to seduction. We are all actors inside, the entire world is indeed a stage, and we do adopt roles even when we aren’t aware of it. Doing so specifically to turn-on a partner or to turn-on ourselves, many men and women adopt personas, dress-up and literally attempt to become other people to facilitate a bigger, better and sometimes kinkier sex life.

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It’s sometimes a very tenuous difference between how we act in real life and how we playact, but the difference is important to recognize. The problem with any playing as an adult is that it can hurtle good taste, common sense and propriety. As we do not want to adopt our weekend-warrior touch-football mentality into our 9-5 corporate existence, we don’t want to grovel like the little doggie we pretend we are for our master or mistress on a Saturday night; there literally is a time and place for everything. Heightened senses of sexual need does not the best judgment make, so erring on the side of a specific time and place for our role-playing as well as the time and place it ends, is prudent to keeping the role-play fresh and exciting and our dignity intact.

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Simply put, the longer we stay in character, dress in the specific clothes, speak in the patter and do all that the role-play allows and demands the more time is on our back, the less possibility for variety there is and the deeper the risk we run of one partner slipping out of the play or the need for it before the other. The very aspect of what fuels the fun or reacting to our lover in this way is that we know this is play, maybe answering a fetish, routing round a kink we do not indulge normally.

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A vacation is only a vacation because we come back from the beach and get on with the drudgery of our real life after a prescribed amount of time. Our brains do not work well pretending all the time, we grow stale, bored and will light out for ever more diversions if we are not brought back to the mundane realities of our lives and face the real people we are in a relationship with after a time.

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