If you really want to enjoy sex with your partner or even yourself you have to be completely honest about what gets you off. You will only be cruising through the encounter without really getting into the heart of what you like if you aren’t honest about it. It could be that you think you should acting according to your partners wishes at the expense of your own. While that is perfectly natural and even admirable that you want to please your partner it is probably true that your partner wants to please you as well.
Having a great fuck means that the two of you are completely letting go of all your inhibitions and hang ups and are doing what makes you both happy. There in lies the key is the doing of what makes you both happy together. If you are giving everything to your partner but taking none for yourself you and your partner are both going to be getting only half the enjoyment out of things. The only way you can really get to enjoy the best orgasm is to be honest with your partner. If you like to be spanked on your bare ass and that does it for you then tell your partner. You should be assured that your partner won’t think less of you or think it silly but will be glad you told them and will do it to please you.
Do your best to really establish good communication skills and encourage each other to be completely open and honest about what does it for you and with just a few adjustments from time to time you will be having the greatest and most enjoyable encounters you could imagine for yourselves. This then is where the real action is at. When you both just let go and without any worries at all completely enjoy being with each other.
