Archive for January, 2011

10 Best Films About Sex

Monday, January 31st, 2011

We all enjoy a flick that is primarily focused around sex. No, I’m not talking about free porn, but I am talking about those feature films that are completely based around sex and anything to do with it. Here is your list of the ten best films about sex:

1. Boogie Nights: This filmed was released in 1997, starring Mark Walhberg, Burt Reynolds, Julianne Moore and a few other notable actors like Philip Seymour Hoffman, Heather Graham, Don Cheadle and William H. Macy. The film was loosely based on the life of John Holmes and focuses on the pornography business and the star of the movie is a new comer to the business.

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2. The Last American Virgin: This teen comedy was released in 1982 and although it was mostly a comedy, it also shared a drama side to it. It focuses on groups of teens and their sex lives along with all its complications.

3. American Pie: This film has become the epitome of teen comedy that focus on sex and relationships throughout high school. It was released in 1999 and have many sequels, although they weren’t as successful as the first one.

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4. Unfaithful: This movie was all about a cheating spouse and her affair with a younger man. It starred Diane Lane, Richard Gere and Olivier Martinez. Was released in 1999 and even got an Oscar nomination for Diane Lane.

5. Secretary: A mixture of drama, romance and dark comedy, this movie stars James Spader and Maggie Gyllenhaal as a boss and secretary that become involved in a bondage type relationship.

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6. Nine 1/2 Weeks: This 1986 movie stars Kim Basinger and Mickey Rourke and takes a look at a couple who will try just about anything when it comes to sex.

7. Sex and the City: This HBO series turned movie follows four women in NYC and their love and sex lives.

8. Risky Business: This 1983 film stars Tom Cruise and focuses on a young man who starts his own brothel after a series of events.

9. The Graduate: This movie tells the story of a young college student who is seduced by an older woman, but finds himself falling in love with her daughter.

10. WIld Orchid: This movie is a sequel to Nine 1/2 Weeks and tells the erotic story of a woman and a man who have a series of sexual escapades in Rio.

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Real Life Sex Addicts

Monday, January 31st, 2011

After the whole Tiger Woods spectacle, the term ‘sex addict’ became as banal as catching the common cold. A man accused of cheating on his wife, was no longer just committing infidelity, he had a psychological condition that was thought to be as menacing to society as a full-fledged criminal. Lock him up in rehab and hide the women!

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Jokes aside, the concept of sexual addiction is still up in the air. While some psychologists are firm believers in the possibility of being addicted to sex, others see it as complete and utter rubbish. After all, if watching porn and cheating on your wife was indicative of a psychological disorder, 80% of men would living in a mental asylum.

Given the fact that I know plenty of self-professed perverts, I figured I’d ask them if they would consider themselves to be sex addicts. If there was anyone who would be honest about it, it would be them. Read on for some of my findings.

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On why he could be classified as a sex addict: “I’ll confess to having thrown the occasional golden shower party around town. What you call “gross” I call “hot”, so sue me. As for needing to sex all the time, let’s just say that if I go without it for more than two days I become borderline suicidal. Shit, do I have to to go to rehab now?”

Tina, 24

On why I think she’s a sex addict: “Give me a break. Just because I’ve fucked a few strangers after having just met them at the bar that doesn’t mean I’m a sex addict. So what if I like outdoor sex? Now that think of it though, I do think about sex pretty much all day, every day. But who doesn’t? Right? That’s not porn star proportions

Bubba, 32

On how many sex partners he’s had in the past six months: “Hmm, I’m not sure to be honest. I’d say around 30? Is that bad? I do use protection every single time. I just get bored really easily. I can’t help it. Go ahead and call me a sex addict.”

Senior-Citizen Brothels

Sunday, January 30th, 2011

As an approach that goes hand in hand with the recent rise in popularity of ‘old people porn’, Germany has taken a bold stance in favor of prostitution catering specifically to senior citizens. As off-putting as it may sound, the elder still need something to look forward to; and what better treat than good old fashioned sex?

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The initiative stems from one of Germany’s biggest luxury brothels, Artemis’. Their Berlin based “wellness center” in Charlottenburg will now feature senior-citizen friendly amenities like shower seats and larger changing rooms for those who use wheelchairs. There’s nothing like fucking a hooker with a side of conscience.

One of Artemis’ spokespeople recently spoke to Berlin’s Tagesspiegel newspaper in order to further publicize their efforts in catering towards the elderly. He boasted their “helpful personnel”, staff members who were specifically trained to help older customers and encourage a positive experience. He added, “It is important for us to show that Artemis is properly equipped for these clients”.

