We tend to take to a facility as mercury does to a vessel. Men and women, no matter their age, will grow with and to something, use it to their fullest until it is no longer useful, filling, in effect, the vessel to its utmost limit. This is true of the Internet and all it provides. Speed, world-wide communication, free porn, anonymity, the culling of potential products, service and even people one wishes to date; we use the net as much as we can because it simply exists for our use. And while it makes our movements ‘quiet,’ in a sense, this doesn’t mean guys and girls are not moving across the web landscape any less. In fact, the actual reverse is true; because the net provides a virtually silent landscape and the ability to move freely about to any place and contact a wide group of people, men and women are using the net more.
And they are using the net mostly to find one another. In feverish activity unmatched in our modern times, singles-as well as married people-are looking for and finding one another faster then ever before. On-line dating sites provide the facility for countless singles to find one another, leading to many more dates, hook-ups and new couples that want to indulge in their sexual festishes. Just because people are meeting less and less at the old church mixer doesn’t mean they are not meeting. Just because there are less love letters being sent doesn’t mean the texts couples send to one another aren’t hot.
And just because people are spending less time to get to know one another in person and spending more time on line to feel each other out, doesn’t mean that those same people are taking their time when they do meet to get into bed!
The art of seduction has become insidious because of on-line interactions, but it’s no less effective. These days a couple learns the rules well before even meeting, they can view a person’s pictures and interests, and they have a clear idea what they might or might not do even before they meet a potential date to see if chemistry exists between them.
It’s for this reason that sex, in all its form and permutations, can happen very quick for the on-line hook-up, and sexual sins are still being committed, in fact with more frequency and almost always between completely consenting adults.
The world is just as wild, but now begins on line.