Ladies, men need to hunt and compete and win in order to feel like something is worth their effort. We women may want to be available when we like someone, but that takes away the conquest aspect for men, and then they lose interest quickly. Making a guy work for it a little will intrigue him, and his willingness to put in the effort makes it clear that he’s really interested (and not just interested in a porn fantasy). There’s a fine line to walk between playing hard to get and pushing a guy away though, so this must be handled carefully.

With cell phones, there should be no more sitting by the phone waiting for a guy to call. That’s good – go out and live a busy and exciting life. If he calls, don’t always answer. Let him leave a message and wonder a little. Call back within a reasonable period of time though – always within 24 hours. Try to answer sometimes when in a noisy spot, like a busy Starbucks or noisy store. Don’t stay on the phone very long, it’s best to just let him hear the noise in the background and promise to call back later when it’s not so noisy. He’ll realize that he’s dealing with a busy, popular woman, and all guys want to date a woman that is wanted by others.

If he calls no later than Wednesday to set up a date, go ahead and make plans. If he calls on Thursday or Friday to make a date for that weekend, be busy. Let him know politely that the weekends are usually booked solid by the middle of the week, and he has to make plans earlier. Don’t always agree to the first thing he offers. If he asks for Saturday night, ask if he’d mind doing lunch instead. Let him wonder who else might be in the picture and why they get the all important Saturday night instead of him. If he’s really interested, he’ll call earlier the following week to get the prime date slot.

Look sexy, but not slutty, and make him wait a bit for sex. Don’t be too quick to get naked – men don’t appreciate anything that they get too easily. Let the sexual tension heighten a bit before going to bed together. He’ll appreciate it more after having to win it.

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