The moments after sex can be a really great time to set yoruself up for an even better time later. If couples take the time to really get close and talk to one another about their sexual fantasies , before, during, but mostly after, sex and pay attention, they might just have the best sexual opportunity they have ever had. Why wait and let the moment go to waste when lovers can put in the effort now for a greater time later?
Couples can really get into a great discussion about what one liked and didn’t like so much about the encounter, go back over points, even share a giggle or two over missed opportunities and foreplay that fell short. When partners talk about how a cock was sucked or how a pussy was licked, they might discover what they can do better the next time. Considering everything a learning experience and a chance to improve your game only makes you better at the game. Not only will the couple be investing in a good opportunity for sex, they will also send a clear message to one another that they truly care about their intimacy and the sex life they are building.
If two people truly listen, allow a give and take, and establish great communication, nothing can go wrong. Any doubts or even slight problems are easily overcome as any recriminations, suspicions and assumptions are discussed in the full light of confession. The lovers will definitely put themselves ahead of the game and assure an even better orgasm the next time they make love. It is a perfect time to really get those good questions out there that might not have been asked or touched upon before.
We all want to please a partner and be pleased back; in the end, we’d all like even better sex than we are already having, even if the sex we are already having is wonderful. There are always more things to know about a lover, more avenues to explore, even kinks to talk over and try. What better time to even consider your next time in bed then when your are still in bed? The warmth of a good orgasm, the calm that descends on both parties, and the openness we feel sharing our sexuality with another human being, can only lead to an honest exploration of the future.