The art of seduction runs silent and deep because of our on-line hook-ups, but seduction is just as effective as ever. Single men and women looking for dates or married people looking to cheat or swing know the rules of the field they are playing their game in, can cull through on-line pictures or videos, determine what they will or will not say on their own profile even before they think of meeting someone they are interested in. Chemistry can be well established long even before a potential couple speaks on the phone.

The usual date dance of getting to know somebody has been danced on-line. All anybody needs to know is what one person will tell another anyway, so it has usually all been told-or at least what is going to be told-over chat and emails well before a man and woman, man and man, women and women meet. Most single people realize that they are getting some subterfuge from on-line profiles and chatting anyway so they throw up some of their own just in case. Those with kinks share them on single sites for fetishes, allowing just as much as they have to so then there is no surprise when a whip makes an appearance on a first date. There is never a question of someone’s sexuality if they are trolling around a gay, bi or straight site, so there to gay men and gay women are seeing much clearer intentions and the better possibility for sex on their initial meeting.

The net provides short hand for simply passing go and doing what one will.
Of course there might be a lot of initial quick sexual meetings-of-the-minds, libido and body parts but are there many that are lasting? When a couple circumvents the usual social interaction for the blistering speed of getting to know one another the Internet single world allows, there isn’t so much depth of field to build anything-even a conversation-that might be worth having. The truly successful daters, the ones who might meet and do hook-up for sex fast but somehow survive past on-line dating sites, through their green lit sexual relations and build further lasting connections, are the ones who realize just what the net offers and can weather its seductions.

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