This trend is only bound to spread throughout the rest of the country. Given that prostitution became fully legal back in 2002, over 150,000 sex workers are now officially registered with the government. This means that despite having to pay taxes, they are now given full welfare benefits, including health care. Despite that, it is estimated that over 250,000 call girls remain on the black market. I guess they really don’t want to have to pay their taxes.

According to Stephanie Klee, a “veteran” call girl, prostitution is now so common-place that they are becoming more specialized than ever. In fact, some retirement homes have even started to offer these types of services on the side – what a way to die old and happy.

Statistics show that approximately 20% of Germany’s 82 million population consists of senior citizens. Given their increasingly low birth rates, it’s clear to see that in a country where everyone keeps getting older, all services should be catering to the elderly, not just prostitution.

Expect to see senior-citizen specialized services springing up just about anywhere. From the sex toy industry to an increase in elderly porn. Where there’s demand, there’s profit. And the sex industry knows that all too well.

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Is Your Escort A Cop?

Saturday, January 29th, 2011

These days almost everyone is putting up a shingle to provide some sort of sex service. Rub and tugs are popping up in every staid suburban town, and girls and guys solicit on Internet boards and free porn is pervasive. Ex nurses provide a little enema play and any girl who has taken a year of acting classes and sports relatively firm tits is offering domination.

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The local police know this of course and are exploiting ever more frequent opportunities to bust the clients who come to pay for these services to cum.

Though working girls are certainly in danger of being busted on a regular basis, clients to need to be ever more mindful of whom they are seeing. The very best way to be assured one isn’t walking into a sting operation is to simply see girls and guys on reputation alone. If a friend recommends someone, and they got away safe-and they fucked or were sucked-it’s pretty reasonable to assume they did not see a cop! The police might lie, fudge their identities, maybe even wear some revealing clothing but they cannot engage in sexual activity.

Second, one can go on one’s innate sense of the date. If you have been a client of escorts long enough your gut reactions will reveal volumes to potential police activity in and around the in-call you have come to or the outcall you have invited to your home…though cops hardly, if ever, indulge in outcall hooker stings.

Lastly, watch what’s said and how it is said. Cops lie; it’s part of the job. That old urban myth that if you ask someone if they are a cop and they must tell you is a misnomer, but be mindful of the words money and sex uttered in the same sentence, or your escort trying to get you to say these two words together. All one has to do is show intent to buy sex and one has committed a crime under most laws. You will find with a policeman or woman posing as a sex worker the slow semantics of the transaction will be very pointed and deliberate indeed.

It is a little more dangerous trying to procure sex for money these days. As the escort attempts ever-clever guises and clandestine ways to advertise, the police keep right on his or her tail trying to stop the business by arresting both the customer and the provider.

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Fire Play

Friday, January 28th, 2011

As you begin to explore sexually, you will come across various possibilities that fall in the category of BDSM. You will learn that what is one person’s pain is another person’s pleasure, and that pleasure and pain combine for some people to become a favorite, complex set of sensations. The use of hot wax and fire play hold a unique place in the sexual spectrum, and you might know them from free porn.

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Dripping hot wax on a guy’s chest or dribbling it on a woman’s nipples and down along her breasts can cause amazing sensations. It can be a visual turn on as well, and the yelps of the person submitting to the wax are often delicious. Different kinds of candles produce varying levels of heat, so it is best to experiment gingerly until you find the right place to begin. Inexpensive paraffin candles or 7-day novena candles from the grocery store can be a good place to start. You may want to use blindfolding and/or bondage as well for the added elements of surprise and immobility.

Before you begin, be sure you are aware of the parameters of the partner who will be submitting and make sure you have a safe word in place so that the scene can be edgy yet remain safe at all times.
Fire play is not for the faint of heart. It may be fun to play with a little wax on a whim, and yes, if you are not careful, you could still cause or endure a burn. However, if you play with fire directly, do work with an experienced player. Depending on the type of sensation the sub can take – from mildly wild to seriously intense, and experienced fire top can choose the percent alcohol, the kind of swab, and the body areas on which to play. The Dom will prepare the sub in whatever psychological way that seems appropriate, then swab the alcohol and light it. Fire will dance across the submissive’s body along the path of the swab, causing intense, startling, and erotic sensations.

Hot wax and fire play can be the preludes to other sexual activities or the cherry on top of an amazing sex session. Consider giving an oral sex orgasm in the midst of these pleasures for the ultimate experience.

