Exploring kinky sex usually starts at home. Sharing a fantasy or trying role play or doing something they saw in a porn with a lover can begin a new level of sexual adventure. Common practices may include light bondage or spanking. Many couples experiment with many types of BDSM scenes, ideas, props and clothes, and it adds excitement to lovemaking.
Loving couples practice many types of kinky sex together. While exploring new fantasies and desires, many lovers will keep their kinky desires in the bedroom. Sometimes the fantasies may expand. Light role play, the acting out of sexual fantasies, might include the use of props. The privacy of fantasies and the intimate nature of kinky sex
may be enough for lovers. A boyfriend might visit a sex shop for a dildo or a sex toy for nipple play, and bring them home as a special surprise. A girlfriend might buy a new piece of silky lingerie to entice her lover or excite herself. More elaborate costumes, such as a French maid outfits or a pair of leather boots might add spice in the bedroom.
Over time, the couple may express an interest in adding a third person. Fantasizing about a threesome is considered kinky, whether or not bondage or spanking is part of the fantasy. A common threesome fantasy is two women and one man. The man can either be dominant or submissive. If a dominant man, ordering the two women to pleasure each other as a private sex show is fantastic. Especially if, after the women perform for him, they will then take turns sucking him off. If the man is submissive, the two women may tie him to the bed, and take turns sitting on his face or fucking. Being forced to please two women, licking pussy while kneeling and crawling back and forth between two dominant women is another way for a threesome to happen.
A threesome with two men and one woman is a very common fantasy. Cocksucking while having a man fuck her cunt, to feel filled from both ends is exciting. The woman can be dominant or submissive. As a slavegirl she might be tied down and blindfolded, her legs spread. The kinky fantasy of being forced to sexually please multiple men is exciting for many a submissive woman.