Kinky people love to learn new things, from free porn or real life, and they also usually love to show off their own skills and share ideas. Its not unusual to find a few Doms collaborating in a dungeon to make a scene even more
interesting. Watching scenes is a great way to learn some new things or get suggestions on how to improve one’s technique or skill set. If a person sees someone doing something interesting in the dungeon, its totally okay to talk to that person and ask them for some tips. Don’t interrupt a scene when people are playing, but once the scene and the aftercare is completed, go talk to the person. A good rule of thumb is when the people in the scene start mingling again, its safe to talk to them. Starting off with a compliment will nearly always get a favorable response, as long as its not an obvious ass-kissing kind of compliment. Sincerity goes a long way though, and a sincere compliment and honest desire to learn will usually be met with a willingness to share. Kinky people do love showing off their skills and most don’t mind teaching a little bit when the opportunity arises.
Another great way to learn some new things is to go to a fetish convention for a weekend. There are always a lot of classes, demonstrations and presentations on a wide variety of topics. Usually, there are classes for many different experience levels to provide something for everyone. There are usually a pretty wide number of topics to choose from as well. Most weekends have classes in things like rope bondage, flogging, caning, tit torture, CBT, fisting, and violet wand play. Some will also have classes in relationship development, how to live in a D/s relationship 24/7, self-help classes, and even some options that lean a little more toward the metaphysical, such as sex magick, tantra, meditation and orgasmic breathing. There are usually so many interesting classes available that most people find that they can’t possibly get to every class that they would have liked to. Taking classes at the fetish conventions is a lot of fun and then one can go right into the dungeon to keep practicing, and there are usually people around in the dungeon that would be happy to offer their own knowledge.