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The Science Of Sex: Fascinating Findings

Friday, January 28th, 2011

Jan 27 orgasm.com1Thanks to science, our understanding of the universe is constantly broadening, and I’m not just talking about the world at large, even in the small confines of the bedroom. Here is a look at a number of recent scientific sex studies:

Deal or no deal: There are apparently misconceptions about the whole monogamy thing. A recent Oregon State UNiversity study found that in 40 percent of young, straight couples, one partner said that there was a monogamy agreement, while the others said there was no such deal. Married couples were no more likely than unmarried couples to have explicit agreement about monogamy.

The benefits of waiting: New research out of Brigham Young University finds that couples who wait to have sex are happier and that delaying sex could lead to a healthier marriage. Definitely not something they teach us on free porn and they look happy!

Not everyone is obsessed with sex: Japan has a birth rate of just 1.21 per couple. 35.1 percent of Japanese mean between the ages of 16 and 19 have an apathetic attitude towards sex.

Survival of the fittest: A reason to avoid the gym; a recent study from Erciyes University in Turkey found that overweight men are able to last longer in bed then the lean, fit ones. Apparently men with lower BMI scores were more prone to premature ejaculation.

Instant gratification: According to a poll in Men’s Fitness magazines, 40 percent of women say that the use of social media, whether it be Facebook or text messaging, makes them prone to jump into bed with a partner.

iAphrodisiac: An informal poll conducted by the dating site OKCupid revealed that iPhone users beat out other smart phones when it comes to a matter of hormones. iPhone users reported more sexual partners than any other cell phone user. Female users reported the most sexual partners (12.3) while male Android owners reported the least (6).

Making oneself sick: According to Dutch scientists, it is possible for a man to be allergic to his own semen. The condition causes flu like symptoms after ejaculating.

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10 Best Sex Documentaries

Thursday, January 27th, 2011

Jan 26 orgasm.com1When it comes to the ten best sex documentaries, there is a wide range of subjects that are covered. They are obviously a little less raunchy than free porn, but a lot more hardcore than your average documentary. These films touch on topics from teen sex issues, to men who choose to live with sex dolls instead of real woman. Here is a list of the top ten sex documentaries of all time:

1. “The Big O”: Topping the list of best sex documentaries is the movie that follows one woman on her quest to have an orgasm. At one time, considered a myth, the female orgasm is examined at length in this film.

2. “Love in the Ancient World”: This HIstory channel documentary examines the symbols left behind by civilizations and their relationship to sex and its meaning in their societies.

3. “Sex Slaves”: This one looks at the trade of Eastern European and Northern Asian women makes the list of best documentaries because this film shows actual girls who were sold and the men who buy them.

4. “Brain Sex-Why We Fall In Love”: This one looks at what makes people want to have sex and fall in love. This one is based on scientific facts and casual observations.

5, “Sex Change Hospital”: This six part series makes the list of best sex documentaries because the film looks at people who opt to have sex reassignment surgery.

6. “Nature of Sex”: This films focuses on how all creatures in nature fuck. It examines how humans are not that much different from their non thumbed counterparts.

7. “Virgin School”: This one tells the story of a male virgin who embarks on a journey of sex. He finds himself participating in programs that allow him to explore his sexuality in many situations.

8. The Day My God Died”: This is a pretty emotional one that looks at the child sex and porn industry. The film maker follows the journey of girls sold as young as five years old.

9. “Guys and Dolls”: The men examined in this film have chosen to live and love silicon dolls instead of live women.

10. “Virtual Adultery and Cyberspace Love”: This one will have all online daters think twice. This film examines how fake people are online especially in the realm of attractiveness and sexual prowess.

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The Sexiest Female Comedians

Thursday, January 27th, 2011

When I stop to think about female comedians, the last thing that comes into mind is ‘sex appeal’. Perhaps that’s just me being an ass, but the majority of them are always slightly overweight and far from feminine. While I’m not expecting some blonde porn -esque bimbo, a little makeup certainly wouldn’t hurt anyone. And so, on my quest to find some good-looking ladies with a funny bone, I decided to do a little research and will now have to eat my words. Not only are there plenty of sexy ladies in comedy, but narrowing it down to a short list was a bit of a challenge. Read on for my personal picks.

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Abby Elliot – Leave it up to SNL to find a new cast members that can attract viewers with both humor and good looks. Having just recently joined the SNL team, Elliott is only 23 years old and already holds an impressive resume. Her father is also none other than Chris Elliott, who was cast in SNL from 1994-1995. But if you think that she used that as an ‘in’, think again. By watching any of her skits it’s clear to see that behind all that sex appeal is a great sense of humor.

