Even though many people put down other people who enjoy looking at erotic images or read sexually explicit books and such the fact is that erotica or pornography can actually be a way of enhancing your sex life in many new and imaginative ways. A good way of looking at this approach is to view erotica or pornography as a kind of sexual or erotic catalog: a way of seeing what else is out there in the world to try or simply to think about and fantasize about while masturbating. Pornography, by itself, is relatively harmless as long as the people involved in it are of-age and what they are doing is not harmful and they are all consenting adults. But even so it is essential to remember that fantasies are just that and even though something might be erotic to look at or read about there is no reason it needs to be done in real-life.
By viewing or reading porn men and women can be exposed to new and potentially interesting new forms of erotica. The way to do this is either to “spin off” what you normally enjoy looking at or reading or simply try a jump in a totally new direction. For example if you enjoy looking at pictures, say, of women with large breasts try finding images you find sexually arousing with pictures of women with smaller breasts or even in a new direction by looking at random pictures of such. Many men as well as women have found whole new avenues of sexuality and arousal by simply taking a bit of time and cruising the web aimlessly or renting a video they normally would not look at. The sheer availability of the stuff simply makes all this porn so a healthy deep well to explore.
So while, yes, erotica and pornography may make some people uncomfortable – or that they are simply uncomfortable with the erotic and sexual thoughts or feelings erotica and pornography may bring up in them- we need to keep in mind that pornography can actually be a good and best of all healthy way of expanding your sexual horizons. Alone, with a lover or sharing with friends, porn opens doors in ways no other way of communicating about sex ever can.
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