There’s no denying it — everybody who’s tried it enjoys the feel of unprotected fucking — of nothing between one and the body of their lover but their wetness or favorite sex lube. A naked cock and a naked cunt or, perhaps, a naked ass-fucking. One loves to share this kind of intimacy with the right lover, one with whom one is committed and knows to be safe, and one loves to see it in porn.
And yet how often is one in this situation? There are many times — indeed most times — when the best kind of sex is safe sex. Perhaps one picked up that smoking hottie at the local gay bar or the singles meat market. Maybe one has tried to put up a profile on an online adult dating site. One has met that sexy online date and is ready to take it back to the bedroom. Whether you’re gay or straight, a lesbian, a queer. If one is into bondage and domination or a swinger, one can learn to enjoy safer sex. Of course if one already has a latex fetish, lucky you!
Of course condoms are the safer sex suppliers one encounters most often. One can find all kinds of condoms nowadays. One can find huge condoms for huge dicks and smaller ones for smaller cocks. One can use a condom on one’s favorite dildo or sex toy for sharing it with others. One can find flavored cocks for a tasty sweet blowjob. There are even condoms made from polyisoprene now, which are just as tight as latex condom but safe for those with allergies. They also smell better and don’t leave that condom taste on your cock or cunt — a big help for cunnilingus and fellatio during a long fuck time.
Of course safe sex doesn’t stop there. One can use gloves to protect hands during sexy play. This is great for anal fingering when it keeps things clean and makes one’s fingers extra smooth and slippery when one adds lubricant. There are dental dams for oral sex — great with a little flavored lube and hear her moan.
Don’t let the need for hygiene and protected sex turn one off. Instead look at it as a way to enjoy new kinds of fun with more new people.