Anna Faris – After her breakthrough role in the horror film parody Scary Movie, Faris has become something of a regular in the world of comedy. Never one to shy away from the fact that she is smoking hot, she’s been in everything from the critically acclaimed Lost in Translation to the cheesy flick The House Bunny.

Tina Fey – Who could forget about the sexiest version of Sarah Palin the world has ever seen? Smart, witty and understatedly sexy, Tine Fey has become one of the most memorable SNL cast members and continues to make us laugh with movies like Date Night and her award-winning show 30 Rock.

Amanda Bynes – As a child actor, Amanda Bynes charmed us all during her Nickelodeon stint and roles in All That and The Amanda Show. As she grew up, she starred in What I Like About You and subsequently moved on to the big screen in Hairspray and Easy A. Not only is she incredibly funny, but she was voted as Teen People’s “25 Hottest Stars Under 25″.

The Secret of the Female Orgasm

Wednesday, January 26th, 2011

Guys, you need to stop worrying about your penis size and start learning the secrets of the female orgasm.

Of course that may not seem as simple as it sounds, even though in all the free porn we watch those guys have no problem getting their partners off. For you, you need to learn about the two spots that can lead to a female orgasm.

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The importance of foreplay: Sure, as a guy you might be pretty much ready to go from the minute she gives you a sideways glance or after you see her in that bra you like. But she, on the other hand, may need plenty of physical and emotional stimulation to become aroused, lubricated and primed for an orgasm. That’s why foreplay is so damn important. Above all else, really focus on the “play” in foreplay. It shouldn’t be rushed or treated like an obligatory task. In fact, it can begin hours before sex actually occurs, and every minute of that time will prepare her for an orgasm.

Use your head: Remember that women rely on mental stimulation just as much as emotional stimulation. A sexy text message, a flirtatious call at work, and other sorts of fun can get her thinking about your upcoming liaison.

Tenderness: Touching can create sexual tension even before you’ve started to fuck. Hug her, hold her hand, or touch her thigh. A woman’s orgasm is more likely to happen if you let your hands roam to erotic parts of her body when you’re kissing her.

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Kissing: This is essential for good foreplay. Discovering new places to kiss her that turn her on is going to be rewarding. Try the back of her neck or her shoulders for starters.

Sweet nothings: Don’t forget to talk to her during foreplay. Women tend to be more verbal and hearing how good she is making you feel can help her act more freely, open up and have fun.

If you follow all of these tips then you will be sure to give your girl a mind blowing orgasm that will keep her coming back for more and more. Who knows, she might even squirt!

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Hotel Sex Made Easier

Wednesday, January 26th, 2011

imagesIf you’ve ever dreamed of starring in your very own hotel-themed porn, here’s your chance. With the help of IMGuest.com, finding fellow guests who are ‘DTF’ has never been easier -and this couldn’t have come at a better time. After all, what better place to let loose and fuck than at a hotel? Seedy motels aside, the posh, hip versions are often packed full of women that seem hotter and more exotic that your home-base counterparts. It’s safe to say that the sheer act of staying at a hotel means that real-life rules no longer apply. You are free to throw towels on the floor, masturbate outside of the bathroom and, if lucky, have wild sex with a stranger.

Think back to all of the times you have come across a sexy stranger at a hotel lobby and fantasized about all the dirty things you would do to them. Chances are that while the thought crossed your mind, having the guts to actually go through with it didn’t pan out so well. The odds of them being married or downright prudish are enough to make any man back out and resort to purchasing the porn channel package instead. But now, thanks to IMGuest, that problem close to extinction.

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Despite being mostly focused on establishing professional connections, IMGuest is quickly rising as one of the best hotel hookup sites on the web. Upon checking-in to your hotel of choice, all you have to do is login to IMGuest and let everyone know exactly where you’re staying and when. You can also do so via LinkedIn or Facebook, making it extra handy and practical for travelers who are always on the go. One of the best features of the site includes being notified every time someone takes a peek at your profile. Why? Next time you come across that sexy lady at the lobby and know that she has been snooping around your account, you’ll have the perfect conversation starter and won’t run the risk of being slapped or discarded straight off the bat.

Business ventures aside, I can see how IMGuest will quickly turn into an Ashley Madison rip-off. Given that most cases of infidelity happen in hotel rooms, you can now look for a partner internally. No need for prostitutes like these hookers fucking in a hotel room or adult personals. A win-win situation all around.

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