There are a lot of different fetishes out there that people regularly engage in, and some seem a little odder to people than others. A lot of anal fetishes can make people kind of squeamish because anything involving that area of the body tends to be a little difficult for people to discuss and sometimes even to think about. Women tend to get squeamish about anything that has to do with anal play because they worry about the potential mess, smells, and other unpleasant and potentially unhygienic aspects of anything to do with a person’s ass. Some straight men worry that any kind of anal play, especially if it might involve any type of penetration, might make them gay, and they’re not emotionally ready to consider that as a possibility. They don’t fully realize that enjoying pleasurable sensations in that area of the body has nothing whatsoever to do with their sexual orientation and everything to do with being open-minded and willing to experience different types of pleasure. There are gay men who don’t enjoy anal play, so it’s not inherently a homosexual activity.
Many people who are a little bit open-minded about anal play will at least try anal beads or toys that seem rather small and not horribly intrusive. On the other end of the spectrum are people who enjoy anal stretching and who crave larger and larger objects being inserted anally. They enjoy the feeling of being stretched wide open and eventually the feeling of anal gaping once the large object is removed. It’s a time consuming activity, but for someone who enjoys this type of play it is time well spent. They enjoy being the center of attention if they are playing with someone else, but many people who enjoy this fetish also enjoy working on it by themselves. They have a collection of sex toys in graduating sizes, and they work through all of them to accomplish the desired end result. They enjoy the time it takes, three to six hours usually, for their anal area to go back to its normal size. Obviously this may not be an activity that everyone will enjoy, but those who do enjoy it find it very fulfilling to accomplish their goal of being able to accommodate increasingly larger toys.