Bringing a man to full orgasm is often talked about as if it was a simple as pull-tab-to-open.
Very untrue men have areas that are often so sensitive that they are not pleasurable to the touch. While many more can only reach praxis through intense stimulation even in some cases squeezing and pulling. Guys I know that you want to be sweet and not offend your bedmate. There are ways beyond telling your lover that they are missing the mark, to help your lover get you there with out self-injuring. Keep playfulness in the proceedings. Try to keep the admonishment tone out of your voice. Very soon you will have the feeling of connected touch that you desire. Most caring men just decide to soon that there date or partner just is not good at some thing or other. They never say a thing and go with the flow. What an odd logic we strive to find out what our sexual partners really want while at the same time never really telling them what works for us. Sharing is caring, we are told that from grade school on.
Giving your sex partner a road map to your pleasure in a clear and playful manner that lacks any tone of criticism can only give them a feeling of success. A fringe benefit is, your partner will start to talk to you in the same manner about what works for them. This gives a man better more fulfilling sex weather or not their sex partner of choice is for the evening or a lifetime.
